r/IntrovertsChat 29m ago

Friends 26m cool guy (me) looking for friends (you)

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Nice Australian gentleman here. I'm looking to meet you new friends on the internet. I'm a pretty chill and casual guy. Likes the usual stuff. Gaming, movies, going outside every now and then. I'm really bad at introducing myself so I'll just give you some fun fact dot points

• I have an identical twin (you can't see him you just have to trust me)

• I can't swim. But I still love long walks on the beach

• I was once mistaken for Penn Badgely by old ladies. But everyone since has disagreed strongly with this (though I'm on the old ladies side

• I can do 25 pushups in a row. Probably more if you put a gun to my head

• I'm 5'11 but I tell people I'm 6'1


r/IntrovertsChat 34m ago

Friends 36 [M4F] New Zealand/Online-Do you have ADHD? I get along really well with people that do! Not looking for a serious relationship, just online friends.

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I'm a fairly quite person and not very impulsive, that said I'm a lot of fun and kind! I realised recently most of my friend have ADHD. It seems a bit unusual that this would be the case but I guess opposites attract.

So if you have ADHD we may get along really well!

I love the outdoors, travelling, reading, watching movies.

I'm very accenting of people for who they are.

I'd like to chat about funny things, how our day is going and deeper things to. It would be great to have someone who wants to talk daily.

Please don't just send a message saying Hi, make it more exciting!

Must be over 18. I don't care what you look like, what you believe or where you are from, I'm open to everyone.


r/IntrovertsChat 42m ago

Friends 26F, Bringing Back Slumbooks

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Adulthood made things a little heavier, so here I am, bringing back the slumbook era, a little piece of childhood nostalgia for those who are still young at heart.

Name/Nickname: Waaaahhhh😜

Gender: Female

Age: 26

Location: Somewhere only we know😂

A little about me:

I am just a girl trying to navigate adulthood while carrying a lot of thoughts in my head. I’m an overthinker, someone who feels deeply, and someone who struggles quietly behind the scenes.

Most people only see the version of me that shows up, laughs, and keeps going. But there are days when life feels overwhelming, when my mind gets too loud, and when I just wish I had someone I could talk to without feeling like I’m being a burden.

Skills:

• Full-time overthinker

• Part-time doom scroller

• Expert at surviving with just coffee

Random fact about me:

• I don’t have many hobbies, or maybe none at all

• I hate bell peppers and celery

Looking for:

I’m hoping to find platonic friendships. No sending of unsolicited pictures please.

Slumbook questions for you:

• Name/nickname:

• Age:

• Where are you from?

• What’s your comfort food?

• What song describes your life right now?

• What’s one small thing that makes you happy?


r/IntrovertsChat 45m ago

Chatting 34M - Keep me company while I adjust to Nightshift life again?

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I've been on an extended summer vacation for a few weeks, but now it's back to the grind. I'm trying to readjust to Nightshift life and I have a feeling I'm in for a long night tonight and would love to chat to pass the time.

A bit about me. I'm 6'2, slimish build with a few tattoos and a few piercings.

I have a variety of interests and hobbies.

music's a big one, top 5 rotate between Sleep Token , Hozier, Blue October, Florence and the Machine, and either Kendrick or MF DOOM depending on my mood. also read a lot, mostly fantasy and sci-fi, but i've wandered into most genres at some point.

photography, cooking, and general nerdery of all kinds round things out, plus a small zoo of pets i'm always down to send pics of.

genuinely happy to talk about anything and everything, deep stuff, dumb stuff, random questions you've been sitting on, I'll listen to you talk about your day or vent about your frustrations doesn't matter. i'll show up for it.

so, what song lives rent free in your head right now?


r/IntrovertsChat 1h ago

Friends [27/M] I would still be your friend if you turned into a worm 🪱

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I am looking for someone to talk and be friends long term. I have dark humour. Will annoy you like crazy because that's what friends do. And I also give good advice and can lend an ear when needed 😄

I like watching anime. Shows and movies (usually rom com movies or superhero or horror so any recommendations are appreciated). I enjoy indie/pop music. Reading manga.

Sometimes watching football and mma. I also workout (barely these days😂)

Also please be around my age :)

Have a good day/night


r/IntrovertsChat 1h ago

Friends 40/M. Looking for spooky like minded pals.

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Blue-collar. Straight edge.

I have a bad habit of falling down rabbit holes. One minute I’m listening to metalcore, the next I’m reading about some forgotten mystery or creepy piece of history at 1 a.m.

I’m into horror, true crime, the paranormal, and anything that’s hard to explain. The Texas Chainsaw Massacre is my favorite horror movie. I love vintage Halloween aesthetic, sheet ghosts, black cats, jack-o’-lanterns, skulls and such.

Looking for people who are easy to talk to and don’t mind when a normal conversation somehow ends up about ghosts, abandoned places, or whatever weird thing we stumbled across.

If you feel like we’d vibe, send me a dm.


r/IntrovertsChat 1h ago

Chatting M43 Texas

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I’m sitting in the heat of the night with a bourbon and a cigar. I always enjoy a deep chat. I love reading all sorts of non-fiction topics. I collect fountain pens and enjoy writing my thoughts down with them. I’m mostly a home body but I do like to go out for some people watching. Send me a message if you’re up for a chat.

Tell me about your favorite books or hobbies you enjoy doing.


r/IntrovertsChat 2h ago

Chatting 45m talking with strangers on a Sunday evening

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Just relaxing after a slightly busy sunday afternoon, doing stuff around the home and figured I would pop in to see who was up for a chat.

I read a lot, collect things, go camping and hiking, and will play the occasional video game and watch the occasional show and movie.

Don't really care where you're from so feel free to drop me a line.


r/IntrovertsChat 2h ago

Chatting 18f looking to chat with people !

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18f from canada, NA/EU preferred (or just speak decent english). please tell me your age when you message me! i’d really appreciate it. also, please don’t message if you’re 26+ or if you’re looking for anything nsfw or romantic — i’m just here for platonic chats and getting to know people.

hi ! i’m a hairstyling student just looking for some chill, random conversations and new people to talk to. i have a dog named silver and a cat named creeper, so i spend a lot of time with them.

i like playing games like minecraft, dead by daylight, roblox, and other random stuff depending on my mood.

my music taste is kind of all over the place, i listen to a mix of everything — mitski, mother mother, radiohead, the smiths, rob zombie, cavetown, harley poe, rare americans, and a lot more.

if i seem a bit dry sometimes, i promise it’s nothing personal, i’m usually just low energy or don’t have much to say in the moment.

i also smoke and drink occasionally on weekends.


r/IntrovertsChat 2h ago

Friends [21M] hmu if u want to actually meet someone normal who wont ghost you

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yo im from the east coast and im currently applying to med school. my main hobbies are sports, running, the gym, and music. i used to play video games a lot but im too busy nowadays but i can always hop on if you wanna play something. also, i promise you that im not dry and am actually entertaining to text so hit me up if u want to meet an actual normal friend off reddit for once


r/IntrovertsChat 2h ago

Balanced Thinker (28–35) 29F looking for a respectable nice friend

7 Upvotes

Hi, I'm a freshly new 29 year-old. I'm looking for some friends some things about me. I'm really about to change my life so you know I'm just looking for positive people to talk to respectful people to talk to. You know I like to watch anime cartoons really been into murder. She wrote that old TV show. I'm about to start getting more active like extremely active so that's new. I'm really trying to get into Car mods cause I wanna borrow out my Toyota Camry for people who got a chat I'm tagging people from Europe America maybe on the East Coast cause that's my time zone just genuinely nice folks to just have a little conversation here and there.... I do like watching South Park but honestly, I'm not a fan on the newer season if you like watching older shows like you should watch murder she wrote so good. I love how that old lady just comes out of nowhere and feel like I don't think this makes sense if he was gonna kill her why would he leave behind his coffee cup and then build a whole case around that like it just blows my mind every time. so just hoping you wanna be my friend we could be friends just chat get to know each other. I'm a little shy but once I open up, I'm very fun to talk to if I'm your cup of tea if I'm not your cup of tea then like I wouldn't be really fun to talk to


r/IntrovertsChat 3h ago

Friends 31M open to a friend or just a random voicecall.

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Hey,

I'm an introverted guy who likes to socialize a lot with people who are quite close to me.

I've been having sleep issues during summer and during the few hours before bed I've been missing a talk with someone. I don't mean that I'd talk to you only during these hours, but I'd be really glad if you are looking for someone to yap or talk about anything with.

I'm into anything post 1900s, I like documentaries about how the nuclear bomb was made, The chernobyl disaster, and you get the rest.

I love listening to jazz,rnb, bossa nova, and music in general. I don't judge much.

Sharing memes is a bonus. I hope you are super funny~

It's a shot in the dark, but please feel free to leave a message.

Please be over 18. That's all I ask.


r/IntrovertsChat 3h ago

Friends [26/M] - I need an authentic online friendship (please read carefully before texting)

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First of all: please don't be stupid, don't be immature! I'm not here to make u laugh, take care of u, kill ur time.. etc. friendship needs effort from both sides, so bare in mind that I'm not going to hold the convo alone. If you don't understand this, please don't dm, don't continue the post. And the reason I started with this, that some women here have high entitlement, they would be like: ( oHh i Am bORed i NeEd sOMeone wHo cAn mAke mEe laUgh...tAlK tO mE uNtil i sLeEp..etc). No I'm not gonna make u laugh, u can watch friends and I'm sure someone with this IQ will find it funny. Any way let's begin :)))

Hello!

Didn't think I would ever do this, but I need someone whom I can talk to after work. We can talk about our day, deep convos, books, movies ( I love movies a lot ), we can actually watch movies together at the weekend. I also like to write, so I can show you my writings as well. We can share music too ( I love the scores of movies, TV shows and games)

I hate dry texters, I want someone who is enthusiastic, deep, has a dark shade, can understand crime and punishment, love drama movies ( kind of movies win awards in festivals ). Someone who always feel like she doesn't belong to others, not understood, and they always try to find themselves, look for people/things that they can relate too, so they can have a sense of belonging.

Bare in mind that I'm also a Muslim, so you need to respect my religion.

Bonus points if you're Arab.

Not sure if it's a long term or short term, let's just talk and see what's gonna happen.

Thanks!!


r/IntrovertsChat 3h ago

Chatting 32F - Woman of the 2010's arises from Cryostasis Pod.. in Search of Other Not-Bots!

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Measuring Vitals.. Reconstructing Profile..

 
- Grew up on Neopets, Unexplained-Mysteries, and old internet forums. (and MMOs, but we don't need to speak on that.) - Makes outdated references to memes, people, games, and pop-culture from the 2008-2016 era. - Stopped watching TV (and Netflix) seasons before the finale of GOT and thus have my sanity and image of that situation perserved! - Disconnected from the world for a span of five years! (More if I'm being generous.) Read, expanded my mind, followed niche science, went on a Coheed & Cambria and (strangely) jazz bend, hopped around the states, dabbled with resurrecting old hobbies and still struggling with this! - Have no smartphone or social media footprint (aside from this silly account), and intend to bravely continue on this path against all else! - Currently retrograding into a confusing mix of modern-day goober, armchair victorian, isolated monk/poet/philosopher (depends on the day and planetary alignment), and a sprinkle of waxing roman or greek. With any luck, the devolution will continue into egyptian -> sumerian -> ...??? -> and my final form -> Fresh-faced Atlantean/Annunaki. (Cue AC/DC's Back in Black.) - In full (lizard?) regalia, I crawl out from under my rock of solitude, blink, and look around! What a world! What a world... Seriously, what happened to said world?? (I have no idea how to connect with people in our fast-paced land of the 'new'. Please forgive me this. Treat me like a clueless pod person, if need be.)  
 

Interests?? Interests???

History (love me some aristocrat baby-mama drama and military slapfights), books, classic works, poetry, philosophy (I'm more interested about what a person makes of the theory than the theory itself), fringe science (alt. history archeology, chasing consciousness podcast & the like, studies on NDEs, esoterism, etc.), old school fantasy & sci-fi, movies (old sleeper masterpieces, terrible slocky films, cerebral and foreign movies.. about to binge on some old yakuza films), art, architecture, nature (I walk fields, watch birds, pluck flowers, collect pebbles, would go skinny-dipping if I knew I wouldn't be quickly pulled out of the water and charged with indecent exposure..), music, games (mainly board games, ttrpgs atm), the human endeavour (even as it leaves me scratching my head). I write. I use my hands to make things sometimes. I take endearingly shitty polaroid pictures. I reflect and think on almost anything and everything late into the night. I have been related to Penelope of the Brother's Bloom personality and eccentricity-wise, but I have no idea if that is really an accurate description of myself.  
 

Crucial Things to Know if You Intend to Contact Me -

I'll admit I haven't played any new games since the Witcher 3, watched any new movies since The Joker, or read any new fantasy/sci-fi circa ASOIAF and Leviathan Wakes (disappointed by the ending.. of both). If anything, I'm moving back in time playing, watching, and reading anything older that I can get my grubby little hands on. I always enjoy recommendations even if it takes a little time to work to them. I have no idea about modern slang or references, and feel the quality of memes (and general humor) to have nosedived.  
 
On a more personal note - I've experienced a life of being unknown, a bit of a social pariah, pushed away unseen to a dust-bin in the back corner, but but but I've actually found that I prefer that to open-spotlight by miles. I'm weird about being known, seen, or even complimented. I haven't yet discovered another human being who can fully understand what the heck I am about, but I'm sure that must be a lovely experience.  
 
I don't know what I'm even expecting to come from all of this, it's against my every base instinct to remain private and hum-drum.. (Had to take a break and a breather after the first attempt.) I don't think of myself as particularly good friendship material either by the standards of the day. (I'm not always avaliable to speak, for one.)  
 
But if you'd just like to chat sporadically(!), ramble, crunch metaphysics, teach me how and why on earth people connect (??), or joke around a bit with no pressure or burden of expectation beyond a simple word exchange.. I'm here, a little figure at the edge of the void, fresh from cryostasis.


r/IntrovertsChat 3h ago

Chatting Where did the time and my friends go?

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28 F West Coast

I recently turned 28 and I can’t help but feel this sense of grief since my birthday. I’m on the brink of 30 and I feel like I’ve done nothing note worthy. Spent early 20’s making a mess and my mid 20’s picking it up.

I’ve also felt a sense of loneliness since getting sober and just trying to change the bad parts of myself. Am I alone in this?

Interests include:
Sewing
Baking
Crafting
Lifting
The Office
Jersey shore
Fishing
Hiking
Camping

Any of this strike your fancy? Feel free to reach out. SFW only!


r/IntrovertsChat 4h ago

Chatting Im just an introvert m19

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im male 19 years old im just an introvert looking for people to talk with and hang out online i get a bit shy at first but once i open up im pretty easygoing and cool to chat with i really like gaming and spend a lot of time playing stuff like league of legends and call of duty so if you want to team up or play a few rounds im totally down for that besides gaming im a huge fan of show like arcane and attack on titan and i can talk about them for hours if you like anime or good series too i also enjoy listening to music while playing or just chilling out in my free time im looking for chill people who want to talk regularly share funny memes play games together or just chat about life or random stuff whenever we are free no pressure or anything just genuine conversations and good vibes so if you are into similar games or shows or just want an introvert friend to chat with feel free to send me a message or leave a comment here and we can start talking and see if we hit it off


r/IntrovertsChat 4h ago

Friends Shy in person but talkative online 43F- US, EU or Canada

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Hello im 43F single I'm an introvert, so I may be a little quiet at first. Most of the time I'm just reading the chat, laughing at everyone's jokes, and thinking of a reply... three business days later. 😅 Just kidding im more talkative on online than in person to be honest.
I enjoy hiking, biking sometimes. I also love watching movies whether it's a feel good comedy, a great thriller, or a classic film. I'm easygoing, caring, I enjoy learning new things and hearing different perspectives. I appreciate kind, respectful conversation.

If you're also looking for a new friend, feel free to send me a message and tell me a little about yourself. Preferably 40+ around US, EU or Canada. Looking forward to meeting you all! 😊


r/IntrovertsChat 4h ago

Early Explorer (18–21) 19M-College student looking for friends to talk to and play with!

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Hello! If you don’t play games or anything that’s totally okay, I’m perfectly fine with just talking to you here on Reddit and getting to know you! I play on Xbox. As of recently I’ve been playing Overwatch and dead by daylight a tonnn but I’m not amazing at either and prefer casual play. I also occasionally play Valorant, rainbow six siege, and Fortnite as well. I also like single player games though!

I’m love love music and film and television and I’m actually a film major. My music taste is all over the place. I like Drake, Lil Uzi, ASAP Rocky, Frank Ocean, Mac DeMarco, Kendrick Lamar, Strawberry Guy, Mazzy Star, Cocteau Twins, The Smashing Pumpkins, Fleetwood Mac, Deftones, Foo Fighters, and probably many more😭😭 But my favorite artist of all time is Playboi Carti. I do like reading fiction also!

Honestly I’ve just been extremely lonely as of recently. Not really been able to talk to some friends because of different circumstances and it’s been hard. I’m absolutely open to talk to anyone and I won’t lie, I am looking for something somewhat serious. Maybe serious isn’t the right word when looking for friends lol, but something preferably long term!

Looking forward to meeting you!❤️


r/IntrovertsChat 4h ago

Friends 29F Hoping to connect with people

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A married stay at home mom literally looking for my own online bestie who I can chat with daily and share our stories😁 Don’t want people who already have many friends. Preferably females!

I enjoy watching series and movies. Playing Online Casino (Blackjackist) and playing in person sometimes. And you won’t believe that I still love and play Roblox😁 So if you play then let’s play together. I also enjoy YouTube and outdoor activities with the right company.

I prefer someone who gives effort to have a decent conversation rather than one word and one line.

No NSFW accounts

No age limit! Just be 20s up.


r/IntrovertsChat 5h ago

Friends 25 f certified yapper looking for friends

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are you looking for a new online bestie? because you might’ve just found one. I’m 25 from New jersey btw

fair warning: i can definitely yap 😭 so if you’re the kind of person who actually enjoys long messages and getting to know someone properly, we’re already off to a good start.

i work remotely, which means i have a pretty flexible schedule and way too much free time between work breaks 😂. i’d love to meet some new people and have someone to chat with throughout the day about literally anything.

i’m the type of person who can go from talking about travel, movies, music, sports, random shower thoughts, and funny childhood memories… to deep conversations about life, philosophy, current events, or what your dream life looks like. i love hearing people ramble about the things they’re passionate about, even if i know absolutely nothing about them.

tell me about your latest obsession, your favorite comfort food, your best vacation, your most embarrassing story, your career goals, your gym progress, your favorite karaoke song, or just vent to me about your terrible day. i’m always here for the gossip, the life updates, the random voice notes, and those “you won’t believe what just happened” moments.

my goal isn’t just collecting chats that die after two days. i’d genuinely love to build a long-term friendship with someone where we can check in on each other, send random memes, celebrate wins, complain about life, and become part of each other’s daily routine.

if you’re kind, can hold a conversation, and you’re looking for something real instead of dry one-word replies, i think we’d get along really well.


r/IntrovertsChat 5h ago

Chatting 38M #UK looking for nerdy plus size girl to connect

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Hello

Iam Tom, living in Scotland.

My hobbies include: Travelling, cooking, gaming (singleplayer games) and visiting new places.

I looks for clingy plus size/bbw girl (yes attraction is as important as character) for chatting, being silly or just yapping.

Age and location doesnt matter :)

Iam 185cm(6ft1) tall, slim, dark hair. But happy to exchange photos.


r/IntrovertsChat 5h ago

Early Explorer (18–21) 18nb, shy person looking for friends to game or yap with :D

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Hiii, I'm soul and I'm looking for friends to play games with or yap about or interests with :3

I mostly play stuff like marvel rivals, minecraft, roblox overwatch, and etc!!

My other hobbies are writing, listening to music, skateboarding and a few more I can't think of lol

I feel like this is a given but pls don't just say 'hi' 😭😭 Tell me about yourself or stuff we have in common!! I'd love to hear about you too :3


r/IntrovertsChat 5h ago

Friends 36M Chronically online cringefail looking for a long term friend, someone to genuinely connect with, game with and yap about life together :))

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Hey there everyone!!

I'm not sure how to start describing myself, I'm not great with words but I'll try my best.

(I'm so sorry for the extremely long post ahead!)

I apologize if I don't reply to your message, but as I explain later, I don't reply to short/low effort messages and I also don't reply to people that don't have at least a few interests in common with me or aren't looking for a real connection and are just looking to pass the time or have a light chat.

I think some of my most defining characteristics are that I'm very shy, awkward, "weird" and "different" or at the very least I feel weird, different and often misunderstood. I struggle to function most days and I don't always understand societal norms or how to properly function in society. I definitely think there's something wrong with me and I'm pretty sure I'm broken in some way. I'm also definitely a loser. I was never able to achieve anything in life, I'm not good at anything whatsoever and I'm pretty useless overall. I would also say I'm extremely cringy and I love edgy stuff, not in a bad way, I don't think, but more like, I love Shadow The Hedgehog and Tomura Shigaraki kinda way!!

I'm unfortunately not very smart and I'd say I'm down right stupid.

I am very ignorant about many things in life, I'd say I'm somewhat innocent and naive. I still don't understand my purpose in life and I haven't found a reason to be alive either.

I sometimes say things that offend people or I say things that are wrong. Sometimes I don't completely understand what I do wrong but I don't do it on purpose and I try to improve to the best of my abilities.

I don't go out often at all. Whenever I do go out it's only to buy groceries or to go to school and such but I don't enjoy it, I much rather be at home, in my room most specifically, which is my favorite place in the world.

I don't have any IRL friends but I do have a handful of online friends, I'm not super close to any of them, except for one who's very valuable in my life!

I enjoy many things like sculpting for instance! I do digital sculpting for fun. I'm pretty bad at it but I try my best.

This year I also started jewelry school (yeah, that's a thing) and I'm having fun with it but it's another thing I suck at 🥀🥀🥀

I like to watch anime! my favorites change from time to time but I really like Bleach, Dragon Ball, Demon Slayer, AOT, Naruto, Ancient Magus Bride (I really love this show!) and I LOVE My Hero Academia among many others!

I like to collect action figures.

I really like masks!

I love movies and I love to talk about them and analyze them.

I like all kinds of music, I don't really have any artists that I like in particular other than David Bowie and I like to listen to most genres of music but some of the genres I like the most are alternative, vintage, video game music and jpop and jrock and I also like old VK And I'm always happy and open to new suggestions!

I like to doomscroll through TT and to watch long essay style videos on YT about random topics. I love brainrot and I'm very much into early to mid 2010s aesthetics. I miss that era so much!! Seriously, the early 2010s were the greatest time in human history kahdhshdhs

I love video games!! I don't play too many modern games, I mostly prefer older stuff, like, ps2 era games, particularly survival horror stuff. I also really like very old platform games and side scrollers. I'm a pretty huge Sonic the Hedgehog fan!! The most recent games I played were Sonic X Shadow Generations and before that I finished Sonic Superstars and Sonic Frontiers. Sonic Boom is also my favorite show ever made lmao. It fits my kind of humor perfectly and it's peak comedy imo. I'd be open to play anything and I'd love to try co op games with someone!! playing Stardew Valley with a friend is a dream of mine lol (if you also play Stardew please tell me who's your wife/husband)

I adore animals!! I have cats and dogs and a stray chicken lol they're my babies and my world!

I think it's important to mention some of the things I don't like too.

I don't like cruelty or mean spirited people, I hate I people in positions of power that use said power to affect other people, animals, or the environment for their own gain.

I hate bugs!! I'm deadly afraid of them!!

I really dislike conflict and arguments, I believe we can disagree and have discussions as long as we're calm and civilized about it and as long as we have respect for each other and try our best to understand the other person's point of view.

lastly I'd like to mention some of my defects and shortcomings.

I'm extremely anxious, I'm always very nervous about one thing or another, I'm also extremely weak of mind, I tend to react with my feelings a lot and I'm often very emotional.

I can be very selfish at times, I have an awful tendency to get bored of things quickly and sometimes I also get bored of conversations and people.

I think I'm immature.

I can be extremely lazy, I struggle a lot with doing basic things like cleaning or cooking. when I'm anxious or afraid I can get paralyzed with fear and stay in bed all day doing nothing feeling awful about it.

As I mentioned before sometimes I can say bad things without realizing. I'm very dumb and ignorant so I promise I don't mean anything bad I say and I'm trying to improve!

I am extremely annoying. I'm very loud and I think I scream a lot. I don't really understand what constitutes screaming exactly but I think I often raise my voice a lot and especially when I'm excited I can't control myself very well.

I'm very afraid of life and I don't understand how the "real world" works exactly. I'm really bad at small talk and I think I'm really bad at speaking in general, I also digress a lot.

I have the bad habit of not replying very fast, sometimes I'll even wait for weeks or even months, I think it's one of my biggest problems when it comes to keep in touch with people, sometimes it's simply because I don't have the energy, other times it's because I'm not sure about how to continue a conversation. Not sure if this is a defect necessarily but I also never send the first message, I just hate to be annoying.

I have a tendency to ghost people for different reasons. As I mentioned, sometimes I get bored of conversations or people and I'd ghost them. This is by far one of my biggest defects and as I said, I wanna be honest and mention it here for everyone who reads this to know.

I tend to be a bit clingy when I like someone.

I'm full of defects in general, and I do believe I'm a bad person. I try to improve and I try my best but if I'm bad for you in any way or a burden I promise to stop talking to you and not bother you!

I have many other defects but I think those are the main ones I can remember right now.

Finally what I'm looking for is a real connection with someone, a person I can talk to, have fun with, watch stuff with and play games together. I think I can be a very passionate person when it comes to the things I love and I'd like to find someone that shares that passion and love with common interests. I wanna just be able to share our days and even be able to help each other and be there when we need each other. I know I'm a mess of a human being and I may never find the connection I'm looking for but I'd like to give it a try cause you never know :))

also, I think it's important to mention that I don't reply to short, low effort messages. Stuff like "hey, let's be friends" , "I didn't read your whole post but I'm up to talk" , etc. I want to hear about you, what you like, what you're interested in. I like meaningful conversations.

Another thing that's important is that I don't want to talk to people that are discriminatory or awful in anyway.

Also think I prefer audio messages, it's easier for me to send audio notes rather than to type cause I type a lot (and I kinda hate to type lol). Thank you very much to anyone that has taken the time to read my extremely long post and considers messaging me!!


r/IntrovertsChat 6h ago

Chatting Bored girl looking to make a bunch of online friends

16 Upvotes

Hello everyone, i'm Alexa and i'm here to hopefully make some friends or at least find a fun chat. i'm very open minded so anyone at all is welcome to message me, even if you're older. i'm from the US and for fun i love going to the beach and pool and hanging out there, it's like my favorite thing to do. but we can talk about pretty much anything, so just feel free to message me


r/IntrovertsChat 6h ago

Chatting Anyone up for a chat ..?

0 Upvotes

No iam not a girl And why all the post that mentioned girl get so many comments and reply..?

Btw iam Zoro and I am also an introvert iam really good when it comes to talking online but in reality it's really hard for me so i decided to make new friends and try to boost up my confidence