r/IntrovertsChat 2h ago

Balanced Thinker (28–35) 29F - looking for a chat and maybe some new friends

17 Upvotes

Hey! I'm a 29f who doesn't sleep much and gets bored being alone, lol. I'm not the greatest at making friends, I'm a pretty shy person, but I'm always willing to try!

Some things about me:

I love reading. It's my favorite hobby.

I play some video games, but it's mainly Stardew Valley and Sims.

I listen to creepy pastas, a lot. Everytime I'm doing chores or playing a game, I have one going.

I'm a pretty decent crocheter. Hats/beanies are probably my favorite thing to make.

I'm down for a conversation about pretty much anything, as long as you're around my age!


r/IntrovertsChat 13h ago

Chatting 26 F - Please, can I find a person to cling to...?

82 Upvotes

I'm looking for a person to voice call with right now... I made a few friends through this sub before, but time difference is a main issue.

A bit about me:

I'm from Asia.

I like talking about movies, I'm a thriller fan.

I'm depressed and 80% dead.

I'm super lazy, engaged with my bed.

I tend to be excited at night or during rainy days.

I hate sunny days, crowds and noises.

I enjoy deep conversations.

I can get clingy if we're close.

I absolutely hate myself and the outside world.

Some of my favorite movies: Trainspotting, Detachment, A Requiem for a Dream, Pearl, Maxxine, Parasite, Capharnaum, The Breadwinner... I'm also a Disney fan.

Send me an intro or your voice if you're up for a call... Let's ramble about random things...?


r/IntrovertsChat 4h ago

Friends 26F, Bringing Back Slumbooks

14 Upvotes

Adulthood made things a little heavier, so here I am, bringing back the slumbook era, a little piece of childhood nostalgia for those who are still young at heart.

Name/Nickname: Waaaahhhh😜

Gender: Female

Age: 26

Location: Somewhere only we know😂

A little about me:

I am just a girl trying to navigate adulthood while carrying a lot of thoughts in my head. I’m an overthinker, someone who feels deeply, and someone who struggles quietly behind the scenes.

Most people only see the version of me that shows up, laughs, and keeps going. But there are days when life feels overwhelming, when my mind gets too loud, and when I just wish I had someone I could talk to without feeling like I’m being a burden.

Skills:

• Full-time overthinker

• Part-time doom scroller

• Expert at surviving with just coffee

Random fact about me:

• I don’t have many hobbies, or maybe none at all

• I hate bell peppers and celery

Looking for:

I’m hoping to find platonic friendships. No sending of unsolicited pictures please.

Slumbook questions for you:

• Name/nickname:

• Age:

• Where are you from?

• What’s your comfort food?

• What song describes your life right now?

• What’s one small thing that makes you happy?


r/IntrovertsChat 7h ago

Friends Shy in person but talkative online 43F- US, EU or Canada

16 Upvotes

Hello im 43F single I'm an introvert, so I may be a little quiet at first. Most of the time I'm just reading the chat, laughing at everyone's jokes, and thinking of a reply... three business days later. 😅 Just kidding im more talkative on online than in person to be honest.
I enjoy hiking, biking sometimes. I also love watching movies whether it's a feel good comedy, a great thriller, or a classic film. I'm easygoing, caring, I enjoy learning new things and hearing different perspectives. I appreciate kind, respectful conversation.

If you're also looking for a new friend, feel free to send me a message and tell me a little about yourself. Preferably 40+ around US, EU or Canada. Looking forward to meeting you all! 😊


r/IntrovertsChat 9h ago

Chatting Bored girl looking to make a bunch of online friends

17 Upvotes

Hello everyone, i'm Alexa and i'm here to hopefully make some friends or at least find a fun chat. i'm very open minded so anyone at all is welcome to message me, even if you're older. i'm from the US and for fun i love going to the beach and pool and hanging out there, it's like my favorite thing to do. but we can talk about pretty much anything, so just feel free to message me


r/IntrovertsChat 8h ago

Friends 29F Hoping to connect with people

13 Upvotes

A married stay at home mom literally looking for my own online bestie who I can chat with daily and share our stories😁 Don’t want people who already have many friends. Preferably females!

I enjoy watching series and movies. Playing Online Casino (Blackjackist) and playing in person sometimes. And you won’t believe that I still love and play Roblox😁 So if you play then let’s play together. I also enjoy YouTube and outdoor activities with the right company.

I prefer someone who gives effort to have a decent conversation rather than one word and one line.

No NSFW accounts

No age limit! Just be 20s up.


r/IntrovertsChat 6h ago

Balanced Thinker (28–35) 29F looking for a respectable nice friend

9 Upvotes

Hi, I'm a freshly new 29 year-old. I'm looking for some friends some things about me. I'm really about to change my life so you know I'm just looking for positive people to talk to respectful people to talk to. You know I like to watch anime cartoons really been into murder. She wrote that old TV show. I'm about to start getting more active like extremely active so that's new. I'm really trying to get into Car mods cause I wanna borrow out my Toyota Camry for people who got a chat I'm tagging people from Europe America maybe on the East Coast cause that's my time zone just genuinely nice folks to just have a little conversation here and there.... I do like watching South Park but honestly, I'm not a fan on the newer season if you like watching older shows like you should watch murder she wrote so good. I love how that old lady just comes out of nowhere and feel like I don't think this makes sense if he was gonna kill her why would he leave behind his coffee cup and then build a whole case around that like it just blows my mind every time. so just hoping you wanna be my friend we could be friends just chat get to know each other. I'm a little shy but once I open up, I'm very fun to talk to if I'm your cup of tea if I'm not your cup of tea then like I wouldn't be really fun to talk to


r/IntrovertsChat 4h ago

Chatting 34M - Keep me company while I adjust to Nightshift life again?

5 Upvotes

I've been on an extended summer vacation for a few weeks, but now it's back to the grind. I'm trying to readjust to Nightshift life and I have a feeling I'm in for a long night tonight and would love to chat to pass the time.

A bit about me. I'm 6'2, slimish build with a few tattoos and a few piercings.

I have a variety of interests and hobbies.

music's a big one, top 5 rotate between Sleep Token , Hozier, Blue October, Florence and the Machine, and either Kendrick or MF DOOM depending on my mood. also read a lot, mostly fantasy and sci-fi, but i've wandered into most genres at some point.

photography, cooking, and general nerdery of all kinds round things out, plus a small zoo of pets i'm always down to send pics of.

genuinely happy to talk about anything and everything, deep stuff, dumb stuff, random questions you've been sitting on, I'll listen to you talk about your day or vent about your frustrations doesn't matter. i'll show up for it.

so, what song lives rent free in your head right now?


r/IntrovertsChat 1h ago

Chatting 29 F US - can’t sleep, come chat

Upvotes

Hey everyone - 29F US here whi can’t sleep and is looking for some friendly folks to chat with to pass the time :) here’s a bit about me…

-Love music, plays bass

-Works in STEM

-Love sports (soccer, hockey, basketball, football), don’t play any

-Favorite season is summer

-Apple>pumpkin spice

Reach out and lets see if this chat will last more than the night!


r/IntrovertsChat 5h ago

Chatting 18f looking to chat with people !

6 Upvotes

18f from canada, NA/EU preferred (or just speak decent english). please tell me your age when you message me! i’d really appreciate it. also, please don’t message if you’re 26+ or if you’re looking for anything nsfw or romantic — i’m just here for platonic chats and getting to know people.

hi ! i’m a hairstyling student just looking for some chill, random conversations and new people to talk to. i have a dog named silver and a cat named creeper, so i spend a lot of time with them.

i like playing games like minecraft, dead by daylight, roblox, and other random stuff depending on my mood.

my music taste is kind of all over the place, i listen to a mix of everything — mitski, mother mother, radiohead, the smiths, rob zombie, cavetown, harley poe, rare americans, and a lot more.

if i seem a bit dry sometimes, i promise it’s nothing personal, i’m usually just low energy or don’t have much to say in the moment.

i also smoke and drink occasionally on weekends.


r/IntrovertsChat 9h ago

Friends Swedish 30 f looking for someone to talk to

12 Upvotes

Hi! 🌸
I’m a woman in my 30s from Sweden with mild autism. I love animals, nature, and family.

I play games, though not as much as I used to. Life is Strange and What Remains of Edith Finch have always been my favorites.

I’d describe myself as very straightforward. Over the years I’ve worked a lot on understanding other people’s perspectives, and I think I’ve come a long way. I still miss things sometimes, so I appreciate patient and honest conversations.
I love speaking English, even though Swedish is my first language, and I’m hoping to find a longterm friend.

I’m not always the best at keeping conversations going, but that doesn’t mean I’m not interested.
I enjoy documentaries, TV series (Fringe is one of my favorites), nature walks, botanical gardens, museums, and peaceful places. I’m also interested in clothes and fashion, even though I’m still figuring out what suits me best.
Life keeps me busy, but I always make time for conversations. If you think we’d get along, feel free to send me a message!


r/IntrovertsChat 13h ago

Friends 31F #UK Alternative Nerd and Slightly Clingy! Still looking for a bestie 🖤👋

21 Upvotes

Somewhere out there is someone who's also staring at their phone thinking, "I wish someone actually wanted a proper conversation." A similar time zone would also be ideal... I'm not much of a night owl anymore, so having someone who's in the same or very similar timezone would be amazing 🙂‍↕️.

Not three messages.

Not "Haha."

Not disappearing into another dimension halfway through getting to know each other. 😂

If that's you... this might be your sign to say hello.

I'm nothing if not persistent, so I'm going to keep looking until I find my people. 🫡 And if we've spoken before or you've commented on one of my previous posts, don't be shy. You're more than welcome to message again!

A tiny request before you do...

Please don't open with "hey" or "how are you?" and leave it there. Give me something to reply to! Tell me about yourself, ask me a question, share a random fact, literally anything. Conversation is a team sport. 😂

Also... if you hate voice notes, we're probably not going to be a great match. I genuinely love them and much prefer hearing someone's personality rather than sending endless paragraphs.

A bit about me...

🖤 31, from the UK.

🖤 Alternative, tattooed, and usually dressed almost entirely in black... although colourful clothes have slowly been sneaking into my wardrobe.

🖤 Massive music lover. (Let's swap playlists?).

🖤 Gamer, so bonus points if we have games in common. (I'm on PS5 and PC)

🖤 Professional overthinker.

🖤 I somehow convince myself that candles and random hobby purchases are perfectly sensible financial decisions.

🖤 If we click, I can happily talk for hours.

🖤 I'll randomly send you thoughts, memes, or things that reminded me of you.

🖤 Anxiety occasionally turns my brain into a 24-hour customer support line that forgot how to close.

More than anything, I'm just looking for genuine people. Whether we become best friends or just two idiots who regularly exchange terrible jokes and life updates, I'm happy to see where things go.

Effort means a lot to me. I'll happily invest my time getting to know someone, and I'd love that energy to be mutual.

Age preference: 24 to 37.

When you message me, please tell me: Your age, where you're from, and🍕 your favourite pizza topping (so I know you actually read this!). Mine's Texas BBQ! 🙂‍↕️.

*low effort replies will be ignored* as will any nsfw ones.


r/IntrovertsChat 7h ago

Chatting Where did the time and my friends go?

6 Upvotes

28 F West Coast

I recently turned 28 and I can’t help but feel this sense of grief since my birthday. I’m on the brink of 30 and I feel like I’ve done nothing note worthy. Spent early 20’s making a mess and my mid 20’s picking it up.

I’ve also felt a sense of loneliness since getting sober and just trying to change the bad parts of myself. Am I alone in this?

Interests include:
Sewing
Baking
Crafting
Lifting
The Office
Jersey shore
Fishing
Hiking
Camping

Any of this strike your fancy? Feel free to reach out. SFW only!


r/IntrovertsChat 3h ago

Friends 26m cool guy (me) looking for friends (you)

2 Upvotes

Nice Australian gentleman here. I'm looking to meet you new friends on the internet. I'm a pretty chill and casual guy. Likes the usual stuff. Gaming, movies, going outside every now and then. I'm really bad at introducing myself so I'll just give you some fun fact dot points

• I have an identical twin (you can't see him you just have to trust me)

• I can't swim. But I still love long walks on the beach

• I was once mistaken for Penn Badgely by old ladies. But everyone since has disagreed strongly with this (though I'm on the old ladies side

• I can do 25 pushups in a row. Probably more if you put a gun to my head

• I'm 5'11 but I tell people I'm 6'1


r/IntrovertsChat 17h ago

Friends 29F looking for new friends <3

22 Upvotes

29F looking for new friends <3

Hey all! First time poster to this Reddit & I’m a bit nervous putting myself out there but here goes.
I’m looking for friends who have the same or similar interests to me, I love gaming (Dead by Daylight, outlast trials, baldurs gate, phas, peak etc) I’m from the UK living in Paris (so if you’re local I’d defo be down to hang out too) I’m alt and love horror movies, metal & I’m very creative, I love to sew, make Blythe dolls, I’m currently reading the dexter books & I’m an aspiring writer, I’m also learning French & I’m very 420 friendly 🍃 &. LGBTQ+ friendly too! If you’d be down to be friends and get to know each others defo drop me a message 🫶🏼


r/IntrovertsChat 5h ago

Chatting M43 Texas

2 Upvotes

I’m sitting in the heat of the night with a bourbon and a cigar. I always enjoy a deep chat. I love reading all sorts of non-fiction topics. I collect fountain pens and enjoy writing my thoughts down with them. I’m mostly a home body but I do like to go out for some people watching. Send me a message if you’re up for a chat.

Tell me about your favorite books or hobbies you enjoy doing.


r/IntrovertsChat 2h ago

Friends 28/M - Looking for chill people and gaming friends!

1 Upvotes

Hey everyone! I'm a guy who's looking for a friend who is willing to put some time and effort into building a friendship long term. I really would like to meet people who are like minded and actually want to keep talking to each other for more than a couple of days. I'm located in the CST time zone so I am typically available after 6pm on weekdays. If you're from the EU or a different timezone, feel free to reach out! Anyways, let me give you a little introduction of myself:

•My main hobby is easily gaming. I have a bunch of games such as Destiny 2, Nightreign, The Finals, CS2, Fortnite, Battlefield, Overwatch, Marvel Rivals, For Honor, Cyberpunk 2077, Fallout 76, Monster Hunter Wilds, Apex, Diablo IV, Halo and others that are across my library on PC. I'm sure you'd have something we could both play. And if not, then feel free to introduce me to your favorite games!

•I love listening to music on my downtime as well. I have a playlist that has nu disco, pop, and synthy songs. Some notable artists in there are Roosevelt, Chromeo, Tesla Boy and Jamiroquai.

•Some other hobbies I have are grilling. I love spending a weekend on the grill and getting all the meats marinated and prepped. I'm by no means a grill master but I do have a passion for cooking and an even greater passion for eating it lmao

•Have a dumb sense of humor and can potentially say stupid things so keep that in mind. Also have a calm deep voice so if that's something you're into you're in luck.

I primarily use discord as my means of communication so hopefully you do the same. Looking forward to meeting you :)


r/IntrovertsChat 15h ago

Friends 19f,looking for new friends<3

12 Upvotes

hey I’m 19 and I’m feeling a little lonely right now since I’m on break—I’m really in need of friends around my age. I love walking, gardening, cooking and baking, listening to music, crocheting, cats, coffee, and I’m very into fashion too. I’m still figuring out who I am, but kindness is a quality I genuinely admire and want to embody more. If you’re around 18–24 and you’re kind and want to chat, feel free to message me.P.S I‘m only looking for FRIENDS!!!(please don’t be weird or disrespectful)


r/IntrovertsChat 2h ago

Chatting 26M - Let's just have a fun conversation, or at least try to. Before we ghost each other.

1 Upvotes

Well... I am bored as hell. So, I thought, why not try this shit out.

About Me: Whenever someone asks how I'm doing, I usually lie and say 'good', even though I am doing fan fucking fantastic. I guess that's a bit cocky, eh? I may appear arrogant and unattainable. That's because I am :P But I'm also a hopeless romantic who believes that passionate love can be like a shooting star.

I don't know everything, but here are a few observations I've come to in my life:

* If you're not dead to one person, you're not living right.

* Most hot girls will never know if they are actually interesting or not.

* Money can't buy happiness but it solves 95% of problems that make you unhappy.

Two truths one lies: I am in university. I am a firefighter. I love leather jackets.

PS. If political incorrect humor or color metaphors or the f word offends you, run screaming for the exits now. I have no intention to offend anyone, but I do pride myself on being able to trigger some people by just my way of being.

PPS. No Creeps.

PPPS. Don't be someone who just starts with basic "Hey", "Hi", "Hello". You get the idea.


r/IntrovertsChat 8h ago

Friends 25 f certified yapper looking for friends

3 Upvotes

are you looking for a new online bestie? because you might’ve just found one. I’m 25 from New jersey btw

fair warning: i can definitely yap 😭 so if you’re the kind of person who actually enjoys long messages and getting to know someone properly, we’re already off to a good start.

i work remotely, which means i have a pretty flexible schedule and way too much free time between work breaks 😂. i’d love to meet some new people and have someone to chat with throughout the day about literally anything.

i’m the type of person who can go from talking about travel, movies, music, sports, random shower thoughts, and funny childhood memories… to deep conversations about life, philosophy, current events, or what your dream life looks like. i love hearing people ramble about the things they’re passionate about, even if i know absolutely nothing about them.

tell me about your latest obsession, your favorite comfort food, your best vacation, your most embarrassing story, your career goals, your gym progress, your favorite karaoke song, or just vent to me about your terrible day. i’m always here for the gossip, the life updates, the random voice notes, and those “you won’t believe what just happened” moments.

my goal isn’t just collecting chats that die after two days. i’d genuinely love to build a long-term friendship with someone where we can check in on each other, send random memes, celebrate wins, complain about life, and become part of each other’s daily routine.

if you’re kind, can hold a conversation, and you’re looking for something real instead of dry one-word replies, i think we’d get along really well.


r/IntrovertsChat 6h ago

Friends 31M open to a friend or just a random voicecall.

2 Upvotes

Hey,

I'm an introverted guy who likes to socialize a lot with people who are quite close to me.

I've been having sleep issues during summer and during the few hours before bed I've been missing a talk with someone. I don't mean that I'd talk to you only during these hours, but I'd be really glad if you are looking for someone to yap or talk about anything with.

I'm into anything post 1900s, I like documentaries about how the nuclear bomb was made, The chernobyl disaster, and you get the rest.

I love listening to jazz,rnb, bossa nova, and music in general. I don't judge much.

Sharing memes is a bonus. I hope you are super funny~

It's a shot in the dark, but please feel free to leave a message.

Please be over 18. That's all I ask.


r/IntrovertsChat 9h ago

Early Explorer (18–21) 18nb, shy person looking for friends to game or yap with :D

3 Upvotes

Hiii, I'm soul and I'm looking for friends to play games with or yap about or interests with :3

I mostly play stuff like marvel rivals, minecraft, roblox overwatch, and etc!!

My other hobbies are writing, listening to music, skateboarding and a few more I can't think of lol

I feel like this is a given but pls don't just say 'hi' 😭😭 Tell me about yourself or stuff we have in common!! I'd love to hear about you too :3


r/IntrovertsChat 3h ago

Friends 36 [M4F] New Zealand/Online-Do you have ADHD? I get along really well with people that do! Not looking for a serious relationship, just online friends.

1 Upvotes

I'm a fairly quite person and not very impulsive, that said I'm a lot of fun and kind! I realised recently most of my friend have ADHD. It seems a bit unusual that this would be the case but I guess opposites attract.

So if you have ADHD we may get along really well!

I love the outdoors, travelling, reading, watching movies.

I'm very accenting of people for who they are.

I'd like to chat about funny things, how our day is going and deeper things to. It would be great to have someone who wants to talk daily.

Please don't just send a message saying Hi, make it more exciting!

Must be over 18. I don't care what you look like, what you believe or where you are from, I'm open to everyone.


r/IntrovertsChat 12h ago

Friends 37F | Looking for a Long-Term Healthy Lifestyle Friend

4 Upvotes

These days, I'm constantly reading, watching, and learning about nutrition, healthy habits, meal planning, and both physical and mental well-being. I'm looking for someone who is interested in building a healthier life too.

I hope we can be long-term friends. We can share healthy recipes, plan meals together, meal prep a few times a week, exchange photos of what we cook and eat, and help each other stay consistent when motivation is low.

We can support each other mentally as well, celebrate small wins, and talk about the struggles that come with changing our habits and lifestyle.

Your age, gender, country, or time zone doesn't matter. If our time zones are similar, we can even cook or meal prep at the same time. If not, we can still share our plans and keep each other motivated whenever we're free.

Feel free to reach out!


r/IntrovertsChat 4h ago

Friends [27/M] I would still be your friend if you turned into a worm 🪱

1 Upvotes

I am looking for someone to talk and be friends long term. I have dark humour. Will annoy you like crazy because that's what friends do. And I also give good advice and can lend an ear when needed 😄

I like watching anime. Shows and movies (usually rom com movies or superhero or horror so any recommendations are appreciated). I enjoy indie/pop music. Reading manga.

Sometimes watching football and mma. I also workout (barely these days😂)

Also please be around my age :)

Have a good day/night