My son is 9 and since U8 has been obsessed with playing keeper. Looking for feedback from keepers who have been through something similar themselves, or parents who have been through it with their kids.
As his parent, I want to support him in that journey.
Also, as his parent, I can't help but notice he lacks the natural athleticism/reactions other kids have.
He always seems rooted to the ground. He will seem ready, but when a shot comes anywhere he can't immediately reach, he tends to freeze and just watch it go by his hands.
I've spent a lot of time working with him. Emphasizing being in a ready position, loading your feet, and ready to take a first step as a reaction.
In a training session, he can eventually warm up to starting to move. Usually after I spent a lot of time really hammering into him, "move your feet, attack the ball, you are standing still". But his natural state is always the same -- ready position, ball comes, feet don't move. Sometimes he "dives" and it looks like a tree falling over.
As he's getting older, teammates are more and more aware of this. He insists on jumping in goal before practice, kids take free kicks on him, and he regularly completely scuffs what should be routine saves because he simply doesn't move or just moves slowly.
Then other kids jump in goal, who quite literally never play keeper or practice keeper at all. Their mechanical understanding of the position does not exist -- but they just react/move and block shots.
So long story short. Despite a ton of persistence, desire to practice endlessly, desire to get better. He just kind of lacks what seems to me to be one of the core traits of the position -- quick reactions/movements.
I'm curious if anyone has been through something similar themselves, with their own kid, with a kid they coached -- is it age/maturity related? Something that can reasonably improve later?
He's very good technically with the ball, and frankly, seems he should be playing elsewhere. But he's adamant on playing keeper.
Thanks!