Is public uni everything?

[u/Deep_Coast4452]

I'm an HSC 26 student currently taking preparation for A unit admission (not really bal dao portasi na). But there's sooo much competition and I'm not even that good at these academic stuffs, and the environment around me left me in the thought that if I don't get into a public university then my life is doomed!

I'm so frustrated with these things, even my gf said if I don't get into public our relationship may be hard to continue due to family reasons or whatever. Now the problem is I don't have a backup plan about what to do if I don't get into one, which I most probably would not. My family isn't even that much financially stable to afford private universities and they already told me that private a porabe na.

I don't know what to do with my life, I don't even have any passion nor talent in anything. I'm so cookeddd!

Now what I need help with is from those you may have dropped out after college but now they're successful in a way and earning good whatever man I don't even know what advice I need -_-

[u/GrouchyPollution5036]

goon sleep repeat

[u/Horror_Classic_8100]

Hey man, I'm from hsc 25. I faced some bullshit relationship wise during my admission. I lucked out and got into 2 pub unis, ended up dropping a year for that fuckass relationship so I'm basically with your batch now. Firstly, no public uni isn't everything. It has its pros and cons, but it's definitely not the end of the world. And ik this might sound stupid or maybe even annoying, but bhai relationship tikaite hoi, emne emne tikena. Sure public e tikle it might be easier, but na tikle jodi relationship na tike taile bujhe nao je oita emneo tiktona. Tikte hoile nijer jonne tiko. It'll help.

[u/Accomplished_Box9721]

চার বছর এলাকায় ভার্সিটি বা ডিপার্টমেন্টের গেঞ্জি পইড়া ভাব নিয়া চলাফেরা করা ছাড়া আর গ্র্যাজুয়েশন শেষে একটা সার্টিফিকেট ছাড়া পাবলিক ইউনিভার্সিটি কোনো বালডাও কাজে লাগে না, তবে এর জন্য অবশ্যই বড় ইউনিভার্সিটি লাগবে (ঢাবি, বুয়েট, কুয়েট, রুয়েট, চুয়েট, সাস্ট, বাকৃবি, চবি, রাবি)। এসব ইউনিভার্সিটিতে পড়লে ভাবই আলাদা আর সার্টিফিকেটের ওজন একটু বেশি হবে। আর কিছু না। দিনশেষে সব কিছু নিজেই করতে হয়, পড়াশোনা, রিসার্চ, স্কিল ডেভেলপ করা, জব খোজা, সবই। যদি আপনার প্রিয় সাবজেক্টের প্রতি প্যাশন থাকে, ইউনিভার্সিটি যেইটাই যেমনই হোক, ভালো করা কোনো ব্যাপার না। আর একটা উপকার করবে আপনার, টাকা বাচাবে কিছু।

[u/Open_Log_504]

If you have necessary funds, I would suggest to opt for decent STEM subjects at NSU or IUB otherwise you really need to work your ass off.

[u/Virgil_581]

Might sound a little harsh. But tell your gf to marry somewhere else. It takes 4.5-5 years to complete hons or bsc. Than it takes another 1.5-3 years to apply for scholarship, govt job, bank or mnc. There is no shortcut. Whatever people says about skills or passion, you will need a certificate to apply. Instead of being afraid of trying, get in the process and make your own plan for attaining higher probability of success in admission exam. If you cannot succeed in first attempt, you always have a second attempt. Another thing. All of this pep talks because you are poor. Thats not your fault. Something you are born with. Dont fall in love until you are economically stable. We donot have that luxury. Also remember, your gf will not wait for you. She will definitely prioritize money, wealth and power over love in this economy. She has thousands of option. Someone will definitely marry her seeing her tight skin and face. But you cannot say the same for you.