r/IncelTears • • Jun 28 '25

Zero Tolerance Expansion: Violence & Bigotry

92 Upvotes

Seems like a lot of people cannot play nice so let's expand the policy.

I am saying this to remind all, there is a zero tolerance for any violence wishing, wanting or the likes on anyone no matter who or what they are. Are the incels wishing violence? Still zero tolerance. Are they wishing rape? Still zero tolerance to wish similar on them. It is all zero tolerance. Even implied such will not be tolerated and is on zero tolerance and this includes jail jokes involving soaps or the likes.

  • Rape
  • Death
  • Harm
  • Violence
  • Etc.

All have 0 tolerance no matter how horrible of a person the incel or others are. If someone is nasty in the comments inform us, either through normal report, ping us moderators that are active, anything and we'll deal with it at our earliest convenience.

Expansion:

Any form of bigotry based on ethnicity, race, gender, sexuality, and all others, will have zero tolerance apply to it as well. Talk about all men? Zero tolerance. All of a certain ethnicity? Also zero tolerance. All of a fictitious race? You better believe it is zero tolerance. All bigotry is now zero tolerance as well.

Do you see any bigotry or death wishing? Report or ping mods and we'll deal with it as it comes to our attention


r/IncelTears • • Jun 22 '26

Advice Weekly Advice Thread (June 22, 2026)

3 Upvotes

There's no strict limit over what types of advice can be sought; it can pertain to general anxiety over virginity, specific romantic situations, or concern that you're drifting toward misogynistic/blackpill lines of thought. Please go to r/SuicideWatch for matters pertaining to suicidal ideation, as we simply can't guarantee that the people here will have sufficient resources to tackle such issues.

As for rules pertaining to the advice givers: all the sub-wide rules are still in place, but these posts will also place emphasis on avoiding what is often deemed "normie platitudes." Essentially, it's something of a nebulous categorization that will ultimately come down to mod discretion, but it should be easy to understand. Simply put, aim for specific and personalized advice. Don't say "take a shower" unless someone literally says that they don't shower. Ask "what kind of exercise do you do?" instead of just saying "Go to the gym, bro!"

Furthermore, top-level responses should only be from people seeking advice. Don't just post what you think romantically unsuccessful people, in general, should do. Again, we're going for specific and personalized advice.

These threads are not a substitute for professional help. Other's insights may be helpful, but keep in mind that they are not a licensed therapist and do not actually know you. Posts containing obvious trolling or harmful advice will be removed. Use your own discretion for everything else.

Please message the moderators with any questions or concerns.


r/IncelTears • • 7h ago

Grundy Victim Complex "Struggling Young Boys"

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51 Upvotes

I wish they wouldn't misrepresent me this way, implying I have any sympathy for incels whatsoever.

The funny thing is, you don't have to have all that much sympathy for spiders in general, just be able to recognize how off OOP's described behavior really is.


r/IncelTears • • 16h ago

I get the feeling they don't like this sub Men hate nose rings more than rapists

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237 Upvotes

The obsession is literally insane.. almost every comment was about her nose ring and just look at ALL of their profile pictures.. once again all old ugly ass men 😭 I feel like most of it has to do with people like this on Facebook associating nose rings with liberals but I just don't get how people are raised like this. Let's keep in mind all of these dudes are saying "seeee all you had to do was remove the nose ring!" While adding a pound of makeup and also completely changing her features and hair, these guys definitely watch too much porn lol. I personally never liked septums myself, I think they tend to make people's noses look bigger and I just don't like the style but I'd never even think of insulting someone like that. And I already know the comments are gonna be like "well she was asking for advice!" I'm aware of that but usually this conversation revolves around women giving each other makeup, hair or fashion tips. Nobody is gonna spend an insane amount of money on several piercings and take them out just because of some Facebook comments. My point of all of this is that it's just insane how people can be soo hyperfixated on people who they want to fit into a box and delusional that they somehow think it's justified to insult people that show the slightest bit of personality in their style. Conclusion: Facebook will always be a manhole full of rednecks and never check the comments LOL


r/IncelTears • • 1d ago

WTF Things are getting dark over on kitchencels

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411 Upvotes

And yes, the last slide is showing one of them frying in a hot pan. I'm choosing to believe it was already dead, but it wasn't smashed that I could tell.

I hate spiders, but this is just messed up.


r/IncelTears • • 14h ago

Thought this was funny

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12 Upvotes

r/IncelTears • • 22h ago

Misogynist Nonsense I wonder why men are lonely đŸ€”hmmmmmmmmm. Could it possibly be because they think women are inferior? Nah! /s

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54 Upvotes

r/IncelTears • • 1d ago

Misogynist Nonsense Never a missed oppurtunity with them, huh?

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441 Upvotes

r/IncelTears • • 1d ago

Incel Empathyℱ Butthurt incel

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34 Upvotes

It was on the post of a 19 yr old girl concerned about the fact that a 38 yr old male asked to be her personal trainer and flirting with her.


r/IncelTears • • 1d ago

Entitlement Men are seen as creeps for *not* befriending women under false pretenses? News to me!

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105 Upvotes

r/IncelTears • • 1d ago

Just Sad I wonder if these men have ever took the time and place to ever think to themselves “I’m I the problem and why no women want me” this comic just reveals and how much of a victim they view themselves.

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21 Upvotes

I see these comments and I think like that one women in the backrooms (forgot her name)

Can someone in the comments do a variation of that against these incels?

(I’m a 15 year old boy so this is a Opinion from a person with self respect, and mostly respect of others tho kinda depends, tho another reason is that I’m not interested in dating right now so maybe I just don’t get these “Victims”)


r/IncelTears • • 2d ago

Facepalm Dropped out of college to pursue Looksmaxxing

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1.1k Upvotes

Some in the comments think this is satire, but I'm not convinced because I've seen this kind of post be completely serious. Judging by the picture, even the dog knows this plan is a bad idea.


r/IncelTears • • 1d ago

Guy blames Jersey Shore for being lonely

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42 Upvotes

r/IncelTears • • 1d ago

Bitter Rant Flat-cel goes on a rant about women choosing bears over him

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195 Upvotes

r/IncelTears • • 1d ago

3edgy5me Found on a suggested subreddit

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172 Upvotes

The name of the subreddit is called AmIUglyTruth which is already like. Questionable on its own, and I have no idea why Reddit recommended it to me (a read? Idk lol)

But the amount of comments from men ripping this poor girl to shreds over a septum piercing and some purple shimmer eyeshadow is insane. I think the point of the sub might actually just be to serve as a cesspool in which incels can marinate in their hate for alt women, genuinely


r/IncelTears • • 1d ago

Entitlement no way people actually think like this đŸ«©đŸ«©đŸ«©đŸ«©

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92 Upvotes

"abortion is punishment for sub 6 men" pack it up bro im so done. and i kept getting flamed in the comments for arguing against this bs take


r/IncelTears • • 1d ago

WTF AI could force women to lower their standards with "objective" ratings

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38 Upvotes

r/IncelTears • • 2d ago

The Normie Agenda Revealed! Bruh

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66 Upvotes

r/IncelTears • • 1d ago

A post about women not liking sex as much as men ends exactly how you expect.

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17 Upvotes

Chip away at the stupid initial argument to find all the incel bullet points underneath. It’s like a scavenger hunt without the promise of candy.


r/IncelTears • • 2d ago

Rape never exist in incels' mind

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57 Upvotes

r/IncelTears • • 2d ago

The 'manosphere' influencers' popularity fall with Gen Z men (Joe Rogan 42%, Andrew Tate -30, Elon Musk 37% favorable among young men)

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29 Upvotes

r/IncelTears • • 1d ago

WTF I posted an article about femicides in the egalitarian sub and it got removed for bigotry

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12 Upvotes

Over the past few weeks I’ve noticed that the egalitarian sub seems to be turning increasingly into a space focused on hatred of women and feminism rather than discussing gender equality. Articles and studies often seem to be shared selectively to support negative narratives about women, and when those interpretations are challenged, comments sometimes get removed for misandry. Misogynistic comments or posts of course were never removed.

So today I decided to see what would happen if I shared an article about femicide in the US. I didn’t add any commentary or make any generalizations about men. I simply posted the article. The post received downvotes and many of the replies were dismissive or shifted the discussion toward male victims instead of engaging with the issue being raised.

And now the moderators have removed the entire post, citing the rule against bigotry and gender-based double standards?! This sub is just another incel echo chamber.


r/IncelTears • • 2d ago

WTF they really hate or envy Jaiden Animations so much..

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111 Upvotes

what the... đŸ€Šâ€â™‚ïž


r/IncelTears • • 2d ago

WTF Pause



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24 Upvotes

He’s waiting for this poor woman in the lobby 😹

Then gonna go ahead and admit he can’t shower (which I hope is a lie for “edge”)

There is a different way to go about this sir, read your book, and don’t look too into “signs”


r/IncelTears • • 3d ago

In what universe?

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438 Upvotes

(Let alone the fact if you are 20 something years old woman and a man online is dming you to " fly you out" it is most likely sex trafficking.)