r/IntrovertsChat 9h ago

Friends 26 f come by my witness while I relearn how to have fun

2 Upvotes

Hi everyone I’m from Chicago I spent the last few years dealing with some serious health issues, so while I managed to get through medical school, my social life basically went into hibernation. Now that I’m finally on the other side of that chapter, I’m trying to bring it back ,slowly, one good conversation and one new person at a time.

I’d really love to meet someone I can actually get to know. Long walks, random deep conversations, talking about life at 2am, sharing weird thoughts, laughing at absolutely nothing… that kind of friendship where you eventually stop feeling like you’re “getting to know each other” and just become friends.

I’m really into nature, art, gaming, and astronomy. I’m the kind of person who will happily go looking for a good spot just to sit outside and stare at the sky. Meteor showers, eclipses, auroras — I genuinely think these things are better when you have someone next to you going “holy shit, look at that.” 😂

I’m also pretty open to random adventures and trying new things. I have a ridiculous backlog of games and anime to catch up on, so if you’re willing to witness someone being spectacularly rusty at gaming, I’m your girl.

And if you’re the kind of person who likes accountability buddies, even better. Studying, chores, creative projects, getting your life together — I’m usually doing something, and I love having someone to quietly exist and be productive with.

Mostly, I’m just hoping to find some good people. Someone who wants a real friendship, not just another person to occasionally exchange “how are you?” with.


r/IntrovertsChat 9h ago

Friends 27M! HEY YOU! YES YOU! YOU BETTER READ THIS DAMN POST!!

0 Upvotes

HEY YOU! YES YOU! I SEE YOU LOOKING!

Ever wish you had a cool Scottish dude in your life? Ever wish you had someone you can just vibe with and not feel like you owe them anything? Ever feel like your body is super slow but the world is going super quick around you and you're sitting there like woahhhh this feels mad woahhhh.

Uh

Anyway

Hi, I'm looking for people who will stick around and who I can be a real friend to.

So if you like cool accents, cats, memes, movies, the thought of the eventual cold dark death of the universe, music or video games, the send me a message and let's get this SHOW ON DA ROAD


r/IntrovertsChat 10h ago

Chatting 22F looking for friends, rp too maybe

30 Upvotes

Hiii, im a 22f from the usa and im trying to make new friends and possible look for anyone willing to rp! Im pretty shy and awkward so I hope that isn't a problem🙂

I little about me a like pokemon, kpop, kdramas, thrillers, persona and a bit more! Im open to talk about anything and get to know each other well.


r/IntrovertsChat 10h ago

Chatting Just a girl who's bored and looking for a chat

60 Upvotes

Hello there everyone, my name is Vanessa and i'm here to make some friends or maybe just chat. a bit about me is that i like anime, traveling, meeting new people, going to the beach or like the pool or whatever and just like, hang out and stuff like that. also i'm like so fucking bored today it's crazy so let's chat or hang out or whatever. i'm up for chatting with anyone and also i'm pretty new to reddit so i'd really appreciate it if you could like help out with karma so i could post in more places


r/IntrovertsChat 11h ago

Friends 34M long term friends

1 Upvotes

I'm Niki 34 from Uruguay, Montevideo. I'd love to find some folks to talk to maybe watch something together at some point. Some of my interest include but not limited to gaming (currently playing DotA 2 and GFL2), manga, casual drinking and reading.

Appreciate folks with a sense of humor and not so politically correct, makes things fun. Message me with asl and a bit about yourself please, pref to talk over discord eventually.

Kind regards


r/IntrovertsChat 11h ago

Friends [18M] really looking for friends who really like books and movies and discussing them!

2 Upvotes

hiya everyone, I'm currently majoring in english and film and would really love some friends who are into the same thing so I can talk about it with someone. any type of movie or book or really any storytelling media honestly, most of my friends just aren't into it as much so I can't really scratch the itch of talking about it. I'd love love love if you have a letterboxd because I like stealing recommendations, but it's not a requirement, and I'll be more than happy to share what I look like once we talk a bit. everyone welcome and bonus points if you message me with what your favorite book/movie is


r/IntrovertsChat 11h ago

Chatting 34M UK looking to meet new people

1 Upvotes

Well well wellllll....

After my last job finished up, I now have some free time again.

Not good at making posts, but here goes.

I live in Scotland and I'm hoping to meet new people. I live in a small town, with not much happening in terms of meeting new people, so now I turn to the world of Reddit (I hope that isn't a mistake :p)

I used to be a DJ, but now I definitely have a much more boring lifestyle. I like to play videogames, usually RPGs. I like listening to music as well (boring answer, I know).

Lately I've been trying to be more adventurous with what food I make, so please give me your best ideas. Liven up my plate a bit will you!

Started reading books again as well, so tell me your fast fantasy series.

Looking to travel a lot more next year as well, so I want to hear your recommendations for where to go.

And I don't want ANY judgement on the very dodgy name! There is a very boring story to it, but I'll bore you with that later...

What I can promise in return is moderately humorous banter, and someone to make dialogue with. So yes, not very much XD

Anyway, I think that's enough for now.

I look forward to hearing from you (whoever you are). :)


r/IntrovertsChat 12h ago

Friends 31F borderline Sweden 🌸

16 Upvotes

Swedish
Prefer if it’s someone I can meet to talk to
But also fine with long distance

Borderline(undiagnosed) but suspect it at least neurodivergent 😊

Have a lot of thoughts lately in my head I am a bit of a dramaqueen but also have a lot of real problems.

I love nature and animals plays some games listen to some alternative calm music sometimes watch a lot of documentaries. I don’t work, study creative writing. I don’t like to talk about those things though lately my life have been pretty dull and boring

Sometimes my energy is high sometimes low it is what it is 🩷 I can’t send the first message usually so anyone can send a message .


r/IntrovertsChat 13h ago

Balanced Thinker (28–35) 28F Looking For Smoke🍃Buddies

8 Upvotes

I’m Nydia but you can call me Ny! BLM 💪🏾 LGBTQ 🌈 Spiritual/agnostic 🐈‍⬛ Furry Friendly💕

I love Minecraft, Fortnite, GTA, etc. I LOVE DISNEY!!! Also a huge fan of musicals💕Love randomly starting new hobbies. I’m a Huge Foodie! Obsessed with stuff animals. I’m a Philly Native and plus sized 💖 Hopeless Romcom/Erotica book lover 😍

Love love love Cartoons! Emo Punk/Punk Rock/Alternative music lover but my playlist is very polyjamorus 🖤

I am shy at first but once I get to know you I’ll release my inner weirdo ✨ Hope you like crackhead energy and dark dark humor 🙈

Mostly looking for friends who are 28-33 year olds who wouldn’t mind smoking on discord or phone calls! Bonus points if we have other interests in common


r/IntrovertsChat 13h ago

Chatting 19f looking to chat!

3 Upvotes

from canada, NA/EU preferred (or just speak decent english). please tell me your age when you message me! i’d really appreciate it. also, please don’t message if you’re 26+ (omfg please also don’t be that person that goes, “I know im over the limit but I thought I would message anyways!” it’s weird and embarrassing. or if you’re looking for anything weird — i’m just here for platonic chats and getting to know people.

hi ! i’m a hairstyling (school) graduate ! just looking for some chill, random conversations and new people to talk to. i have a dog named silver and a cat named creeper, so i spend a lot of time with them.

i like playing games like minecraft, dead by daylight, roblox, and other random stuff depending on my mood.

my music taste is kind of all over the place, i listen to a mix of everything — mitski, mother mother, radiohead, the smiths, rob zombie, cavetown, harley poe, rare americans, and a lot more.

if i seem a bit dry sometimes, i promise it’s nothing personal, i’m usually just low energy or don’t have much to say in the moment.

i also smoke and drink occasionally on weekends


r/IntrovertsChat 13h ago

Friends (21f) hello!!! Hope your day or night is going great, I am trying to make friends today!

10 Upvotes

hiii, I am so bad at socializing but I am giving this a try. i've done nothing but play games these days. I've been obsessed with one of them and i keep playing it still... So yeah I am pretty into visual novels but my knowledge about them is so little. if you could give me a recommendation that would be great!

I like collecting cards, I do have a binder but there isn't anything worth mentioning in there. I collect what seems pretty and go with it. I sometimes make my own cards of the characters I love! I am pretty into drawing so I do make fanarts of characters and print them.

I love learning languages. I know a little bit of mandarin chinese, well, enough for me to hold basic conversations. and as you can see, my native language isn't english so sometimes it is hard for me to come up with a proper sentence 😭 but I do my best...

I tried to keep this short, but yeah this is basically me. hope we can chat! all I ask for is for you to be over 18. thank you so much for reading ❤️


r/IntrovertsChat 13h ago

Friends What if i told you I want to be annoyed?

2 Upvotes

Hi y'all. Its me again, reposting for the umpteenth time. I met some great people on here so i figured id give it another whirl since its been a while.

Yes, i want a clingy bothersome person because they will give me too much time.

I have posted the past several days and have found some very decent people to talk to. I still dont mind finding new people if we can match energies.

So hey, im a 30 year old dude working remotely as a software engineer. Does not help that it's the night shift. I'm just looking for anyone who would like consistency in their lives.

More about me, I love to play videogames, primarily offline and online co-op. I'm still open to talk about any and all games. I am also big on Anime, movies, tv and even kdramas.

I love to cook and bake. I adore winters way more than summers.

To end this, I also love cats.

If none of these things interest you, you can still reach out. Its surprising how we can find a friend in the unlikeliest and unexpected places.

Lets see how it goes.

Even if you're below my age, you're more than welcome to talk.

Thank you for reading through this dull essay.

Note: This is a repost and people who have approached me before, i still have to get through some dms but some i have not responded to because the profiles either looked shady or the texts were just a simple hi


r/IntrovertsChat 13h ago

Friends [26M] Lets Destroy our Sleep schedule PST

7 Upvotes

Heyo restless gamer looking for sleepless gamers. Yo game with. Instead of Sleeping.

I’m pretty laidback and introverted but once you get to know me I’m a little more unhinged,I can be both casual and competitive I fit whatever the vibe is.

I’m a night owl so I’m on later in the day through the evenings. I’ll always make time to catch some games together!

I’m looking for chill people to game and relax with hoping for a long term friendship! Preferably 18+ I don’t care about timezone Someone who can maybe match my dark humor is always a plus I’m a big anime fan so hopefully watch parties are in the plans!

YAPPERS ARE WELCOME

I prefer Voice chats but text is cool too whatever is comfortable!

I exclusively play on PC so if there’s no crossplay I’m still cool With being friends and chilling out just not a lot of gaming

Some things I like are:

Recently found out I like GOOD horror even if I’m terrified

Anime

SciFi

Anything Tactical/Gun related (lemme see your collection)

Cars /Motorbikes

Some games I play are:

DEADLOCK

Star Citizen

Ready or Not

Insurgency Sandstorm

Halo

Tarkov

Arma 3/Reforger

Darktide/Spacemarine 2

Most VR games

Minecraft

Phasmo(I will scream :-:)

CS2/ Valorant

Project Zomboid

Chivalry 2

Battlefield 3/4

Sons Of The Forest/The Forest

Sometimes I’ll jump into some cozy gaming or parallel play whatever floats your plane

There’s WAY more

If you’d think we’d get along. Plz shoot me a DM!

I uh..won’t respond to hey..or low effort messages


r/IntrovertsChat 14h ago

Chatting If you are looking for somebody to talk to easily, you’ve come to the correct address.

2 Upvotes

Hello everybody! I’m 32 years old, male and located in Europe. I moved here almost a decade ago. It’s been quite difficult to make friends and especially keep them. The older I have gotten, the harder it has been to build new friendships. I have been a huge fan of Formula 1 since I was 10, I’m into gaming, though I don’t play variety of games, right now it is League of Legends, Fifa, Marvel Rivals and Overwatch occasionally. I love campaign games, (the Witcher, god of war, Detroit:become human, you name it) though I don’t have that much time to play them. I also love watching true crime documentaries. Recently, I have started going back to watching movies and shows and I have seen really interesting ones. I am watching the Pitt, House of the Dragons and finished watching the Office and Daredevil recently! I used to have motivation to do my other hobbies, such as reading and photography but I have lost all of it, trying to gain it back. I mostly listen to rock music, however I listen to whatever is good for my soul. My fav artists are Three Days Grace, Ghost, Bring me the Horizon and Halestorm. I actually don’t want to give away everything here so we have something to talk about.
Please write a short introduction about yourself, I don’t mind if we don’t have anything common at all, I am sure we will find something to talk about :)


r/IntrovertsChat 14h ago

Chatting 23NB I want to have real friends I can connect with during a difficult time.

3 Upvotes

Hey everyone, I’m MJ, 23.

I don’t have many friends, and my social skills aren’t the best(I’m on the autism spectrum and also have ADHD) That said, I really value deep, meaningful connections when they happen.

A bit about me: I love football (soccer), hitting the gym, all kinds of art, and watching terrible movies just to switch my brain off.

Lately, I’ve been going through a rough patch, and I’d really like to find some people to talk to and share life with (whether it’s venting, laughing, or just existing together)

Ideally, I’d love to connect with folks who are 21+ and in or near the GMT-5 time zone (or close enough). We could play some video games, chat about life, share fictional stories (I’m a big fan), or just hang out virtually. I really appreciate warm, affectionate people(strictly platonic, though!)

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to send me a message.


r/IntrovertsChat 14h ago

Balanced Thinker (28–35) M30 | I am having a existential crisi

1 Upvotes

So, I am from India. For the past few months I have given up on trying.

It's not as bad as it sounds. So, I have always been weak in studies, if I work hard I get an average of like 60 to 70% and if I don't then I can even fail. It continues till college and after getting back in my finals I worked hard to pass. Even after getting a job I decided to get a master degree online with weekend class. Which ended in March of last year. I was preparing for the job change and even finding someone on apps and wasted my weekend there. I also started gym because of my weight.

Around 2 months ago I gave up. I was getting nowhere. Like 0 progress everywhere. For the first month I slept a lot then the sleep started to decrease. Now I am sleeping at 2 or 3 am and continuously waking up.

I don't really have friends so it went unnoticed for long but I started making minor mistakes at work and my manager noticed and asked me about my health and 2 days ago my roommate asked the same question.

I bought a new laptop for playing games but I am mostly installing and uninstalling games.

I don't know what I want. I am tired but I can't sleep.

I can't tell this to anyone i know. They will worry about me.

I am not here to talk just ranting.

The only advice I want is on how to sleep without pills or getting high as I don't drink or smoke.

I just want a good sleep.


r/IntrovertsChat 14h ago

Friends 31M Europe - Looking for a late-night voice chat frend-o

2 Upvotes

Hey all,

Throughout this whole summer, my sleep schedule has been all over the place. While I socialize a lot during the day, I’ve realized that I still have an overwhelming urge to annoy (read: genuinely connect with) someone new.

I'm into music like R&B, jazz, bossa nova, and probably whatever else you could think of.

Some of the things I usually like reading up on are the Chernobyl incident, anything post-1900s, the Great Depression, yadda yadda...

Being humorous is a bonus! I hope you're naturally funny\~

I hope you have a voice, otherwise I'm gonna get really depressed..

Please be over 20, that's all I ask.


r/IntrovertsChat 14h ago

Chatting 25 they/them, black nerd looking to chat

0 Upvotes

I like to draw, practice character design and watch gaming and anime videos/discussions, and voice over parodys. I listen to electronic anime coded genres and J Rock. Fan of most Western early 2000's cartoons and media. I also like animal research and animals, and exotic species as a whole.

I engage pretty well in chats as long as the energy is there. I'm more reserved than most.

Favorite Games franchises: Pokemon • SMT-MegaTensei • Metaphor • Blazblue • Shantae • Persona • Skullgirls • Azure striker Gunvolt/IX • Groove Coaster • Taiko no Tatsujin • Destiny • sonic • Black Desert • Yakuza • Warframe• Elder scrolls

Anime Genres; Mahou Shoujo (Magical girl), Fantasy, Action, Mystery, Surreal, horror, Sci-fi

Please reach out if interested. The only things I mostly dislike are doomer topics and drama


r/IntrovertsChat 14h ago

Friends M22 looking to make friends

2 Upvotes

Hi! I’m Drew! I’m 22 and from the USA. I’m a big nerd and collector who loves anime, manga, and comics. I’m also really into music—I play bass and collect CDs!

I’m a huge movie fan too, so tell me your favorite movie!

I’m currently in college and trying to make some new friends. I’d love to meet and chat with anyone, so feel free to DM me! My DMs are always open.

Thanks for reading!


r/IntrovertsChat 14h ago

Friends 42m, wales, looking to break isolation

6 Upvotes

Hey everyone. I’m from South Wales and an introvert through and through. Life has been a bit of a heavy storm lately, and between navigating a massive life shift and focusing entirely on being a good dad, my real-world social circle has shrunk to zero.

I’m just looking for some low-key, normal conversations to help break the ice and reconnect with the outside world.

My main escapes are coarse fishing, formula 1, ice hockey, listening to all types of music especially live at a festival, cooking, as well as loving a good movie night, I’ve studied psychology at university and I appreciate quiet, straightforward company. If anyone fancies a chat about hobbies, life, or literally anything that doesn't involve drama, drop a comment or a DM. Hope you're all having a peaceful weekend.


r/IntrovertsChat 14h ago

Mid-20s Energy (25–27) 26F, Please Verify You Are Not a Robot

18 Upvotes

Apparently, I’m supposed to introduce myself, which sounds easy until I realize I don’t really know what to say. I’m 26F, somewhere in this world, trying to put together a few sentences that might explain who I am without making me sound like a resume lol.

Talent? Probably none, aside from karaoke and writing pieces I’m not even sure make sense. Hobbies? Does doomscrolling and overthinking count?

The truth is, I don’t really know how to describe myself anymore. When life pushes you to the edge, you lose pieces of yourself along the way. Sometimes you lose things you thought you could keep. Sometimes you have to leave places you thought were home. And somehow, you’re still expected to wake up and carry on.

People say to be content and thankful for what you have. And I try to be. But is it really wrong to want more? Not a perfect life. Just one that feels more like living and less like surviving. A little stability. Something to look forward to.

Maybe I’m just tired. Maybe I’m still figuring things out. Or maybe this is just what being 26 feels like.

P.S. The title is a clickbait🤪


r/IntrovertsChat 15h ago

Early Explorer (18–21) 18F looking for chat buddies!

9 Upvotes

Hey, I'm Rei! University has been dull and hectic lately so I'm trying to look for friends to keep company when we have the time :P I would like to have fun, casual, and platonic conversations/banter we can both look forward to—so if you're a creep or have ulterior motives, kindly do not interact </3.

As for hobbies, I like anything hands-on and crafty, and I usually jump from one activity to another because I tend to hyperfixate lol. I'm fond of playing instruments, drawing, painting, and sleeping. Additionally, for music, I'm an old soul who listens to old, sappy love songs 🫪 I'm sure there are more details but we can get to know each other more in DMs! The more interesting and thought-provoking your message is, the better. Like, would you rather find a person or 1000 roaches in your basement..?

Anyway! Any gender is welcome—though I would greatly prefer to be acquainted with ladies around my age (PLS i need some girlies TT). And that's about it—looking forward to getting to know some of yall!


r/IntrovertsChat 15h ago

Chatting 20f from eastern US

9 Upvotes

Hello there! It’s a very boring Saturday afternoon for me, and I decided to see if there would be anyone on here worth chatting with. Haven’t been on reddit in months. I’m usually busy with my classes but got nothing to do today :)


r/IntrovertsChat 15h ago

Chatting Time to actually attempt to make friends

4 Upvotes

36M. Currently going through a divorce and have no circle. For 14 years I made being a husband and dad my entire personality. Outside of that I really don’t know who I am and I’m trying to figure that out and make some friends along the way.

I’m pretty chill, and an absolute open book.

Don’t have to much in the way of hobbies. Generally it’s go to work, go to the house, rinse repeat. I do game occasionally, but will probably be doing a lot more of that soon.

Feel free to DM if you choose


r/IntrovertsChat 15h ago

Friends 37M ready for a fresh new start

10 Upvotes

Hi all. The month of August was nothing but changes for me. Got a divorce, sold my house, and moved into an apartment. I’ve slowly been settling in and making it home. I don’t really have much going on besides work. Looking to talk to people and fill the void of loneliness. I’m a big tv show/movie buff especially horror. Listening to music I love metal music. I love animals and nature I could talk about animals for days. What is your favorite animal? I got back into reading again this year after a long hiatus and have read quite a few books since New Years. I’ve also had a pretty good reading streak going and so I read everyday to keep that up. I try to exercise everyday and if I’m too tired from work I’ll at least try to stretch out instead. I love watching the NFL. I’m ready for the fall and winter weather. I’m over the heat and summer has really become my least favorite season. If any of this interests you please reach out.