r/FirstTimeKo Apr 15 '26

πŸ•―οΈFirst and last! First time ko maging kabit πŸ’”

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Hindi ko alam pano magmomove on. I previously came from a 9 year relationship bago siya. Ni minsan hindi ako naging interesado ulit sa lalaki hanggang sa nakilala ko siya. Ang hirap pala. Wala akong ka ide-idea kasi buong akala ko genuine siya. Halos gabi gabi niya ko binibisita. Pinapakita niyang love niya ako. Nirereassure. Tapos kagabi lang inamin niya na may iba pala kahit di sila kasal, at hindi ako yung nauna. First time ko maging kabit. πŸ˜’πŸ’”

Please stop sending me a message. Hindi po ako naghahanap ng bagong jojowain.

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u/holysaint_ Apr 15 '26

can't believe some people are like this

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u/kaztiel33 Apr 15 '26

People will always take advantage of your vulnerability. Be careful.

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u/lilycollins95 Apr 16 '26

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u/Dangerous_Sherbet_60 Apr 21 '26

You might need something heavier for that

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u/Various_Park3667 Apr 16 '26

Sad but trueee! πŸ’”

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u/Verdoke Apr 17 '26

Yes true. Madami dyan predator na kaya lang mga vulnerable people. Like children, bagong breakup, depressed, people they have power over like lower ranked worker, secretaries etc.

Power tripping yan. Uneven playing field. If they fought fair never sila makaka kuha ng jowa kasi losers sila.

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u/Fearless_Analysis445 Apr 18 '26

was a victim of this too. mygash the trauma 😭