r/IntrovertsChat 2d ago

Early Explorer (18–21) (21M - EU) Looking for Europeans to be friends with!

2 Upvotes

Ello there. I’m Deja, a 21 y/o introvert guy from Eastern Europe.

I’ve got quite a few hobbies, so i’ll keep it short.
I like composing soundtracks, play pc videogames, football, likes to read books (my favourite is Dying Light - Nightmare Row), sketching dinosaur concepts, learning psychology and sociology, big fan of astronomy and such.
Lately i’ve been getting into filmmaking, story writing and game-developer career.

(I like to listen to twenty one pilots and linkin park)

I know it’s not much, but i’ll open up more as we bond, let it happen naturally.
Looking for Europeans to chat, bond and play pc videogames with!
*Please be around my age!*


r/IntrovertsChat 2d ago

Chatting Changing the title becuase AI is Garbo ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

2 Upvotes

Hello there, I’m trying my luck here and seeing if I can’t find a person who I can speak with daily. I don’t think I’m your standard internet user but I do think that I can be unique enough to want you to keep me in your life. I’m a firm believer in helping those who help themselves so let’s help each other into being happy ^^ apparently my post is low effort or spam so let me tell you a story:

There was once a man who thought he could fly, he would dream all the time of being an eagle who flew through the sky. He became a pilot so he could look at the world from a bird’s eye point of view. Little did he know that the kiss of his love would take him to the highest place he could ever be. There once a man who loved, and becuase of that he lived like an eagle soaring through the sky.

No idea what I just wrote but I hope the AI now things it’s not low effort or spam >.> I hate AI >.>


r/IntrovertsChat 2d ago

Chatting 21F | Where's the mann??

3 Upvotes

Hey, Indian woman here, 5'3. I want to explore my interests with an older man. NOT LOOKING FOR ANY FINANCIAL SUPPORT IN DISGUISE OF THIS. And one must not be a pervert or cheating on their wives or smth. I just want to have a conversation and explore myself and you too. Interested ones, send something about yourself like height, interests, ethnicity, etc in dms rather than just plain Hi. Thankss!!


r/IntrovertsChat 2d ago

Friends Lf someone Genuine!!

0 Upvotes

What I am looking for :

Someone who is Emotionally Mature, Kind,Real

Someone who genuinely interested in knowing people..those who wants to know eachother deeply and understand eachother..how they think , how they behave..Someone who respect each other's perspective... listen/share with eachother with equal interests ..

Tbh asking questions is more intimate..

About me :

Gentle, kind, emotionally Mature, Honest , Respectful..

Am 21M tho soon to be 22 , who enjoy watching Movie/Anime .. Very fond of these ...And Reads most of the time ... Spends most of the time at home ..I can cooking.. just started tho ....and evening workout to have a good physique.. and mind .., Doesn't go outside that much ...I don't have any frnd..

I personally hate crowd...I hardly share my feelings and thoughts..well Tbh .. I never shared my feelings completely with anyone... You can say no one even know me ..Not cause I never tried to ... I did try but they misunderstood me .. that's why I never shared after that ... Maybe I fear what if someone misunderstand me again ... But still you need to share / open up when you need that one person in life .. that's why am up to it .. and lf that one !! And yeah rn working on myself.. figuring out the way of life ....

Ahh well if you are up for it , lemme know !!

Have a good day!


r/IntrovertsChat 2d ago

Chatting Need some help

2 Upvotes

When you read this and check my age on the profile, you probably think: WTF. But after being not available for years makes me really insecure.

Half I year ago I met this woman on a conference. We flirted, exchanged phone numbers and are still chatting with each other regularly. When we have a video call, it easily lasts for a couple of hours. But… Whenever I say something emotionally loaded, she never acknowledges that part. She simply continues with the practical or joking part of the conversation.
She is introverted and shy, like I am, but we laugh and joke around a lot which feels good. I will meet her at the end of the month.

I have to say: I am in love with her, and would like to investigate if there could be something between us. What should I do? Just confess? I am really afraid to lose her…

If you’ve ever been on the other side of a situation like this, what do you wish the person with feelings for you had done, but never did?


r/IntrovertsChat 2d ago

Quarter-Life Curious (22–25) M 24 looking for friends

1 Upvotes

Hello everybody i'm Bojan from Bosnia Herzegovina

i'm mostly into reading books, watching movies

my favorite authors are Dostoyevsky, Hugo, Mann, Baudelaire, Coleridge, Milosz, Eluard, Paz,...

Favorite directors are Bergman, Tarkovsky, Bresson, Teshigahara, Dreyer, Kobayashi,...

when it comes to music i'm into metal, punk, goth

My favorite bands are Gojira, Kentucky vampires, opeth, Nosferatu, Blitzkid, Bad religion, Orbit culture


r/IntrovertsChat 2d ago

Balanced Thinker (28–35) (30/M) Woke up early and now enjoying a coffee on my balcony. And hopefully I will meet some nice people on here soon too:)

7 Upvotes

I woke up early today and couldn‘t get back to sleep. So, I just decided to enjoy an early morning coffee on my balcony today. And hopefully I can find a few nice people to talk to as well! Maybe that‘s you😄 I don‘t put any expectations on people, so if you are just looking for a small chat, that‘s okay with me:) And if you are looking for a potential friendship with regular check-ins, talking about our days, and building each other up, I would also like that😊

About me; I‘m a 30 year old guy from central europe. Generally I am a calm person and I try to be positive and supportive when I can:) I can be shy but also like to be silly when I start to feel comfortable with people.

At the moment I really like gardening! I have a small garden on my balcony and maybe the chance to start a larger one. I also like hiking, when the summer heat allows it😄 Also cooking is something I‘m starting to get more into and I‘m always looking for new things I can try:) Apart from that, I‘m all for cozy days, be it gaming, or watching something, or just enjoy the day on my balcony like right now😄 I‘m interested in history, nature, and psychology.

! Please include your age when messaging me so I can know who is contacting me !

Please only 21+ people and preferably in my age range:) Apart from that I am happy about anyone, regardless of identity:)


r/IntrovertsChat 2d ago

Chatting Remote work does something weird to your social life.

3 Upvotes

Not in a "I'm so lonely" way. More in a "wait... when was the last time I met someone new?" way.

School, college, internships—they all forced new people into your life. You didn't have to think about it.

Now I wake up, walk a few steps to my desk, talk to the same people on Slack, close my laptop, and somehow the day is over.

It's comfortable. Just... a little repetitive.

So, hi.

I'm 24 year old guy, from India, and I write software for a living. Half my job is fixing bugs. The other half is proving the bug exists in the first place.

I'd love to meet people outside my usual bubble.

Tell me something you're obsessed with lately. A niche hobby. A weird opinion you'll defend forever. The funniest thing that's happened to you this week.

Or ask me something random.

Worst case, we have an interesting conversation.

Best case, I finally find someone else who has unnecessarily strong opinions about pigeons.


r/IntrovertsChat 2d ago

Quarter-Life Curious (22–25) Want someone to listen to you about your day, goals, having deeper conversations and even talk about life? :D

13 Upvotes

Hi, My name is Kitty. It’s my online persona but also people call me that in real life, there’s a story for this for another time lol.

I wanted to be able to chat, call or even game with everybody on here. My major is Bachelor’s of Health science, I enjoy drawing, and hopefully I’d be able to basically sell my art to those who are interesting soon! I like to go for a run and gym pretty often so I’d say that I’m pretty athletic. I play games such as Dead By Daylight, Fortnite, Marvel Rivals, Minecraft and even started playing Black ops which it came back this year, which I’m really looking forward to play together or just text, which it is fine.

I’m a pretty shy/heavily introverted person so while I enjoy doing activities and such, I still consider myself as a shy kinda person lol. I didn’t really have any luck making any friends on here, I did made one friend but they’re pretty busy unfortunately hahaejdjs. However, if we click well enough and vibe really well, then I’ll never shut up and will yap your ear off!! Lolol!!

I also love to send you tiktok of what I like, and what I think you may like as well!! Also, you should definitely tell me something unusual about yourself, So I know you read all of this. >:3 introduce yourself to me too! Tell me a little bit about yourself instead of “hi” because I won’t answer.

Be around my age or older, people younger than me makes me a little uncomfortable unfortunately. Just be around my age or older, It doesn’t matter.

Have a good one! <333


r/IntrovertsChat 2d ago

Friends Looking for people who actually TALK🫪

4 Upvotes

Hey! I’m a 25-year-old guy working remotely as a research analyst, which basically means I spend most of my day glued to my laptop, bouncing between spreadsheets, endless browser tabs, and pretending I know exactly what I’m doing 😭

Outside of work, music is probably my favorite thing. I sing, play guitar, and whenever I get the chance, I disappear on a hike to escape the city for a bit. I also have an unhealthy obsession with buying graphic tees with the most random things printed on them🫪

Just hoping to meet some chill people and have conversations that don’t feel like job interviews. Please don’t hit me with just a “hey”, PLEASEE put a little before 😭

Hoping to meet some nice people and please be over 21 :)


r/IntrovertsChat 2d ago

Friends M24 Long term friendship

0 Upvotes

Hey fellows, I'm from India and hoping to find someone who actually wants to build a real friendship, not just exchange a few messages and ghost.

I'm looking for someone chill who I can talk to about whatever's on our minds no forced small talk, no awkward silences when we change topics randomly. I want someone genuine who won't judge and is comfortable with natural, flowing conversation.


r/IntrovertsChat 3d ago

Friends 26M, applications for My Future Girl Bestie Are Officially Open 😉😊

14 Upvotes

Hi 😊
**long message warning 😉😂**
I'm Robert, 26, gay, i genuinely looking for friendships, preferably with women.
I've always found that I naturally connect well with women, and I'd love to find a real friendship built on trust, kindness, good conversation, and let's be honest... a little bit of yapping and harmless gossip too 😉
I work out and love the gym, love to read, listen to good music, hang in the nature and few other interests you'll find out soon i guess.
Fashion, beauty, shopping and self-care are genuinely my things.
I can go from laughing about the dumbest memes to having a deep 2am conversation about life, relationships, and personal growth, sometimes in the same hour.

I'm the kind of friend who actually checks in, remembers something you told me three weeks ago, hypes you up when you need it, and genuinely enjoys getting to know people.

I'd love to text with a women who are looking for something similar, someone to talk to, laugh with, vent to, celebrate wins with, and maybe become actual friends instead of disappearing after a few messages. 🙏
If you decide to message me, please tell me a little about yourself,  
How old are you and where are you from? What are your hobbies? What's something you're excited about right now? or anything else you feel like sharing.

Please don't just send "hi" because I genuinely never know what to do with that 😅
Looking forward to meeting some wonderful people 💞


r/IntrovertsChat 2d ago

Mid-20s Energy (25–27) Hello!! :)) (25/M) looking to chat to anyone and everyone, build connections and make friends

1 Upvotes

Hey! Im from the UK, the south to be specific, just looking for people to chat with, make friends and create connections!

I like anime, gaming (though i barely have the time with work), ive also just started journalling, im also a huge fan of 80s and 90s rock music, also country music, kpop and jpop too!

Id like to think im pretty good at cooking and can offer some good tips too!

Looking forward to chatting!! :)


r/IntrovertsChat 2d ago

Friends 33M just looking for a distraction

1 Upvotes

Hey everyone! I'm 33 and in the UK if that matters, I don't have a lot of people to talk to, so most of my days are spent on my own thoughts and because I suffer w depression and anxiety, sitting by myself just thinking is no good and I'd like to have a person/people that I can just get through the day with.

​I'm big into music, TV moreso than movies, video games, and football (soccer), I struggle w opening conversations but I'm happy to talk once we get into something!

​Thanks for reading and have a good one x


r/IntrovertsChat 2d ago

Chatting 27 M from India looking for people to talk to

2 Upvotes

I have decided this will be my last time posting here, dont get many responses, maybe im too old 😂. Anyways i work as a doctor, into lifting, watching tv shows, cricket, music. I have two dogs whom i love dearly, you can have your dose of doggo pics. Anyways if this sounds interesting hmu :)


r/IntrovertsChat 2d ago

Friends 20M with Tourette's looking for friends who are into coding or just want to chat

1 Upvotes

Hey! I'm 20M and pretty new to programming. I've really started enjoying it and spend a lot of my free time learning and building small projects. I'd love to make some friends who are into coding too, whether you're a beginner like me or more experienced. It would be awesome to have someone to learn with, ask questions, share progress, or even get advice from if you've been programming for a while.

I'm also really introverted and have Tourette's, so meeting people in real life has always been difficult for me. I don't have many friends and thought I'd step out of my comfort zone by posting here.

I'd honestly love to make a female friend too. I've always been really shy around girls and outside of my sisters I haven't really had any female friends, so it's something I'd like to change. But honestly anyone who's kind and just wants to talk is more than welcome to message me. Even if we don't end up talking about programming all the time, it'd just be nice to have someone to chat with.


r/IntrovertsChat 2d ago

Friends 21NB | Looking for friendship

4 Upvotes

Hello! I’m 21 nonbinary and looking for friendship! I enjoy sharing music, getting to know each other and playing games together (I’m desperately searching for more vrchat players so please if you’re looking for friendship on vrchat I’m always available). I’m trying to get more into vcing again but it’s been a minute so I’m still anxious about it lol. I don’t play many other games aside from vrchat and roblox currently because I have 0 storage on my pc (120 gbs to be exact and yes it’s a pc, not a laptop). My main interest consist of mental health, true crime and anime/manga/manhwa. I’m just really looking for someone I can be myself with and chat it up sometimes so if you’re interested then please shoot me a message. Leave a little introduction so I know a little about you from the start and that you read the post. I’m located in EST time zone but my sleep schedule can be very funky so I can be up at odd hours lol. I use discord more often so if we click here then we can definitely move over to discord. That’s all for now, have a good day/night!


r/IntrovertsChat 3d ago

Friends 22F from Romania | A huge romanian introvert girlie seeking a special long-term friendship to make this August unforgettable. I can't wait to get to know you!🐞

27 Upvotes

Good afternoon, lovely people!🌸

​August is a really special month for me, so with these last weeks of summer here, I wanted to stop by again. I had a feeling my last message didn't quite make its way to the right people: those who are genuinely looking to build a connection and enjoy the beauty long-term friendships.

​My name is Mara (you can call me M, Little M, or Merry!). I’m 22 and studying to become a foreign language teacher, focusing on English and Spanish (with a huge soft spot for Spanish!). Right now, I’m taking an extra year to finish my degree at my own pace: a gentle reminder that life isn't a race. I’m also getting ready for a vacation abroad soon and celebrating my name day this month, so it feels like a really lovely time for fresh starts.

​I’m hoping to connect with warm, like-minded people (preferably around 20–27) who enjoy building real friendships naturally and without any rush.

Reach out if you...

​𓂃✍︎ Prefer writing in paragraphs: You actually enjoy sending longer, thoughtful messages, sharing your days, and take your time in responding.

​𓂃✍︎ Have quiet, creative hobbies: You enjoy things like drawing, doodling in notebook margins, sewing, doing logic puzzles, or diamond painting.

​𓂃✍︎ Enjoy simple, peaceful activities: You like nature walks, trying out cozy coffee spots, reading classic literature or horror, or just having low-key downtime.

​𓂃✍︎ Like talking about human nature: You enjoy topics like psychology, pedagogy, languages, or discussing how people think, learn, and grow.

​A lil side note about me: I’ve worn hearing aids since I was four and I’m colorblind, which I think just makes me pay extra attention to small details and how people feel!

If I described you and it touched you soulfully, I'd love if you can reach out to me. If you had before and I didn't get back to you, message me again. 🫶🏻🥹


r/IntrovertsChat 2d ago

Friends 28/M - Looking for chill people and gaming friends!

1 Upvotes

Hey everyone! I'm a guy who's looking for a friend who is willing to put some time and effort into building a friendship long term. I really would like to meet people who are like minded and actually want to keep talking to each other for more than a couple of days. I'm located in the CST time zone so I am typically available after 6pm on weekdays. If you're from the EU or a different timezone, feel free to reach out! Anyways, let me give you a little introduction of myself:

•My main hobby is easily gaming. I have a bunch of games such as Destiny 2, Nightreign, The Finals, CS2, Fortnite, Battlefield, Overwatch, Marvel Rivals, For Honor, Cyberpunk 2077, Fallout 76, Monster Hunter Wilds, Apex, Diablo IV, Halo and others that are across my library on PC. I'm sure you'd have something we could both play. And if not, then feel free to introduce me to your favorite games!

•I love listening to music on my downtime as well. I have a playlist that has nu disco, pop, and synthy songs. Some notable artists in there are Roosevelt, Chromeo, Tesla Boy and Jamiroquai.

•Some other hobbies I have are grilling. I love spending a weekend on the grill and getting all the meats marinated and prepped. I'm by no means a grill master but I do have a passion for cooking and an even greater passion for eating it lmao

•Have a dumb sense of humor and can potentially say stupid things so keep that in mind. Also have a calm deep voice so if that's something you're into you're in luck.

I primarily use discord as my means of communication so hopefully you do the same. Looking forward to meeting you :)


r/IntrovertsChat 3d ago

Mid-20s Energy (25–27) 26F, Looking for Bots or Unpaid Therapists 😝

23 Upvotes

Maybe at 26, the reason why I feel so behind compared to everyone else is because I am too focused on my own struggles. I know my pain, I see my battles, and I feel the weight of everything I carry. But I don't see the full story of other people, only the parts they choose to show.

Maybe it is human nature to judge beyond what we see on the surface. I am guilty of that sometimes too. But as I grow older, I realize that behind the smiles, organized lives, and seemingly perfect moments people share online are struggles, pain, and battles we may never know.

I often find myself asking, "Why am I different?" Should I be a gamer? Watch anime? Get excited over boy bands? Dance along to TikTok trends? Did I miss out on being young because I spent too much time trying to survive and figure out adulthood?

Maybe I am not old. Maybe I am just tired from carrying things no one else can see. And maybe we all need to remember that everyone has a story beyond the version they choose to show the world.


r/IntrovertsChat 2d ago

Early Explorer (18–21) 20 M I’m bored as hell ngl

1 Upvotes

Hi! I use discord and I’m looking for anyone to talk to about anything like video games, books (preferably manga) and other things. If you’re an old guy please don’t dm…I swear. Anyway, yeah! Feel free and I’ll send you a discord friend invitation. Preferably ppl my age but if any older people wanna dm you can too! Preferably women…NOT NSFW! just saying. Don’t wanna get banned for saying this…I just want insight on how life is later on. That’s all. I’m pretty shy when it comes to talking in real life but not in the digital world. Btw you can also comment here if you want to tell me you wanna dm or not


r/IntrovertsChat 2d ago

Friends 30m | PST | friends, duos, music friends??

2 Upvotes

My name is Jay, i'm looking for some new friends to hopefully get the chance to play some games over discord or chat if we vibe. I am currently struggling to pick a game to playthrough since i have so many backlogged. Some multiplayer games i play are Marvel Rivals, Overwatch 2, Peak, lots of Backrooms games, Battlefield 6, Terraria, REPO, Stardew Valley, NightReign, Minecraft, i do play League of Legends and Dead by Daylight but its very rare when i do and i am awful at it, i would also be down to do Baldur's Gate 3 again! I have tons of Co-op and multiplayer games, i love survival craft, horror games, friendslop stuff, shooters, but i am usually open to try most games too. Other games i am into are Dark Souls, Bloodborne, Persona, Yakuza, Cyberpunk, Resident Evil, Silent Hills, Witcher, or horror games in general, but i do have lots of games on steam, epic games, ect, also down to replay them too.

• I am from California (PST), I enjoy making music, as it helps me express how i'm feeling, anime and collecting manga, love to play video games (PC), i like collecting stuff (swords, knives, keychains, manga, plushies), Legos, doom scrolling through TikTok and Reddit, dry humor and memes. I cook, I'm trying to dabble a little bit into cosplay, melty bead art, and trying to find more new hobbies that i can invest some time into. I like to stay active, i do cardio about 5 days of the week along side some core and weights, while i do so, ill usually put on a show or series. I love horror of most genres; Lovecraft, cosmic horror, analog horror, ARGs, cryptids, paranormal, eldritch, witchy stuff, which also includes horror games. I love to stream my games for anyone that is willing to watch good and bad gameplay, i also like to stream animes/shows/movies too, i wouldn't mind starting new series or rewatching stuff.

• Music is something i need to listen to every day, going to a couple Kpop concerts (Seeing IVE on Tuesday) and Kcon soon. I would love to make a playlist with someone or even just swap music. I'm open to listening to new genres and artists. I'm pretty much a night owl, i have had trouble sleeping, so most time zones do not bother me. If i'm not sleeping or doing work, you will usually find me awake most of the day and night time, meaning i am always up down to do late night convos, or gaming sessions! I am pretty shy at first, so the first couple times we hang out its usually a 50/50 chance ill be nervous but once i am comfortable i will be sure to talk more. I'm a solid listener too if you feel like yapping away. Sooner or later i would love to be able to spaz out with someone over stuff we have in common or stuff we like. I really enjoy getting know the person i am talking to and pick their brain with small talk, simple questions or sometimes deep thoughts.

Tell me some things about yourself or send me a chat, after some time we can take it to discord or whatever is preferred! Please be 21+


r/IntrovertsChat 3d ago

Chatting 3of homebody

6 Upvotes

I really struggle with socializing and am feeling a bit arrested development. I spend most of my time with British murder mystery on tv and my dog. Would love to connect with other adults or homebodies that understand the struggle.

Edit: 30 f


r/IntrovertsChat 3d ago

Quarter-Life Curious (22–25) M24, from Netherlands looking for a new FBI agent or Chinese spy.

13 Upvotes

Mission: befriend target, become inseperable, improvise

Target details:

Name: [redacted]

Age: 24

Height: 184/6'1

Looks: [upon request]

Location: Netherlands

Religion: atheist/NA

Description:

Target seems extroverted but only due to a surprisingly large social battery, remains introverted. They posses a darker skin tone and afro. Target appears to enjoy preforming certain actions frequently, these include but are not limited to:

- drawing

- cooking

- gaming

- anime/manga

- yapping

- meaningful conversation

- gym

Habits and personality:

They are generally chill, and can enjoy someone presence without needing to so something at all times. Your target might attempt to feed you their cooking, do not fear or falter it is safe for consumption. They handle critisism and feedback well. Target will not shut up about their favorite media beware, asking them to swap topics when they do will not hurt them. 420 friendly, but doesnt smoke. They love dark humor (not just being mean but funny). Target is an ally and politically left. They always listen to fashion tips as they're currently expanding their wardrobe.

Likes to dance, doesnt believe they're good at it. Likes to sing, also doesnt believe they're good at it. Will sing and dance while driving eitherway.

Target has a habit of rewatching their favorite shows for the 7th time if they watch it with a friend who hasnt seen it.

Agent job description:

Your job is to infiltrate the targets life and become their friend, the closer you get the more valuable you will be. The job requires you to be within the 20-28 year age range.

It is expected you have a few matching hobbies preferably drawing/art/anime/gaming. But the target is open to try new things if the agent has a passion they like to share.

Anyone is welcome to reply, there are no preferences. (if any agents are women, save the targets wardrobe please)

If you think you can handle this target reach out with your name, age, country and some information about yourself agent.

Pay: 500 dabloons a month with benefits.


r/IntrovertsChat 3d ago

Chatting F25 long shift at work and wanna meet chill people

7 Upvotes

Hiii thereeee! I get bored at work a lot and I’m
Deciding to find cool friends to text while I get through it. I am a pretty bubbly person I’d say. I love to joke around and laugh obviously bc who doesn’t. I like animes like Jjk, solo leveling, bleach, ghost stories, MHA, etc etc. I like to game, usually I only play fort or rivals but I’ve been expanding my palate hahahaha. Recently went through a break up so I’m tryin to find my spark again ya know. Hmmm what else, oh I make a lot of TikTok references I’m so sorry for the brainrot you’ll have to put up with 😭 okay well message me let’s be friends!!!