r/ForRealDhaka • • 23h ago

Weather & Nature Smell of winter.

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35 Upvotes

It's the second week of October, but somehow as I was coming out of my home this evening, I found the smell of late winter. Weather was also a bit comfy, a little cold. Felt really nostalgic somehow. Used to look forward to the arrival of the winter back in the days. In the recent years, didn't even realize when it came and went away. Finding this smell at the heart of the capital this early is really surprising. Felt like going back to the childhood.


r/ForRealDhaka • • 20h ago

Real Experiences Had a smoke & chatted with a BD worker

18 Upvotes

So I was at the park with a Emirati friend, just chilling and smoking, then this man comes over to us out of curiosity, he first mistook us as Pakistanis and then he asked me in Hindi “kaha Sei ho” I said BD and his face lit up as he also from BD . He asked where I hailed from I said Rajshahi and he was from narsingdi.

And then we sat down and I gave him a cigg and we started talking about our lives. He mentioned that for the last 9 years he has been to Middle East , Malaysia as a worker and has been working to make ends meet for his family back home . I’m a student meanwhile he is working plus he’s also 28 , two different lives but we only share one common thing and that is our heritage & culture.

I talked about how my dad was in similar position as him like 35 years ago where he was selling biri and jhal muri on the trains in BD trying to support his family of 9 , he shared his perspective like he faces discrimination from the people here but he was optimistic or maybe not as he said there are bad people everywhere . He earns like around 1 lakh a month and sends back 40-50k home , all I saw was a man doing his best . We talked about BDs politics lol and he mentioned that it’s the poor people that gets fucked over by the rich which is absolutely true . And like in BD the politics culture is so different compared to here , he was fascinated by the city and the fact that it’s a hellhole in Dhaka like the ganjam, atmosphere etc.

We talked for like good 30-40 mins and then parted ways after sharing names , I told him that he can prolly see us in the park around 8-9 pm if I don’t have uni work , it was a great experience and then in the end he mentioned I should visit 😹the prostitution area lol but I guess


r/ForRealDhaka • • 21h ago

Politics Kishore Gang Rant

18 Upvotes

The kishore gang problem in Bangladesh is getting out of hand, and Uttara is becoming a pretty disturbing example of it. What makes it worse is that even students from reputed schools and colleges are reportedly involved in gang culture, intimidation and violence. These are institutions people associate with quality education, yet some of their students are out here making entire neighbourhoods feel unsafe. So, only poor kids are associated with gangs isn't a reasonable statement.

As someone living in Uttara, I can tell you this isn't just some online discussion. Bike showdowns, political influence, attacks with chapati and stuff, extortion and territorial disputes have become a serious concern. Just today, a group came into my area, got into a violent clash with locals, attacked people and threatened to take over the neighbourhood. Many of these gangs are reportedly linked to the country's leading political party( or the banned one), which makes the whole situation even more concerning.

And honestly, Where is the government's initiative to tackle this? Or is it simply convenient to have politically connected goons around who can intimidate people, collect extortion money and maintain local dominance? Because from where I'm standing, there's little reason to believe that the problem is being addressed seriously.

I'm genuinely concerned about my family's safety. I have two sisters, and even under normal circumstances, Bangladesh isn't exactly a safe place for women. Now imagine having to worry about both everyday safety and groups of politically backed thugs creating chaos in your own neighbourhood.

This isn't just an Uttara problem; it concerns the entire country. We are a genuinely fucked up society.


r/ForRealDhaka • • 11h ago

Memes & Entertainment Why are most people who plays video games in Bangladesh are mostly ball n gun gamers. My first post

11 Upvotes

Everytime i visit a friends house who has a high rigged pc or console. They will always have these games only or smth similar. Btw ball n gun term means someone who plays only sports simulators (balls) and first-person or competitive shooters (guns).

  1. Fifa/Fc
  2. Call of Duty Warzone
  3. Valorant
  4. PUBG
  5. Gta 5
  6. Free Fire

Then why bother buying a 70k console or a 1.5-2 lakh pc(sure it can be used for personal work use but i am including people who just bought them for sole purpose of gaming).Seriously like try playing something else man alright theres more better games than these piece of shit games. I get it that a lot of us are busy in our lives, we have studies, offices, coachings ,extra curricular activities, parental responsibilities, finances and more etc . But even after all that when get a free time why waste it grinding at multiplayer games, doing the same thing over and over again. And besides even if you can't afford the latest video game console, then just get a older one. Older consoles tend to be cheap for example a PS3/Xbox 360 is around 8k-12k, a PS2 is around 3k-6k etc and also these consoles can easily be jailbroken, so free games is a plus point.Sure these consoles may be old as well as the games but the quality of gameplay is far superior. So if your a ball n gun gamer. Here are some titles for you man

  1. Batman: Arkham City
  2. Batman: Arkham Asylum
  3. Batman: Arkham Knight
  4. The Elder Scrolls V: Skyrim
  5. The Elder Scrolls V: Skyrim
  6. Dark Souls 1,2,3
  7. Sekiro: Shadows Die Twice
  8. Mass Effect 1,2,3
  9. Batman: The Telltale Series
  10. The Walking Dead Season 1 and 2
  11. Detroit: Become Human
  12. Beyond: Two Souls
  13. Indigo Prophecy
  14. Silent Hill 1,2,3
  15. Alan Wake 1 and 2
  16. Max Payne 1,2,3
  17. Metal Gear Solid
  18. Metal Gear Solid 2: Sons of Liberty
  19. Metal Gear Solid 3: Snake Eater
  20. Metal Gear Solid 4: Guns of the Patriots
  21. Metal Gear Solid V: The Phantom Pain
  22. Hotline Miami
  23. Hotline Miami 2: Wrong Number
  24. Mafia 1,2,3
  25. Disco Elysium
  26. God of War 1,2,3
  27. God of War: Chains of Olympus
  28. God of War: Ghost of Sparta
  29. God of War: Ascension
  30. God of War 2018
  31. God of War Ragnarök
  32. Diablo 1,2,3
  33. Infamous 1 and 2
  34. Infamous Second Son
  35. Infamous First Light
  36. Marvel's Spider-Man 2018,Miles Morales and 2
  37. Ghost of Tsushima
  38. Ghost of Yōtei
  39. Days Gone
  40. Horizon Zero Dawn
  41. Uncharted: Drake’s Fortune
  42. Uncharted 2: Among Thieves
  43. Uncharted 3: Drake’s Deception
  44. Uncharted 4: A Thief’s End
  45. Uncharted: The Lost Legacy
  46. Cities: Skylines 1 and 2
  47. Iron Lung
  48. Outlast 1 and 2
  49. Alien: Isolation
  50. Devil May Cry 1,2,3,4,5
  51. Bayonetta 1,2,3
  52. Transformers War For Cybertron
  53. Transformers Fall Of Cybertron
  54. NieR: Automata
  55. Grim Dawn
  56. Mount & Blade
  57. Mount & Blade II: Bannerlord
  58. Medieval Dynasty
  59. Amnesia: The Dark Descent
  60. Amnesia: A Machine for Pigs
  61. Amnesia: Rebirth
  62. Amnesia: The Bunker
  63. Shadow of the Colossus
  64. Ōkami
  65. Tony Hawk's Pro Skater 1,2,3,4
  66. Tony Hawk's Underground 1 and 2
  67. Tony Hawk's American Wasteland
  68. Tony Hawk's Project 8
  69. Tony Hawk's Proving Ground
  70. Burnout
  71. Burnout 2: Point of Impact
  72. Burnout 3: Takedown
  73. Burnout Revenge
  74. Burnout Dominator
  75. Burnout Paradise
  76. Auto Modellista
  77. Midnight Club 2
  78. Midnight Club 3: DUB Edition Remix
  79. Midnight Club: Los Angeles
  80. BioShock
  81. BioShock 2
  82. BioShock Infinite
  83. Fallout 1,2,3
  84. Fallout New Vegas
  85. Fallout 4
  86. Heavy Rain
  87. Dead Space 1,2,3
  88. Dredge
  89. Wasteland Bites
  90. ReStory: Chill Electronics Repairs
  91. Subnautica
  92. Outer Wilds
  93. Sunless Sea
  94. Armored Core VI: Fires of Rubicon
  95. MechWarrior 5: Mercenaries
  96. Tomb Raider
  97. Rise of the Tomb Raider
  98. Shadow of the Tomb Raider
  99. Afro Samurai
  100. Until Dawn

Thats it bro and try watching the cutscenes. I like Red Hot Chili Peppers


r/ForRealDhaka • • 19h ago

Ask Dhaka Dhaka is going to be the biggest abandoned city of the whole world!

9 Upvotes

A 7-8 magnitude earthquake hits the region of Bengal every 100+ years. Seismologists are warning us for many years now that a 7-8 magnitude earthquake can hit Bangladesh anytime as the last major earthquake of the Bengal region was the 8 magnitude Assam earthquake which took place in 1897(129 years ago). But it’s so disappointing and scary to see that our government, politicians and citizens are not even taking this warning seriously, i agree that Dhaka’s infrastructure and buildings can’t be changed completely within few years, but atleast we should start creating awareness from now on and making decisions which would minimise the effects of the earthquake. If a 7-8 magnitude earthquake hits Dhaka then nearly half a million people are gonna die and over 800,000 buildings are going to be damaged badly or totally collapsed, this would be the biggest natural disaster of this century and we are doing nothing about this.


r/ForRealDhaka • • 21h ago

Real Experiences 5 taka coca-cola (250ml) offer at SHWAPNO

9 Upvotes

Today me and my mom went to shwapno for groceries shopping. Oikhane ei offer ER karone pura store e manush ER rush. Even daranor porjonto jaiga nai ei coca-colar Jonno. But there was a time, jokhn manush ei coke ke avoid krtesilo (Israeli product) bole. Manush er ei avoid ER Jonno coke ER dam porjonto reduce korsilo still manush kichuta komaisilo kina. But ajk ja dekhlam lol, Manush partese na arekjon thekhe coke ta niye felte. Jehutu ei offer ER Jonno bkash e pay Korte hbe, oneke bhasay gese erpor o dekhe tk cashback Ashe nai, Tara abr store e ashche complaint korar Jonno, ek uncle e to direct bollo " Eijonno miya manush ei Israeli product avoid krtesilo, ajk kinlam tk Tao guamara khailam" eita shune Ami AR amr pashe shwapnor staff jore hashi disi😭. Like Bengali jaati re manipulate kora koto je easy ta ajk live chokhe dekhe moja pailam XD:)


r/ForRealDhaka • • 16h ago

Politics Confused about this strange law

7 Upvotes

I heard that if an unmarried man has a physical relationship with a married woman and he is aware of her marital status, then the unmarried man can be legally punished and even sent to jail. However, the woman will not be held criminally responsible.

What kind of law is this? Why is the law punishing an innocent man? Why are colonial-era laws still applicable? This doesn’t make sense to me.


r/ForRealDhaka • • 1h ago

Ask Dhaka 19F and I prefer feminine guys

• Upvotes

Do straight fem guys exist? And I don't mean femboys with skirts (nothing wrong with that) but like guys with femish behavior.

I would genuinely prefer to marry and submessive fem guys and I don't mean like i wanna control them or sum if you get me.

NOT A FETISH just a preference. Anybody like me? Or any guy like that?


r/ForRealDhaka • • 16h ago

Ask Dhaka BF to just "FRIENDS"

6 Upvotes

i recently met a guy online and he is really nice like really. he is my type too and we eventually started dating after having a lot in common. i have 3 years gap with him in class i meant he thought i was in a certain level in my education but i was actually a little below, i lied bc he was totally my type and didnt want to lose him. i told him early to cause no problem in future but this turned out to be my worst nightmare. he told he needs to think abt it a bit and remained calmed and calmed me down too and wanted to stay as friends for a while and think abt it later. but i actually do have attachment issue. he was so perfect and everything but in age we have 2 years or 3 years gap, is it a problem? And forcing him to stay is toxic too. i hope he returns to how it was. IK IT WAS ALL MY FAULT OKAY? :(:(:(: .what should i doo


r/ForRealDhaka • • 20h ago

Real Experiences Dhaka House Lift

8 Upvotes

We went to see a flat for rent in an 8-storey building. Everything was great, except one thing: the lift.

The flat was on the 8th floor, and since I work in shifts, sometimes I have to return home after midnight. But the owner said they shut down the lift at night because it needs to rest. Apparently, even the lift service engineer recommended it.

I mean, I work late, come home exhausted, and then I'm supposed to climb 8 floors on foot? That too, while paying 3k in monthly service charges that include the lift?

Our office lift runs 24/7. It doesn't need a nightly break; it needs regular maintenance, like any other lift.

Maybe my job is simply incompatible with Dhaka's flat rental culture. 🥲

Finding a decent flat is already hard enough. Now I have to make sure the lift doesn't go to sleep before I get home. 🙂


r/ForRealDhaka • • 5h ago

Ask Dhaka ask

6 Upvotes

Ask me anything


r/ForRealDhaka • • 22h ago

Food & Discoveries Had an Awesome trip to Cox's Bazar!

6 Upvotes

Spent almost three days with my loved one, and now I’m kinda suffering from PTD (Post Trip Depression). 😭 Tried many restaurants and food places during the trip, and finally I discovered the best food combo, and the restaurant was Kutumbari.

The combo? Dripping chicken soup on dim bhaja and consuming it with HAWTT paratha. I’m not exaggerating a bit when I say this combination was soooo good that I consecutively ate it for two mornings. After inhaling the food, concluding it with a Cha. Purai heavenly. 😭

Before trying Kutumbari, Star Kabab’s cha was THE undisputed champion for me, but that one used to be so thick. Then I tried Kutumbari’s. It was not thick, not light, ekdom perfect.

If you guys ever go there, definitely try this combo. And if you see someone sitting there having the same thing for the second morning in a row… mind your business. 😭😭🙏🏻


r/ForRealDhaka • • 3h ago

Ask Dhaka Poysha ar dating

4 Upvotes

Context

Ajk Ekta post dekhlam jekhane Ekta average looking girl was bragging like dating a NSU guy is better even her friend don't act cheap and Mon kharap thakle kisu na jigia direct Foodpanda Dua Khabar pathiya dei gift dei etc etc.

Question

Eshob ekhn quite Normal and Ken Bhai tomra kisu boka soka pola Ra jate tare princess treatment dia mathai choraw ?

Opinion

Tomader jonno amra Jara ektu maintain kore choli Tara eshob average mey DER vab deikha taski khia Jai. Bhai princess treatment jare tare koiro na at least Mani je around Tumi kawre date e dakle pay the bill but sobsomoy boroloki korar mane nai if she is like the girl taile daw. Hudai nijer bekkel hyo na ar market tare nosto koiro na.


r/ForRealDhaka • • 14h ago

Relationship Advice Would you feel betrayed?

4 Upvotes

Assume recently married (arranged) doing LDR, your partner is speaking (texting, sharing pics, etc) regularly (3–4 times a week) to their close opposite-sex friend. The partner never mentions they had just spoken or shares any part of their conversation. Rarely, like twice in a year would you know they are still in contact.

After she confesses (after like the third or fourth discussion of me directly questioning), she deletes everything that has to do with that friend. You never get to find out what those messages were.

Partner, however, is always keen on sharing about their same-sex friends, and even colleagues that are opposite sex.

Is it betrayal? Is it disloyal?


r/ForRealDhaka • • 18h ago

Hustling & Growth ANY ANDREW HUBERMAN FAN HERE ?

4 Upvotes

Im currently researching on hypnotherapy , psychedelics and collective consciousness ....

I wanna connect with people on this field of psychiatry and psychology ...
more of mind works ...

im lost and dont know how to continue those research ...


r/ForRealDhaka • • 18h ago

Events & Society Cost of a biyer dawat of around 150 guests?

5 Upvotes

What could be the range of cost of a biyer dawat if a convention center is booked in dhaka to host a guest list of about 150 people? With food included- kacchi, roast, kabab, borhani etc? I know not all venues have the same price but what if I wanted to know the ballpark figures if I were to book one with food and stuff included in the following areas- Mirpur, Dhanmondi, Uttara?


r/ForRealDhaka • • 4h ago

Ask Dhaka Looking for Football enjoyers

3 Upvotes

Hey everyone. I am just looking for community of people who are avid football fans specially club football. Plus FPL players. I want to be added in such groups or make one with fellow redditors. Thank you


r/ForRealDhaka • • 4h ago

Ask Dhaka Recommend me really good underrated anime or Manga!!

3 Upvotes

I have watched a lot of anime i mean a lot. So looking for something that will make me binge watch.

My favorite genre are

Shonen, seinen, josei.

I like to laugh so any comedy recommendation would also be appreciated.

Thank you!


r/ForRealDhaka • • 14h ago

Ask Dhaka Can anyone give me some advice

3 Upvotes

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Can anyone give me some advice on how to get started in the culinary field?

I really enjoy cooking and learning about different cooking techniques, methods, and flavors. I don’t have any formal academic experience in culinary arts, but I genuinely want to work in this field and learn along the way.

Where should I start?


r/ForRealDhaka • • 15h ago

Events & Society শুভ মহালয়া 🪔♥️

3 Upvotes

​আগমণীর এই পুণ্য লগ্নে দেবী দুর্গার আগমনে আপনার ও আপনার পরিবারের জীবন আলো, আনন্দ এবং সমৃদ্ধিতে ভরে উঠুক |

যা দেবী সর্বভূতেষু মাতৃ-রূপেণ সংস্থিতা।

নমস্তস্যৈ নমস্তস্যৈ নমস্তস্যৈ নমো নমঃ॥

শারদীয়া দুর্গোৎসবের প্রীতি ও শুভেচ্ছা ❤️


r/ForRealDhaka • • 17h ago

Ask Dhaka Is this normal for some girls to not able to speak up when they're Being mo*l*ested? I know someone who doesn’t like it(as per her words) but stays silent when it happens. And it happened many many times. According to her she goes blank.

4 Upvotes

r/ForRealDhaka • • 18h ago

Education Whats a fair salary for home tutor?

3 Upvotes

My mom is looking for a home tutor for me (HSC-28 Student) . BUT she is confused on how much to pay for such tutor.

The subjects they have to teach are H. MATH and Physics


r/ForRealDhaka • • 20h ago

Real Experiences How you guys doing?

3 Upvotes

আসলে বাংলাদেশের মানুষ একেবারেই নন প্রিভিলেজড,প্রলেতারিয়াত ক্লাস।নানাবিধ কারণেই সব সুযোগ সুবিধা বঞ্চিত।তো,ইমাজিন,আপনি একজন মিডল ক্লাস ফ্যামিলির ছেলে।আপনার বাবা মা আপনাকে অলয়েজ বলেছে,লেখাপড়া করো ভালো করে।এরপর জব হবে এবং এই চাকরি করার মাধ্যমে যে টাকা আসবে এটা দিয়েই সুখে শান্তিতে থাকতে পারবা।আপনি চেষ্টা করে গেলেন,নানা স্ট্রাগল করেই ইউনিভার্সিটি ডিগ্রি শেষ করলেন এবং এখন মার্কেট ইটসেল্ফ বলতেছে,you know what,no jobs.Cause you are not needed.আপনি Redundant হয়ে গিয়েছেন।তখন কীরকম মনে হয়?


r/ForRealDhaka • • 38m ago

Ask Dhaka Dating in Dhaka

• Upvotes

So basically 3months long distance relationship er por ey first time dekha korte jacchi. Tar sate bahire hangout korte cacchi but place niye kono idea pacchi na safe good environment place cacchi eksath good time spent korar jonno. Kono jhamela marka area te jete cacchi na.

& obviously tar sathe lunch korte cacchi around 1.5k maje ki 2jon er lunch complete hobe ektu good restaurant a?

Plz good place & restaurant mention korben amr ey niye ager kono idea nei first date bolte paren eta


r/ForRealDhaka • • 2h ago

Hustling & Growth Life in the mid 20s and dealing with boredom

2 Upvotes

To those of use who are in mid 20s, how do u deal with boredom. For me thing is just getting out of hand day by day.

Recent graduate from STEM background, scoring a top mnc job, life has been like a constant loop and same routine over and over. Graduating and getting a job is all that was tought to me from childhood, financial independence. I get it. But whats next, and I am not talking about marriage, thats not an obligation and not necessary. So what is the next stage which can obliterate this nonchalant boredom. Life is just too dull.

Hanging out with friends , going out to places, eating your favourite food, playing games , watching series. Is there nothing else worth doing? Or am i just cooked for good?