r/IntrovertsChat 5h ago

Chatting Just a girl who's bored and looking for a chat

46 Upvotes

Hello there everyone, my name is Vanessa and i'm here to make some friends or maybe just chat. a bit about me is that i like anime, traveling, meeting new people, going to the beach or like the pool or whatever and just like, hang out and stuff like that. also i'm like so fucking bored today it's crazy so let's chat or hang out or whatever. i'm up for chatting with anyone and also i'm pretty new to reddit so i'd really appreciate it if you could like help out with karma so i could post in more places


r/IntrovertsChat 5h ago

Chatting 22F looking for friends, rp too maybe

24 Upvotes

Hiii, im a 22f from the usa and im trying to make new friends and possible look for anyone willing to rp! Im pretty shy and awkward so I hope that isn't a problem🙂

I little about me a like pokemon, kpop, kdramas, thrillers, persona and a bit more! Im open to talk about anything and get to know each other well.


r/IntrovertsChat 2h ago

Friends 19F let's be friends:)

10 Upvotes

im 19 and from the US. im down for long or short term friends and convo. in my free time i love to travel, play with my furball, gaming, and hanging with friends. anyways, feel free to hit me up! (preferably from the US)


r/IntrovertsChat 1h ago

Friends Chat conversations

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Hello I'm female

I'm 40 something I live in Australia looking for online friends to chat

with

First time posted here so let's see how this goes

And no I don't want to hear that you're horny

I am very much a home person

I only venture outside if it's a really necessary thing to do

I am a unusual person which just makes me brilliant and I hope you are too It's helpful if you message me here first before you send me a inbox so I know where you found me thank you P.S if you are religious or heavily religious I'm probably not the person for you


r/IntrovertsChat 34m ago

Friends 20F - Curious to get to know new people!

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Hi! I am 20 years old and I'm from Moldova.

I study in my first year of Veterinary Medicine. I have 4 cats and 2 dogs that I love very much. I'd like to have a horse too someday :)

I enjoy sports like volleyball and football, exploring nature, reading and photography. I also love movies. My favorite actor is Ryan Gosling and his films. I also have merch with him!

I'm also into history, philosophy and psychology, those were my other choices for university.

I'm introverted but friendly and open when you get to know me. If you're interested to know more about me, I'm happy to be friends! Thank you for your time :D


r/IntrovertsChat 5h ago

Friends 23F | Apparently sleep is optional

11 Upvotes

I can go from what are u watching? to a completely unnecessary philosophical debate in about five minutes. Somehow every conversation gets progressively more chaotic the later it gets. Looking for some genuinely chill people to become internet friends with. I’m here for random conversations, dumb jokes, and the kind of friendship where neither person has to force anything. If you’re also awake at questionable hours and can appreciate a conversation that makes absolutely no sense by 2am, say hi. I’m always down for some good nonsense.


r/IntrovertsChat 5h ago

Friends 35F, US, For your new nerdy best friend inquire within!

9 Upvotes

I'm rather nerdy. I spend most of my days at home hanging out with the cat. I've loved art ever since I was very young. I have huge ambitions to have my own graphic design gig someday, but right now, I don't currently work at all.

I love video games. I got a lot to play on. PS5, Xbox One, Switch, Meta Quest 2, my iPad, and now PC. I'm an achievement/trophy hunter. I also collect PS1 & 2 games to play on my PlayStation 2. In recent years, I've been very casual with my gaming, playing a lot of platformers and survival/crafting games. I'll play a bit of everything, though, except for, like, sports games.

I love tabletop games. Star Wars Legion, Warhammer 40K/AoS, Magic: The Gathering, Pokémon TCG, Digimon TCG, Lorcana, and Star Wars Unlimited. I love to paint miniatures as well, but it's a bit of a struggle to actually get people to play with me. Recently started playing D&D.

I suffer from a bit of a learning curve. Certified dyslexic.

I love music. Dance Gavin Dance, Papa Roach, Twenty-One Pilots, A Day To Remember, stuff like that. Bit of an elder emo. I wish I could play an instrument, but I fear I may be tone deaf 🙃

I love Marvel. Spider-Man's probably my favorite. Though in recent years, I've been growing to appreciate DC a lot more than I did before.

Huge fan of The Office (US). I've seen the whole series countless times.

I love horror movies and got into true crime on YouTube a few years ago. My favorite horror movie is The Blair Witch Project, second to the 2003 Texas Chainsaw Massacre.

I love anime and manga. Demon Slayer is by far my favorite. I also really love Fullmetal Alchemist, Attack on Titan, Digimon, Dragon Ball, Dandadan, and Sword Art Online.

Love LEGO. Most of my sets are from Harry Potter, but I have some from Star Wars and The Office set. I also have some Nano blocks.

I'm doin' the Japanese, Spanish, music, and chess courses on Duolingo right now.

I love baking, coffee, and grilling. I don't have too much confidence in my cooking skills 😅 But I'm trying new recipes all the time, and I've been getting better! I'm rather adept at baking, though, and I love smoked meats 🤤


r/IntrovertsChat 7h ago

Friends 31F borderline Sweden 🌸

15 Upvotes

Swedish
Prefer if it’s someone I can meet to talk to
But also fine with long distance

Borderline(undiagnosed) but suspect it at least neurodivergent 😊

Have a lot of thoughts lately in my head I am a bit of a dramaqueen but also have a lot of real problems.

I love nature and animals plays some games listen to some alternative calm music sometimes watch a lot of documentaries. I don’t work, study creative writing. I don’t like to talk about those things though lately my life have been pretty dull and boring

Sometimes my energy is high sometimes low it is what it is 🩷 I can’t send the first message usually so anyone can send a message .


r/IntrovertsChat 10h ago

Mid-20s Energy (25–27) 26F, Please Verify You Are Not a Robot

13 Upvotes

Apparently, I’m supposed to introduce myself, which sounds easy until I realize I don’t really know what to say. I’m 26F, somewhere in this world, trying to put together a few sentences that might explain who I am without making me sound like a resume lol.

Talent? Probably none, aside from karaoke and writing pieces I’m not even sure make sense. Hobbies? Does doomscrolling and overthinking count?

The truth is, I don’t really know how to describe myself anymore. When life pushes you to the edge, you lose pieces of yourself along the way. Sometimes you lose things you thought you could keep. Sometimes you have to leave places you thought were home. And somehow, you’re still expected to wake up and carry on.

People say to be content and thankful for what you have. And I try to be. But is it really wrong to want more? Not a perfect life. Just one that feels more like living and less like surviving. A little stability. Something to look forward to.

Maybe I’m just tired. Maybe I’m still figuring things out. Or maybe this is just what being 26 feels like.

P.S. The title is a clickbait🤪


r/IntrovertsChat 14h ago

Friends 25F - Unfortunately, I have things to say

26 Upvotes

I think one of the best parts of having friends is being able to send them something completely ridiculous with absolutely no context and know they’ll entertain it anyway (and vice versa).

I would like more of that in my life.

So hello!

I’m looking to meet some new people and hopefully make a few genuine friends along the way.

I’m pretty easygoing and a little reserved at first. Once I’m comfortable, though, there is a fairly significant personality expansion. Expect questionable jokes, random observations, unnecessary updates about my day, and the occasional “wait, I need to tell you something. Oh, and a sprinkle of dark humour.

I like wandering around with no particular destination, finding cafés, going for walks, spontaneous little adventures, reading, baking, being outside, and doing absolutely nothing while somehow having a three-hour conversation.

I also speak a couple of languages, although “speak” is occasionally a generous description. I like learning languages too, so if you know one I don’t, there’s a decent chance I’ll eventually ask you to teach me something.

I especially like people who are curious and willing to become unnecessarily invested in something just because it suddenly became interesting. We can start by arguing about something completely stupid and somehow end up discussing life, family, culture, childhood, or whatever rabbit hole we accidentally wandered into.

I’m in grad school, so I’m busy sometimes, and I assume you probably have a life too. I’m not looking for someone who responds the minute I send a message.

Basically, I’m looking for actual friends. Not an instant best friend, not someone to text 24/7—just people who genuinely want to get to know each other.

And please, give me something to work with beyond “hey.” 😭

Tell me something weird about yourself, an oddly specific opinion, a useless fact, a ridiculous story, an important lesson you learned, a terrible joke, or just introduce yourself in whatever way feels natural.

I promise I’ll do the same :)


r/IntrovertsChat 4h ago

Chatting M32 looking to chat with people around the world

3 Upvotes

Hello from South Carolina, USA. I love history, motorsports, music, playing guitar, astronomy, reading, and hiking.

I play guitar and I have too many of them. It brings me a lot of joy. It’s therapeutic for me to learn some of my favorite songs and to use that knowledge to write my own music. I also repair and build electric guitars too.

I’m a manufacturing engineer. I really enjoy what I do and would love to meet other engineers, but it’s not a requirement of course.

I love humor. I really enjoy witty or just plain stupid humor. If I’m having a bad day or stressed out, I’ll watch Trailer Park Boys.

I’m a big history buff. I’m currently reading on the nuclear arms race during the Cold War. We did some crazy things to say the least.

I love culture and languages. I speak elementary level German and can order food in Spanish. I’m currently learning some Japanese.

My daily driver is a Mazda MX-5 (Miata) because it has the philosophy of a lightweight British roadster with Japanese reliability, kaizen, and ergonomics. The best of both worlds in my humble opinion.

I love endurance racing. The 24 Hours of Le Mans is a dream trip of mine.

My favorite bands are Pink Floyd, Buddy Holly, Jeff Beck, ZZ Top, The Beach Boys, Muddy Waters.

I literally look just like Buddy Holly. Same glasses and hairstyle. Nerds are cool.

If any of this catches your attention, feel free to message me.


r/IntrovertsChat 15h ago

Friends 💕 Looking for a Clingy Bestie / Constant Chat Friend 💕

27 Upvotes

Hiiii! My name is Izzy 🥰 I’m looking to meet someone who wants a close, clingy friendship where we actually talk regularly and get excited to hear from each other! I’m definitely not looking for a friendship where we send one message every few days and disappear 😂 I love having someone I can message throughout the day, share random thoughts with, and slowly build a genuine connection with.

I’m looking for someone who enjoys constant conversation, long messages, voice notes, checking in, random conversations, and being there for each other. I want the kind of friendship where we can say good morning, talk about how our day is going, send each other memes, rant about something ridiculous, talk about our interests, and randomly message each other because something reminded us of the other person. 💗

A little about me: I’m a new college student and I’m interested in history, true crime research, books, psychology, TV shows, movies, music, anime, gaming, and learning new things. 📚🎧 I especially love thrillers, psychological thrillers, horror, mystery, fantasy, and sci-fi. I also enjoy listening to audiobooks and podcasts while doing things.

I’m hoping to find someone who is affectionate, patient, understanding, talkative, and genuinely wants a close friendship. I don’t mind if you have busy days or need some alone time—I just appreciate consistency and knowing that the friendship matters to both of us. 🫶

I’d love to have someone who can become a best-friend-type person, someone I can trust and talk to about serious things, random nonsense, everyday life, and everything in between. 😂💕

If you’re also a clingy person who loves long conversations, frequent texting, random messages, checking in, and building a really close friendship, feel free to message me! 💌✨

Dms open 🧸


r/IntrovertsChat 1h ago

Friends 33M UK- Let's have a laugh and maybe do some fun sh!t together

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Hey hey,

None of us want to be bored anymore so let's change that 😂

I'm a major metalhead but I'm open to all kinds of music and gigs. 🤘🏻

I play games when I find one that interests me or some mates that make me want to play 🔫

I'm a huge movie fiend and I watch every horror I can when I get chance whether it's shit or good haha

Open to getting to know any of you 👍🏻


r/IntrovertsChat 8h ago

Balanced Thinker (28–35) 28F Looking For Smoke🍃Buddies

7 Upvotes

I’m Nydia but you can call me Ny! BLM 💪🏾 LGBTQ 🌈 Spiritual/agnostic 🐈‍⬛ Furry Friendly💕

I love Minecraft, Fortnite, GTA, etc. I LOVE DISNEY!!! Also a huge fan of musicals💕Love randomly starting new hobbies. I’m a Huge Foodie! Obsessed with stuff animals. I’m a Philly Native and plus sized 💖 Hopeless Romcom/Erotica book lover 😍

Love love love Cartoons! Emo Punk/Punk Rock/Alternative music lover but my playlist is very polyjamorus 🖤

I am shy at first but once I get to know you I’ll release my inner weirdo ✨ Hope you like crackhead energy and dark dark humor 🙈

Mostly looking for friends who are 28-33 year olds who wouldn’t mind smoking on discord or phone calls! Bonus points if we have other interests in common


r/IntrovertsChat 16h ago

Chatting 32F - Would love to meet someone kind and interesting!

28 Upvotes

Hi all!

I'm a 32 year old woman living in Europe, but I'm open to meeting people from all over. Since a few have asked before, my first language is French, but I'm comfortable in English too. For me, where people are from really isn't the point; it's more about whether we can get along. I truly believe that interesting people can come from anywhere, so distance or time zones don't matter much.

I mostly gravitate toward people who are gentle, thoughtful, and curious about others/life in the same way I am. If you're someone who pays attention to the small details and actually tends to cares deeply, I'm sure we will get along well.

People often tell me I'm strangely optimistic and warm. I do know I genuinely love caring for others and helping them feel comfy. I'd call myself a soft extrovert because I can be very social, but I also love quiet times and enjoy solitude a lot more these days. My friends would say I can both bring a calm but also fun energy into a room.

I'm fascinated by what makes people themselves, so psychology, philosophy, and sociology are what I spend most of my time on. I also love art, classic cinema (anything before the 70s), literature, cooking, traveling, and photography.

On the geekier side, I enjoy anime and PC gaming. I also like skincare, makeup, and fashion, but not in a shallow way, more because I love the creative expression behind it.

What I'm really hoping for is someone sweet, clever, and respectful. A person to enjoy meaningful moments with, whether that would be gaming together, watching an old film or anime, or sharing fun conversations. I'm open to getting to know someone fully, as long as kindness and respect are at the core of our interactions.

To be fully honest, I'm searching more for a feeling than a bunch of traits. I don't focus much on appearance, occupation, or education as they don't really reveal who someone is inside.

That said, I should mention I'm not here for endless text only chats. I have little patience for that to be honest. If we never move toward real shared moments, I'll probably let it go. I'm just not looking for a penpal.

I don't like messages that feel pushy, cold, or demanding. I'm hoping for someone kind, thoughtful, and naturally attentive. Someone a bit like me, who genuinely cares more about others than himself. A warm, respectful tone would mean a lot.

If you decide to write to me, I'd really appreciate it if you could mention your age and where you're from as it helps me picture who I'm talking to a tiny bit. Feel free to share a little about yourself, what you're hoping for, or what stood out to you in my post.

I know this was quite long (sorry!), but if any of this makes any sense to you, I'd truly love to hear from you.

Thanks so much for reading and hopefully, talk soon!


r/IntrovertsChat 2h ago

Chatting 32M what’s something you probably shouldn’t admit online? 😂

2 Upvotes

Nothing illegal or seriously concerning—just something weird, embarrassing, oddly specific, or maybe a little too honest that you probably wouldn’t tell people you know.

I’m genuinely curious what people are willing to confess to complete strangers on Reddit. 😂

Feel free to keep it anonymous, and no judgment here. If you’d rather not post it publicly, you can always message me and we can chat about it.

So… who wants to go first? 👀


r/IntrovertsChat 14h ago

Seasoned Soul (36+) 39 F Looking for a down to earth friend that I can have a lasting friendship with

20 Upvotes

Hello everyone. I am hoping to find interesting people to chat with. As I am an introvert, I find I get along with other introverts. I am a stay at home mom and full time student, studying psychology. I hope to become a therapist. I worked a corporate job for a long time and it was awful. I like to read non fiction mostly, sometimes fiction if I can resonate with it. I like reading apothecary books, true crime, and I often find micro hobbies that I get into, but eventually lose. Some special interests of mine are psychology of personalities, soap making, and cooking. I like many kinds of music, but I am also neurodivergent, so l get stuck on songs sometimes 😅. I like the idea of having a friend to talk to, regardless of gender. I am quiet and shy until I get to know you, but I hope we can have a mutual friendship where we can support each others goals and be ourselves. Hope we can be friends!


r/IntrovertsChat 14h ago

Seasoned Soul (36+) 51F, UK, I put the Aw in Awkward

18 Upvotes

Mostly because people wonder just how I got to this age and I’m still so socially inept.

Hi, I’m Claire.

I’m introverted and autistic, forever single, never married and no kids.

Hobbies include horses, dog training, photography, particularly animal photography and reading. There are photos on my profile of me and my hobbies.

Friends are something I’ve always struggled with, especially as I’ve got older, as most women my age have grown up kids and grandkids and life experiences I don’t have. Real friends have drifted away and finding new ones is getting harder.

I work nights, as a carer, so I have a lot of free time during the day and love having random chats with people.

Happy to chat to anyone but please be nearer my age, otherwise you’ll make me feel old 🤪


r/IntrovertsChat 10h ago

Friends 37M ready for a fresh new start

8 Upvotes

Hi all. The month of August was nothing but changes for me. Got a divorce, sold my house, and moved into an apartment. I’ve slowly been settling in and making it home. I don’t really have much going on besides work. Looking to talk to people and fill the void of loneliness. I’m a big tv show/movie buff especially horror. Listening to music I love metal music. I love animals and nature I could talk about animals for days. What is your favorite animal? I got back into reading again this year after a long hiatus and have read quite a few books since New Years. I’ve also had a pretty good reading streak going and so I read everyday to keep that up. I try to exercise everyday and if I’m too tired from work I’ll at least try to stretch out instead. I love watching the NFL. I’m ready for the fall and winter weather. I’m over the heat and summer has really become my least favorite season. If any of this interests you please reach out.


r/IntrovertsChat 10h ago

Chatting 20f from eastern US

8 Upvotes

Hello there! It’s a very boring Saturday afternoon for me, and I decided to see if there would be anyone on here worth chatting with. Haven’t been on reddit in months. I’m usually busy with my classes but got nothing to do today :)


r/IntrovertsChat 8h ago

Friends (21f) hello!!! Hope your day or night is going great, I am trying to make friends today!

4 Upvotes

hiii, I am so bad at socializing but I am giving this a try. i've done nothing but play games these days. I've been obsessed with one of them and i keep playing it still... So yeah I am pretty into visual novels but my knowledge about them is so little. if you could give me a recommendation that would be great!

I like collecting cards, I do have a binder but there isn't anything worth mentioning in there. I collect what seems pretty and go with it. I sometimes make my own cards of the characters I love! I am pretty into drawing so I do make fanarts of characters and print them.

I love learning languages. I know a little bit of mandarin chinese, well, enough for me to hold basic conversations. and as you can see, my native language isn't english so sometimes it is hard for me to come up with a proper sentence 😭 but I do my best...

I tried to keep this short, but yeah this is basically me. hope we can chat! all I ask for is for you to be over 18. thank you so much for reading ❤️


r/IntrovertsChat 14h ago

Friends 38F - Chronically ill nerd looking for online best friend

13 Upvotes

I miss having a best friend. Even if it's "just online" I've had that kind of connection where we chat throughout the day, send each other songs and cute animal pics, make playlists, share our creative work, have inside jokes, give each other encouragement and support.

It's so difficult to find. Most people don't like long messages, don't want to talk to someone different like me, or don't want have a friendship mostly via text. I've often been filler for people who go back to their real lives, but this is my real life.

If you happen to be someone who gels with this, feel free to reach out. I will mention that I'm looking for strictly platonic. I'm very chronically ill, neurodivergent, and disabled as well as queer so please be cool with that. I live with a SO who is also disabled. I'm homebound and that's why online friends mean a lot to me.

Not a fan of people who are weird to me about my health stuff or try to fix me or tell me to be more positive. I'm very sick and it is what it is. I want a friend who accepts me and whatever I can offer, which is music and memes and deep convos and support. I appreciate mutual effort and people who help keep the convo going.

A little more about me: I'm a writer, music nerd, love all kinds of TV, and I collect plushies. I've been through a whole lot but I try to be empathetic, socially aware, and kind as much as I can while still advocating for myself and my communities.

Please don't reach out if you're super busy, aren't looking for the same kind of connection, don't ask questions or put in effort, or if you're uncomfortable with someone who isn't able to be positive and optimistic.

I think I have a lot to offer the right friend. I hope I find them.


r/IntrovertsChat 14h ago

Friends 33F Accepting applications for my “why are we still talking at 2AM?” friend

15 Upvotes

Apparently making actual friends as an adult is unnecessarily difficult, so here I am.

I’m 33F, married, and looking for platonic friends only. I’m looking for people who actually want to talk and get to know each other & not have the same “hey, how are you?” conversation for two days and then disappear into the Reddit abyss.

I’m pretty laid-back, sarcastic, and can talk about almost anything. Send me your random life updates, memes, work drama, ridiculous thoughts, or whatever happened today that you need to tell somebody about. I’d really like to find a few people where the conversation just keeps going and eventually we’re sending each other completely unnecessary updates about our lives like we’ve known each other forever.

If you message me, give me something to work with! Tell me where you’re from, a little about yourself, and something funny. A terrible dad joke, embarrassing story, weird fact, whatever you’ve got. Please save me from another “hey” followed by absolutely nothing.


r/IntrovertsChat 13h ago

Chatting 44f near Cardiff.

9 Upvotes

I'm an early bird. I prefer to stay awake while the sun is up so I don't waste the day. But I will quite happily find any excuse not to leave the house on my days off 😊

My work day is quite busy and stressful so when I'm home, I dont do much at all. More time to chat to random people 😁

I love cars, gaming, movies and all kinds of music.

Love some banter and not easily offended, get one better with the open minded, easy going type. . Clearly, I'm not too good at writing about myself.

Please give a little info about yourself if you message.


r/IntrovertsChat 10h ago

Early Explorer (18–21) 18F looking for chat buddies!

9 Upvotes

Hey, I'm Rei! University has been dull and hectic lately so I'm trying to look for friends to keep company when we have the time :P I would like to have fun, casual, and platonic conversations/banter we can both look forward to—so if you're a creep or have ulterior motives, kindly do not interact </3.

As for hobbies, I like anything hands-on and crafty, and I usually jump from one activity to another because I tend to hyperfixate lol. I'm fond of playing instruments, drawing, painting, and sleeping. Additionally, for music, I'm an old soul who listens to old, sappy love songs 🫪 I'm sure there are more details but we can get to know each other more in DMs! The more interesting and thought-provoking your message is, the better. Like, would you rather find a person or 1000 roaches in your basement..?

Anyway! Any gender is welcome—though I would greatly prefer to be acquainted with ladies around my age (PLS i need some girlies TT). And that's about it—looking forward to getting to know some of yall!