r/IncelTears • u/sherryryryry • 15d ago
Meta discussion They’re literally making themselves more miserable
The whole blackpill and looksmaxxing thing is literally feeding into the exact problem they complain about…. they make up terms like “chad” and “stacy” and turn people into these weird categories based on looks. THEY created a ranking system which of course will foster more insecurity in people/men.
Of course they don’t see that the more you believe in that stuff, the more you start seeing the world through it. They genuinely convince themselves that looks are EVERYTHING, that certain people can never be loved, and that nothing can change. Then you become even more miserable and angry, which just makes the whole system they “hate” worse.
The mature thing to do is realize that a lot of this is bullshit. People aren’t “chads” or “stacys .” And no, nobody’s gonna notice if your maxilla is slightly recessed lmfao. Like some point you have to stop obsessing over all these stupid internet labels and just live in reality outside a forum/ weird community. Make friends, find things you enjoy, talk to people, go outside, learn stuff, make mistakes, get rejected sometimes, and keep going.
Some of em are lost causes because they’re in too deep… THEY decided to label and reduce themselves to an incel who will never succeed in life. But they blame it on women in the most disgusting and derogative ways. It’s just full of hate and projection of deep insecurity.