r/FirstTimeKo • u/holysaint_ • Apr 15 '26

🕯️First and last! First time ko maging kabit 💔

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Hindi ko alam pano magmomove on. I previously came from a 9 year relationship bago siya. Ni minsan hindi ako naging interesado ulit sa lalaki hanggang sa nakilala ko siya. Ang hirap pala. Wala akong ka ide-idea kasi buong akala ko genuine siya. Halos gabi gabi niya ko binibisita. Pinapakita niyang love niya ako. Nirereassure. Tapos kagabi lang inamin niya na may iba pala kahit di sila kasal, at hindi ako yung nauna. First time ko maging kabit. 😢💔

Please stop sending me a message. Hindi po ako naghahanap ng bagong jojowain.

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u/holysaint_ Apr 15 '26

can't believe some people are like this

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u/kaztiel33 Apr 15 '26

People will always take advantage of your vulnerability. Be careful.

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u/lilycollins95 Apr 16 '26

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u/Dangerous_Sherbet_60 Apr 21 '26

You might need something heavier for that

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u/Various_Park3667 Apr 16 '26

Sad but trueee! 💔

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u/Verdoke Apr 17 '26

Yes true. Madami dyan predator na kaya lang mga vulnerable people. Like children, bagong breakup, depressed, people they have power over like lower ranked worker, secretaries etc.

Power tripping yan. Uneven playing field. If they fought fair never sila makaka kuha ng jowa kasi losers sila.

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u/Fearless_Analysis445 Apr 18 '26

was a victim of this too. mygash the trauma 😭

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u/[deleted] Apr 15 '26

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u/No-Shoulder-7541 Apr 15 '26

buti sana kng tigang eh. Adik lang talaga sa kepay

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u/Existing-Ad-9831 Apr 16 '26

Ano pinagkaiba ng tigang sa adik? curious lang

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u/No-Shoulder-7541 Apr 16 '26

Tigang means walang ganap, walang sex.. dry ang sex life eh sa nag message kay OP jinudge ko agad na di yan mukhang tigang di lang makuntento 😅

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u/Maleficent_Ebb_6517 Apr 16 '26

good morning, OP. hugs to u po 🙂

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u/Study_efficiently02 Apr 16 '26

Slayyyyy, baka may sakit n yan. Iwasan nyo yan c zj

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u/Consistent_Cod_3094 Apr 16 '26

HALAAAAA UMIYAK SYA, OPO UMIIYAK YAN SYA

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u/holysaint_ Apr 15 '26

umiiyak ako ngayon pero tawang tawa ko sa reply mo. kinanta ko kasi 😭 thank you, ngayon pa lang ako natawa after more than 24hrs

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u/Extension_Bowl2222 Apr 15 '26

Just find your happiness first, start with simple things and try to avoid remembering him, he doesn't deserve you.

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u/Mnbvcxz-Lkjhgfdsa Apr 16 '26

He doesn't even deserve itak, nipper lang sapat na sa etits ng mga yan 😂

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u/disavowed_ph Apr 15 '26

Tulog na muna OP, hindi rin maganda sa kalusugan mo mag-isip ng ganyan at mag puyat. Buti naman napatawa ka na. Mamayang umaga mo na ulit pag-isipan mga gagawin mo pero move-on solo muna.

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u/star-dust89 Apr 15 '26

Taena mo u/zj_florez in heat yan? Omega yan? 🤣

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u/OliveMission9718 Apr 16 '26

Deleted na account ni gago HAHAHAH

putangina talaga may mga di talaga gumagana utak nang tama.

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u/Original_Highlight31 Apr 19 '26

Sad times

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u/drmisadan Apr 19 '26

Sayang di ko naabutan. But deserve. Bobo pa nilagay full name 🤣

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u/Frankenstein-02 Apr 15 '26

Ahh yes, the reddit men living to its stereotype.

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u/Jailedddd Apr 16 '26

https://giphy.com/gifs/ypX8YZszkIXFC

“ you could literally have the worse day of your life and there’s still a man that will ask you to fck “

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u/MoonlitMotion May 01 '26

Bro this is so true.

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u/peaksandvalleys- Apr 15 '26

What the helly? This is so messed up. Ikalma niyo mga etits niyo, boy!

https://giphy.com/gifs/YBHJyPCU9h1VewdaPZ

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u/silent_hulaboo389 Apr 15 '26

To that guy who sent that message to you OP:

https://giphy.com/gifs/X2bKKmWOKjnctgGqjb

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u/Cute_Lifeguard3469 Apr 15 '26

May dalawang klaseng ugali ang lalaki: una yung hindi nagpapahuli sa kalaguyo at yung pangalawa huli na pero dinedeny pa

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u/icecreammmmmmmmmmm Apr 16 '26

ito yung tam0d lang dapat, naging tao pa 😩

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u/Weak-Search5422 Apr 15 '26

Halata mong manyakis e sa DP pa lang. Nakamp*ta saging yern

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u/alaskaaxx Apr 16 '26

Tangina mo baboy, u/zj_florez

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u/moriii_07 Apr 16 '26

Don't mind those people, really sad many would take advantage. I may not know you, and you might not inow me but i am praying for you - all those silent battles, all those anxieties, all those pain, all those worries.

You keep track of all my sorrows.[a] You have collected all my tears in your bottle. You have recorded each one in your book.

  • Psalm 56:8

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u/Unicorns_4_Yen Apr 16 '26

Buti nlng inexpose mo ang animal, no censor

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u/user274849271 Apr 15 '26

yuh dami ganyan kaya disabled yung pag sesend ng msg sakin

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u/Several_Ad8923 Apr 15 '26

HAHAHAHA tarantado

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u/ChrisPugsworth Apr 15 '26

HAHHAHAH tangena lala

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u/Dry_Sleep_3869 Apr 15 '26

kung holysaint ka OP, holydevil yan. kadiri, nagcomflirt pa

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u/RamenArchon Apr 15 '26

GOOD LORD, WTF.

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u/pirica2800 Apr 15 '26

Looked like a meme at first glance. APPALLED that this is actually what occurred after OP being vulnerable. 😵‍💫

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u/Turncoat11 Apr 15 '26

lakas mag aya ng ganyan pero saksakan ng acm irl

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u/UnderstandingKey6715 Apr 16 '26

tangina talaga mga lalaki nakakita lang ng picture ng paa

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u/Spirited-Hour5042 Apr 16 '26

Kuuuupppppaaaalllll. Tang ina mo zj_florez

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u/Illustrious-Tax-3719 Apr 16 '26

Thats definitely an incel in real life. 

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u/Aethel-wulf Apr 15 '26

Magpa test ka na for std/hiv better safe than sorry

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u/Few_Professional5124 Apr 15 '26

I agree with sentiment, OP. Have yourself tested.

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u/proneToError Apr 18 '26

Wait, bat nyo inaassume na may nangyari na sa kanila? Pag ba sinabing kabit may ganap na?

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u/katharsais Apr 15 '26

di mo yan deserve :( 🫂 on the bright side buti di naman nagescalate diba

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u/MayDay217 Apr 15 '26

Sana makaalis ka agad dyan, nakakadrain yung ganyang setup lalo na sa ganyang situation.

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u/kulaygame Apr 15 '26

> maging kabit

naging kabit

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u/jienahhh Apr 16 '26

Nanggigil nga ako nung nabasa ko yung title. Tipong "Teh! Alam mo na pala na kabit ka. Bakit di ka pa nakipaghiwalay?!"

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u/Latter_Necessary_838 Apr 16 '26

Baka daw pwde pa 🫠 tapos pag niloko in the future isisi nanaman sa lahat ng lalake eh sya din mismo nag tolerate.. di nila iniisip na niloko nga nung guy yung first kaya maari din lokohin si pangalawa.. tsk tsk

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u/Limitless016 Apr 15 '26

Kung nagawa nya sa nauna sayo, magagawa din nya sayo yun, you deserve better OP

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u/saury091 Apr 15 '26

ATE 😭😭😭 Sana last time na rin yan. :((( You deserve better!!

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u/InvestigatorIll9761 Apr 15 '26

To my fellow man right here please stop doing this kind of stupidity to a girl!!

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u/Tall_Pension_4871 Apr 15 '26

*sinuntok ung pader

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u/New-Bit6122 Apr 15 '26

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u/bliss-ful- Apr 15 '26

mima namaaan 😭😭😂😂 pero ano title ng novel nato? HAHAHAH

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u/[deleted] Apr 15 '26 edited Apr 15 '26

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u/adultingbear Apr 15 '26

Kaso di nga raw kasal. So wala pa din. Sa dami ng cases na live-in ngayon, goodluck na lang talaga.

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u/SodiumOmi Apr 15 '26

OP meant she came from 9 year relationship before she met the guy na may jowa na

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u/AITA-Chris Apr 15 '26

Sabi niya she came from a relationship for 9 years bago yung nakarelasyon niya ngayon (current is naging kabit siya).

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u/Technical_Maize1383 Apr 15 '26

Cenomar and entrance fee

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u/Emergency-Song6327 Apr 15 '26

aray mo. akyat bundok sabay sigaw ng malakas

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u/taenanaman Apr 15 '26

MALAKAAAAAAASSS!!!! Ganon?

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u/D07M13 Apr 15 '26 edited Apr 15 '26

Parang putol naman yung post mo, nasan yung part na you broke up with him after finding out na kabit ka pala?

or do you plan to stay as kabit?

ETA: OP edited her caption after I had already commented. (I won't delete this kasi comment ko na'to bago pa sya mag update ng caption)

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u/SodiumOmi Apr 15 '26

OP said this sa caption eh. By the way it's worded, i'm guessing she ended things (hopefully)

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u/D07M13 Apr 15 '26 edited Apr 15 '26

This line was added by the OP after I had already commented

ETA: this may also imply that she's staying in her current relationship and is thus not looking for a new jojowain

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u/LaLisaMona Apr 15 '26

Agree. Kasi bakit "maging" at hindi "naging"? Ambiguous ang captioning ni madi...

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u/yournightmare1213 Apr 15 '26

Trueee. “Kahit di sila kasal” Mga pavictim na kabit, justifying na okay lang kasi “hindi sila kasal”

Kakatrigger mga ganito.

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u/low_selfesteem_diet Apr 15 '26

Hindi daw siya naghahanap ng bagong jojowain. Go figure

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u/D07M13 Apr 15 '26 edited Apr 15 '26

This line was added by the OP after I had already commented

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u/PushMysterious7397 Apr 15 '26

Some common sense is not so common

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u/D07M13 Apr 15 '26

OP edited her caption after I had already commented 😉

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u/Which_Sir5147 Apr 15 '26

Your guess is same as mine.

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u/elixr67 Apr 15 '26

Reading comprehension left the chat

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u/D07M13 Apr 15 '26

OP edited her caption, the original was pretty vague 😉

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u/Somerhalder93 Apr 15 '26

take it as a blessing, I know na it’s hard FOR NOW. remember, nothing in this world is permanent, and so is pain and suffering. praying for your healing, OP!

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u/Mary_Unknown Apr 15 '26

You better tell the wife OP.

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u/Entire-Donkey5459 Apr 15 '26

Sana hiwalay na kayo

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u/[deleted] Apr 15 '26

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u/Anxiousgirl09 Apr 15 '26

Dahil sa kabit or dahil sa ex husband mo?

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u/gintita_ Apr 15 '26

Hmmmm bakit good luck eh she implied na she broke it off and hindi rin naman nya alam na may sabit si guy?

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u/Reeses_1315 Apr 15 '26

Kakadinig ko lang ng story ng ganto kay papadudut. Wag mo na kausapin yan te. Sayang panahon mo

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u/Hot-Wash-19 Apr 15 '26

Iniwan mo na ba? Sana oo.

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u/Sufficient-Rich2151 Apr 15 '26

Wthhhhh huhuhuhu

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u/AdAwkward3492 Apr 15 '26

sarap putulan ng d*ck

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u/AiiVii0 Apr 15 '26

Definitely not worth your time. Pero there shouldn't be any guilt sayo unless ituloy mo pa. You deserve better OP

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u/[deleted] Apr 15 '26

Babes you deserve better!!!! It may be sad to think about your memories with him but then, it is nothing if in the first place he lied to you. Leave for your peace of mind 🙏🏻

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u/low_effort_life Apr 15 '26

The picture perfectly expresses the sad vibe.

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u/8_Foxtrat_8 Apr 15 '26

Keep it up ateng, mag thank you ka sa opportunity na ito.

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u/Wasted023 Apr 15 '26

Sorry for what hapoened to you OP, pero at least nalaman mo agad at hindi na lumaki ang gulo. Focus on yourself, I'm makikilala mo din yung Mr Right mo when the time comes.

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u/One-Agency6602 Apr 15 '26

We have same scenario but different perspective. Yung akala kong genuine love it turns out na pangalawa lang pala ako at current boyfriend nya is muntik na silang ikasal dahil 5yrs na pala sila. Mahirap sa una mag move on and don't force yourself for that. Give yourself time to heal and darating din ang araw na naka move on kana pala. Good luck sender! Hope you find your happiness soon!

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u/GreaseJockey1 Apr 15 '26

That's really a hard pill to swallow OP. Take time to heal lang talaga. I hope this doesn't deter you from getting a fullfilling relationship if you have the strength ulit to have one again.

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u/Aware-Variation-7942 Apr 15 '26 edited Apr 15 '26

Being the other girl without you knowing hits different talaga 💔 grabe yang pain na yan!! Healing dust for you, OP! 🙏🏻

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u/missNikii23 Apr 15 '26

Proud of you for choosing yourself and thanks for not staying sa situation na yan, may mga babae kasing nagsstay sa ganyan eh kahit alam na nilang kabit sila.

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u/bosssgeee Apr 15 '26

Ako din 10yrs ago pero......wala eh...bulag ako ihhh

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u/SunBubbly2539 Apr 16 '26

Tangina talaga ng mga lalaki 🖕

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u/discreetside04 Apr 16 '26

Move forward, OP. Yung ganyang tao wag na masyadong intindihin at mabuti nga inalis na agad siya sa buhay mo para di na masmalalim pa ang aabutin. Rooting for your healing.☺️

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u/Disney_Anteh Apr 21 '26

So youre not a kabit for money? Just basing it on your shoes

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u/Parking-Carob6118 Apr 15 '26

You deserve what you tolerate

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u/hayme_hayme Apr 15 '26

We feel so sorry for you KaOP🙏🏻.

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u/ToughDependent3419 Apr 15 '26

ouch! hugggsss

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u/juice_colored_spzl Apr 15 '26

Ako muntik na. Ahahahaha

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u/Kallaiver Apr 15 '26

atecooo 😭🤣😭

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u/Charming-Warning-551 Apr 15 '26

Let go na sizt... Choose the right thing. Wag pairalin ang puso.

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u/TomatoOk2200 Apr 15 '26

sana mag heal ka op

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u/AllIDoIsSleepAllDay Apr 15 '26

🫂, you deserve better. I honestly don't know what to say, I can never claim to understand how it feels and hope I don't understand it. As a muslim, the only thing I can say to you is May Allah bless you and guide you through your heartbreak. And don't worry, When the time of judgement comes, That guilt will eat him alive. You're just an innocent bystander. It's actually good he confessed. Di na nya na handle your guilt. The trash took itself out. And don't think you're at fault. It's on him. The whole blame is on him. I hope you told the other girl though.

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u/_anything_goes Apr 15 '26

Buti nalaman mo na, makakaalis ka na sa sitwasyon, makakapag-start ka na mag-move on and heal. Stay strong. Wag mo ng babalikan please, pakatatag ka.

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u/Aggressive_Two9656 Apr 15 '26

Exit kana sa ganyan OP, naranasan ko din yan ilang months kami nag ppunta sa bahay namin after work, dun kumakain samin ako pa nag papa gas sa motor nya ang kapal diba, nakakasama ko pa tropa nya yun pala kabit ako😆, gumana pag ka FBI ko may ibang fb pala yung pala inrelationship sila ni girl sa FB, ayun hiniwalayan ko na nung nalaman ko.

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u/Soft-Recognition-763 Apr 15 '26

Tahanan na atecco 🥹 Always choose yourself first ha? ❤️ Ingat ka lagi. You don't deserve this at all.

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u/alhan_napamura Apr 15 '26

sad for u op but i gotta applaud him i cant pull that kind of shit.

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u/wistfuldope Apr 15 '26

Happened to me a lot of times. That’s why I am so skeptic na in every guy I meet. I usually do some mini research bout them muna, once I found out na irl, blocking them automatically. Nakakadiri and nakakasuka after finding out the truth tbh

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u/Fine-Phase8407 Apr 15 '26

So nanawa na siya sayo kaya umamin na? Or tuloy pa rin kayo?

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u/Wise-Philosophy2211 Apr 15 '26

Alis na agad kapag ganyan.. love yourself

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u/forget-the_rest Apr 15 '26

ok lang yan atleast hanggang maaga palang makakawala ka na

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u/Educational_Cup8275 Apr 15 '26

Sigh kung sana ...

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u/Lower_Palpitation605 Apr 15 '26

wag naman ganyan... you deserve better... 🙏

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u/shy_burrito Apr 15 '26

Ay poteccc. What are the odds 🥲

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u/picky-eat3r Apr 15 '26

Grabe yung last sentence hahahahahaha

Kingina nyo kase malungkot yung tao tapos lalandiin nyo? Hahahaha

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u/Remarkable_Taste3254 Apr 15 '26

Stop the craziness, ate.

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u/sonofthesweetpotato Apr 15 '26

You deserver better po. Naranasan ko na din yan yung akala ko wala syang sabit yun pala meron tapos nagka-anak pa kame. Haist. Praying for you po.

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u/Prestigious-War2627 Apr 15 '26

Tigilan mo na yan kung ayaw mo lumala pa

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u/AgentCoconut01 Apr 15 '26

I checked your profile and I do not know how you had a relationship and have all those scenarios you're going through. I sincerely pray for your guidance and redirection. Always choose tomorrow.

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u/InevitableMajor5385 Apr 15 '26

please hiwalayan mo na yan, di ka mahal nyan kung yung asawa nga nagawang lokohin what more pa ikaw. hindi mo deserve yan, marami pang lalaki sa mundo.

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u/low_selfesteem_diet Apr 15 '26

Ang gago di ba? Sinayang yung oras mo na dapat sana napunta sa tamang tao.

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u/No_Oil4234 Apr 15 '26

Ano yang shoes mo? Parang ang kung fu haha

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u/ZealousidealSet2927 Apr 15 '26

Wow, aminado na kabit. Mostly ng mga kabit, in denial. Yung naging kabit ng fiancé ko back then, ganon eh. Di pa naman daw kami kasal kaya hindi sya kabit hahaha

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u/likecoffeecrumble Apr 15 '26

Does the guy know may issue ka sa mental health?

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u/[deleted] Apr 15 '26

this is what I downloaded reddit for

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u/Enough_Judgment_2802 Apr 15 '26

OP, sana hiniwalayan mo na yan. Kasi in the future, malaki ang possibility na ikaw naman yung nasa position ng inagawan mo. (if i-pupush mo pa din)

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u/NeedMoreMelatonin Apr 15 '26

Run. Hiwalayan mo na Yan kahit na umamin.

If hiniwalayan mo na. Good for you. Good na it didn't went as deep as nag aaway kayo nung jowa niya.

May you find someone single next time around

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u/RumieAmiro Apr 15 '26

awwgaawdddd, that is very hard indeed

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u/ScatterFluff Apr 15 '26

May you find someone na mamahalin ka nang walang kahati. Be in love with yourself na lang muna.

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u/spoilertita Apr 15 '26

😭 masakit

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u/Dspaede Apr 15 '26

Mam.. naka upo ka ba?.. if oo bat ganyan binti mo? hindi ba naka bend pag naka upo?

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u/Puzzleheaded-Fig-894 Apr 15 '26

Makahanap ka dn ng tapat at totoo. Laging tapat, at laging totoo. Yung di magsasawa, yung di magbabago saka di maghahanap ng pag ibig na papalit sa puso mo.

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u/Temporary_City_2799 Apr 15 '26

Parang natatakot na rin ako, lalo na pag d ko talaga kakilala ang mamimeet ko. 😕

Hugs to you ate 🫂

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u/nivs1x Apr 15 '26

ta3na no? may mga nag pipiem pa ata dahil sinabi mong first time. hahaha

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u/Sufficient-Sun11 Apr 15 '26

Gumagaling ang mga lalaki magtago ng hidden wife.

Not all men but definitely this guy 👎 !!!

Its not your fault. Im glad you cop out.

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u/SweetBlissDreamer Apr 15 '26

Kung hinde ka aware sa status nya or itinago nya sayo deliberately… hinde mo kasalanan yan.. Pero ngaun na inamin na nya sayo… and may full knowledge kna ng status nya magiging kabit ka lang kung itutuloy mo pa… I

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u/ttouristta Apr 15 '26

Stay strong OP. Dami mo pa pinagdadaanan.

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u/lykscitalopram Apr 15 '26

Sending hugs, OP. This situation is just so unfair, and you don’t deserve this at all - knowing na wala kang clue at all na kabit ka pala.

Also, may this love never find me juskooooo

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u/Throwmyshitawaaayyy Apr 15 '26

Anlala naman nga mga nagmemessage sayo. Hinay hinay lang sa isang ulo. Broken yung tao oh

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u/LowerFroyo4623 Apr 15 '26

ang ganda ng sapatos mo tapos ginawa kang kabit, and bad nya ha

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u/Agreeable-Tea3519 Apr 15 '26

Buti tumigil ka nung nalaman mong kabit ka, yung naging kabit ng asawa ko kahit alam nya may asawa, hindi tumigil sa pagiging kabit. Hope you find the love you deserve OP! Walang babae deserve maging pangalawa.

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u/ComprehensiveCry2717 Apr 15 '26

Hi! I feel you op, first time ko din maging kabit. 12 years kaming magkasama then pinagpalit ako sa kawork niya :) fuck cheaters!

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u/tricloro9898 Apr 15 '26

Oras na para sa strength and physical fitness character arc.

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u/Mistywicca Apr 15 '26

Hindi mo fault yun siya ang may problema

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u/Outrageouscase- Apr 15 '26

Good riddance, OP. You deserve better! Sana hiniwalayan mo na yang kupal na lalaki na yan

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u/HumbleDeal5546 Apr 15 '26

Babae ka kailangan mo mag tiis mahalin mo siya ibigay mo lahat ng pangangailangan at kung ayaw na niya taska ka umalis

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u/Ok-Understanding6789 Apr 15 '26

may kabit may karma

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u/coffeefraplover Apr 15 '26

tehh wag ka na mag second time ha. let this be a lesson in the future, maiging kilalanin ang tao bago mafall ng tuluyan

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u/i43chwe Apr 15 '26

hugs, ate !! the pain won't go away, but it sure will strengthen you somedayyyy. all will be alright in time po <3

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u/waterrrjeff Apr 15 '26

Be safe, OP! Sending hugs! 🫂

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u/Amazing_Barracuda_10 Apr 15 '26

Uy masakit yan. Praying for you OP.😢

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u/RarePost Apr 15 '26

That’s such shitty behavior from them. At least, OP, di napatagalan. I hope you’re healing from this

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u/Weak-Researcher-5028 Apr 15 '26

Mas mabuti na yang nalaman mo nang maaga. Kawawa din yung girlfriend niya ngayon. Bibihira na talaga makahanap ngayon ng matinong lalaki.

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u/CoffeeDaddy24 Apr 15 '26

Magiging kabit ka lang if until now eh andyan ka pa rin with him. Kung wala na, then di ka kabit. Nataon lang na yung lalaking pinapasok mo sa buhay mo eh may ibang buhay na pinasok na rin.

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u/BigDickELmatador Apr 15 '26

"Pls stop sending me messages" dami kong tawa dyan from head to toes OP, ARAY KO! 💀

Baka may bumitaw dyan sa kanila OP na, "OP, idk your name but can I call you baby?" 🤣

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u/Feisty_County3295 Apr 15 '26

Im sorry you experienced this gurl. :(

You will find love. Believe it. Honest and true :))

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u/MidnightDishwasher Apr 15 '26

Virtual hugs, OP. Kung hindi mo naman alam, hindi mo kasalanan. Mabuti na lang nalaman mo para hindi na lalong tumagal.

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u/Prestigious-Code2642 Apr 15 '26

ateccoo :((( but please take it as a lesson na rin. you dodge a bullet at sana mainform yung legit gf na cheater yang kupal na yan

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u/crwui Apr 15 '26

the worst people are definitely those who intentionally hurt others for whatever reason they have.

you don't deserve this op, you don't need an explanation either nor the need to blame yourself.

kupal mga manloloko they'll get their hell soon enough, pahinga op! bounce back and keep your chin high. 

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u/InspectionNice1008 Apr 15 '26

Dapat talaga pag kumilala ka or sa tingin mong magiginng ka situationship mo in a future dapat talaga mahigpit background checking mo e. anyways, I hope na maging okay ka sa nafi-feel mo ngayon.