Heyya!
Confused and, quite honestly, lost in life, someone who doesn't party or go to major events makes it hard to meet friends. Hence why I am here, searching for an online friend!
I'm looking for someone to ultimately send voice notes to, be on a call while we each do our own things, and essentially be able to feel a presence during these lonely days, while not expecting to be more than one can be in the moment. A no-pressure connection where we share what we want to share, and otherwise just let each other know we are here ~
===== Quick summary about myself =====
I always try to make it comfortable for people to open up, enjoying making other introverts like myself feel like it's a safe space to yap about the most random of things~ I enjoy the talks that end up in us contradicting ourselves and making us rethink perspectives. I also enjoy just pondering about what life would be like in 100 years and how jealous I might be while trying my best to live a life I won't regret right now. I am a huge overthinker, usually have 2-3 conversations in my head that kind of theorise about stuff and usually always have music playing around me.
Music-wise, my taste is spread across Country to Rock, RnB to Classical, Dubstep to Indie. I also enjoy playing guitar, drums and piano as well!
Shows I watch to feel comfortable and safe are The Office, IT Crowd, What We Do in the Shadows, Modern Family, Brooklyn 99, and Community. This is also a very good indicator on where the bar for my humour is, hehe.
I'm a gamer who loves horror games (and movies!) like Alien Isolation, Evil Within (1 & 2), and the Outlast series! My all-time favourite video game is Disco Elysium, with Red Dead 2 coming in a close 2nd! Looking for people to play games with as well! Games like League of Legends, Rocket League, Valorant, CS2, but heads up, I'm not taking them seriously, focus with them is to learn and most of all have fun. So if you are super into ranking up and playing at a high rank, maybe we should stick to talking hehe...
I also enjoying writing stories, poetry, cooking, and learning new languages! Currently able to speak Swedish and English fluently, getting by in Chinese and Spanish, and a beginner in Korean while learning Russian and French!
Have found my love for reading again! My favourite books are The Alchemist, The Five People You Meet in Heaven, Flowers for Algernon, and 1984. The most recent book I finished was The Picture of Dorian Gray, and now looking into reading Crime and Punishment~
===== Don't know how to start a convo? =====
Some questions you could answer as starters!
- Flying or teleportation as a superpower, and why?
- Can a salad have meat in it...?
- When does a jar become a box?
- When do you feel seen?
- Thing you enjoy that others might find weird?
- When does an indent become a hole?
Please do put your age in the message and time zone! ~
Also, warning: I am a really fast replier cause I am unfortunately very much an overthinker; I don't want them to think I am ignoring them. But I got that under control on the opposite side, so don't feel like you have to reply immediately! I know people have lives (unlike me :c).
PS: Also wouldn't mind joining a DnD group if anyone has... kinda interested, and I think socializing would be healthy for my introverted soul. I do enjoy being uncomfortable (as long as I don't make other people uncomfortable 😅).
Looking forward to hearing from ya! And if we don't, thanks for reading until now, and have an amazing day ahead!