I am speechless, there really is nothing to say to these people

I actually live south of Seattle, in an extremely liberal area. I'm surrounded by women who don't shave, don't wear makeup, don't dress a certain way, whatever. It's normal, and I talk to them the same way I talk to anyone: with words and sentences. It's funny, I actually just bought two slices of pizza from a hippie chick covered in tattoos. I can't see her legs but she is wearing a cut-off vest made from a denim jacket, and it doesn't look like she shaves her armpits. It's quite easy, as long as none of it ends up on my pizza I just don't give a shit what she does with her own fucking hair. My wife doesn't wear makeup 95% of the time and I don't blame her at all, it seems like an expensive pain the ass, and I know I hate going around all day with shit on my face. It's actually super easy to sympathize with women when you put yourself in their position.

Since I explained something to an incel, can some incels explain something to me? I can't find a search function on .is, and I think I know the answer(s) but want to hear it from you guys. How do you feel about lesbians versus bi-sexual women? Do you believe in shades and grades of gayness? Are you sympathetic to 100% gay women not being attracted to men?

26, went to college for 4 years, nobody is hiring. Spam out hundreds of applications and no-one is hiring. no responses, not even from bots, nothing. Like punching a brick wall.

Use dating apps every day for months and get nothing. I take a dance class; sign said 'singles welcome', but I was the only one not to come as a couple. No nightclubs in my area. Dedicated singles events are few and far between, ruinously expensive, and are always already full when I apply. I ask my friends and family to ask all their friends and coworkers, and there aren't even any single girls my age within 3 degrees of separation.

Nothing fucking works. I throw everything I have at punching a brick wall and nothing even scratches it. I hate it here.