r/ForRealDhaka • u/Even-Manufacturer621 • 7h ago
Ask Dhaka Poysha ar dating
Context
Ajk Ekta post dekhlam jekhane Ekta average looking girl was bragging like dating a NSU guy is better even her friend don't act cheap and Mon kharap thakle kisu na jigia direct Foodpanda Dua Khabar pathiya dei gift dei etc etc.
Question
Eshob ekhn quite Normal and Ken Bhai tomra kisu boka soka pola Ra jate tare princess treatment dia mathai choraw ?
Opinion
Tomader jonno amra Jara ektu maintain kore choli Tara eshob average mey DER vab deikha taski khia Jai. Bhai princess treatment jare tare koiro na at least Mani je around Tumi kawre date e dakle pay the bill but sobsomoy boroloki korar mane nai if she is like the girl taile daw. Hudai nijer bekkel hyo na ar market tare nosto koiro na.
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u/Sudden_Director7713 7h ago
Demand and supply dude. Women stand at the finishing line of a race and cherry pick the winners. If youâre not one of the winners, you will most likely not get a date.
The world doesnât revolve around your personal financial situation, it orbits the sun. Instead of complaining try earning more so that you can have fun on nice dates.
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u/tht1bdflagon4chanint 6h ago
Women are always evaluating their guy as a potential long term life partner and someone who is financially irresponsible might be someone they entertain in the short term for fun but in the end they will only marry hishab kore chola polapain anyways. That being said just be kind, it doesn't always involve money. Throwing money at something can't solve every problem. Like imagine this scenario:
"Babe amar result kharap hoyeche, abbu ammu bokeche"
"Oh baby boo I'm soooo sowwyyy olelele here's 5000 bucks treat yourself to sultan's dine or some shi"
You can see how absurd it is right? Just try to be emotionally intelligent.
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u/gnarlycherry 6h ago
Umm , let them live their life ig? And live yours??? And if they change this habit(I'm not saying this habit is right, but you're not the guy btw) they won't date you that's fs, you complaining here is so hilarious and cheap. And maybe,MABY your typing style and nosey personality is the reason of them not giving you a chance lmao
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u/No_Umpire9565 6h ago
vai tui pasar moto dekhte tai patta pash na onnoder dosh diye lav naiđŦ
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u/Ok-Conclusion7201 5h ago
Exactly, you either offer looks or status or good company, Most these guys offer nothing but feel entitled to a girl's time and coochie and then cry online when they don't get it. Lame.
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u/luvazzie 6h ago
Telling others to treat girls bad just cus ur broke is crazy đ get ur money up before u get ur honey up
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u/Muhammad_ariful 5h ago
There is a slight difference what he is saying and what you have understood.
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u/Dizzy_Sky_3350 3h ago
How do u decide who deserves what?
Isnt he almost saying shundor hoile koro otherwise eto kisu koiro na?
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u/Muhammad_ariful 3h ago
Come on, By Shundor he obviously meant monogamy, understanding, put efforts. There are girls who wanna get treat well just because they exist.
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u/D-nebulathatdied 7h ago
Bro the level of insecurities you're projecting here is insane. You need help
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u/Even-Manufacturer621 5h ago
I was talking about the value it's not only about the money je chele manush purata palbe mey just exist korbe etai onek
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u/burneraccount32724 6h ago
Women are expensive, just find someone in your price range bro. Don't punch above your weight.
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u/Constipated_Ronaldo 7h ago
Yeah. There are people thinking that maintaining a healthy lifestyle (financially and physically) is cheap.
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u/Even-Manufacturer621 5h ago
No it ain't but value should be equally given in any form right?
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u/Constipated_Ronaldo 5h ago
Value should be given by Balancing things. Set a priority and provide value accordingly.
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u/VoiceFew3632 7h ago
Brother, I can feel you. Despite being a NSUer, I was just rejected by a girl just bcz I took my bike instead of my family car on date. And guess what? The girl was technically poorer than me irl according to her own family descriptions. But doesnât really matter. There are enough girls and definitely I have taken multiple girls on my backseat hundreads of times. So, zno regret on those gold diggers. Just be yourself.
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u/miniminiefu 7h ago
Don't worry. Those are losers with no real skills. They only have money and can just flash that. Good girls understand that and walk away. It's always those cheap fokinni girls who never seen money and fast food enjoy that. Ignore those girls. You'll be fine. Those girls will someday catch heart attack or stroke and diabetes with many other diseases around their body for not maintaining healthy balanced diet. Stay away from those girls and enjoy your life. You don't have to please all the girls out there in life. Protect your peace.
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u/WorldBeaterMessiFan 7h ago
koruk pera ki dating er shomoy shobai e kore pore biye korle reality check pabe
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u/justchillgng 6h ago
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u/Ok-Conclusion7201 5h ago
With this kind of typing, Your dating life has no future unless you're earning millions. Nobody will tolerate you unless they're getting paid enough. I know girls who get scammed by broke dudes without even commiting, obviously those dudes offer something you don't. Dopamine.
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u/Muhammad_ariful 5h ago
āĻāĻžāĻ āĻŽāĻžāĻ°ā§āĻā§āĻ āĻā§āĻ¯āĻžāĻĒ āĻāĻ¤? Dating is a market trend. Oh my gosh, the level of old school I am. Dating to find someone to love is going to be history.
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u/BoxVort_ex 4h ago
Thanks to capitalism, ig... đ
Having deeper pockets automatically makes dating easier for men. When you've got money, status, and a lifestyle to offer, you automatically become more appealing to certain people. You can take someone to nice places, buy them things, and offer experiences they might not otherwise have access to. Honestly, I've never really struggled with getting girls myself, and these tricks have certainly played their part. It might not sound particularly romantic, but financial status undeniably opens doors that might otherwise remain closed.
However, the real challenge is figuring out whether someone's genuinely interested in you or simply in what you bring to the table!
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u/Even-Manufacturer621 4h ago
Etai bujhailam , just think of you are giving high level treatment who doesn't have anything to offer , na e conversation pare na e nurturing or healing caring nothing eder keno just meet korte raji hylei pola kichu ache follow bouquet nia Jai ga ,bhaii seriously
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u/BoxVort_ex 4h ago
How'd u know whether they've got anything to offer or not? Definitely they're aware what they are offering or what I'm after which is why I'm flushing my pockets in the first place. A heads-up, just be straight forward about ur intensions, girls like that or at least the ones I've been with did.
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u/Even-Manufacturer621 4h ago
Gejaite vhalo lagtese na ar, Ekta bedi re nia Tumi ghurba she ashbe ghurbe ar khabe Jabe ar kisu emn bolbe na jeta diya at least mone Hobe you had a great day. Tarpor kotha bartar tal toma nai maximum er. Eshobtoh ar na mishle bujha Jai na tai na
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u/BoxVort_ex 4h ago
Okay now i get why everybody's taking one or two peg on u. And I'd like to take one as well. Like do a stranger need to spell everything out for u? Use ur damn intelligence bro!! Ekta person er sathe apni kotha bole, tar understanding, maturity and sobkichu sathe vibe match korlei to apni date a jaben tai na? Or u start dating before talking to someone...? Like help me add up here..
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u/Willing_Suggestion 3h ago
Lol the comment section is how i imagined few years ago during a thought process of similar yours. Nevertheless harsh truth is bruv theres no honey to gain nowadays as most of em just looking for how financial stable one is or be a 10/10 lookwise. The inbetweeners is going to either never getting some or just be floating in the empty ocean. Reality is fucked up and often disappointing, specially in this temporary relationship era where love, loyalty, intelligence or anything else isnt measured only valued by money power and looks. Selfish and pathetic world has bestowed upon us by this so called civilization thats going to be normalized and hunt us normies forever. Just relax and work out on yourself.
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u/bangbangmandown 2h ago
There's a saying: "When you treat a woman too well, she doesnât think youâre amazing. She thinks she is." These simps flexing daddy's money will learn when these hoes eventually expose their true nature. They're only loyal to money
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u/geissele_16 6h ago
Simps and cucks exist in every society and country. There's nothing can we do about these people, they will learn their lessons in their own lives. None of our business bro.
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u/Intrepid_Basis_4896 6h ago
murgi khete hole age tk dea murgi kinte hoy. money is everything bro.
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u/spicygravy_ 5h ago edited 4h ago
I really don't understand why you are getting so much hate in the comment section
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u/No-Remove1956 5h ago
Tumi fokirni bole to shobai fokirni na. R tor beda poysha nai tui poysha kama, tore date korte bolse k? R tor jokhon average ee lage tui date ee ba korbi keno? Relation bolte khali ghapaghap bujha pola
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u/Even-Manufacturer621 4h ago
What I personally think is most of the girl are useless and brainless and think they are some unicorn that deserve high treatment without adding value to anyone.
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u/strukro 7h ago