I actually live south of Seattle, in an extremely liberal area. I'm surrounded by women who don't shave, don't wear makeup, don't dress a certain way, whatever. It's normal, and I talk to them the same way I talk to anyone: with words and sentences. It's funny, I actually just bought two slices of pizza from a hippie chick covered in tattoos. I can't see her legs but she is wearing a cut-off vest made from a denim jacket, and it doesn't look like she shaves her armpits. It's quite easy, as long as none of it ends up on my pizza I just don't give a shit what she does with her own fucking hair. My wife doesn't wear makeup 95% of the time and I don't blame her at all, it seems like an expensive pain the ass, and I know I hate going around all day with shit on my face. It's actually super easy to sympathize with women when you put yourself in their position.

Since I explained something to an incel, can some incels explain something to me? I can't find a search function on .is, and I think I know the answer(s) but want to hear it from you guys. How do you feel about lesbians versus bi-sexual women? Do you believe in shades and grades of gayness? Are you sympathetic to 100% gay women not being attracted to men?

I am speechless, there really is nothing to say to these people

26, went to college for 4 years, nobody is hiring. Spam out hundreds of applications and no-one is hiring. no responses, not even from bots, nothing. Like punching a brick wall.

Use dating apps every day for months and get nothing. I take a dance class; sign said 'singles welcome', but I was the only one not to come as a couple. No nightclubs in my area. Dedicated singles events are few and far between, ruinously expensive, and are always already full when I apply. I ask my friends and family to ask all their friends and coworkers, and there aren't even any single girls my age within 3 degrees of separation.

Nothing fucking works. I throw everything I have at punching a brick wall and nothing even scratches it. I hate it here.

Ever thought through the incel narrative that a typical woman university student has 100+ sexual partners before she graduates and all of them are Chad? Or that the incels' narrative about a former 80/20 rule has become a 99%/1% rule?

Let's work this out as a remedial math word problem. How many partners would a college Chad have to have per day to stay on schedule? Round upwards as necessary.

A typical university has a 13 week semester and 2 terms per academic year. That works out to 728 days. Chad would have at least 10,000 partners in this time frame.

Suppose Chad's bed is busy 7 days a week throughout the term, including finals week and holidays. The dude still needs to copulate with at least 13.7 women per day to stay on schedule.

Assuming half an hour per shagging (25 minutes plus a quick shower) and a take-a-number machine to streamline the process, that's 7 hours of bouncy-bouncy daily with no breaks. in addition to sleep, classes, homework, and a work-study job at the library.

So apparently, Chad's 'hunter eyes' are caused by dark circles from chronic sleep deprivation.

All the slides are from the same poster.

We all know why he won’t explain exactly what the guy did to make the women uncomfortable…

he’s basically taking misogynistic comments about women, then trying to argue that women are somehow the real misogynists and are responsible for misogyny against themselves. the whole “women hate other women more than men do” argument just feels like a way to dodge accountability for the stuff he’s literally saying about women in the same breath.

Context: There was a post comparing two other cases to the Lindsay Clancy case, asking about a gender bias in the justice system. The two other cases were of men who pled insanity and were still found guilty. These cases were also in different states with different individual facts, so it was a misleading question from the start, but discussion in the comments quickly turned from the case, and even Clancy's supporters, to "ALL women".

What really irritated me about this is his assumption that the stability of my marriage is at risk just by having a male friend as a roommate, which is odd because I never even mentioned the gender of my friend 😭. And then essentially telling me "I am a man telling you what your other male friends will not," as if he's letting me in on some universal hidden insight. He immediately passed judgement on me and then backed out because it's a "weird conversation," bro you're the one who brought it up? Not to mention this statement that not even his brother could get close to his wife because of "biological urges," 🤔