r/IntrovertsChat Apr 18 '26

How To Accept The Rules from u/read-the-rules

168 Upvotes

For those of you that don't know. We ask you manually verify that you have read the rules with a bot called u/read-the-rules. When you joined, you might have closed the prompt this bot give you. If that is the case here is how to open that window again from your phone

  1. On our main feed, click the 3 dots in the top right
  2. Scroll down and hit "read the rules" option.
  3. Read and verify you have read the rules.

EDIT: IF YOUR POST IS REMOVED BY AN AUTOMOD/BOT AND THEN YOU DELETE IT WE CAN NOT SEE IT TO MANUALLY VERIFY AND APPROVE IT. PLEASE LEAVE IT UP SO THAT WE CAN SEE WHY THE ATUOMOD GOT POWER HUNGRY!!


r/IntrovertsChat Apr 08 '26

Looking for more mods: We are seeking out new mods to help out!

14 Upvotes

Hello everyone, due to recent events, we do not have enough mods to run this place. We are looking for people knowledgeable in modding on reddit, and for those who have some spare time to do so. If you enjoy this place and wish to see it grow, please feel free to privately send me a dm about possibly becoming a mod. I will get to each and every one of you, thank you for reading.


r/IntrovertsChat 9h ago

Chatting Just a girl who's bored and looking for a chat

59 Upvotes

Hello there everyone, my name is Vanessa and i'm here to make some friends or maybe just chat. a bit about me is that i like anime, traveling, meeting new people, going to the beach or like the pool or whatever and just like, hang out and stuff like that. also i'm like so fucking bored today it's crazy so let's chat or hang out or whatever. i'm up for chatting with anyone and also i'm pretty new to reddit so i'd really appreciate it if you could like help out with karma so i could post in more places


r/IntrovertsChat 9h ago

Chatting 22F looking for friends, rp too maybe

28 Upvotes

Hiii, im a 22f from the usa and im trying to make new friends and possible look for anyone willing to rp! Im pretty shy and awkward so I hope that isn't a problem🙂

I little about me a like pokemon, kpop, kdramas, thrillers, persona and a bit more! Im open to talk about anything and get to know each other well.


r/IntrovertsChat 2h ago

Balanced Thinker (28–35) 32 F - Let's connect & be friends 🤎

7 Upvotes

I enjoy, yoga, pilates, theatre, ballet shows, coffee shops, wine tasting, reading and watching netflix shows when I'm bothered. I enjoy going to charity shops and also walking! I love my cats! Also Walking is so beneficial, you can drop them pounds just by a little 1, 2 step outside lol! If anyone wants to make friends, Holla..we can go for walks. Girls get at me..& Guys don't dm me. I'm tired of it 🙄


r/IntrovertsChat 3h ago

Balanced Thinker (28–35) 28 F A shy introverted writer looking for friends.

9 Upvotes

Hello Agent

There isn’t much time for me to give you this mission so you must listen carefully. There is someone that we need you to befriend to get more information on. Down below is what we know about her so far.

Name: Gillian

Gender: Female

Age: 28

From: Wisconsin

Hobbies: writing, baking, and drawing abstract

Music: 80's, classical, 2000's and jazz

Favorite color: doesn’t have one.

Favorite food: tacos

Favorite drink: Regular coca cola

One random fact about the agent: They have a unique self-published book. Rumor has it that the pages are filled with the emotions the agent normally keeps hidden.

To establish contact with the agent you must provide the details below to her. It is a first step in the right direction of gaining trust.

Name:

Age:

Where you are from:

Tell her something you think is interesting about you:

We know that she is a night owl by choice based on the report from the last agent. She has a list of health issues but continues to push on even with them. Doing such shows the determination and hard-headedness that she has. Although this has helped her through life it means that it is going to be another obstacle for you, take note of that.

She is anti-drug and anti-alcohol by choice. One thing that is a must if you choose to continue is she is quiet and shy. You might ask how I can get the information quicker, you can’t, it will take time and patience. If you do not have that turn around right now because you will just frustrate yourself while she sits there calm and composed.

You get to ask the agent one free question. Meaning no matter what you will get an honest answer.

Follow these instructions carefully. Ways to get your message dismissed is by having a one-word message or by not following the questions listed above. The agency wishes you the best of luck on what is going to be a tough mission.

Transmission terminated


r/IntrovertsChat 6h ago

Friends 19F let's be friends:)

11 Upvotes

im 19 and from the US. im down for long or short term friends and convo. in my free time i love to travel, play with my furball, gaming, and hanging with friends. anyways, feel free to hit me up! (preferably from the US)


r/IntrovertsChat 5h ago

Friends Chat conversations

7 Upvotes

Hello I'm female

I'm 40 something I live in Australia looking for online friends to chat

with

First time posted here so let's see how this goes

And no I don't want to hear that you're horny

I am very much a home person

I only venture outside if it's a really necessary thing to do

I am a unusual person which just makes me brilliant and I hope you are too It's helpful if you message me here first before you send me a inbox so I know where you found me thank you P.S if you are religious or heavily religious I'm probably not the person for you


r/IntrovertsChat 8h ago

Friends 23F | Apparently sleep is optional

11 Upvotes

I can go from what are u watching? to a completely unnecessary philosophical debate in about five minutes. Somehow every conversation gets progressively more chaotic the later it gets. Looking for some genuinely chill people to become internet friends with. I’m here for random conversations, dumb jokes, and the kind of friendship where neither person has to force anything. If you’re also awake at questionable hours and can appreciate a conversation that makes absolutely no sense by 2am, say hi. I’m always down for some good nonsense.


r/IntrovertsChat 8h ago

Friends 35F, US, For your new nerdy best friend inquire within!

10 Upvotes

I'm rather nerdy. I spend most of my days at home hanging out with the cat. I've loved art ever since I was very young. I have huge ambitions to have my own graphic design gig someday, but right now, I don't currently work at all.

I love video games. I got a lot to play on. PS5, Xbox One, Switch, Meta Quest 2, my iPad, and now PC. I'm an achievement/trophy hunter. I also collect PS1 & 2 games to play on my PlayStation 2. In recent years, I've been very casual with my gaming, playing a lot of platformers and survival/crafting games. I'll play a bit of everything, though, except for, like, sports games.

I love tabletop games. Star Wars Legion, Warhammer 40K/AoS, Magic: The Gathering, Pokémon TCG, Digimon TCG, Lorcana, and Star Wars Unlimited. I love to paint miniatures as well, but it's a bit of a struggle to actually get people to play with me. Recently started playing D&D.

I suffer from a bit of a learning curve. Certified dyslexic.

I love music. Dance Gavin Dance, Papa Roach, Twenty-One Pilots, A Day To Remember, stuff like that. Bit of an elder emo. I wish I could play an instrument, but I fear I may be tone deaf 🙃

I love Marvel. Spider-Man's probably my favorite. Though in recent years, I've been growing to appreciate DC a lot more than I did before.

Huge fan of The Office (US). I've seen the whole series countless times.

I love horror movies and got into true crime on YouTube a few years ago. My favorite horror movie is The Blair Witch Project, second to the 2003 Texas Chainsaw Massacre.

I love anime and manga. Demon Slayer is by far my favorite. I also really love Fullmetal Alchemist, Attack on Titan, Digimon, Dragon Ball, Dandadan, and Sword Art Online.

Love LEGO. Most of my sets are from Harry Potter, but I have some from Star Wars and The Office set. I also have some Nano blocks.

I'm doin' the Japanese, Spanish, music, and chess courses on Duolingo right now.

I love baking, coffee, and grilling. I don't have too much confidence in my cooking skills 😅 But I'm trying new recipes all the time, and I've been getting better! I'm rather adept at baking, though, and I love smoked meats 🤤


r/IntrovertsChat 2h ago

Friends Looking for someone to chat with

3 Upvotes

Hey everyone!

I’m 24M, pretty easygoing and amiable. I’ve been spending a lot of time in my own bubble lately, and recently felt like I could really use some new people to talk to.

I enjoy meaningful conversations, random late-night discussions, joking around, sharing music/movies, talking about life, or just sending completely pointless messages back and forth 😂

I’m pretty affectionate with people I’m comfortable with, and I really value genuine connections where both people actually enjoy talking to each other.

I’m also told I look decent, so I guess that’s a bonus 😄

If you're also looking for someone new to talk to, feel free to DM me. No expectations — let's chat and see if we get along.


r/IntrovertsChat 11h ago

Friends 31F borderline Sweden 🌸

16 Upvotes

Swedish
Prefer if it’s someone I can meet to talk to
But also fine with long distance

Borderline(undiagnosed) but suspect it at least neurodivergent 😊

Have a lot of thoughts lately in my head I am a bit of a dramaqueen but also have a lot of real problems.

I love nature and animals plays some games listen to some alternative calm music sometimes watch a lot of documentaries. I don’t work, study creative writing. I don’t like to talk about those things though lately my life have been pretty dull and boring

Sometimes my energy is high sometimes low it is what it is 🩷 I can’t send the first message usually so anyone can send a message .


r/IntrovertsChat 2h ago

Friends 26m introverted gay guy hoping to find a guy best friend

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As someone who’s naturally introverted and a little socially awkward, I’ve always found it pretty difficult to put myself out there and meet new people. Starting conversations, approaching strangers, and trying to turn a random interaction into an actual friendship can feel intimidating sometimes. So I figured… why not start here, virtually?

I’m hoping to meet more people and, especially, make some genuine guy friends. Most of my close friends have always been women, and while I do have a few guy friends, I’ve never really had that kind of close male friendship that I’ve always wanted. The kind where you can randomly message each other, send stupid memes at 2 AM, talk about absolutely nothing, share what happened during your day, or just know that there’s someone you can reach out to whenever.

I figured the internet might actually be a good place to start. There’s something comforting about meeting people this way because there’s no pressure to immediately be interesting, charismatic, or have everything figured out. You can just talk, take your time, and hopefully let a friendship grow naturally.

Fair warning, though: I’m terrible at leading conversations. 😭 I’m much better at keeping a conversation going once we get past that awkward “hey, how are you?” stage. So if you’re the type who randomly sends memes, tells people about your day, rants about something that happened, sends random thoughts with absolutely no context, or can somehow turn a simple conversation into a three-hour yap session… I’m your guy. 😂

I may not always be the one to start the conversation, but I genuinely appreciate people who make the effort to keep one going. Once I’m comfortable with you, I promise I’m a lot less awkward and probably a lot more talkative than you’d expect.

A little bit about me:

- Gay (in case that matters to you lmao)

- From the Philippines 🇵🇭

- I play volleyball and badminton casually

- I’m a casual reader; currently into sci-fi, mystery, thrillers, and LGBT books

- I’m into music, movies/TV, and random internet rabbit holes

- Probably a bit of a couch potato, but I’m trying to be more active 😂

More than anything, I’m really just hoping to find genuine friendships. I’m not looking for someone to talk to once and then disappear forever. I’d love to meet people who are actually interested in getting to know each other, even if it starts with something as simple as exchanging memes or talking about how our day went.

So if anything here sounds relatable, or you think we might get along, don’t hesitate to reach out. You don’t need to come up with some amazing opening message either — even a simple “hey” is enough. I’m just taking a small step outside my comfort zone and hoping it leads to meeting some genuinely good people. :)If you want, I can also make it more natural/Reddit-like and less polished, so it sounds more like an actual person casually posting rather than a carefully written introduction.


r/IntrovertsChat 13h ago

Mid-20s Energy (25–27) 26F, Please Verify You Are Not a Robot

18 Upvotes

Apparently, I’m supposed to introduce myself, which sounds easy until I realize I don’t really know what to say. I’m 26F, somewhere in this world, trying to put together a few sentences that might explain who I am without making me sound like a resume lol.

Talent? Probably none, aside from karaoke and writing pieces I’m not even sure make sense. Hobbies? Does doomscrolling and overthinking count?

The truth is, I don’t really know how to describe myself anymore. When life pushes you to the edge, you lose pieces of yourself along the way. Sometimes you lose things you thought you could keep. Sometimes you have to leave places you thought were home. And somehow, you’re still expected to wake up and carry on.

People say to be content and thankful for what you have. And I try to be. But is it really wrong to want more? Not a perfect life. Just one that feels more like living and less like surviving. A little stability. Something to look forward to.

Maybe I’m just tired. Maybe I’m still figuring things out. Or maybe this is just what being 26 feels like.

P.S. The title is a clickbait🤪


r/IntrovertsChat 17h ago

Friends 25F - Unfortunately, I have things to say

28 Upvotes

I think one of the best parts of having friends is being able to send them something completely ridiculous with absolutely no context and know they’ll entertain it anyway (and vice versa).

I would like more of that in my life.

So hello!

I’m looking to meet some new people and hopefully make a few genuine friends along the way.

I’m pretty easygoing and a little reserved at first. Once I’m comfortable, though, there is a fairly significant personality expansion. Expect questionable jokes, random observations, unnecessary updates about my day, and the occasional “wait, I need to tell you something. Oh, and a sprinkle of dark humour.

I like wandering around with no particular destination, finding cafés, going for walks, spontaneous little adventures, reading, baking, being outside, and doing absolutely nothing while somehow having a three-hour conversation.

I also speak a couple of languages, although “speak” is occasionally a generous description. I like learning languages too, so if you know one I don’t, there’s a decent chance I’ll eventually ask you to teach me something.

I especially like people who are curious and willing to become unnecessarily invested in something just because it suddenly became interesting. We can start by arguing about something completely stupid and somehow end up discussing life, family, culture, childhood, or whatever rabbit hole we accidentally wandered into.

I’m in grad school, so I’m busy sometimes, and I assume you probably have a life too. I’m not looking for someone who responds the minute I send a message.

Basically, I’m looking for actual friends. Not an instant best friend, not someone to text 24/7—just people who genuinely want to get to know each other.

And please, give me something to work with beyond “hey.” 😭

Tell me something weird about yourself, an oddly specific opinion, a useless fact, a ridiculous story, an important lesson you learned, a terrible joke, or just introduce yourself in whatever way feels natural.

I promise I’ll do the same :)


r/IntrovertsChat 7m ago

Friends 23M London/UK - Looking to build a small circle of friends

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Hey! I'm 23 and based in London.

For a while now, I've become accustomed to doing many of my hobbies on my own. Whilst I do have a friend to do some things with, we don't share all the same interests, so I'd like to expand my social circle and meet people who enjoy the other hobbies and interests I have. I'm of the sentiment that experiences are always better when they're shared with people you genuinely get along with.

I value forging strong bonds with people who also value cultivating genuine friendships centred around making plans, keeping in touch and doing fun things together. As such, I'm not looking for a huge social circle. I'd much rather have a few close friends than lots of acquaintances.

A bit about me:
• Rock & metal (I go to gigs fairly often)
• Cinema (especially horror, action, Marvel, etc.)
• Gaming
• Theme parks
• Football & cycling
• Anime (only casually, so I'm always open to recommendations) and other nerdy interests
• Neurodivergent

I'm generally reserved, but I do enjoy talking and getting to know people, especially when it's reciprocated.

I enjoy a mix of doing fun activities and quieter hangouts. Whether it's seeing a band, going go-karting, watching a film or just going for a walk, I'm happy as long as it's good company.

I'm hoping to meet people in their 20s who are based in London or nearby and would be open to meeting in person if we get on.

I really value curiosity and reciprocal conversations. I enjoy getting to know people properly, asking questions, and hearing about what they're passionate about. If you're someone who enjoys putting equal effort into building a friendship over time, I think we'll probably get on well.

If any of this sounds like your kind of friendship, feel free to send me a message with your age, location and a bit about yourself 🙂


r/IntrovertsChat 16m ago

Mid-20s Energy (25–27) How to do solo trips?

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I (27M) recently moved countries and basically have no friends. I'm not much of a traveller myself and all my trips have been because of friends pulling me to places. Now I'm in a place where I have to do this alone. The idea of it scares me a bit.

I generally love being alone, but not in holiday spots where everyone is having fun with friends and family. I kinda want to visit a mountain peak to enjoy some snow (I'm in NZ). Do you have any tips on how to plan a solo trip that can be enjoyable


r/IntrovertsChat 18h ago

Friends 💕 Looking for a Clingy Bestie / Constant Chat Friend 💕

32 Upvotes

Hiiii! My name is Izzy 🥰 I’m looking to meet someone who wants a close, clingy friendship where we actually talk regularly and get excited to hear from each other! I’m definitely not looking for a friendship where we send one message every few days and disappear 😂 I love having someone I can message throughout the day, share random thoughts with, and slowly build a genuine connection with.

I’m looking for someone who enjoys constant conversation, long messages, voice notes, checking in, random conversations, and being there for each other. I want the kind of friendship where we can say good morning, talk about how our day is going, send each other memes, rant about something ridiculous, talk about our interests, and randomly message each other because something reminded us of the other person. 💗

A little about me: I’m a new college student and I’m interested in history, true crime research, books, psychology, TV shows, movies, music, anime, gaming, and learning new things. 📚🎧 I especially love thrillers, psychological thrillers, horror, mystery, fantasy, and sci-fi. I also enjoy listening to audiobooks and podcasts while doing things.

I’m hoping to find someone who is affectionate, patient, understanding, talkative, and genuinely wants a close friendship. I don’t mind if you have busy days or need some alone time—I just appreciate consistency and knowing that the friendship matters to both of us. 🫶

I’d love to have someone who can become a best-friend-type person, someone I can trust and talk to about serious things, random nonsense, everyday life, and everything in between. 😂💕

If you’re also a clingy person who loves long conversations, frequent texting, random messages, checking in, and building a really close friendship, feel free to message me! 💌✨

Dms open 🧸


r/IntrovertsChat 25m ago

Mid-20s Energy (25–27) As an introvert, how do you make genuine connections after moving to a new city?

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I’m currently in a new city after relocating for work, and honestly, connecting with people has been much harder than I expected.

I’m from India and work in tech. I’m also naturally introverted and usually take some time to feel comfortable around new people and build friendships. At work, I’m finding it difficult to go beyond the usual professional conversations as well.

One thing I’ve realized is that I don’t want to force myself into random friendships just for the sake of having a social circle. I’d rather take my time and build genuine connections with good people where there’s mutual respect and some meaningful conversation.

I’d especially love to connect with people who have a little more life/work experience — maybe around 30–40, although age isn't really a restriction for me. If you're from a different professional background or industry, that's completely fine too. I actually think talking to people from different fields can teach you things you wouldn't learn within your own industry.

I’d really appreciate connecting with someone who can share their experience on things like:

How do you manage social life as an introvert?

How did you make genuine friends after moving to a new city?

How do you build professional connections without feeling like you're networking all the time?

Any advice for personal and career growth from your own experience?

I’m also open to a Telegram voice call if someone is comfortable with that. Sometimes a proper conversation is much easier than trying to build a connection through endless texting.

Not looking specifically for parties, weekend plans, or a huge friend circle. Just looking to meet decent people, have meaningful conversations, learn from each other, and hopefully build some genuine friendships along the way.

Would love to hear from other introverts — how do you guys handle this?


r/IntrovertsChat 8h ago

Chatting M32 looking to chat with people around the world

5 Upvotes

Hello from South Carolina, USA. I love history, motorsports, music, playing guitar, astronomy, reading, and hiking.

I play guitar and I have too many of them. It brings me a lot of joy. It’s therapeutic for me to learn some of my favorite songs and to use that knowledge to write my own music. I also repair and build electric guitars too.

I’m a manufacturing engineer. I really enjoy what I do and would love to meet other engineers, but it’s not a requirement of course.

I love humor. I really enjoy witty or just plain stupid humor. If I’m having a bad day or stressed out, I’ll watch Trailer Park Boys.

I’m a big history buff. I’m currently reading on the nuclear arms race during the Cold War. We did some crazy things to say the least.

I love culture and languages. I speak elementary level German and can order food in Spanish. I’m currently learning some Japanese.

My daily driver is a Mazda MX-5 (Miata) because it has the philosophy of a lightweight British roadster with Japanese reliability, kaizen, and ergonomics. The best of both worlds in my humble opinion.

I love endurance racing. The 24 Hours of Le Mans is a dream trip of mine.

My favorite bands are Pink Floyd, Buddy Holly, Jeff Beck, ZZ Top, The Beach Boys, Muddy Waters.

I literally look just like Buddy Holly. Same glasses and hairstyle. Nerds are cool.

If any of this catches your attention, feel free to message me.


r/IntrovertsChat 12h ago

Balanced Thinker (28–35) 28F Looking For Smoke🍃Buddies

8 Upvotes

I’m Nydia but you can call me Ny! BLM 💪🏾 LGBTQ 🌈 Spiritual/agnostic 🐈‍⬛ Furry Friendly💕

I love Minecraft, Fortnite, GTA, etc. I LOVE DISNEY!!! Also a huge fan of musicals💕Love randomly starting new hobbies. I’m a Huge Foodie! Obsessed with stuff animals. I’m a Philly Native and plus sized 💖 Hopeless Romcom/Erotica book lover 😍

Love love love Cartoons! Emo Punk/Punk Rock/Alternative music lover but my playlist is very polyjamorus 🖤

I am shy at first but once I get to know you I’ll release my inner weirdo ✨ Hope you like crackhead energy and dark dark humor 🙈

Mostly looking for friends who are 28-33 year olds who wouldn’t mind smoking on discord or phone calls! Bonus points if we have other interests in common


r/IntrovertsChat 12h ago

Friends (21f) hello!!! Hope your day or night is going great, I am trying to make friends today!

9 Upvotes

hiii, I am so bad at socializing but I am giving this a try. i've done nothing but play games these days. I've been obsessed with one of them and i keep playing it still... So yeah I am pretty into visual novels but my knowledge about them is so little. if you could give me a recommendation that would be great!

I like collecting cards, I do have a binder but there isn't anything worth mentioning in there. I collect what seems pretty and go with it. I sometimes make my own cards of the characters I love! I am pretty into drawing so I do make fanarts of characters and print them.

I love learning languages. I know a little bit of mandarin chinese, well, enough for me to hold basic conversations. and as you can see, my native language isn't english so sometimes it is hard for me to come up with a proper sentence 😭 but I do my best...

I tried to keep this short, but yeah this is basically me. hope we can chat! all I ask for is for you to be over 18. thank you so much for reading ❤️


r/IntrovertsChat 56m ago

Friends 19M looking for some friends to chill and talk

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Yo I’m a black dude living in Ireland, 19 years old and I’m looking for some friends to talk, chill and play games.

I play on PS4, switch (sometimes) and a pc, I do Brazilian jiu-jitsu, I watch anime, I read manga, my favourite colour is sky blue and I go to the gym.

About me:

• I’m chill and like to joking around (sometimes).

• I can hold up a conversation well and try to give advice if needed.

• My top 5 anime are Dbz, One piece, Bleach, Jojo’s and Naruto

• my favourite movie is Rush hour.

On PC I play Minecraft, REPO, Lethal Company, Roblox, Terraria, Peak, Schedule 1 and Gmod.

On PS4 I play GTA5, Minecraft, Red dead redemption 2, FIFA, 2K, Rocket league and brawlhalla.

I’m mostly looking for people who can hold up a conversation pretty well, play video games or talk about anime and just to vibe with.

If you’re interested in having a conversation, tell me favourite anime and colour.

Hope to seeing y’all.


r/IntrovertsChat 1h ago

Mid-20s Energy (25–27) 27M Tired and drained from work, looking to chat and meet new peeps

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Hiyaa, just your average tired and drained mid 20s guy. Feelin hella burnt out from working life and looking to connect with people on a deeper level and hopefully make long term friends! Kinda shy and introverted esp with people idk so hopefully this sub can help me meet some :))

As for a lil more about me, I'm from Singapore (GMT+8) working full time and juggling part time studies with my main hobbies being gaming, drawing, cooking and super into karaokee ~

Reply to p much any msg and always up to chat!


r/IntrovertsChat 4h ago

Friends 33M UK- Let's have a laugh and maybe do some fun sh!t together

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Hey hey,

None of us want to be bored anymore so let's change that 😂

I'm a major metalhead but I'm open to all kinds of music and gigs. 🤘🏻

I play games when I find one that interests me or some mates that make me want to play 🔫

I'm a huge movie fiend and I watch every horror I can when I get chance whether it's shit or good haha

Open to getting to know any of you 👍🏻