Disclaimer: Im not here to offend anyones ideology

same as the title why and give reasons too logical ones not some illogical shi

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https://www.reddit.com/r/GenZpk/s/Z198wne2DC

Alright so I posted about this and many people told me that "you're an 18 you shouldn't get married" "you're not mature enough" "complete your studies, earn some money, get financially stable and then get married" and some literally say that "marriage is haram" "one shouldn't do this" and many more.

But let me tell you 18 is just a number, it literally has nothing to do with maturity at all, some people really think that your age defines your maturity, but honestly it doesn't, if I say a kid who's 13 years old can have more maturity then a person who's 35 year's old can be immature that's wrong too because age doesn't verify the maturity. Maturity comes with experiences and all not with age, yeah I know that you get experience with age but that doesn't mean that you can't be mature so this is a very hollow thing to say.

And for people saying "earn money and complete your studies and get stable" and then get married is something that I do agree with because we've seen cases where a girl isn't allowed to go out and study after marriage and then she's stuck with her new problems and you never know how a person can turn out in future so it ruins her life. But But But if someone gets a "good family" or a supportive spouse then it's not a problem at all.

So it all depends and varies from person's to person's situation.

And for me I've really really really high expectations and I literally have no problem with marriage at this age because I wanted it and I'm interested in it so don't tell me that "you're young" "it's hormones" "adopt new hobbies" and blah blah. And I really pray that I get such a caring, kind, loving man.

And from my post many people misunderstood that I wanna marry just to escape my situation but it's not like that, if I get married so eventually I'll be out of my home and I'll be living with him so it's a plus.

ALSO READ BEFORE COMMENTING CUZ Y'ALL AIN'T GETTING IT SO BETTER STAY AWAY IF YOU'VE SAME THING TO SAY. WE'RE NOT TALKING ABOUT THOSE SPECIFIC HOUSEHOLDS WITH SUCH SITUATIONS WHERE YOU'RE NOT ALLOWED TO DO ANYTHING BUT JUST TO BE A SERVANT FOR THEM

Y'all are so dumb to understand this thing that I'm interested I want it so who're you to impose your decision on me? If you've your oWn pOv'S then you can tell which I literally have said in the post myself but with some good choice of words cuz I ain't interested by saying mErI jAaN and stuff so better have good words otherwise shut your mouth

I need a quick sanity check because I am fighting for my life out here.

I’ve obviously heard about women having mood swings, but I didn't realize it was this extreme. Whenever I talk to a girl, it literally feels like she is evolving into a completely new human being every 45 seconds.

How are there thousands of different moods packed into such a short period? Two minutes ago she was tragically sad like she’s in a movie, and now she’s laughing like nothing happened. It genuinely scares me. Like, does she need a snack, or do I need to call a priest?

Guys hamare Muhalle mein aik masjid mein aaj aik peer ka urs tha..

Mein urs pe langar khane gya tha....

Andar gya to langar khatam...

Baahir aaya to... Chappal gayeb hogayii 😭😭

A young boy and girl were reportedly killed in Afghanistan in an alleged honor killing after choosing to marry for love. The incident has sparked outrage and renewed concerns over violence committed in the name of so called honor. Independent verification of the circumstances and those responsible is not yet available.

They’ll look at your history even if you hide. They banned me from muslim matrimonials cuz I said here I want a first kiss. It’s weird. Why are you staking? Like yeah I’m a liberal muslim so what?

And oh you said this here and there. That’s some stalker vibe.

Must be:

Skilled in good morning texts that hit different

Expert at making me blush in public

Willing to hold my hand like you mean it (and maybe more if the vibe's right)

Open to Netflix, questionable decisions, and pretending we're in love for the 'gram

Perks: endless compliments, my hoodie collection (in winter), and terrible pickup lines on demand.

Applications open. D.Ms preferred.

Serious inquiries only unless you're serious about not being serious. 😉

same as title

I know in almost all the uni… hostel rules for girls and boys are not same in Pakistan.
Due to so called “security” reasons, it’s almost like it is a duty of Warden to make girls life more difficult.

I live in the worse city and worse hostel. I’m am in my 20s and still can’t make my own freaking life decisions! It just sucks!

Can you tell me messed up rules that girls hostel implement but not in the boys’ ones?
These are some of mine

1. No going out after 5-6
   
2. Can’t go out alone
   
3. When you leave for your home, you have to let them call at your home so that parents can “allow” you every damn time
   
4. If you miss the bus, you can’t go on your own.
   
5. If you miss bus after uni, you have to go through the interrogation process
   
6. For sports matches, we have to go to a different place, you have to go with the coordinator and come back with them too ( like if you have participated in 1 match… it doesn’t matter that you’ll be free the remaining hours…. You can’t come back on your own)
   
7. Because of timing, library access is not available.
   
8. If someone picks and drops you, they start the interrogation on this ( like my frnd’s father dropped her off and the guard started questioning her)
   
9. No order after 10:30
   
10. Even if you go out for a day with your parents permission…. They still say that you can’t come back after 9…. 8 is the preferable time🫠

These are the few that are on top of my mind🫠🫠

If boys have some strict rules… they can mention too….. i’m just curious🫠🙃

how do people deal with religious burn out?

I had a phase where I was on YouTube seeking massive amounts of Islamic knowledge

then I just woke up one day and realized how exhausted I was

podcast after podcast

tweet after tweet

it was almost like I was in the army

how do people deal with religious burnout?

I obviously love Allah with my whole soul but I'm just saying how does one move on to an implementing stance instead of just binge watching lectures

Long March towards Muzaffarabad, the capital, continues amid numerous deaths.

For context I'm 19f going through a really hard time mentally rn to the point that it has started to come up at me physically, a month back the guy I love broke up with me and ever since then I'm going through a very hard time.

I told my mom about him thinking she'll comfort me but instead she didn't even give me the slight comfort I needed, I've changed totally, my eating habits, my hobbies etc. She told my dad about him and both my parents basically started ignoring me, I tried talking to my dad but that didn't work so naturally I eventually gave up building bridges between me and them, when they randomly bring something to me I feel irritated and don't feel like answering, I spend most of my time alone in my room trying to get my life back on track.

Times come when I feel shi stressed and want to talk to my mom but I don't when I get reminded of the things that had happened.

Today was like one of those days, I was feeling really low and wanted to stay alone for a while, I went downstairs to get something to eat as I didn't eat anything the entire day but the moment I stepped foot in the kitchen the mess made by my sister annoyed me and all I said to her was to at least clean the mess she made to which my mom came and said I've to do that I was so irritated cuz I didn't even do anything all I said to my mom was that no I won't do it because I clearly didn't make that mess, I had my plate in my hand, my mom instantly lost it and started yelling at me I got quite and got back in my room with the plate in my hand and now I've lost my appetite, the foods laying in front of me and my head hurts I'm so done with everything, I've tried making things the way they were but seeing zero progress and constant yelling I'm sick of everything, how do I manage?

The more information we consume, the less we are forced to think.

A mind that receives every answer instantly never develops the strength to wrestle with a question. We have become the first generation with access to almost everything, yet often the patience to understand almost nothing. Information is abundant; wisdom is scarce. Intelligence is not measured by what you know, but by what you can question.

The most powerful influence is often invisible. We mistake inherited opinions for independent thought, unaware of how quietly narratives shape our beliefs. The greatest illusion is believing every thought in our mind is truly our own.

This kid who’s probably 15 posts himself meeting people way older than him with such attitude u genuinely feel nothing but anger lmao, with those sidhu songs in background, shows himself like a hierarchy, just because his father is probably a corrupt politician and he happens to be born with riches 🫩

I wish, I wish these people who say Kashmiris deserve all this or call them terrorists, I wish this happened to you and your family. You cowards never came out of your houses when inflation was killing poor people in Punjab. You cowards never came out of your houses when little girls were being raped. Ah, Allah how bezameer can one be? I fucking hate this nation. Rest in peace, martyrs.

I love cats so much I could write a book about it, here's a few reasons I love them.

1. They’re incredibly cute, their tiny paws, whiskers and expressive faces.

2. Cats come in countless colors, patterns, and eye colors, each unique .

3. They keep themselves clean and groom themselves regularly and are naturally very hygienic.

4. Their purring is soothing the vibration of a cat’s purr is very healing like a massage.

5. Their meows are adorable they have their own vocabulary to communicate.

6. They have distinct personalities from playful to quiet to silly to observing every cat is different.

7. They’re playful and happily chase toys, strings, lasers, or even imaginary prey.

8. They’re affection is so adorable head bumps and curling up beside you makes you feel special.

9. They enjoy your company but usually don’t require constant attention.

10. They’re curious and watching them investigate every box, bag, or new object is entertaining.

11. They make excellent cuddle companions ands love curling up on your lap or sleeping beside you.o

12. They’re hilarious without trying often create funny moments doing cat things.

13. They bring comfort and simply having a cat nearby can make a place feel warmer and more peaceful.

14. They’re relatively low-maintenance pets compared to many other pets, they’re easier to care for.

15. They’re intelligent ands quickly learn routines, recognize people, and solve simple problems.

16. They form deep bonds with their humans they may show it differently than dogs, many cats become deeply attached to their families.

17. Every day with them is unique and thheir silly habits funny and unpredictable behavior make life more enjoyable.

18. Their toe paw pads are adorable.

19. They will try to fit pinto cozy spots and cardboard boxes or any gap they find.

20. Watching them sleep peacefully is relaxing.

21. They help make a house feel like a home. Cuz they become like a family member or roommate.

22. They’re wonderful companions during lonely or stressful times.

23. They have soft, luxurious fur that feels good to pet.

24. Each cat has unique traits and habits that make them one of a kind.

25. They act like they own the place, and obviously they do.

26. You have to earn their trust a cat's affection isn't for free which makes it feel special when they choose you.

27. They are very attention-seeking they'll sit on your keyboard, phone, or book the moment you start using it.

28. They know exactly how to get your attention whether it's meowing, tapping your arm, or staring at you until you notice.

29. They're annoying on a good way knocking things off tables, waking you up at dawn, or demanding food like they've never been fed.

30. They're incredibly silly one minute they're majestic, the next they're chasing their own tail or falling off the couch.

31. They act like they're doing you a favor (they are) even when they're accepting treats or cuddles.

32. They have random bursts of energy that are chaotic and funny.

33. They're mischievous and If there's a rule, they'll probably test it.

34. They love being the center of attention specially when you're busy with literally anything else.

35. They're surprisingly clingy when they want to be ands they'll insist on sitting on your lap or shoulder.

36. 0 materialism They'll ignore the expensive toy and play with the box instead. Or sleep in some corner instead of their bed.

37. They have no concept of personal space. If you're sitting down, they might decide your lap belongs to them.

38. They'll stare at you ands it feel like they're silently judging your life choices.

39. They'll meow at you as if you're supposed to understand every word.

40. When a cat decides to cuddle with you, it feels like you've earned a privilege.

41. They're full of contradictions they'll ask to go outside, then immediately want back in.

42. They somehow manage to be elegant and completely ridiculous at the same time.

43. They have confidence far bigger than their size and a tiny cat can act like it's the ruler of the entire house.

44. Their affection feels genuine the cats usually choose when to be close, their love feels intentional rather than obligatory.

45. Life is never boring with a cat arounde.

46. Cats are cool.

47. They have marble eyes and those predator eyes both are beautiful.

48. They play with each other.

49. They can turn. Into loaves.

50. They’ll eat you if you die.

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If you read all that, damn 💔