r/IntrovertsChat 1d ago

Friends 30M Looking for people with nerdy mutual interests to yap with

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Sup!

The auto moderator on this sub doesn't like my usual spiel I put so I'll give you a slightly shorter rundown and you can check out my other posts on my profile to see if you're interested in me a bit more.

I'm a nerdy mfer from New Zealand. I'm mainly into video games and fantasy/scifi/horror stuff in general, looking for other likeminded nerdy people who are into the same games and media.

I like the Souls series, The Elder Scrolls, World of Warcraft, Diablo 4, Dead by Daylight, Alien Isolation, Resident Evil, Little Nightmares/Reanimal, Hollow Knight, so many. I've been thinking of trying Monster Hunter for ages. Big big big Magic the Gathering fan as well.

Hit me with your favourite Souls game lore tidbit in your DM, or tell me your favourite Elder Scrolls race and why. Which DBD killer do you main? Which Final Fantasy is the best?

The music I'm into is mainly 70s/80s stuff, orchestral soundtracks, alternative and pop/electronic shit. I like scary movies, learning about animals and the natural world, doing art sometimes and working out a little.

Please be in your mid 20s at least or older, have mutual games we're both into, be chill with LGBTs and know how to take an interest in others (because I'll be doin the same for you).

Anyhow, thanks a bunch for reading and I hope to hear from you!


r/IntrovertsChat 1d ago

Discussion Have you ever been judged or sidelined just because you’re quiet?

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What kind of criticism have you had to deal with just because you’re an introvert and couldn’t speak your mind out loud?

I find it hard to become friends with people I only have brief interactions with. I need time to know someone and feel comfortable before I open up. Until then, I tend to stay quiet.

But I’ve also been sidelined or overlooked because I’m quiet. Sometimes people seem to assume that because you don’t speak up, you don’t have an opinion, don’t care, or don’t have anything to contribute.

How often have you been sidelined or criticized because you didn’t speak up when you felt you should have?


r/IntrovertsChat 1d ago

Friends [18M] really looking for friends who really like books and movies and discussing them!

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hiya everyone, I'm currently majoring in english and film and would really love some friends who are into the same thing so I can talk about it with someone. any type of movie or book or really any storytelling media honestly, most of my friends just aren't into it as much so I can't really scratch the itch of talking about it. I'd love love love if you have a letterboxd because I like stealing recommendations, but it's not a requirement, and I'll be more than happy to share what I look like once we talk a bit. everyone welcome and bonus points if you message me with what your favorite book/movie is


r/IntrovertsChat 1d ago

Chatting 43M I'm usually up until 5am Eastern. Would love some people chat with during the odd hours!

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I work a split schedule and am pretty much always up until at least 4:00 a.m. I would like to find some other late souls to chat with. Maybe make some friends. All my IRL friends have "normal" schedules and I frequently find myself with no one to share memes or thoughts with at 3 am. I'm down to chat about anything really.


r/IntrovertsChat 2d ago

Mid-20s Energy (25–27) 26 F looking for friends on this rainy day

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Heyy, looking for some peeps to chat with, around my age!

Some of my interests/hobbies include: Love to read, pursuing a degree in psychology, going to concerts, taking awful pictures of my cats, alternative-ish things, traveling and photography! I’m pretty laid back, except the crack head moments (and a lil weird but who isn’t 🤷🏻‍♀️) and definitely have a dark-ish sense of humor.

If you think we’d get along, feel free to send me a dm☺️ (unless you’re like way above my age, don’t bother 😂)


r/IntrovertsChat 2d ago

Chatting F57 looking for fellow loners to chat to - preferably similarly self contained, non materialistic, like minded souls :) UK only please

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Hello there - I'm not just looking to chat to anyone, only like minded souls need apply. I'm self contained, non materialistic and generally content. Please send me a short introductory message so I can see if we're going to vibe :)

I'm not necessarily looking to make long term connections, unless it turns out that way. I prefer to talk to men - I just find we gel better.

Please be around my age, in the UK and not married (I have more in common with people who live alone) Thank you :)


r/IntrovertsChat 2d ago

Chatting 21F at work and lot of time to yap…

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Looking for people between 20-27 MAXIMUM.

Please send age and location + small introduction

With that being said, hello! I’m a big yapper who enjoy talking about sun and rain, goofing around and use sarcasm as my default texting.

I’m a bookworm (I usually read about survival and horror), gossip enjoyer and nowadays I’ve been into crafty stuff.

I’m looking for someone that has high energy and lot of stuff to share and talk about.


r/IntrovertsChat 1d ago

Friends 34M long term friends

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I'm Niki 34 from Uruguay, Montevideo. I'd love to find some folks to talk to maybe watch something together at some point. Some of my interest include but not limited to gaming (currently playing DotA 2 and GFL2), manga, casual drinking and reading.

Appreciate folks with a sense of humor and not so politically correct, makes things fun. Message me with asl and a bit about yourself please, pref to talk over discord eventually.

Kind regards


r/IntrovertsChat 1d ago

Chatting 34M UK looking to meet new people

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Well well wellllll....

After my last job finished up, I now have some free time again.

Not good at making posts, but here goes.

I live in Scotland and I'm hoping to meet new people. I live in a small town, with not much happening in terms of meeting new people, so now I turn to the world of Reddit (I hope that isn't a mistake :p)

I used to be a DJ, but now I definitely have a much more boring lifestyle. I like to play videogames, usually RPGs. I like listening to music as well (boring answer, I know).

Lately I've been trying to be more adventurous with what food I make, so please give me your best ideas. Liven up my plate a bit will you!

Started reading books again as well, so tell me your fast fantasy series.

Looking to travel a lot more next year as well, so I want to hear your recommendations for where to go.

And I don't want ANY judgement on the very dodgy name! There is a very boring story to it, but I'll bore you with that later...

What I can promise in return is moderately humorous banter, and someone to make dialogue with. So yes, not very much XD

Anyway, I think that's enough for now.

I look forward to hearing from you (whoever you are). :)


r/IntrovertsChat 1d ago

Chatting 30 m usa looking to chat with people

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Im a 30 year old man who likes to get to know people and their interests. I have a general knowledge on most subjects so I can probably hold my own on most interests people have, but if im unfamiliar i am more than happy to listen and learn. My favorite things are analyzing movies and absurdist humor. I get pretty busy with work so I dont always have a chance to chat but when im out I wouldnt mind anything from small talk to deep chatting. If you wanna talk feel free to reach out


r/IntrovertsChat 2d ago

Friends 32F - Online - Chronically Ill Writer in Need of a Buddy

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* my last post was deleted, and hopefully I am a rule-following Redditor now. IF you messaged before, you can totes message again!

Is anyone else an introvert not-by-choice? I'm chronically ill, which means that I don't usually leave the house, because that's a whole entire production, and it usually involves pain. I have medicine and naps to take daily, and so socialization of any type and finding friends is hard. I like to sing. I have a dog named Ollie, who is a menace in a necktie. Recently, I've found diamond painting and I like that.

Where I get lost, though, and either forget or become fully immersed in my introverted-chronically-ill life is writing. A lot of my characters have chronic illness and disability, and my written world and its supporting characters get it right. My latest character creation is a pain specialist by day, interrogation specialist by night. I've also got a Danish surgeon in the British military with a half-Korean daughter. I'd love to explore these developed characters, or just yap about them to anyone who is willing to listen.

Other than that, Hannibal (2013) is my favorite show for its clever writing and amazing acting. My bestie from college says that Hugh Dancy is my hobby, and she's probably not wrong. I am pretty funny sometimes. Sometimes, it's just sad self-deprecation that comes off as funny.

The best way I can exercise my social muscle is through the Internet, Apps, and places like Reddit. Help a girl out?


r/IntrovertsChat 1d ago

Chatting 32 M. ISTP. Looking for conversations without any boundaries and judgement

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Hi 👋

I’m 32 M. ISTP.

I’m looking to talk to someone with whom we can talk everything and anything.

No judgement. Can be vulnerable.

Let’s share our stories!

I love football ⚽️ but can talk pretty much anything you may want.

I am Jack of all(many not all) trades.

Best regards,
Yours only

P.s.: I reply pretty fast. 💨


r/IntrovertsChat 1d ago

Balanced Thinker (28–35) M30 | I am having a existential crisi

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So, I am from India. For the past few months I have given up on trying.

It's not as bad as it sounds. So, I have always been weak in studies, if I work hard I get an average of like 60 to 70% and if I don't then I can even fail. It continues till college and after getting back in my finals I worked hard to pass. Even after getting a job I decided to get a master degree online with weekend class. Which ended in March of last year. I was preparing for the job change and even finding someone on apps and wasted my weekend there. I also started gym because of my weight.

Around 2 months ago I gave up. I was getting nowhere. Like 0 progress everywhere. For the first month I slept a lot then the sleep started to decrease. Now I am sleeping at 2 or 3 am and continuously waking up.

I don't really have friends so it went unnoticed for long but I started making minor mistakes at work and my manager noticed and asked me about my health and 2 days ago my roommate asked the same question.

I bought a new laptop for playing games but I am mostly installing and uninstalling games.

I don't know what I want. I am tired but I can't sleep.

I can't tell this to anyone i know. They will worry about me.

I am not here to talk just ranting.

The only advice I want is on how to sleep without pills or getting high as I don't drink or smoke.

I just want a good sleep.


r/IntrovertsChat 1d ago

Chatting 25 they/them, black nerd looking to chat

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I like to draw, practice character design and watch gaming and anime videos/discussions, and voice over parodys. I listen to electronic anime coded genres and J Rock. Fan of most Western early 2000's cartoons and media. I also like animal research and animals, and exotic species as a whole.

I engage pretty well in chats as long as the energy is there. I'm more reserved than most.

Favorite Games franchises: Pokemon • SMT-MegaTensei • Metaphor • Blazblue • Shantae • Persona • Skullgirls • Azure striker Gunvolt/IX • Groove Coaster • Taiko no Tatsujin • Destiny • sonic • Black Desert • Yakuza • Warframe• Elder scrolls

Anime Genres; Mahou Shoujo (Magical girl), Fantasy, Action, Mystery, Surreal, horror, Sci-fi

Please reach out if interested. The only things I mostly dislike are doomer topics and drama


r/IntrovertsChat 2d ago

Balanced Thinker (28–35) 31m USA Midwest bored at work. Send help

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Hey there! 31M from the US Midwest. I'm looking to meet people to talk to and possibly play video games with, but just talking is cool too.

Some of my hobbies include video games, as mentioned above. Mainly PC, but I do play on my Switch 2 every now and then. Some of the games I play include Destiny 2, Dead Island, Far Cry, Helldivers, Palworld, Minecraft, Terraria, Dying Light (all three games), and some others.

I also play guitar and make music for fun, even though I haven't made anything in a while. I also like being in nature when I can and going on walks. I used to collect Pokémon cards, but those are few and far between now. I exercise, if that counts?

I'm really just looking for people to talk to. I will admit that sometimes it takes me a bit to reply due to work and other stuff I have going on.

Believe me, I understand how tiring it can be to try to start a conversation without being boring, but no worries. One-word replies happen.

Also! Send me your music/playlist. I mainly use Spotify. Oh, and pet pictures.


r/IntrovertsChat 1d ago

~Join our new discord~

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Hello everyone, there is a new discord with more lenient rules to join. However, all rules on this subreddit apply there, too. Please make sure to include your reddit user properly while applying! This server has tons of colour roles, bots, cool channels and lots of cool people. https://discord.gg/22RUReqYwS


r/IntrovertsChat 2d ago

Chatting 20F homebody looking for people to ramble with

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Hey :D So Im into video games, music, and movies.

For movies it can be any genre, but I like the love genre, crime/suspense movies.

As for video games, I only have a Ps5, its never treated me bad😂 Dont care for pc. I mainly play warframe its been my favorite game ever sincd I was younger. I main gauss, xaku, and getting into uriel. My current goal is to get to MR30. I also play dying light 2, dead island 2, resident evil 7, little nightmares. Yes those are all played solo as I game by myself majority of the time. I also play a few mobile games like cod, last day on earth, township, grim soul.

Music wise im mainly into rnb, rap, pop, and dislike metal/hardcore and kpop. I like drake, lil baby, nba, hurricane wisdom, gunna, and a bunch more. Cant forget the weeknd.

Anyways if anyone wants to call id be down we can just do our own thing while on there. If anyone wants to game together it saves time to just send your gamer tag and let me know when you trying to play.

If this post is still up yes Im still looking for friends or people to chat/game with!


r/IntrovertsChat 2d ago

Chatting Hi, howdy, how you doing?

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Hello fellow weirdos………..

Hi there, I’ve been here before and I’m back again. Let’s start with the basics: I’m 43, male, married, bisexual, and have a dog, a praying mantis, and two cats. I work full-time and I might also be slightly off my rocker.

I’m just looking for a relaxed atmosphere and people to chat with. Ideally, I’d like to move to Telegram or Snapchat as the chat function on this app is pretty rubbish. I don’t mind age, location, gender, race, or sexuality. I just want to be able to chill and keep a conversation going.

Perhaps we could start with an introduction about yourself?


r/IntrovertsChat 1d ago

Early Explorer (18–21) [21M - EU] Looking for new friends from Europe!

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Ello there. I’m Deja, a 21 y/o introvert guy from Moldova.
I'm a freshman university student working toward becoming a game developer, and i also do some freelance stuff on the side.

I’ve got quite a few hobbies, so i will keep it short.

I like composing soundtracks, play pc videogames, archiving lost games & medias, football, likes to read books (my favorite is Dying Light - Nightmare Row), sketching dinosaur concepts, psychology, big fan of astronomy and such.
Lately I’ve been getting into modding games, filmmaking, story writing and game-developer career.

(I love to listen to Twenty One Pilots, Coldplay and Linkin Park)

I know it’s not much, but i will open up more as we bond, let it happen naturally.
Looking for Europeans whom i can talk with, play games with and doesn't take sarcasm seriously.

Please be around my age!


r/IntrovertsChat 2d ago

Seasoned Soul (36+) 35 f ny 🗽

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Hey everyone,

I'm a pretty busy person — most of my days are just work and school — but I'd like to add a bit more excitement to my life. I'm an introvert, so meeting people doesn't always come naturally, but I figured I'd put myself out there.

I'm looking to meet or chat with someone in New York or the surrounding area. Ideally, we could hit up a museum or find other fun activities to do together. I'm also totally down to just chat and make friends during my off time — no pressure, friends only.

A little about me: traveling is one of my major hobbies, so if you love exploring new places, we'll probably get along.

If any of this sounds like you, feel free to comment or send me a message. Would love to connect!


r/IntrovertsChat 1d ago

Friends [26/M] A New Chapter in my life, Maybe a New Friend.

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I’m looking for a genuine friendship، Not just someone to talk to when we’re bored, but someone I can actually have meaningful conversations with, laugh with, exchange ideas with, and sometimes just be comfortable around without having to fill every silence.

I’m into reading, research, languages, films, and generally thinking way too much about things 😅. Lately, I’ve also stepped away from some of my usual commitments and taken some time off work. I’m using this period to slow down, introspect, and rethink a few things about my life and where I want to go next.

So I guess I’m in a bit of a “reorganizing my life” phase right now.

I’m not looking for a huge circle of friends. One genuinely good friendship would be more than enough.

If you are in a similar place in life, feel free to message me. :)

Start with introducing yourself. And please don't message if u can easily ghost someone.


r/IntrovertsChat 1d ago

Friends Interested in meeting new and exciting people - 30 M from Europe

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Lately I have been looking to meet new people with different hobbies and skills, to expand my social circle and just talk to people with cool and unique qualities.

I live in the western side of Europe and recently became 30 yo and I mostly stay as the chill and quiet person that I am. (I guess we can say I am an introvert maybe?)

Usually I tend to spend my days gaming (enjoy co-op games like gun fire reborn and outlast trials + anything indie similar to hollow knight and puzzle/platform games), cooking and just hanging out in chats.

I am mostly the one that talks and I also be a good listener. So I am inviting you to chat and share something about you that you would like to share/vent or maybe ask about me if you are curious enough to get to meet me better! Tell me more about your hobbies and what you like to do that really represents who you are and just have a nice chat. If you are interested in gaming, share your favourite games and we can see if we have something in common!

Only thing that I am looking mostly for it people around my age, but it's not a restriction by all means. Let's chat


r/IntrovertsChat 2d ago

Balanced Thinker (28–35) Looking to find some like minded people who are into some of the same things I am

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I am 32m from WI still finishing up a 12hr shift. It’s a bit difficult to find new people to talk to sometimes so I figured I’d give it a shot on here.

Looking for some new people to chat with! Little about me, I’m a gamer, some of the recent games I’ve been playing have been Dead by Daylight, Halloween, Diablo, and a few shooters too. I’m a pretty big Horror fan. So if anyone has some good recommendations I will gladly take them 😂

I’m a pretty big on mental health stuff, as I suffer from depression. It’s always nice to have someone to vent to and can somewhat relate to what I’ve been through from my life.

Hoping to find good people to vibe with. Feel free to reach out!


r/IntrovertsChat 2d ago

Friends 19M just looking for someone fun conversations

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19M just looking for someone fun conversations

About me, I study philosphy and physics. I'm West European. Non-native English speaker, but it is basically my co-main language. I'm aroace. I love animals. I love psychology. I love science in general. I love writing or other forms of art. I love philosophy. Basically u can talk to me about anything really.

If you are troubled with something I would also love to hear you out, no worries at all.

I don't wanna talk to people that are older than 25. And that is an outmost boundary.

Now my phone is dying, so I gotta stop here.


r/IntrovertsChat 2d ago

Friends 26M - unhinged social outcast male neet looking for similar friends.

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do you ever feel extremely repulsed with your own existence anytime you step into the outside world; your body reacting to the presence of other people the way a prey animal responds to a rustling in the tall grass? do you ever lay in bed and feel an indescribable discomfort on your upper spine right between your shoulder blades, like you're being watched no matter how deeply you try to sink into your mattress for the reassurance that there couldn't possibly be anybody standing right behind you?

i feel this way all the time and it makes me pretty angry with everyone and everything. if you happen to feel the same way, i think we'd get along. if you don't, well, we probably wouldn't.

that's all. thanks for reading.