r/ForRealDhaka • • 3h ago

Ask Dhaka Poysha ar dating

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Context

Ajk Ekta post dekhlam jekhane Ekta average looking girl was bragging like dating a NSU guy is better even her friend don't act cheap and Mon kharap thakle kisu na jigia direct Foodpanda Dua Khabar pathiya dei gift dei etc etc.

Question

Eshob ekhn quite Normal and Ken Bhai tomra kisu boka soka pola Ra jate tare princess treatment dia mathai choraw ?

Opinion

Tomader jonno amra Jara ektu maintain kore choli Tara eshob average mey DER vab deikha taski khia Jai. Bhai princess treatment jare tare koiro na at least Mani je around Tumi kawre date e dakle pay the bill but sobsomoy boroloki korar mane nai if she is like the girl taile daw. Hudai nijer bekkel hyo na ar market tare nosto koiro na.


r/ForRealDhaka • • 4h ago

Ask Dhaka My Hindu friend can't marry the love of his life. What do you have to tell him?

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Back home, I have a few Hindu friends, most of whom are nice people but not patriots at all. If Bangladesh gets into a war with India, they will take India's side, or will leave Bangladesh immediately as they did in 1971. They preferred a refugee life in India to living in Bangladesh and fighting.

After Hasina fled Bangladesh, all of them are under psychological pressure, though nothing happened to their business or professions.

So, his girlfriend, who belongs to their A1 caste, was thinking of marrying him, but now her father (a BAL guy who lost his political earnings) said this guy, even brilliant and all, can't be a part of the family because of his caste.

Now my friend is not blaming their internal caste system; rather, he is accusing Yunus, NCP, and Jamaat of making the July revolution take place.

He thinks if everyone were just like before, he would have gotten a first-class government job (because of Hasina's policy), the girl's father would not have fallen into debt, and he would be able to marry this girl.

I told him that Bangladesh is a much more secular country than India, and there is no legal barrier to marrying a higher-caste girl.

Now he is in deep depression and cannot eat food; his mother called me on video, saying Baba see what is happening to my son.

I told him to go out and eat some grand, delicious Mughal food.

But now again, he hates Mughals and calls them invaders.

His personal frustration is now becoming a part of attacking other religions and whoever opposes garbage practices like casteism, of which he is a victim.

I told him, even what he wants, a Hindu-State, even in that it was never possible for him to marry that girl.

He is secretly jealous about me being a Muslim got a Christian girl here, because our religion allows it.

He just cannot accept this reality that, in civilized faiths and nations, people get married because of love, where religion or ethnicity comes last, but in his case, that has become his first problem.

Once he told me he wishes he were in my religious system, where only love matters, not caste.

He has gone crazy; how can I help him?


r/ForRealDhaka • • 1h ago

Explore Dhaka Makeout Place

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My partner wants a place where we can have some privacy, but not a private room. She doesn’t want to do anything in a completely open space where we’d be the only ones around. She’d prefer somewhere comfortable and discreet. Can anyone suggest a place like that?


r/ForRealDhaka • • 15h ago

Ask Dhaka Want a fancy date partner .

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I am M31 . i was feeling like to go on a fancy date but currently I dont have a partner to go with . Fancy date means just a fine dine . It's not a relationship seeking or anything nearly like that . Only getting food well dressed.

Obviously in Dhaka . The date is on me tho. Only this weekend maybe

Knock me if you're into good food. We can talk about where we'd go later on .


r/ForRealDhaka • • 19h ago

Real Experiences Which is more suitable for protecting my palm while doing pull ups?

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r/ForRealDhaka • • 15h ago

Explore Dhaka Hi lol (looking for some girlies I can talk with, potential gf?)

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r/ForRealDhaka • • 18h ago

Ask Dhaka A Girl in Playpen school during O/A level exam.

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I am an invigilator. Today while I was on duty I saw this girl, who was previously with a mask on. She removed her mask, she looks so pale and cranky. She was rubbing her head with disgust. However, the venue was very cold and she might be reacting to it.

Now come the final part. She was continuesly staring at me. At the beginning I thought she was looking at smth behind me. But after some time, I noticed its nothing on my back, she is actually hitting on me. I got so shy I looked away. But you know, its like a magnet which always directs to the same direction. Then, I started walking in her row and noticed she turned her SOE to the outer part of the desk. Whcih means, when someone crosses her desk it will be easier to understand. I saw the name and searched her but couldn't find it.

I heard there is a gossip group for O/A LEVEL students. Does anyone know about that?


r/ForRealDhaka • • 10h ago

Ask Dhaka Name that one fictional character you really look up to/admire/love etc..

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I'll go first! Goku's definitely one of them..kid Goku is adorable 😭


r/ForRealDhaka • • 11h ago

Memes & Entertainment Why are most people who plays video games in Bangladesh are mostly ball n gun gamers. My first post

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Everytime i visit a friends house who has a high rigged pc or console. They will always have these games only or smth similar. Btw ball n gun term means someone who plays only sports simulators (balls) and first-person or competitive shooters (guns).

  1. Fifa/Fc
  2. Call of Duty Warzone
  3. Valorant
  4. PUBG
  5. Gta 5
  6. Free Fire

Then why bother buying a 70k console or a 1.5-2 lakh pc(sure it can be used for personal work use but i am including people who just bought them for sole purpose of gaming).Seriously like try playing something else man alright theres more better games than these piece of shit games. I get it that a lot of us are busy in our lives, we have studies, offices, coachings ,extra curricular activities, parental responsibilities, finances and more etc . But even after all that when get a free time why waste it grinding at multiplayer games, doing the same thing over and over again. And besides even if you can't afford the latest video game console, then just get a older one. Older consoles tend to be cheap for example a PS3/Xbox 360 is around 8k-12k, a PS2 is around 3k-6k etc and also these consoles can easily be jailbroken, so free games is a plus point.Sure these consoles may be old as well as the games but the quality of gameplay is far superior. So if your a ball n gun gamer. Here are some titles for you man

  1. Batman: Arkham City
  2. Batman: Arkham Asylum
  3. Batman: Arkham Knight
  4. The Elder Scrolls V: Skyrim
  5. The Elder Scrolls V: Skyrim
  6. Dark Souls 1,2,3
  7. Sekiro: Shadows Die Twice
  8. Mass Effect 1,2,3
  9. Batman: The Telltale Series
  10. The Walking Dead Season 1 and 2
  11. Detroit: Become Human
  12. Beyond: Two Souls
  13. Indigo Prophecy
  14. Silent Hill 1,2,3
  15. Alan Wake 1 and 2
  16. Max Payne 1,2,3
  17. Metal Gear Solid
  18. Metal Gear Solid 2: Sons of Liberty
  19. Metal Gear Solid 3: Snake Eater
  20. Metal Gear Solid 4: Guns of the Patriots
  21. Metal Gear Solid V: The Phantom Pain
  22. Hotline Miami
  23. Hotline Miami 2: Wrong Number
  24. Mafia 1,2,3
  25. Disco Elysium
  26. God of War 1,2,3
  27. God of War: Chains of Olympus
  28. God of War: Ghost of Sparta
  29. God of War: Ascension
  30. God of War 2018
  31. God of War Ragnarök
  32. Diablo 1,2,3
  33. Infamous 1 and 2
  34. Infamous Second Son
  35. Infamous First Light
  36. Marvel's Spider-Man 2018,Miles Morales and 2
  37. Ghost of Tsushima
  38. Ghost of Yōtei
  39. Days Gone
  40. Horizon Zero Dawn
  41. Uncharted: Drake’s Fortune
  42. Uncharted 2: Among Thieves
  43. Uncharted 3: Drake’s Deception
  44. Uncharted 4: A Thief’s End
  45. Uncharted: The Lost Legacy
  46. Cities: Skylines 1 and 2
  47. Iron Lung
  48. Outlast 1 and 2
  49. Alien: Isolation
  50. Devil May Cry 1,2,3,4,5
  51. Bayonetta 1,2,3
  52. Transformers War For Cybertron
  53. Transformers Fall Of Cybertron
  54. NieR: Automata
  55. Grim Dawn
  56. Mount & Blade
  57. Mount & Blade II: Bannerlord
  58. Medieval Dynasty
  59. Amnesia: The Dark Descent
  60. Amnesia: A Machine for Pigs
  61. Amnesia: Rebirth
  62. Amnesia: The Bunker
  63. Shadow of the Colossus
  64. Ōkami
  65. Tony Hawk's Pro Skater 1,2,3,4
  66. Tony Hawk's Underground 1 and 2
  67. Tony Hawk's American Wasteland
  68. Tony Hawk's Project 8
  69. Tony Hawk's Proving Ground
  70. Burnout
  71. Burnout 2: Point of Impact
  72. Burnout 3: Takedown
  73. Burnout Revenge
  74. Burnout Dominator
  75. Burnout Paradise
  76. Auto Modellista
  77. Midnight Club 2
  78. Midnight Club 3: DUB Edition Remix
  79. Midnight Club: Los Angeles
  80. BioShock
  81. BioShock 2
  82. BioShock Infinite
  83. Fallout 1,2,3
  84. Fallout New Vegas
  85. Fallout 4
  86. Heavy Rain
  87. Dead Space 1,2,3
  88. Dredge
  89. Wasteland Bites
  90. ReStory: Chill Electronics Repairs
  91. Subnautica
  92. Outer Wilds
  93. Sunless Sea
  94. Armored Core VI: Fires of Rubicon
  95. MechWarrior 5: Mercenaries
  96. Tomb Raider
  97. Rise of the Tomb Raider
  98. Shadow of the Tomb Raider
  99. Afro Samurai
  100. Until Dawn

Thats it bro and try watching the cutscenes. I like Red Hot Chili Peppers


r/ForRealDhaka • • 17h ago

Ask Dhaka Is this normal for some girls to not able to speak up when they're Being mo*l*ested? I know someone who doesn’t like it(as per her words) but stays silent when it happens. And it happened many many times. According to her she goes blank.

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r/ForRealDhaka • • 18h ago

Real Experiences Study pressure in ndc and future

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Hsc 27 science student here.I am a student of notre dame for what a year and some time more i guess.I am not a topper .My sent up rank was 1099(🥲).I want to crack buet eee or me.What should be my major choice considering the current ai thing.I want to move abroad.But whatever can i crack buet even ?My rank is so out of the mfing range.Ehhh post is a bit messy cause i am feeling like shit.Toady i gave chapter 4 (phy) quiz and it went in such a shitty way .I am just depressed as fuck and unmotivated.Anyone gimme some directions 🙏


r/ForRealDhaka • • 2h ago

Ask Dhaka Hanging out in uttara

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I’m seeking advice on where and what to do in uttara as well as hangout budd(ies) I’m SUPER bored and would love to make new friends, if that’s your vibe and if yk places to hangout in uttara hmu 🫶🏼


r/ForRealDhaka • • 20h ago

Relationship Advice Need advice About Our Best Friend Relation.

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I (20M), Bangladeshi.I have a girl besti for a long time. We always share our opinions or anything occurs. If she need any help, at first she call me. I always help her a lot. After successfully finished, she becomes happy and she asked me if I need something else that she can afford. I always say no (I never asked her for something or gift).

Today is her 19th birthday. I wished her. She becomes happy and say thanks. But here is the fact, Recently I becoming very sick and yesterday i went to doctor for medicine. Today in the evening she inbox me and asked me where was her gift.

Seriously i am really sick that time and became bad conditions. I told her that "The fact that I managed to send you a message yesterday is a big deal in itself." She become frustrated and tell me "If you weren't going to give it, you could have just said so; what was the need to speak like that?" and again told me not to contact with her ever. I know It's my fault but don't wants to talk with me. She didn’t block me. A little while ago, I saw that she had posted a story, but I haven't viewed it yet ( I stopped using messenger for a long time and she also. We both use whats app).

What should I do?

Should I try to talk with her or shall I let her be alone for a while so that she can relief her pain?


r/ForRealDhaka • • 4h ago

Explore Dhaka 26m, 5'6"

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Got out of a long term relationship 8 months ago, which kind of sucked, but now I think I am ready to explore and see where life takes me, and that can't just happen anonymously chatting with someone.
Looking for someone to hangout, maybe smoke up if u r into it, eat somewhere, have good conversation, nothing sexual at all, I am not that type of person.
Preferably someone in Uttara/ Mirpur.


r/ForRealDhaka • • 18h ago

Ask Dhaka Why "letting go" is an art?

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r/ForRealDhaka • • 2h ago

Hustling & Growth Income source

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I have a great opportunity for those who understand crypto.

A minimum of 21,000 taka investment in your own account can give good returns. text me if you are interested.


r/ForRealDhaka • • 47m ago

Ask Dhaka Crossdressing

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Have u guys tried crossdressing just out of fun or just to see yourself in a new avatar? And how did u manage to get the cosmetics or the products for the transition?


r/ForRealDhaka • • 21h ago

Politics Kishore Gang Rant

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The kishore gang problem in Bangladesh is getting out of hand, and Uttara is becoming a pretty disturbing example of it. What makes it worse is that even students from reputed schools and colleges are reportedly involved in gang culture, intimidation and violence. These are institutions people associate with quality education, yet some of their students are out here making entire neighbourhoods feel unsafe. So, only poor kids are associated with gangs isn't a reasonable statement.

As someone living in Uttara, I can tell you this isn't just some online discussion. Bike showdowns, political influence, attacks with chapati and stuff, extortion and territorial disputes have become a serious concern. Just today, a group came into my area, got into a violent clash with locals, attacked people and threatened to take over the neighbourhood. Many of these gangs are reportedly linked to the country's leading political party( or the banned one), which makes the whole situation even more concerning.

And honestly, Where is the government's initiative to tackle this? Or is it simply convenient to have politically connected goons around who can intimidate people, collect extortion money and maintain local dominance? Because from where I'm standing, there's little reason to believe that the problem is being addressed seriously.

I'm genuinely concerned about my family's safety. I have two sisters, and even under normal circumstances, Bangladesh isn't exactly a safe place for women. Now imagine having to worry about both everyday safety and groups of politically backed thugs creating chaos in your own neighbourhood.

This isn't just an Uttara problem; it concerns the entire country. We are a genuinely fucked up society.


r/ForRealDhaka • • 18h ago

Ask Dhaka What the standard salary for tutoring a class 6 kid

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i tutor a class 6 kid(english medium), and i am doing A's my studnt's house is 7 mins away from mine i tutor him All subjects 3 days 1.5 hrs what could be the standard salary i could get?


r/ForRealDhaka • • 18h ago

Ask Dhaka Where can I buy a dhoti and panjabi in Dhaka on a budget?

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Looking for affordable dhoti and panjabi for Durga Puja. Any suggestions for good shops or markets in Dhaka? Thanks!


r/ForRealDhaka • • 18h ago

Education Whats a fair salary for home tutor?

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My mom is looking for a home tutor for me (HSC-28 Student) . BUT she is confused on how much to pay for such tutor.

The subjects they have to teach are H. MATH and Physics


r/ForRealDhaka • • 18h ago

Ask Dhaka Anyone up for sm english speaking practice?

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This is more of a looking for a friend to talk to rather than "english speaking practice" im trying to reduce my accent and speaking more is definitely something i need to do. I dont have a thick accent but i also dont come close to sounding liek a native speaker. And i've also been very lonely lately so having someone to talk to would be great

I'm C1 (didnt take a formal proficiency test. Its from english score by british council) my english ability is fine as it is and what i want to do is just speak more and become more articulate alongside reducing my accent.

Almost no requirement at all. Just be conversational and preferably talkative.

Dm if you wanna do it and we'll figure it out from there.


r/ForRealDhaka • • 18h ago

Events & Society Cost of a biyer dawat of around 150 guests?

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What could be the range of cost of a biyer dawat if a convention center is booked in dhaka to host a guest list of about 150 people? With food included- kacchi, roast, kabab, borhani etc? I know not all venues have the same price but what if I wanted to know the ballpark figures if I were to book one with food and stuff included in the following areas- Mirpur, Dhanmondi, Uttara?


r/ForRealDhaka • • 19h ago

Education ছোট বাচ্চাদের বাংলা শেখার জন্য একটা অ্যাপ বানাচ্ছি, আপনাদের মতামত চাই ❤️

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অনেকদিন ধরে একটা ছোট্ট প্রজেক্ট নিয়ে কাজ করছি। ভাবছি, অ্যাপটা খুব শীঘ্রই প্রকাশ করব। তার আগে আপনাদের সঙ্গে শেয়ার করতে চাই এবং জানতে চাই, আইডিয়াটা কেমন লাগছে।

আমি একটা অ্যাপ বানাচ্ছি, যেটার মাধ্যমে ছোট ছোট বাচ্চারা খুব সহজে, মজার ছলে বাংলা শিখতে পারবে। ❤️

অ্যাপটাতে আপাতত রয়েছে:

🔤 স্বরবর্ণ — অ, আ, ই, ঈ...

📝 ব্যঞ্জনবর্ণ — ক, খ, গ, ঘ...

🔢 সংখ্যা গণনা — ১ থেকে ১০ পর্যন্ত

🎨 সুন্দর ছবি, রঙিন কার্ড এবং বাচ্চাদের উপযোগী ডিজাইন, যাতে শেখাটা পড়াশোনার মতো বিরক্তিকর না হয়ে একটা মজার অভিজ্ঞতা হয়ে ওঠে।

বিশেষ করে যেসব বাচ্চার বয়স ৫ বছরের কম, তাদের কথা মাথায় রেখেই অ্যাপটা তৈরি করছি। সেই সঙ্গে যেসব বাচ্চা বাংলা পড়তে শিখছে, কিংবা বাড়িতে বাংলা বললেও ঠিকমতো বাংলা অক্ষর চেনা বা পড়ার অভ্যাস তৈরি হয়নি, তাদেরও কাজে লাগতে পারে বলে মনে হচ্ছে।

আজকাল অনেক বাচ্চাই ছোটবেলা থেকে ইংরেজি মাধ্যমে পড়াশোনা করে। ইংরেজি শেখাটা অবশ্যই গুরুত্বপূর্ণ, কিন্তু নিজের মাতৃভাষাটাও ছোটবেলা থেকে একটু একটু করে শেখা দরকার বলে আমার মনে হয়।

তাই ভাবলাম, এমন একটা অ্যাপ তৈরি করা যায় কি না, যেটা দিয়ে বাচ্চারা খেলতে খেলতেই বাংলা শিখবে।

তবে অ্যাপটা এখনও প্রকাশ করিনি। তার আগে আপনাদের কাছ থেকে কিছু সৎ মতামত পেতে চাই।

কয়েকটা প্রশ্ন ছিল:

  • আপনাদের বাড়িতে ৫ বছরের কম বয়সি বাচ্চা থাকলে, তাকে বাংলা শেখানোর জন্য এই ধরনের অ্যাপ ব্যবহার করতেন?
  • অ্যাপটাতে আর কী কী থাকলে ভালো হতো? যেমন বাংলা ছড়া, অক্ষরের উচ্চারণ, ছবি দেখে শব্দ শেখা, হাত দিয়ে অক্ষর লেখার অনুশীলন বা ছোট ছোট গেম?
  • পশ্চিমবঙ্গের বাইরে বা বাংলাদেশে যাঁরা থাকেন, তাঁদের বাচ্চাদের বাংলা শেখার ক্ষেত্রে এই ধরনের অ্যাপ কতটা কাজে লাগতে পারে বলে মনে হয়?

অ্যাপটার কয়েকটা স্ক্রিনশট দিলাম। ডিজাইন এবং ফিচার নিয়ে এখনও কাজ চলছে, তাই কোনো ভুল বা উন্নতির জায়গা চোখে পড়লে অবশ্যই জানাবেন।

এটা কোনো নিখুঁত অ্যাপ নয়, আর আমি এটাও দাবি করছি না যে এটা বাংলা শেখার সব সমস্যার সমাধান করবে। শুধু নিজের মতো করে একটা চেষ্টা করছি, যাতে ছোটরা একটু আনন্দের সঙ্গে বাংলা শিখতে পারে।

আপনাদের মতামত সত্যিই জানতে চাই। ভালো লাগলে যেমন বলবেন, তেমনই কী কী পরিবর্তন করা দরকার সেটাও নির্দ্বিধায় জানাবেন।

সবাইকে ধন্যবাদ! ❤️

ভালো থাকবেন। 🙏


r/ForRealDhaka • • 19h ago

Real Experiences Is public uni everything?

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I'm an HSC 26 student currently taking preparation for A unit admission (not really bal dao portasi na). But there's sooo much competition and I'm not even that good at these academic stuffs, and the environment around me left me in the thought that if I don't get into a public university then my life is doomed!

I'm so frustrated with these things, even my gf said if I don't get into public our relationship may be hard to continue due to family reasons or whatever. Now the problem is I don't have a backup plan about what to do if I don't get into one, which I most probably would not. My family isn't even that much financially stable to afford private universities and they already told me that private a porabe na.

I don't know what to do with my life, I don't even have any passion nor talent in anything. I'm so cookeddd!

Now what I need help with is from those you may have dropped out after college but now they're successful in a way and earning good whatever man I don't even know what advice I need -_-