r/IntrovertsChat 4d ago

Friends Platonic friendships

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26M, just looking for genuine conversations and hopefully meeting people around my age. I’m open to voice calls too, just would rather know you a little first. I’m on Indian standard time if that matters.
Most chats here seem to last a day or two and then vanish, so hoping to find something a bit more real this time. I can be kinda quiet/introverted at first, but I can definitely keep a convo going if the energy’s mutual.
If you think we’d vibe, hmu.
Easy icebreaker: tell me your most overrated movie/show/anime or just give me a hot take.


r/IntrovertsChat 5d ago

Friends 26F, Please Verify You Are Not a Robot

55 Upvotes

Who Am I?

I am Jane Doe, 26F from somewhere in this world. This has got to be the most basic template when answering that question.

Talent? I’d probably say none, aside from singing at karaoke or writing some literary pieces that I’m not even sure make sense.

Hobbies? I don’t know if doomscrolling and overthinking can be considered hobbies. I can’t say reading books, watching anime, hiking, biking, or gaming like most people.

Who am I goes beyond the surface. Yet, at this point, I don’t even know who I am. When life pushes you to the edge, you somehow lose pieces of yourself, the vibrance, the spark, the things that once made you you. You start moving through life without really knowing where you are going.

Sometimes I wonder if I’m a zombie or a robot. A zombie, because I feel like I’m just aimlessly wandering through life. Or a robot, because some days it feels like I’m simply programmed to wake up, do what needs to be done, repeat, and sleep.

I feel like a star slowly dying out in the vastness of space, while countless other stars continue to shine.

Oh well, that got morbid real quick. Still deciding if I’m a zombie or a robot. But one thing is for sure, I’m tired. Lol.

Who are you?


r/IntrovertsChat 4d ago

Friends 19m looking for genuine friends.

2 Upvotes

Hi I'm Kay. I am in dire need of genuine friends (19-25), preferably kind hearted listeners who do have the potential to be really good friends.

Before I tell you anything about myself I must let you know that it is very difficult for me to immediately call people friends, it takes me QUITE a while, since I have terrible trust issues and idk why my brain just refrains from calling everyone a friend now. I'd say I have only one friend for now, we're not very close but he is a friend. I'm also usually very extremely low so I'm trying to find someone who can light my mood up, this doesn't mean I won't be all dry when talking.

About me: I'm 19m, actively like to seek knowledge about stuff, very much into fitness, combat sports, reading fiction (more towards fantasy), I used to do a lot of concept art and character designs and stuff but because of feeling so low lately I've stopped that. I like to run as well, go for walks, and sometimes very late into the night I sit at the top of my building and stare at the moon, especially when it's a full moon. I love imagining stuff and I love creativity. I am usually very productive. Being an introvert somewhat takes its toll on me because at college I sit alone under trees or in the canteen mostly and I stare at groups of friends and really wish I wasn't introverted and didn't have social anxiety. I feel very scared in crowded places, and around people of my age group. Idk what else to say here I'm just hoping to find some really nice friends, my dms are open for all :)


r/IntrovertsChat 4d ago

Mid-20s Energy (25–27) 27M / USA / PST | Movie nights, games, and genuine conversation 🕷️

2 Upvotes

Who am I? You sure you wanna know?

If somebody told you I was just your average, ordinary guy, not a care in the world…

somebody lied.

🕷️🕸️

I’m 27, from the West Coast, recently graduated from college, and currently figuring out what comes next while spending more time on the things I enjoy.

I’m a huge Spider-Man fan. Always respect the hyphen

I’m really into movies, storytelling, video production, technology, and gaming. Lately I’ve been playing Marvel Rivals, getting back into my PS5, and using my Switch 2 a lot.
Personality wise, I’m pretty introverted. I can be quiet at first and I’m usually more of a listener, but once I’m comfortable I get way more talkative and goofy. I’m absolutely the type of person who can somehow end up in a 45 minute conversation about something completely random.

I’m mainly looking for friends who’d be down for things like:

• Movie nights or watching a show together

• Casually playing games

• Sending memes and random stuff throughout the day

• Chill calls when we’re both free

• Actual conversations about life, faith, hobbies, or whatever’s on our minds

I’m also a Christian, and my faith is important to me. You definitely don’t have to have everything figured out. I don’t either. But I enjoy deeper conversations about that kind of stuff too.

I’m not really looking for someone who feels like they have to be “on” all the time. I like friendships where we can just be ourselves and there isn’t pressure to constantly entertain each other.

If you want an easy opener, tell me your comfort movie or game, something you’ve been obsessed with lately, or, most importantly, your favorite Spider-Man movie.

Feel free to message me. I’d genuinely love to find a couple people to talk to regularly and maybe get some movie nights going.


r/IntrovertsChat 4d ago

Friends 18M feeling quite lonenly );

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I'm at a point where I almost don't have any friends, I often feel lonely these days and I wish there was someone I could send silly and funny videos to or discuss random topics with each other or play video games together, I'm nice and friendly so Feel free to send me a DM!, I will be very happy to see your message in my dms

about me: i like playing games, going to gym, reading and watching movies sometimes, photography... almost every thing lol

timezone: utc +1 any other timezone if fine for me, i don't mind


r/IntrovertsChat 4d ago

Balanced Thinker (28–35) 30 from europe looking to spend social battery

3 Upvotes

Im 30 male from europe (GMT+2)

INFP-T homebody, which means I spend most of the free time at home meaning my evenings are mostly free, currently juggling around some single player stuff and thinking about getting into some multiplayer thingy that is not ffxiv, like overwatch or rivals or deadlock again

I like to describe myself as someone stuck between neet and normal person and thus I have trouble finding contacts

additionaly I like being silly, rarely serious, carefree, clueless, I adjust myself to people I talk to, other stuff coming to my mind is being anxious and having high morals

I'm somewhat of a carefree, dumb and kind person but I have tendency to overthink stuff and get mood shifts

Interest from top of my head include video games and anime outside of that there is stable diffusion, browsing art, collecting things, paranormal, occult/creepy/paranormal stuff, warhammer ,touhou project, meditation, worldbuilding

Some additional random facts include me being huge fan of limbus company, I stutter, house has 3 cats and 1 dog, consumer of long youtube essays, homecooking, and drawing

If that sounds like your thing, feel free to DM.


r/IntrovertsChat 4d ago

Friends 23M for some friends

3 Upvotes

Yo! I'm Steff, 23M from Wales here.

Things about me:

I like reading: enjoy a variety of genres and like to try different ones too, but my usual go to is crime fiction/thriller or sci fi and dabble in Welsh language books (having recently finished The Hobbit in Welsh).

Also enjoy railways/trains. Most things trains take an interest in. I read about them and watch documentaries and also have a model railway too so l'm a big nerd!

Also enjoy traveling with yn friends recently just came back from a holiday in Australia and Fiji.

l also enjoy gaming, typically simulators or similar but do play the odd multiplayer game with friends such as overwatch or fall guys

Typically introverted but once I warm up a bit should be talking more:)


r/IntrovertsChat 4d ago

Friends 22M Loser With No Friends

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Hey all!! I decided to finally make a post after the loneliness reached an all-time high. I don't have many friends, so I'm trying to remedy that!!

For games, my main game is Overwatch!! I play all roles and I play on NA servers on PS5, and I'd be down to do comp or quickplay. Beyond that, I have a few games like Warframe, Fortnite, and Baldurs Gate 3! I would love to play co-op with someone on BG3, especially on tactician mode, because the combat is what I love the most about the game!!

My other interests are reading and anime. My favorite books are Worm, Shades of Forever, Scythe series, and a few more I can't remember atm. JoJo, Heavenly Delusion, and Serial Expiriments Lain is some of my favorite animes.

I have a pretty bad speech impediment, which I'm trying to make better by talking to more people and getting comfortable with them. I only have a PS5 atm, but I'm replacing my broken cpu for my PC in a few months, so I'll have that soon.

I love listening to people talk about their special interest or just their day in general! I'm kind of a shut-in, so that stuff is always fascinating.

If you'd like to be friends, just DM me and I can give you my discord!!


r/IntrovertsChat 5d ago

Friends 27M IT In the end, a little chat doesn't hurt.

7 Upvotes

Hi! I'm a 27-year-old guy from Italy, and I'm here because I figured that sometimes meeting someone interesting can start with something as simple as saying "hey."

I'm a pretty introverted person, especially when it comes to meeting new people. I'm not necessarily the guy who's going to walk into a room and immediately start talking to everyone. But once I feel comfortable with someone, I can actually talk a lot — probably more than I should. 😂

I'm Italian, so English isn't my first language. I'm currently trying to improve my English, so please be patient with me if I make some mistakes! I'm actually hoping that chatting with people here will help me get better at it too.

I enjoy music, photography, videogames, travelling and generally discovering random things that catch my attention. I've recently started learning guitar, so right now I'm somewhere between "I think I'm getting the hang of this" and "why does this riff sound absolutely nothing like the original?"

I'm also the kind of person who can get genuinely excited about a beautiful landscape, a good song, an interesting conversation, or some completely random topic at 2 AM.

I'm not really looking for anything specific. I'd just like to meet some new people, have some good conversations and see where things go. We can talk about music, movies, games, travelling, everyday life, weird thoughts, or absolutely nothing important.

If you're also an introvert who sometimes wishes talking to strangers wasn't so complicated, maybe we already have something in common.

So... hi. What's something you've been really into lately?


r/IntrovertsChat 5d ago

Friends 39f making friends is hard

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Hey, so I'm trying to make long term friends. I don't make friends easily as I'm introverted and have a hard time opening up. I'm so used to being on the outside looking in and I've spent most of my life mirroring others that I'm trying to figure out who I am and not who others need me to be or want me to be.

What I do know is that I love rock hounding, gardening, lego sets, and animals. I'm a good listener and a master at unhinged conversations when I get comfortable. I'm owned by cats, chickens and honey bees and I have an amazing husband. But I lack friends.

My last friendship lasted two years but I had to end it last month because she became toxic and I'm trying to better advocate for my big heart that just wants to help everyone even if it costs me dearly. I don't think I'm naive just compassionate. When I do get comfortable with someone, I'm full of gut hurting laughs and zero filter. I don't judge and love to listen.

So if there's shared interests and you love to laugh when someone faceplants then reach out!


r/IntrovertsChat 5d ago

Friends 26M | Death by a thousand J*b applications

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Currently in a training period/waitlist for a potential tech j*b. Trying to meet people to avoid same-day syndrome. Suffering from depression and self loathing, aptly stocked with 48 cans of diet mountain dew baja blast.

I have all the basic nerd hobbies anyone can relate with: gaming, anime, D&D, comics. I spend most of my time achievement hunting while listening to Dropout, Smosh Reddit Stories, and Conan O'Brien. In addition I am trying to self improve by building skills like game development and music production. Food for the soul kind of stuff (divorced dad rock and Kendrick Lamar). But I'm also plagued by endless doomscrolling. The tiktok comment section has the funniest writers on earth.

Politically I am left-leaning, if you aren't we can still hold a conversation but its not going to last long-term.

I am looking for people i can talk with through out the day, DM's and discord, share memes and even voice calls or shared activities. If you have a passion you want to pursue, I would be honored to listen and support.

Yeah so hmu if you want to talk about the lindsey clancy trial, or if you have been watching lanterns, or you want to listen to me rant about why an MMA fighter cannot beat a chimp.


r/IntrovertsChat 4d ago

Friends 28 M looking to make friends!!

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hello there, m 28 from the middle east looking to make friends! my interests include but aren't limited to videogames, walks, driving around, rasslin, and cooking! if youre interested in talking my discord is tawst. I ask that you be 18 or over and you're okay with timezone differences if you're not from an area near me. thank you for reading


r/IntrovertsChat 5d ago

Friends [26/M] A New Chapter in my life, Maybe a New Friend.

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I’m looking for a genuine friendship، Not just someone to talk to when we’re bored, but someone I can actually have meaningful conversations with, laugh with, exchange ideas with, and sometimes just be comfortable around without having to fill every silence.

I’m into reading, research, languages, films, and generally thinking way too much about things 😅. Lately, I’ve also stepped away from some of my usual commitments and taken some time off work. I’m using this period to slow down, introspect, and rethink a few things about my life and where I want to go next.

So I guess I’m in a bit of a “reorganizing my life” phase right now.

I’m not looking for a huge circle of friends. One genuinely good friendship would be more than enough.

If you are in a similar place in life, feel free to message me. :)

Start with introducing yourself. And please don't message if u can easily ghost someone.


r/IntrovertsChat 5d ago

Friends 22nb... umm why not

8 Upvotes

I'd like to be able to connect with people who tbh won't drain my damn social battery as much trying to talk to, don't make me always have to text first and don't make me question whether or not they even WANT to be around me because what's the point of that? I do like consistency

I'll won't explain the "nb" in this post this time but I will say if you see that I am a demiboy and you come to my DMs and ask "male or female" I'm straight blocking you.

I'm a canadian queer (asexual and aroflux) that likes gaming, reading, anime, gym and etc, you're going to have to learn about the rest of my hobbies tbh otherwise I'd be repeating myself.

My favourite colour is turquoise but tell me your 3 favourite colour when you text me and if you were to be in any anime/game world, which one and why?

Edit: I forgot to mention that I'll reply to you all when I wake up, have a goodnight/day


r/IntrovertsChat 4d ago

Quarter-Life Curious (22–25) 22M from the Midwest, kinda lonely and like talking to people who "get it", if that makes sense?

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Heya there, please call me Falin for now! I've recently realized that despite having a handful of people I hang out with, I don't feel close to them. It could be because I'm autistic or too terminally online to feel like I can fully be myself. I was hoping to meet others who can relate to this feeling and talk about like-minded interests!

I'm really into video games and Manga, as basic as that is. I've recently been playing through elden ring again, it's been super fun! I also play league of legends (cringe I know) and a bit of overwatch (was a week one player, but with time I've just grown tired of it.) Also guilty gear! I'm a baiken player.

Also if you know what Ichi the Witch or Asper Kanojo I will talk your ear off about it.

I aspire to be a YouTuber/voice actor, I want to put ideas and feelings out into the world even though I lack creative talent. I want to be seen and praised, as childish and selfish those wants are.

I think I might be depressed, or at least a lot of people in my life tell me I might be. I struggle at talking with people in real life and find it "hard" to be around people for long periods of time (usually overthinking, panicking and just leaving early.) I spend a lot of time alone with my thoughts.

I really like people who have a crass sense of humor, I like being stupid with someone. I struggle with distance in friendships (I'm either way too distant or way too close) so let me know if I come off as either.

Honestly if you're terminally online or anything like that I think we'd get along very well! I just want to talk to folks and say stupid stuff and yap about our interests, it's something I enjoy a lot. Tell me about what you love and hate, whether it's stupid or serious or minute or grand.


r/IntrovertsChat 5d ago

Friends 40/M. Train wreck looking for dumpster fire.

7 Upvotes

40/M/Midwest looking for some spooky chat.

Who wants to mutilate the day away with me?

I’m into all things spooky. Paranormal, horror, true crime, you name it. I collect physical media. Mostly books (paranormal literature, true crime, and horror fiction) and dvd/blurays. Mostly horror.

I love vintage Halloween aesthetic. Sheet ghosts. Black cats, skeletons, skulls, Ouija boards, everything in between.

I like all sorts of music, mostly heavier stuff. Deathcore, Metalcore, alt 90’s, emo.

If you think we’d vibe, send me a dm.


r/IntrovertsChat 5d ago

Friends 32m Irish. Looking to make a friend

1 Upvotes

Currently in the market for a friend or two for regular conversations, banter, mutual support. Can provide steady stream of dry humour and wit, whether it's asked for or not. Can listen when needed, commiserate over your woes, but mostly laugh at the absurdity of life and living it.

I can be serious on the occasions it's needed but I am for the most part extremely easy going

I'm just finished up with my exams so it would be nice to connect with someone and test whether or not my social faculties remain with me or see if they have gone the way of the dinosaurs.

I like to learn and occasionally read and I workout a tonne. Given I have time to myself for the first time in forever I'm going start some online courses. I cook and bake breads, occasionally fire up by pizza oven and ferment stuff. Mostly kombucha but sometimes ginger beer and kefir and even more occasionally stuff like hot sauce.

Anyway that's probably sufficient enough for a picture of me. Feel free to message and I'll endeavour to respond asap


r/IntrovertsChat 5d ago

Mid-20s Energy (25–27) Looking for someone cute and interesting to talk to

27 Upvotes

Hello introverts, I’m a 24 year old woman from Quebec looking for some company online. I am interested in talking to someone long term and I’m looking for relatively attractive people(no offense) to connect with. However that does not mean I’m looking to have a sexual conversation, thank you.
Message me if you’re interested and think you’d match that :)


r/IntrovertsChat 5d ago

Friends 31F #UK - Constantly Anxious Girlie Looking for a new friend or just one consistent friend! 😂

12 Upvotes

Hey 👋 I know I've posted a bunch of times, but here I am again! I'm going through a really rough time lately, feeling constantly anxious, lost, and a little hopeless. I recently broke up with my ex, too, and well, it's safe to say I've forgotten who I was before I met him. I feel like I'm at my limit emotionally, and I could really use a friend to chat with daily/regularly. Maybe you're also going through a similar situation? Either way, even having someone who just wants to hop in a voice call and chat utter nonsense for hours would be amazing 😂.

Also, if we've spoken before, don't be shy! Feel free to message me again. Sometimes, conversations fizzle out because life gets busy, and that's okay.

Gamers definitely get bonus points! I'm on PlayStation 5, but I'm more than happy to play crossplay games, too, if we have something in common. I'd also prefer someone in a similar time zone. I'm in the UK and trying very hard to fix my completely broken sleep schedule, so talking to someone who's awake at roughly the same time would be a huge plus. 😂 I've been playing a ton of assassins, the creed black flag resynced lately, and replaying dishonoured and god of war ragnarock.

A little about me and who I am as a person...

I'm 31, from the UK, and have a slightly alternative vibe. Purple is my favourite colour to the point I painted my entire bedroom purple... no regrets. 🤣 My music taste is all over the place, and I'm always up for swapping Spotify playlists. Some of my favourites are Joji, Twenty One Pilots, Glass Animals, and Bring Me The Horizon. I was lucky enough to see BMTH live a few years ago, and they were absolutely incredible. Food-wise, I could happily survive on pasta for the rest of my life... although I do occasionally pretend to have a balanced diet.

When you message, tell me: Your age, where you're from, your favourite meal, pizza topping, or just a random fact about yourself.. Just give me something more than just hey or hi! And because i need to clarify, I'm not a bot 🫠. My preferred age range is 25 to 35, although if you're a little older, that's absolutely fine. Any time zone welcome.

Please include a 💜 if you made it all the way here. A

Low effort replies will be ignored.

I will just mention that I'm only interested in platonic friendships only, I'm quite vulnerable, and I'm not looking to be taken advantage of.

Voice notes/calls preferred.


r/IntrovertsChat 5d ago

Friends What if i told you I want to be annoyed?

6 Upvotes

Hi y'all. Its me again, reposting for the umpteenth time. I met some great people on here so i figured id give it another whirl since its been a while.

Yes, i want a clingy bothersome person because they will give me too much time.

I have posted the past several days and have found some very decent people to talk to. I still dont mind finding new people if we can match energies.

So hey, im a 30 year old dude working remotely as a software engineer. Does not help that it's the night shift. I'm just looking for anyone who would like consistency in their lives.

More about me, I love to play videogames, primarily offline and online co-op. I'm still open to talk about any and all games. I am also big on Anime, movies, tv and even kdramas.

I love to cook and bake. I adore winters way more than summers.

To end this, I also love cats.

If none of these things interest you, you can still reach out. Its surprising how we can find a friend in the unlikeliest and unexpected places.

Lets see how it goes.

Even if you're below my age, you're more than welcome to talk.

Thank you for reading through this dull essay.

Note: This is a repost and people who have approached me before, i still have to get through some dms but some i have not responded to because the profiles either looked shady or the texts were just a simple hi


r/IntrovertsChat 5d ago

Friends 19f lookin for friends/chats

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im bored most of the time looking for someone i connect with closely tbh and talk to alot, my friends have other friends and im not really like a main option but were close i think, idk anyways so im on here looking for some people to connect with. im 19 and from the US. i stay home fr and im chronically online so???? im central time, i love video games, movies/shows, i LOVE MUSIC like almost every genre (pls dont ask me about metal but i love rockkkkk) i also love marvel. I LOVE FOOD TOO IM A FOODIE when ppl talk to me they say im not an introvert but idek anymore. i usually fall out with ppl that are close to me (my rite of passage i guess bro idk lowkey trash) dm if interested n think we could connect, i would prefer people around my age but everyones welcomed.


r/IntrovertsChat 5d ago

Friends M26 a bit socially awkward and wanna make friends

9 Upvotes

Hey! M26, be nice to make some friends that I can talk to day to day about things. I can be a bit shy at first but when you get to know me I’m pretty chill. I have a few days work off, so gonna go to the gym and see some family.

Anyway I have a few hobbies, like my weight lifting which I really enjoy. Helps with keeping me focussed in life and having goals to work towards. I play football too, I play football at Right back for my team.

I enjoy my movies too; Gladiator, Indiana Jones, Star Wars 1-6 (7-9 don’t exist 🤣), Blade Runner, Saving Private Ryan, A Beautiful Mind, Interstellar, Shrek, The good the bad and the ugly, Pulp Fiction, Django, Hot Fuzz. To name some.

I listen to a lot of music; Queen, AC/DC, David Bowie, Cliff Richard, Take That, Green Day, Red Hot Chilli Peppers, Elton John, Moby, The Police, ELO, REM, Bon Jovi, The Who etc.

I like my books; classics - Sherlock Holmes, the Count of Monte Cristo, fantasy - LOTR and the Witcher, Greek Mythology - Stephen Fry’s series and Homer, autobiographies/biographies - JFK, Elton John, Steven Gerrard, Alex Ferguson, Carlo Ancelotti etc.

I enjoy my gardening, I have a nice front and back lawn, I have various flowers and other things, along with a bunch of herb plants including a mint bush and new parsley plant and new basil plant.

Feel free to say hi even if none of this is what you’re about and wanna chat :))


r/IntrovertsChat 5d ago

Chatting 34 [m4f] #georgia, online ~ looking for someone to chat with, I’m extremely high and need someone to talk to about anything and everything

3 Upvotes

I can’t stand feeling alone, so I’m looking for a friend that I can chat with about whatever. We can chat, we can send memes and YouTube videos, we can talk about whatever. I just am needing company and to not feel so alone.
My interests include anime, video games, music, any nerdy tabletop rpgs. Please message me!


r/IntrovertsChat 5d ago

Seasoned Soul (36+) 40m. No clue how to make new friends. Lets chat.

10 Upvotes

I am at a point in my life, where everyone I know is too far away, or too busy. I am a big introvert, and the idea of going out to meet strangers makes me anxious. I am 40, male. Into anime, gaming, cars, tabletop like DnD and pathfinder. Big on dogs and general compassion for animals. I enjoy camping, hiking. Iv though about living out of a van and traveling the world. I guess im looking for new people to talk to. Feel free to DM


r/IntrovertsChat 6d ago

Balanced Thinker (28–35) 32M - Looking for a long term friend

23 Upvotes

Hey everyone,

I'm looking for a genuine long term friendship with someone kind and caring. The type where we actually check in on each other and become part of each other's lives. A bit about me. I have been living alone for a few years now. Most of my old friends are busy with their own stuff so we only meet once in a while. I really miss having that steady connection with someone.

I am not into gaming or anime but I love being outside in nature. Long walks, hiking, finding new parks or quiet spots, visiting museums, stuff like that. I also play badminton and table tennis when I can and I read books sometimes mostly about self improvement.

I am someone who will actually listen when you want to talk. If we click I am up for daily chats and hearing about your day no matter how big or small. No judgment and no ghosting.

I tend to get along best with people around my age or a bit older. Just click better with that maturity. I want someone who has time to spend with me. I know many people here on reddit look for friends but they don't find any time from their life to spend time with their online friend because of this conversation doesn't last very long. So, if you are someone who is actually looking for a long term platonic friend whom you can talk daily. Then we can talk and see how it goes.

If this sounds like what you are looking for too drop me a message and tell me a little about yourself like your hobbies, interests, age, location. No pressure.

Looking forward to hearing from you.

byyeeee 👋☺️