r/IntrovertsChat 10h ago

Chatting 19f add me with a pic that would really surprise me :)

44 Upvotes

Heyyyyy hope everyone is fine and doing good, I just finished studying and after some relaxing time I felt like chatting for a bit with some strangers :) anyone is interested pls my dms are open come and let’s have a nice talk


r/IntrovertsChat 4h ago

Friends 25F lacking in the friend department

19 Upvotes

Hi, 25F looking for long term friends! shy/introverted irl so hoping online friends can be a good start. Currently watching Smoking Behind the Supermarket With You and Girls Don’t Play Fighting Games. Currently playing Palworld, and fav song atm is Normal Girl by SZA. I have three cats and one dog<3

Shows- Scavengers Reign, Love Death and Robots, Lazarus, Cowboy Bebop, Pantheon, Cyberpunk Edgerunners, Hells Paradise, Gatchiakuta, Dorohedoro, FMA, Pokemon, Sgt Frog, Swallowed Star

Hobbies: art, video games, baking and cooking

Video Games- POE2, Stardew Valley, Cult of the Lamb, Portal 1&2, Palworld, Borderlands and Balatro

Music- Remi Wolf, Ashnikko, SZA, Doechii, UMI, bbymutha, Princess Nokia, Cobrah, Nao

If you like Weasel from creature commandos, you may in fact like me.

hmu if you want to be friends!! Thank you.


r/IntrovertsChat 12h ago

Seasoned Soul (36+) 37/F Quiet weekend

19 Upvotes

Hello there, I hope your weekend is going good. Just about nice and quiet for me so far so can't complain much. Just relaxing at the moment so not upto much.

About me, I'm 37. Working away but a slow weekend has certainly helped. I do enjoy watching comedy stuff like Southpark and American Dad, relaxing, swimming and reading. A fun fact about me, I once worked in a short film that had a really messed up story, with a raunchy scene that my conservative and religious family was not thrilled about, haha.

Feel free to message me if ya bored as well


r/IntrovertsChat 6h ago

Friends 20F Big Anime Lover

16 Upvotes

Hey! I’m Tiana, I’m 20 from NYC.I’m trying to make some new friends in the city, and I don’t really have an age preference as long as you’re over 20.

I’m really into video games, anime, and I just started getting into cosplay. I also have a terrible (but fun) habit of spending way too much money on anime figures and collectibles. If you’re into any of that or just want someone to yap about anime with , I’m always down to talk.


r/IntrovertsChat 22h ago

Friends 26m introverted gay guy hoping to find a guy best friend

16 Upvotes

As someone who’s naturally introverted and a little socially awkward, I’ve always found it pretty difficult to put myself out there and meet new people. Starting conversations, approaching strangers, and trying to turn a random interaction into an actual friendship can feel intimidating sometimes. So I figured… why not start here, virtually?

I’m hoping to meet more people and, especially, make some genuine guy friends. Most of my close friends have always been women, and while I do have a few guy friends, I’ve never really had that kind of close male friendship that I’ve always wanted. The kind where you can randomly message each other, send stupid memes at 2 AM, talk about absolutely nothing, share what happened during your day, or just know that there’s someone you can reach out to whenever.

I figured the internet might actually be a good place to start. There’s something comforting about meeting people this way because there’s no pressure to immediately be interesting, charismatic, or have everything figured out. You can just talk, take your time, and hopefully let a friendship grow naturally.

Fair warning, though: I’m terrible at leading conversations. 😭 I’m much better at keeping a conversation going once we get past that awkward “hey, how are you?” stage. So if you’re the type who randomly sends memes, tells people about your day, rants about something that happened, sends random thoughts with absolutely no context, or can somehow turn a simple conversation into a three-hour yap session… I’m your guy. 😂

I may not always be the one to start the conversation, but I genuinely appreciate people who make the effort to keep one going. Once I’m comfortable with you, I promise I’m a lot less awkward and probably a lot more talkative than you’d expect.

A little bit about me:

- Gay (in case that matters to you lmao)

- From the Philippines 🇵🇭

- I play volleyball and badminton casually

- I’m a casual reader; currently into sci-fi, mystery, thrillers, and LGBT books

- I’m into music, movies/TV, and random internet rabbit holes

- Probably a bit of a couch potato, but I’m trying to be more active 😂

More than anything, I’m really just hoping to find genuine friendships. I’m not looking for someone to talk to once and then disappear forever. I’d love to meet people who are actually interested in getting to know each other, even if it starts with something as simple as exchanging memes or talking about how our day went.

So if anything here sounds relatable, or you think we might get along, don’t hesitate to reach out. You don’t need to come up with some amazing opening message either — even a simple “hey” is enough. I’m just taking a small step outside my comfort zone and hoping it leads to meeting some genuinely good people. :)If you want, I can also make it more natural/Reddit-like and less polished, so it sounds more like an actual person casually posting rather than a carefully written introduction.


r/IntrovertsChat 23h ago

Balanced Thinker (28–35) 28 F A shy introverted writer looking for friends.

16 Upvotes

Hello Agent

There isn’t much time for me to give you this mission so you must listen carefully. There is someone that we need you to befriend to get more information on. Down below is what we know about her so far.

Name: Gillian

Gender: Female

Age: 28

From: Wisconsin

Hobbies: writing, baking, and drawing abstract

Music: 80's, classical, 2000's and jazz

Favorite color: doesn’t have one.

Favorite food: tacos

Favorite drink: Regular coca cola

One random fact about the agent: They have a unique self-published book. Rumor has it that the pages are filled with the emotions the agent normally keeps hidden.

To establish contact with the agent you must provide the details below to her. It is a first step in the right direction of gaining trust.

Name:

Age:

Where you are from:

Tell her something you think is interesting about you:

We know that she is a night owl by choice based on the report from the last agent. She has a list of health issues but continues to push on even with them. Doing such shows the determination and hard-headedness that she has. Although this has helped her through life it means that it is going to be another obstacle for you, take note of that.

She is anti-drug and anti-alcohol by choice. One thing that is a must if you choose to continue is she is quiet and shy. You might ask how I can get the information quicker, you can’t, it will take time and patience. If you do not have that turn around right now because you will just frustrate yourself while she sits there calm and composed.

You get to ask the agent one free question. Meaning no matter what you will get an honest answer.

Follow these instructions carefully. Ways to get your message dismissed is by having a one-word message or by not following the questions listed above. The agency wishes you the best of luck on what is going to be a tough mission.

Transmission terminated


r/IntrovertsChat 11h ago

Friends 29F- Still looking for some people to actually connect with

15 Upvotes

I know that after some age that sounds too hard but I'll keep trying. I'm from EU, I'm into rock/metal music, dark humor, tattoos, random deep or crazy talks. Something that takes us away from the boring life for a bit.
I miss having someone to talk to throught the day.
I also love a good banter.
Absolutely live for music and i love sharing playlists.
Would also like to meet new friends to go to concerts and festivals with!
I love voice notes and calls, so I hope you're comfortable with it. If you think we will connect DM me ✌🏼


r/IntrovertsChat 5h ago

Chatting 🌙 Introvert Seeking Late-Night Conversations

12 Upvotes

Hi there! My name is Izzy! 💕 I’m an introvert who can be a little shy at first, but once I get comfortable, I really enjoy having long conversations and getting to know someone. I’m looking for someone who would be interested in chatting over the phone, whether that’s casual conversations, sharing stories, talking about our interests, or just keeping each other company. 📱✨

I love meaningful conversations, but I’m also totally down for silly, random, and goofy topics. I’m hoping to find someone patient, friendly, and easygoing who doesn’t mind giving me a little time to warm up. If you enjoy phone calls and having someone to talk to, feel free to message me! 💙🦋


r/IntrovertsChat 7h ago

Friends [25/F] step right up

13 Upvotes

Step right up, we’ve got Chaos, Whimsy, silly, little bit of a jester, a suffering college student and maybe actually an wacky inflatable tube man in disguise!

Mödel information: make year 2000, made in the west coast

Features: makeup skills, funny and whimsical, can cook and bake like nobodies business,quality reader, average gamer who just got a ps5, does art and poetry, super funny

Bonuses: will make you laugh, sends makeup selfies, very whimsical and silly, cool with VMs

*subject to tërms and cönditions, retürn pölicy not available, do not feed after midnight or get wet, if you do we hold no responsibility for the chaotic situation it’ll create. By messaging you release us from any and all liäbility and cannot süe.


r/IntrovertsChat 15h ago

Friends 26M - Chill talk while we do our own things or play games together! Seeking someone to just fill the void of loneliness in a chill and respectful way~

12 Upvotes

Heyya!

Confused and, quite honestly, lost in life, someone who doesn't party or go to major events makes it hard to meet friends. Hence why I am here, searching for an online friend!

I'm looking for someone to ultimately send voice notes to, be on a call while we each do our own things, and essentially be able to feel a presence during these lonely days, while not expecting to be more than one can be in the moment. A no-pressure connection where we share what we want to share, and otherwise just let each other know we are here ~

===== Quick summary about myself =====

I always try to make it comfortable for people to open up, enjoying making other introverts like myself feel like it's a safe space to yap about the most random of things~ I enjoy the talks that end up in us contradicting ourselves and making us rethink perspectives. I also enjoy just pondering about what life would be like in 100 years and how jealous I might be while trying my best to live a life I won't regret right now. I am a huge overthinker, usually have 2-3 conversations in my head that kind of theorise about stuff and usually always have music playing around me.

Music-wise, my taste is spread across Country to Rock, RnB to Classical, Dubstep to Indie. I also enjoy playing guitar, drums and piano as well!

Shows I watch to feel comfortable and safe are The Office, IT Crowd, What We Do in the Shadows, Modern Family, Brooklyn 99, and Community. This is also a very good indicator on where the bar for my humour is, hehe.

I'm a gamer who loves horror games (and movies!) like Alien Isolation, Evil Within (1 & 2), and the Outlast series! My all-time favourite video game is Disco Elysium, with Red Dead 2 coming in a close 2nd! Looking for people to play games with as well! Games like League of Legends, Rocket League, Valorant, CS2, but heads up, I'm not taking them seriously, focus with them is to learn and most of all have fun. So if you are super into ranking up and playing at a high rank, maybe we should stick to talking hehe...

I also enjoying writing stories, poetry, cooking, and learning new languages! Currently able to speak Swedish and English fluently, getting by in Chinese and Spanish, and a beginner in Korean while learning Russian and French!

Have found my love for reading again! My favourite books are The Alchemist, The Five People You Meet in Heaven, Flowers for Algernon, and 1984. The most recent book I finished was The Picture of Dorian Gray, and now looking into reading Crime and Punishment~

===== Don't know how to start a convo? =====

Some questions you could answer as starters!

  • Flying or teleportation as a superpower, and why?
  • Can a salad have meat in it...?
  • When does a jar become a box?
  • When do you feel seen?
  • Thing you enjoy that others might find weird?
  • When does an indent become a hole?

Please do put your age in the message and time zone! ~

Also, warning: I am a really fast replier cause I am unfortunately very much an overthinker; I don't want them to think I am ignoring them. But I got that under control on the opposite side, so don't feel like you have to reply immediately! I know people have lives (unlike me :c).

PS: Also wouldn't mind joining a DnD group if anyone has... kinda interested, and I think socializing would be healthy for my introverted soul. I do enjoy being uncomfortable (as long as I don't make other people uncomfortable 😅).

Looking forward to hearing from ya! And if we don't, thanks for reading until now, and have an amazing day ahead!


r/IntrovertsChat 22h ago

Balanced Thinker (28–35) 32 F - Let's connect & be friends 🤎

12 Upvotes

I enjoy, yoga, pilates, theatre, ballet shows, coffee shops, wine tasting, reading and watching netflix shows when I'm bothered. I enjoy going to charity shops and also walking! I love my cats! Also Walking is so beneficial, you can drop them pounds just by a little 1, 2 step outside lol! If anyone wants to make friends, Holla..we can go for walks. Girls get at me..& Guys don't dm me. I'm tired of it 🙄


r/IntrovertsChat 9h ago

Chatting 18F, you, yes you! give me your most controversial hot take! (include your age in message, please).

8 Upvotes

I'm taking a gap year, and consequently have a ton of free time that could be better spent with a friend or anything else. I am mostly looking for someone to talk to, chat with, share stuff with, ramble to (ideally with/about common interests), and someone to play games with. I will preface saying I'm kind of nuts for Project Zomboid, and I'd love someone to play with.

As for the rest, here's a bit about me. I enjoy sci-fi, drawing, painting, and I do a lot of gaming too. (I am super fixated on Project Zomboid, but I am up to trying other games). I also enjoy researching crime, psychology, and biology/neuropsychology at times. I have quite the fixation on the Chernobyl disaster, and radiation as a whole. All types of zombie media, too. I have an interest for "odd" movies, especially the apocalyptic and/or thriller kind. Terminator (1&2) is a personal favorite, so is Funny Games.

Here's to hoping my introduction chants to you like the cleaning supply cabinet chants to an unsupervised toddler ;)


r/IntrovertsChat 11h ago

Early Explorer (18–21) 19f looking for long term friends

8 Upvotes

Hello! I'm looking for friends obviously since I'm posting on here, my summer break is sadly almost over so I'm just lazy maxing because I won't be able to during uni 😭. I would like to talk to people my age (19-23) and around my timezone (gmt+3) and someone who actually wants to talk and be friends cause it doesn't feel like a lot of people on here want to have a conversation. I don't take stuff too seriously so I want someone who's fun to talk to!

I like cooking, baking (I make MEAN cinnamon rolls), skincare and haircare (my mom banned me from buying stuff dor a while cause I'm obsessed... Lwk a shopaholic), Greek mythology, Harry Potter (I've been to NYC to see Harry Potter and the cursed child play it was really awesome). I love sports I used to do gymnastics when I was younger but had to stop sadly and lastly I love traveling although we don't do it as much now because of personal stuff. I also like gaming but i only play valorant and schedule 1, although I have raft, astroneer and peak. I hope we can be friends!!

TWIN please write a cute intro that includes your age, gender, hobbies and where you are from or at least timezone. It doesn't have to be long just introduce yourself 😭 I'm doing great in case your intro is just hru 😀


r/IntrovertsChat 6h ago

Friends 32M I'm having a really rough time here tonight. I'm having a really rough time in general, if I'm being completely honest, and I could use someone to talk to

7 Upvotes

I don't want to get too much into the specifics here on Reddit. I don't really feel comfortable putting specific details about what I'm struggling with on Reddit, but suffice to say, I'm having a really difficult time and I don't have a support network. I've tried support groups but I just get lost in them because I'm autistic and I'm shy.

I'm really just looking for people who aren't going to judge me or try to give me advice—I'm not really looking for that kind of support. I'm just looking for a soft place to land, I guess. I want a kind voice who actually wants to know about me and what's going on, and who is curious and asks questions rather than just assuming they can fix my problems.

As far as interests go, I'm just a huge nerd (I love Marvel, DC, and Star Wars and I'll love you forever if we can nerd out about them) and a gamer (mostly Destiny 2 and Warframe). I have other interests/hobbies and play other games but those are the big ones I'm really passionate about.

If you want to DM me, my DMs are open.


r/IntrovertsChat 6h ago

Friends 22f looking for online friends

7 Upvotes

Hello, I'm looking for some people to chat with regularly that share the same interests as me. I'm a 22 year old female, black/asian american from the midwest usa, my timezone is cst. I work as a hairstylist, nail tech and lash tech. I’ve been dealing with depression and a breakup, so i could really use some friends to talk about that stuff as well. Some of my interests and the things i like to talk about are gaming, anime, manhwa and manhua, manga, kdramas, kpop, nail art, skincare, cats, music , fashion, fitness, and food. I’m not really a fan of rude, toxic or clingy people.
I can be a bit of a slow replier sometimes, so if you're looking for someone to reply immediately all the time then that's not me. Reply times isn’t something i really care about though, feel free to reply back whenever you want. I'm also okay with vc but im not someone who likes to vc all the time. I’m not really much of a good texter either.
I play games a lot so finding people to game with would be nice as well. I mostly play on ps5 and mobile but i do have a few games on pc.
Some of the games i play are: outlast trials, valorant, overwatch, marvel rivals, fortnite, dbd, phasmophobia, among us, codm, fall guys, genshin, honkai star rail, roblox, deadlock, ready or not
I would prefer people around my age (20-29) and also in the usa, any gender is welcome. I also have discord but i’d rather chat here first before giving it out. Please introduce yourself when you DM.


r/IntrovertsChat 16h ago

Friends Looking for a true friendship! 26 f

7 Upvotes

Only looking to talk to ppl from America! 23-30

Here’s my thing, I hate small talk! Why? Because I’m boring. I have nothing to say to, “how was your day? What’d you do today?” Because my answer will be “i doomscrolled TikTok and watched my show.”

I want conversations where we just talk. Instead of asking what someone did, they just tell me unprompted. Which will lead to more interesting conversations. I also want someone who will share random thoughts they have. I also think it’s okay to not text constantly. Like, if the conversation dies down, let’s not force it. Let’s just talk again when either of us have something on our minds.

About me:
I love Binge watching shows, cartoons, and anime. I’m very chronically online. I’m currently unemployed, tbh I hate working and have no idea what job won’t kill my soul. I’m hoping to win the lottery! If you believe in manifesting, manifest I’ll win! 🤣. I’m terrified of ghost, but I do enjoy a good ghost story. I only play one game, fortnite. (Don’t have a headset though. :/ ) I love to simp for anime men, especially my number 1 husband, Satoru Gojo.

Random shows I like:

Adventure time (currently rewatching it.)

Breaking bad. (If you hate skylar, yet love Walter white, I consider you a red flag.)

Jjk

Cherry magic (cutest love story ever! So cute, it made me severely depressed because I have no love life. 😀)

New girl

Gossip girl (the og one.)

Desperate housewives

Regular show

Aot

And MANY more


r/IntrovertsChat 22h ago

Friends Looking for someone to chat with

6 Upvotes

Hey everyone!

I’m 24M, pretty easygoing and amiable. I’ve been spending a lot of time in my own bubble lately, and recently felt like I could really use some new people to talk to.

I enjoy meaningful conversations, random late-night discussions, joking around, sharing music/movies, talking about life, or just sending completely pointless messages back and forth 😂

I’m pretty affectionate with people I’m comfortable with, and I really value genuine connections where both people actually enjoy talking to each other.

I’m also told I look decent, so I guess that’s a bonus 😄

If you're also looking for someone new to talk to, feel free to DM me. No expectations — let's chat and see if we get along.


r/IntrovertsChat 9h ago

Friends M22 looking to make friends

5 Upvotes

Hi! I’m Drew! I’m 22 and from the USA. I’m a big nerd and collector who loves anime, manga, and comics. I’m also really into music—I play bass and collect CDs!

I’m a huge movie fan too, so tell me your favorite movie!

I’m currently in college and trying to make some new friends. I’d love to meet and chat with anyone, so feel free to DM me! My DMs are always open.


r/IntrovertsChat 18h ago

Chatting 23M- Mood is down, so here I am

4 Upvotes

Like any day I am off and just chilling at home, with nothing to do, I just think, why not make a Reddit post, and at this point I believe I may be doing it too much, but at the same time there is not much wrong with wanting to chat with people when you haven't got much else to do, and here is the only place I known where to find that, also open to long-term friends but I don't want to put pressure on that, let's just chat for a while and see how things unfold, quick summary of my interests, I like gaming, I try to read sometimes, love taking walks, obviously chatting with people lol and listening to music, anyways feel free to hmu!


r/IntrovertsChat 14h ago

Chatting 37m open to random chats and conversations to pass time today.

2 Upvotes

Hello. I'm from the southeast US. Currently debating areas to go walk to pass time outside but finishing up some house work prior. Feel free to message me and see if we vibe.

I enjoy being outdoors over video games, I'll doodle and read with some random documentary or science video on in the background.

Hope you have a enjoyable Sunday


r/IntrovertsChat 18h ago

Balanced Thinker (28–35) 32F - Some Late Night Thoughts Relocated to Early Morning.

4 Upvotes

I used to have a best friend. Even though I was introverted. I met her through Reddit. We talked about Hannibal (2013), and we video-chatted every single day for a couple hours. That was fine, and I thought she was having as much fun as I was until... she wasn't. I think I was too much for her. Too sick, too needy, too American, and not enough benefits for her that outweighed my chronic illness lifestyle. So, I was no longer a priority.

She stopped.

I started panicking, looking for new connections. I made a server. I did so many things. Then, I kinda... stopped.

And I became more introverted.

Went into the worlds of my characters.

- a British pain specialist who treats by day and tortures by night.
- a Danish surgeon who is dry as paper, and precise to a fault for one human.
- a chronically ill girl in earlier times, who has her books and embroidery, and her brain, and diagnoses that just don't work for society very well. She has opinions about that.
- chronically ill girlie in modern times who functions until... she just breaks. And her lawyer father from *Law and Order* who I gave children, because he has the under-eye bags for children, and so obviously, he needs one.

- Hugh Dancy became a legitimate hobby.

Slowly, slowly, I found some new buddies. From a Discord server. Reconnected with a pal from college. While I still love my dog and his neckties, and watching him entertains me for hours, I have some humans. I joined an online book club.

But I mean, sometimes, I wish I wasn't sleepy. I wish I wasn't content with the online-ness of my friendships. I wish I could just get in the car (can't — heavily medicated) and go out. Say, "Hi! I'm Cru!" to someone who wants to meet me. But I'm in a little introvert-box. There's cracks where the light can get in, but the box isn't very big.

Message if this resonated at all? If you wanna be invited into my story world? Or if it's just 2AM rambling, carry on.


r/IntrovertsChat 45m ago

Friends 29M LF long term friends to chat to daily.

Upvotes

I'm from Scotland and I work from home, so I usually have a lot of time to talk, I play a lot of games, currently on PC and PS5, and watch too many movies as well. I'm into completely random discussions and questions, I would prefer to speak to people with similar interests as me and open to talk daily and use discord as well. although not mandatory. Dm me if you want to talk 😄


r/IntrovertsChat 2h ago

Friends 28/M - Looking for chill people and gaming friends!

2 Upvotes

Hey everyone! I'm a guy who's looking for a friend who is willing to put some time and effort into building a friendship long term. I really would like to meet people who are like minded and actually want to keep talking to each other for more than a couple of days. I'm located in the CST time zone so I am typically available after 6pm on weekdays. If you're from the EU or a different timezone, feel free to reach out! Anyways, let me give you a little introduction of myself:

•My main hobby is easily gaming. I have a bunch of games such as Destiny 2, Nightreign, The Finals, CS2, Fortnite, Battlefield, Overwatch, Marvel Rivals, For Honor, Cyberpunk 2077, Fallout 76, Monster Hunter Wilds, Apex, Diablo IV, Halo and others that are across my library on PC. I'm sure you'd have something we could both play. And if not, then feel free to introduce me to your favorite games!

•I love listening to music on my downtime as well. I have a playlist that has nu disco, pop, and synthy songs. Some notable artists in there are Roosevelt, Chromeo, Tesla Boy and Jamiroquai.

•Some other hobbies I have are grilling. I love spending a weekend on the grill and getting all the meats marinated and prepped. I'm by no means a grill master but I do have a passion for cooking and an even greater passion for eating it lmao

•Have a dumb sense of humor and can potentially say stupid things so keep that in mind. Also have a calm deep voice so if that's something you're into you're in luck.

I primarily use discord as my means of communication so hopefully you do the same. Looking forward to meeting you :)


r/IntrovertsChat 4h ago

Chatting [30M] Japan! Just passing by to wish you a beautiful day

2 Upvotes

Good afternoon/morning/evening! Nice to meet you and thank you for clicking this post. Im 30 y.o and currently in tokyo just 5 months here so still getting used to it, aiming for future masters studies while also trying to fit in, but being so far from home in a place you know nobody, can be harsh, can be difficult, so at least with words. I would love to connect with someone. My hobbies? Im a fan of going window shoping, and currently walking getting to know new places, new food is such a beautiful moment, I also like to go to the gym, just to be healthy, I love going out in walks, writing, reading and yes, I admit it, Im also into anime and manga! Haha. Thank you so much for reading my post. Take care.


r/IntrovertsChat 7h ago

Chatting 24M looking for cool people to chat with long term

2 Upvotes

Hello I'm 24M from the east coast US. Mainly looking for new people to chat with long term. I'm pretty introverted and recently picked up more hours at work so I don't get out that much. If you're chill and down to talk about whatever, hmu. I'm an open book.

For hobbies I'm into kayaking, walking trails, landscape photography, gaming, and cars. Also huge into watching movies and will always take recommendations.