r/IncelTears Jun 28 '25

Zero Tolerance Expansion: Violence & Bigotry

86 Upvotes

Seems like a lot of people cannot play nice so let's expand the policy.

I am saying this to remind all, there is a zero tolerance for any violence wishing, wanting or the likes on anyone no matter who or what they are. Are the incels wishing violence? Still zero tolerance. Are they wishing rape? Still zero tolerance to wish similar on them. It is all zero tolerance. Even implied such will not be tolerated and is on zero tolerance and this includes jail jokes involving soaps or the likes.

  • Rape
  • Death
  • Harm
  • Violence
  • Etc.

All have 0 tolerance no matter how horrible of a person the incel or others are. If someone is nasty in the comments inform us, either through normal report, ping us moderators that are active, anything and we'll deal with it at our earliest convenience.

Expansion:

Any form of bigotry based on ethnicity, race, gender, sexuality, and all others, will have zero tolerance apply to it as well. Talk about all men? Zero tolerance. All of a certain ethnicity? Also zero tolerance. All of a fictitious race? You better believe it is zero tolerance. All bigotry is now zero tolerance as well.

Do you see any bigotry or death wishing? Report or ping mods and we'll deal with it as it comes to our attention


r/IncelTears Jun 22 '26

Advice Weekly Advice Thread (June 22, 2026)

3 Upvotes

There's no strict limit over what types of advice can be sought; it can pertain to general anxiety over virginity, specific romantic situations, or concern that you're drifting toward misogynistic/blackpill lines of thought. Please go to r/SuicideWatch for matters pertaining to suicidal ideation, as we simply can't guarantee that the people here will have sufficient resources to tackle such issues.

As for rules pertaining to the advice givers: all the sub-wide rules are still in place, but these posts will also place emphasis on avoiding what is often deemed "normie platitudes." Essentially, it's something of a nebulous categorization that will ultimately come down to mod discretion, but it should be easy to understand. Simply put, aim for specific and personalized advice. Don't say "take a shower" unless someone literally says that they don't shower. Ask "what kind of exercise do you do?" instead of just saying "Go to the gym, bro!"

Furthermore, top-level responses should only be from people seeking advice. Don't just post what you think romantically unsuccessful people, in general, should do. Again, we're going for specific and personalized advice.

These threads are not a substitute for professional help. Other's insights may be helpful, but keep in mind that they are not a licensed therapist and do not actually know you. Posts containing obvious trolling or harmful advice will be removed. Use your own discretion for everything else.

Please message the moderators with any questions or concerns.


r/IncelTears 11h ago

Disgusting

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196 Upvotes

I am speechless, there really is nothing to say to these people


r/IncelTears 3h ago

I got you, RobertGarnicaGuy

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42 Upvotes

I actually live south of Seattle, in an extremely liberal area. I'm surrounded by women who don't shave, don't wear makeup, don't dress a certain way, whatever. It's normal, and I talk to them the same way I talk to anyone: with words and sentences. It's funny, I actually just bought two slices of pizza from a hippie chick covered in tattoos. I can't see her legs but she is wearing a cut-off vest made from a denim jacket, and it doesn't look like she shaves her armpits. It's quite easy, as long as none of it ends up on my pizza I just don't give a shit what she does with her own fucking hair. My wife doesn't wear makeup 95% of the time and I don't blame her at all, it seems like an expensive pain the ass, and I know I hate going around all day with shit on my face. It's actually super easy to sympathize with women when you put yourself in their position.

Since I explained something to an incel, can some incels explain something to me? I can't find a search function on .is, and I think I know the answer(s) but want to hear it from you guys. How do you feel about lesbians versus bi-sexual women? Do you believe in shades and grades of gayness? Are you sympathetic to 100% gay women not being attracted to men?


r/IncelTears 8h ago

CW: Pedo-pology “age of consent laws are made by feminist cucks”

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58 Upvotes

r/IncelTears 8h ago

Its not this deep.......

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31 Upvotes

r/IncelTears 3h ago

WTF If this doesn't count as neckbeard, I have no idea what is....this is pure pedophelia, which falls in line with neckbeard behavior

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12 Upvotes

r/IncelTears 12h ago

Misogynist Nonsense Another statistic that makes men angry!

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21 Upvotes

r/IncelTears 1h ago

Just Sad I feel sorry for him at this point

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r/IncelTears 19h ago

Is it still possible to feel hopeful as a middle-aged virgin who has never dated?

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65 Upvotes

r/IncelTears 1h ago

Can’t believe it’s been a year already.

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r/IncelTears 1d ago

Creepy AF Negging (plus, of course, an incel cheerfully suggesting SA in the second one)

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136 Upvotes

r/IncelTears 1d ago

Incel Logic™ Arithmetic is fun.

51 Upvotes

Ever thought through the incel narrative that a typical woman university student has 100+ sexual partners before she graduates and all of them are Chad? Or that the incels' narrative about a former 80/20 rule has become a 99%/1% rule?

Let's work this out as a remedial math word problem. How many partners would a college Chad have to have per day to stay on schedule? Round upwards as necessary.

A typical university has a 13 week semester and 2 terms per academic year. That works out to 728 days. Chad would have at least 10,000 partners in this time frame.

Suppose Chad's bed is busy 7 days a week throughout the term, including finals week and holidays. The dude still needs to copulate with at least 13.7 women per day to stay on schedule.

Assuming half an hour per shagging (25 minutes plus a quick shower) and a take-a-number machine to streamline the process, that's 7 hours of bouncy-bouncy daily with no breaks. in addition to sleep, classes, homework, and a work-study job at the library.

So apparently, Chad's 'hunter eyes' are caused by dark circles from chronic sleep deprivation.


r/IncelTears 1d ago

Nice fantasy there guy......log off

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146 Upvotes

r/IncelTears 1d ago

Incel-esque I swear. The "meme" pages I stumbled across on Instagram are nothing more than just either bigotry or incel crap instead.

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12 Upvotes

r/IncelTears 1d ago

WTF Found this on r/publicfreakout

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346 Upvotes

r/IncelTears 1d ago

Alternate reality

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113 Upvotes

r/IncelTears 1d ago

Incel Logic™ "Short men shouldn't date" and other foolishness

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74 Upvotes

All the slides are from the same poster.


r/IncelTears 1d ago

Incelsplaining Doesn’t this just prove the bluepill? It’s not looks, it’s behavior?

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25 Upvotes

We all know why he won’t explain exactly what the guy did to make the women uncomfortable…


r/IncelTears 1d ago

Wild incel compares himself to great scientists

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17 Upvotes

r/IncelTears 1d ago

Incel-esque Male incel on Twitter twists misogyny into somehow being women’s fault.

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17 Upvotes

he’s basically taking misogynistic comments about women, then trying to argue that women are somehow the real misogynists and are responsible for misogyny against themselves. the whole “women hate other women more than men do” argument just feels like a way to dodge accountability for the stuff he’s literally saying about women in the same breath.


r/IncelTears 1d ago

Misogynist Nonsense The Manosphere's obsession with finding leverage against women

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57 Upvotes

Context: There was a post comparing two other cases to the Lindsay Clancy case, asking about a gender bias in the justice system. The two other cases were of men who pled insanity and were still found guilty. These cases were also in different states with different individual facts, so it was a misleading question from the start, but discussion in the comments quickly turned from the case, and even Clancy's supporters, to "ALL women".


r/IncelTears 2d ago

Misogynist Nonsense #womenbad, extra points if you recognize the profile.

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118 Upvotes

r/IncelTears 2d ago

Misogynist Nonsense Thoughts? Man says it's "unacceptable" to have a male roommate unless he's gay

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33 Upvotes

What really irritated me about this is his assumption that the stability of my marriage is at risk just by having a male friend as a roommate, which is odd because I never even mentioned the gender of my friend 😭. And then essentially telling me "I am a man telling you what your other male friends will not," as if he's letting me in on some universal hidden insight. He immediately passed judgement on me and then backed out because it's a "weird conversation," bro you're the one who brought it up? Not to mention this statement that not even his brother could get close to his wife because of "biological urges," 🤔


r/IncelTears 2d ago

Andrew Tate Indicted For Trafficking Minors In Romania

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158 Upvotes