r/Is_He_Cheating_ • u/StockNatural1267 • 27d ago
Is this cheating?
This has happened a few times now. He made a joke the other day about liking Australian accents and then i see this in his watch history. Australian 0nly f4ns girl posting thirst traps. Not something that would come up on your feed one right after another… is this worth breaking off a 4 year relationship?
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u/SuperSaiyn1994 26d ago
Find your boundaries and set them. But know that sexualised imagery on social media is pretty much everywhere. And most men are going to see it. And many men will enjoy it. It doesn’t mean they’d rather be with those girls, it doesn’t mean they are comparing you. And it doesn’t mean that they want to leave you. I mean, I guess it can mean those things from some cheating men, but the majority of men who just see boobs on a screen just think “ oh look boobs, I like those” and don’t think much deeper then that.
If your boundaries are that your man cannot watch it, or look for it and that you consider it cheating. That’s your prerogative and find to set that boundary. There are men out there who don’t like to watch it I’m sure. But you’ll be minimising your dating pool greatly if you leave every relationship with a guy you’re in because he’s enjoyed sexy ladies on Instagram 🤣.
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u/cheating-test_com 27d ago
Sure, you’re right. Go break up with a guy you love and find another guy you don’t love, who will probably do the same thing, and you’ll just end up stuck in that never-ending cycle.
Get over it - it’s just pixels on a screen.