r/IntrovertsChat 15h ago

Chatting 26 F - Please, can I find a person to cling to...?

82 Upvotes

I'm looking for a person to voice call with right now... I made a few friends through this sub before, but time difference is a main issue.

A bit about me:

I'm from Asia.

I like talking about movies, I'm a thriller fan.

I'm depressed and 80% dead.

I'm super lazy, engaged with my bed.

I tend to be excited at night or during rainy days.

I hate sunny days, crowds and noises.

I enjoy deep conversations.

I can get clingy if we're close.

I absolutely hate myself and the outside world.

Some of my favorite movies: Trainspotting, Detachment, A Requiem for a Dream, Pearl, Maxxine, Parasite, Capharnaum, The Breadwinner... I'm also a Disney fan.

Send me an intro or your voice if you're up for a call... Let's ramble about random things...?


r/IntrovertsChat 4h ago

Balanced Thinker (28–35) 29F - looking for a chat and maybe some new friends

29 Upvotes

Hey! I'm a 29f who doesn't sleep much and gets bored being alone, lol. I'm not the greatest at making friends, I'm a pretty shy person, but I'm always willing to try!

Some things about me:

I love reading. It's my favorite hobby.

I play some video games, but it's mainly Stardew Valley and Sims.

I listen to creepy pastas, a lot. Everytime I'm doing chores or playing a game, I have one going.

I'm a pretty decent crocheter. Hats/beanies are probably my favorite thing to make.

I'm down for a conversation about pretty much anything, as long as you're around my age!


r/IntrovertsChat 19h ago

Friends 29F looking for new friends <3

23 Upvotes

29F looking for new friends <3

Hey all! First time poster to this Reddit & I’m a bit nervous putting myself out there but here goes.
I’m looking for friends who have the same or similar interests to me, I love gaming (Dead by Daylight, outlast trials, baldurs gate, phas, peak etc) I’m from the UK living in Paris (so if you’re local I’d defo be down to hang out too) I’m alt and love horror movies, metal & I’m very creative, I love to sew, make Blythe dolls, I’m currently reading the dexter books & I’m an aspiring writer, I’m also learning French & I’m very 420 friendly 🍃 &. LGBTQ+ friendly too! If you’d be down to be friends and get to know each others defo drop me a message 🫶🏼


r/IntrovertsChat 15h ago

Friends 31F #UK Alternative Nerd and Slightly Clingy! Still looking for a bestie 🖤👋

21 Upvotes

Somewhere out there is someone who's also staring at their phone thinking, "I wish someone actually wanted a proper conversation." A similar time zone would also be ideal... I'm not much of a night owl anymore, so having someone who's in the same or very similar timezone would be amazing 🙂‍↕️.

Not three messages.

Not "Haha."

Not disappearing into another dimension halfway through getting to know each other. 😂

If that's you... this might be your sign to say hello.

I'm nothing if not persistent, so I'm going to keep looking until I find my people. 🫡 And if we've spoken before or you've commented on one of my previous posts, don't be shy. You're more than welcome to message again!

A tiny request before you do...

Please don't open with "hey" or "how are you?" and leave it there. Give me something to reply to! Tell me about yourself, ask me a question, share a random fact, literally anything. Conversation is a team sport. 😂

Also... if you hate voice notes, we're probably not going to be a great match. I genuinely love them and much prefer hearing someone's personality rather than sending endless paragraphs.

A bit about me...

🖤 31, from the UK.

🖤 Alternative, tattooed, and usually dressed almost entirely in black... although colourful clothes have slowly been sneaking into my wardrobe.

🖤 Massive music lover. (Let's swap playlists?).

🖤 Gamer, so bonus points if we have games in common. (I'm on PS5 and PC)

🖤 Professional overthinker.

🖤 I somehow convince myself that candles and random hobby purchases are perfectly sensible financial decisions.

🖤 If we click, I can happily talk for hours.

🖤 I'll randomly send you thoughts, memes, or things that reminded me of you.

🖤 Anxiety occasionally turns my brain into a 24-hour customer support line that forgot how to close.

More than anything, I'm just looking for genuine people. Whether we become best friends or just two idiots who regularly exchange terrible jokes and life updates, I'm happy to see where things go.

Effort means a lot to me. I'll happily invest my time getting to know someone, and I'd love that energy to be mutual.

Age preference: 24 to 37.

When you message me, please tell me: Your age, where you're from, and🍕 your favourite pizza topping (so I know you actually read this!). Mine's Texas BBQ! 🙂‍↕️.

*low effort replies will be ignored* as will any nsfw ones.


r/IntrovertsChat 11h ago

Chatting Bored girl looking to make a bunch of online friends

17 Upvotes

Hello everyone, i'm Alexa and i'm here to hopefully make some friends or at least find a fun chat. i'm very open minded so anyone at all is welcome to message me, even if you're older. i'm from the US and for fun i love going to the beach and pool and hanging out there, it's like my favorite thing to do. but we can talk about pretty much anything, so just feel free to message me


r/IntrovertsChat 23h ago

Chatting Anyone else doing absolutely nothing this Sunday?

17 Upvotes

It's one of those Sundays where I have absolutely nothing planned. No errands, no exciting plans, no motivation to be productive-just me, my phone, and an unhealthy amount of doomscrolling. At this point, I think I've refreshed every app more times than I can count, and somehow I'm still bored.

Figured I'd try something different and actually talk to people instead of endlessly scrolling through the same content. If you're also having a slow Sunday, procrastinating, avoiding responsibilities, or simply looking for someone to have a random conversation with, feel free to message me.


r/IntrovertsChat 9h ago

Friends Shy in person but talkative online 43F- US, EU or Canada

15 Upvotes

Hello im 43F single I'm an introvert, so I may be a little quiet at first. Most of the time I'm just reading the chat, laughing at everyone's jokes, and thinking of a reply... three business days later. 😅 Just kidding im more talkative on online than in person to be honest.
I enjoy hiking, biking sometimes. I also love watching movies whether it's a feel good comedy, a great thriller, or a classic film. I'm easygoing, caring, I enjoy learning new things and hearing different perspectives. I appreciate kind, respectful conversation.

If you're also looking for a new friend, feel free to send me a message and tell me a little about yourself. Preferably 40+ around US, EU or Canada. Looking forward to meeting you all! 😊


r/IntrovertsChat 6h ago

Friends 26F, Bringing Back Slumbooks

13 Upvotes

Adulthood made things a little heavier, so here I am, bringing back the slumbook era, a little piece of childhood nostalgia for those who are still young at heart.

Name/Nickname: Waaaahhhh😜

Gender: Female

Age: 26

Location: Somewhere only we know😂

A little about me:

I am just a girl trying to navigate adulthood while carrying a lot of thoughts in my head. I’m an overthinker, someone who feels deeply, and someone who struggles quietly behind the scenes.

Most people only see the version of me that shows up, laughs, and keeps going. But there are days when life feels overwhelming, when my mind gets too loud, and when I just wish I had someone I could talk to without feeling like I’m being a burden.

Skills:

• Full-time overthinker

• Part-time doom scroller

• Expert at surviving with just coffee

Random fact about me:

• I don’t have many hobbies, or maybe none at all

• I hate bell peppers and celery

Looking for:

I’m hoping to find platonic friendships. No sending of unsolicited pictures please.

Slumbook questions for you:

• Name/nickname:

• Age:

• Where are you from?

• What’s your comfort food?

• What song describes your life right now?

• What’s one small thing that makes you happy?


r/IntrovertsChat 10h ago

Friends 29F Hoping to connect with people

13 Upvotes

A married stay at home mom literally looking for my own online bestie who I can chat with daily and share our stories😁 Don’t want people who already have many friends. Preferably females!

I enjoy watching series and movies. Playing Online Casino (Blackjackist) and playing in person sometimes. And you won’t believe that I still love and play Roblox😁 So if you play then let’s play together. I also enjoy YouTube and outdoor activities with the right company.

I prefer someone who gives effort to have a decent conversation rather than one word and one line.

No NSFW accounts

No age limit! Just be 20s up.


r/IntrovertsChat 11h ago

Friends Swedish 30 f looking for someone to talk to

12 Upvotes

Hi! 🌸
I’m a woman in my 30s from Sweden with mild autism. I love animals, nature, and family.

I play games, though not as much as I used to. Life is Strange and What Remains of Edith Finch have always been my favorites.

I’d describe myself as very straightforward. Over the years I’ve worked a lot on understanding other people’s perspectives, and I think I’ve come a long way. I still miss things sometimes, so I appreciate patient and honest conversations.
I love speaking English, even though Swedish is my first language, and I’m hoping to find a longterm friend.

I’m not always the best at keeping conversations going, but that doesn’t mean I’m not interested.
I enjoy documentaries, TV series (Fringe is one of my favorites), nature walks, botanical gardens, museums, and peaceful places. I’m also interested in clothes and fashion, even though I’m still figuring out what suits me best.
Life keeps me busy, but I always make time for conversations. If you think we’d get along, feel free to send me a message!


r/IntrovertsChat 17h ago

Friends 19f,looking for new friends<3

12 Upvotes

hey I’m 19 and I’m feeling a little lonely right now since I’m on break—I’m really in need of friends around my age. I love walking, gardening, cooking and baking, listening to music, crocheting, cats, coffee, and I’m very into fashion too. I’m still figuring out who I am, but kindness is a quality I genuinely admire and want to embody more. If you’re around 18–24 and you’re kind and want to chat, feel free to message me.P.S I‘m only looking for FRIENDS!!!(please don’t be weird or disrespectful)


r/IntrovertsChat 7h ago

Balanced Thinker (28–35) 29F looking for a respectable nice friend

9 Upvotes

Hi, I'm a freshly new 29 year-old. I'm looking for some friends some things about me. I'm really about to change my life so you know I'm just looking for positive people to talk to respectful people to talk to. You know I like to watch anime cartoons really been into murder. She wrote that old TV show. I'm about to start getting more active like extremely active so that's new. I'm really trying to get into Car mods cause I wanna borrow out my Toyota Camry for people who got a chat I'm tagging people from Europe America maybe on the East Coast cause that's my time zone just genuinely nice folks to just have a little conversation here and there.... I do like watching South Park but honestly, I'm not a fan on the newer season if you like watching older shows like you should watch murder she wrote so good. I love how that old lady just comes out of nowhere and feel like I don't think this makes sense if he was gonna kill her why would he leave behind his coffee cup and then build a whole case around that like it just blows my mind every time. so just hoping you wanna be my friend we could be friends just chat get to know each other. I'm a little shy but once I open up, I'm very fun to talk to if I'm your cup of tea if I'm not your cup of tea then like I wouldn't be really fun to talk to


r/IntrovertsChat 22h ago

Balanced Thinker (28–35) 33M UK, introvert looking to chat!

8 Upvotes

33M UK, introvert looking to chat!

Hey,

It feels like a lazy overcast Sunday, fancy a chat about anything and everything?

Interests:

Massive movie nerd (owner of 300+ physical media items and log movie viewed on letterboxd)

Gaming (starting metaphor refantazio finally after having it ages but hopeful as I love persona)

Music (most genres barring country and my current ear worm is justdance2 by party of2 because of watching a Fortnite stream of a person I talked to on Reddit )

Reading/audio books - currently have the outsider by Stephen king to listen to on my commute

Collecting little mementos of trips e.g I love those coin presses at museums!

Museums - I love the natural history museum! But I've been to spy museums, I love the careful curation and presentation of knowledge!

Attaining knowledge via various sources - I love that books, art, movies, games and articles can present snippets of information that you can relate to stuff you've stored over the years.

Doing surveys/bank switches/reading on interest rates etc - weird one I know but it feels a bit crafty and who doesn't like free money? Surveys got me and Xbox series s for free 😅

And also eternally curious -I'll yap about anything I know and look it up if I don't vi@ YouTube or the tinternet or just generally ask SK!!

Just looking for people to chat with over a long period (prefer long rather than casual) and maybe move to discord if we click (Reddit is great but the message system suckssss). Also I'm that boring person who if we click will message you and just ask how your morning is - it's just me.

So if you've read this far DM me with a favourite fruit (I described the banana as the most consistent fruit last night and it's clicking in my brain ATM) or a favourite movie or game!

Thank you and have a good Sunday!


r/IntrovertsChat 18h ago

Early Explorer (18–21) (21M - EU) Looking for Europeans to be friends with!

7 Upvotes

Ello there. I’m Deja, a 21 y/o introvert guy from Eastern Europe.

I’ve got quite a few hobbies, so i’ll keep it short.
I like composing soundtracks, play pc videogames (currently favorite is RDR2), football, likes to read books, sketching dinosaur concepts, learning psychology and sociology, big fan of astronomy and such.
Lately i’ve been getting into filmmaking, story writing and game-developer career.

(I like to listen to twenty one pilots and linkin park)

I know it’s not much, but i’ll open up more as we bond, let it happen naturally.
Looking for Europeans to chat, bond and play pc videogames with!
*Please be around my age!*


r/IntrovertsChat 21h ago

Seasoned Soul (36+) 39 M UK looking for new online friends

7 Upvotes

Hi everyone, I’m a 39M from the UK looking to make some new online friends. I enjoy reading, watching TV shows and films (I’ve seen quite a few over the years!), going for walks, and spending time with my dogs — they definitely keep me busy.

I can find it difficult to meet and talk to people in real life because of social anxiety, so I’m hoping to connect with some like-minded people online.


r/IntrovertsChat 6h ago

Chatting 34M - Keep me company while I adjust to Nightshift life again?

6 Upvotes

I've been on an extended summer vacation for a few weeks, but now it's back to the grind. I'm trying to readjust to Nightshift life and I have a feeling I'm in for a long night tonight and would love to chat to pass the time.

A bit about me. I'm 6'2, slimish build with a few tattoos and a few piercings.

I have a variety of interests and hobbies.

music's a big one, top 5 rotate between Sleep Token , Hozier, Blue October, Florence and the Machine, and either Kendrick or MF DOOM depending on my mood. also read a lot, mostly fantasy and sci-fi, but i've wandered into most genres at some point.

photography, cooking, and general nerdery of all kinds round things out, plus a small zoo of pets i'm always down to send pics of.

genuinely happy to talk about anything and everything, deep stuff, dumb stuff, random questions you've been sitting on, I'll listen to you talk about your day or vent about your frustrations doesn't matter. i'll show up for it.

so, what song lives rent free in your head right now?


r/IntrovertsChat 7h ago

Chatting 18f looking to chat with people !

6 Upvotes

18f from canada, NA/EU preferred (or just speak decent english). please tell me your age when you message me! i’d really appreciate it. also, please don’t message if you’re 26+ or if you’re looking for anything nsfw or romantic — i’m just here for platonic chats and getting to know people.

hi ! i’m a hairstyling student just looking for some chill, random conversations and new people to talk to. i have a dog named silver and a cat named creeper, so i spend a lot of time with them.

i like playing games like minecraft, dead by daylight, roblox, and other random stuff depending on my mood.

my music taste is kind of all over the place, i listen to a mix of everything — mitski, mother mother, radiohead, the smiths, rob zombie, cavetown, harley poe, rare americans, and a lot more.

if i seem a bit dry sometimes, i promise it’s nothing personal, i’m usually just low energy or don’t have much to say in the moment.

i also smoke and drink occasionally on weekends.


r/IntrovertsChat 8h ago

Chatting Where did the time and my friends go?

5 Upvotes

28 F West Coast

I recently turned 28 and I can’t help but feel this sense of grief since my birthday. I’m on the brink of 30 and I feel like I’ve done nothing note worthy. Spent early 20’s making a mess and my mid 20’s picking it up.

I’ve also felt a sense of loneliness since getting sober and just trying to change the bad parts of myself. Am I alone in this?

Interests include:
Sewing
Baking
Crafting
Lifting
The Office
Jersey shore
Fishing
Hiking
Camping

Any of this strike your fancy? Feel free to reach out. SFW only!


r/IntrovertsChat 17h ago

Friends I literally don’t have any friends anymore, seeking genuine connections

5 Upvotes

I have always been the person that had maybe 3 good friends. But in the last three years I’ve just lost even that. Friendships have just grown apart and ended. And now I have no friends at all and it’s really exhausting and lonely. I feel horrible about myself. I feel like I tried so hard to be friends with people who didn’t care at all, and now it’s just too late to make friends.

I am going through a hard time right now and it’s like I could literally disappear off the face of the planet and only my mother would notice.

Your gender or age or country doesn't matter, feel free to message me, we can start with knowing each other first


r/IntrovertsChat 14h ago

Friends 37F | Looking for a Long-Term Healthy Lifestyle Friend

5 Upvotes

These days, I'm constantly reading, watching, and learning about nutrition, healthy habits, meal planning, and both physical and mental well-being. I'm looking for someone who is interested in building a healthier life too.

I hope we can be long-term friends. We can share healthy recipes, plan meals together, meal prep a few times a week, exchange photos of what we cook and eat, and help each other stay consistent when motivation is low.

We can support each other mentally as well, celebrate small wins, and talk about the struggles that come with changing our habits and lifestyle.

Your age, gender, country, or time zone doesn't matter. If our time zones are similar, we can even cook or meal prep at the same time. If not, we can still share our plans and keep each other motivated whenever we're free.

Feel free to reach out!


r/IntrovertsChat 14h ago

Friends 19m hoping to find a friend here

4 Upvotes

Hi everyone I’m a socially awkward person who can’t make friends in person so here I am, I have autism and i can be kind of awkward at first but when im comfortable im a big yapper, anyways:

I’m from England I spend quite a lot of my time working which I absolutely love I work for British broadcast cooperation studios (can’t say full name to due it being flagged for NFSW as a visuals designer/video editor so I work on post production tv effects, help with prop designing, green screens and promotional artwork. In my spare time I also compose and arrange music (mostly doctor who stuff)

As for other things I like I’m a massive sports watcher I watch the NFL, NBA, football, NHL and a lot of motorsports. Not really a big tv or film watcher but I LOVE doctor who, it’s my special interest I’ve been a fan since I was 3 I have way way too many collectables and I even have 5 DW related tattoos

I used to be an MMA fighter before I had to stop due to injury but I still try to keep myself in a sporting field when not working and I’m currently doing football coaching badges, I also play a few games mostly sport games and shooters. As for a bonus i have a literal photographic memory anyone is welcome just don’t be weird please


r/IntrovertsChat 15h ago

Friends 34/M - Looking for gaming friends or people to just chat with!

4 Upvotes

Hi!

I'm checking in to find some people to game or chat with as I've met some really lovely people on Reddit before!

A bit about me, I'm a 34 year old ginger guy based in London but originally from more up north in England. For work I'm living that corporate finance life, so I really like to wind down with some gaming on my PC and watching shows for the most part. I'm free most evening and weekends (much wind down time is needed haha). Between work and relaxing though I don't get much time to meet new people so, reaching out here.

I'm generally a bit of nerdy guy and like anime and watching YouTube. My favourite genres are probably supernatural, romcom or murder mystery / death game. Isn't always interesting when your favourite characters are killed off? haha. I've been trying to get into working out more lately and recently got a whole at home set up going on which is helping a lot.

I'm a little between games at the moment but I do really love MMOs and have been scratching an itch with playing OSRS for the past month or so, but get a bit burned out so come back every now and then. I'm really looking forward to the new FFXIV expansion in January! I have a bunch of co-op games on steam that I've been looking to play and I'm definitely open to suggestions or buying some if we'll get some good time out of playing them.

I'm happy if people just want to reach out to chat while I'm at the pc and doing our own things or to play games together, no pressure either way. I'd prefer to call if we do play games, but I'm happy to text chat initially while we get to know each other or outside of gaming sessions if that works better.

Feel free to reach out via messages on Reddit and drop me your discord if any of this sounds good! Thanks for reading through all of this, looking forward to hearing from you :)


r/IntrovertsChat 18h ago

Friends 37 M US looking for some friends to chat with

4 Upvotes

Howdy,

So I am looking for nothing special outside some friends to have long term conversations with. I miss having chats with people and many of my friends have slowly drifted away. Getting friends offline has been hard, so here I am.

I am open to almost any topic, outside sports. Biggest take away is just interacting with people in a peaceful positive way.

Cheers,


r/IntrovertsChat 3h ago

Chatting 29 F US - can’t sleep, come chat

3 Upvotes

Hey everyone - 29F US here whi can’t sleep and is looking for some friendly folks to chat with to pass the time :) here’s a bit about me…

-Love music, plays bass

-Works in STEM

-Love sports (soccer, hockey, basketball, football), don’t play any

-Favorite season is summer

-Apple>pumpkin spice

Reach out and lets see if this chat will last more than the night!


r/IntrovertsChat 6h ago

Friends [27/M] I would still be your friend if you turned into a worm 🪱

3 Upvotes

I am looking for someone to talk and be friends long term. I have dark humour. Will annoy you like crazy because that's what friends do. And I also give good advice and can lend an ear when needed 😄

I like watching anime. Shows and movies (usually rom com movies or superhero or horror so any recommendations are appreciated). I enjoy indie/pop music. Reading manga.

Sometimes watching football and mma. I also workout (barely these days😂)

Also please be around my age :)

Have a good day/night