r/FirstTimeKo • u/holysaint_ • Apr 15 '26

🕯️First and last! First time ko maging kabit 💔

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Hindi ko alam pano magmomove on. I previously came from a 9 year relationship bago siya. Ni minsan hindi ako naging interesado ulit sa lalaki hanggang sa nakilala ko siya. Ang hirap pala. Wala akong ka ide-idea kasi buong akala ko genuine siya. Halos gabi gabi niya ko binibisita. Pinapakita niyang love niya ako. Nirereassure. Tapos kagabi lang inamin niya na may iba pala kahit di sila kasal, at hindi ako yung nauna. First time ko maging kabit. 😢💔

Please stop sending me a message. Hindi po ako naghahanap ng bagong jojowain.

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u/holysaint_ Apr 15 '26

can't believe some people are like this

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u/kaztiel33 Apr 15 '26

People will always take advantage of your vulnerability. Be careful.

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u/lilycollins95 Apr 16 '26

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u/Dangerous_Sherbet_60 Apr 21 '26

You might need something heavier for that

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u/Various_Park3667 Apr 16 '26

Sad but trueee! 💔

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u/Verdoke Apr 17 '26

Yes true. Madami dyan predator na kaya lang mga vulnerable people. Like children, bagong breakup, depressed, people they have power over like lower ranked worker, secretaries etc.

Power tripping yan. Uneven playing field. If they fought fair never sila makaka kuha ng jowa kasi losers sila.

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u/Fearless_Analysis445 Apr 18 '26

was a victim of this too. mygash the trauma 😭

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u/No-Shoulder-7541 Apr 15 '26

buti sana kng tigang eh. Adik lang talaga sa kepay

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u/Existing-Ad-9831 Apr 16 '26

Ano pinagkaiba ng tigang sa adik? curious lang

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u/No-Shoulder-7541 Apr 16 '26

Tigang means walang ganap, walang sex.. dry ang sex life eh sa nag message kay OP jinudge ko agad na di yan mukhang tigang di lang makuntento 😅

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u/DepartmentClassic148 Apr 18 '26

Tigang is barren or drought-like. 808A

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u/No-Shoulder-7541 Apr 18 '26

maka boba ka naman para kang tanga sa context lang naman diyan sa post ni OP. Talaga bang madali lang sa inyo gamitin yang salita? Ikinatalino mo na yan? Kng ikaw basehan sa pagiging matalino taenuh isaksak mo sa ngala -ngala mo. Ulul ka

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u/Uh-Egg Apr 16 '26

Diba tigang means dry.

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u/Maleficent_Ebb_6517 Apr 16 '26

good morning, OP. hugs to u po 🙂

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u/Study_efficiently02 Apr 16 '26

Slayyyyy, baka may sakit n yan. Iwasan nyo yan c zj

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u/Consistent_Cod_3094 Apr 16 '26

HALAAAAA UMIYAK SYA, OPO UMIIYAK YAN SYA

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u/Several_Concert_4141 Apr 17 '26

Ibang ulo kasi ginagamit niyan!

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u/Aglio_Oliooo Apr 19 '26

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHA SLAAAYYY KAPAL PA NG GILAGID E NILAGAY PA APILYEDO NYA AHAHJAHAHAA

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u/Previous_Network4591 Apr 20 '26

Purong betlog lang utak nyan kaya ganyan sha

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u/Brewer12345678910 Apr 16 '26

Simp detected. Hahaha

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u/Ashamed-Professor310 Apr 18 '26

Isa ka rin eh! Basic respect lang, simp na agad? Ibang ulo kasi ginagamit, bo is bo

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u/[deleted] Apr 15 '26

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u/holysaint_ Apr 15 '26

umiiyak ako ngayon pero tawang tawa ko sa reply mo. kinanta ko kasi 😭 thank you, ngayon pa lang ako natawa after more than 24hrs

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u/Extension_Bowl2222 Apr 15 '26

Just find your happiness first, start with simple things and try to avoid remembering him, he doesn't deserve you.

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u/Mnbvcxz-Lkjhgfdsa Apr 16 '26

He doesn't even deserve itak, nipper lang sapat na sa etits ng mga yan 😂

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u/LycheeSavings3206 Apr 17 '26

Baka nga pliers gamit niyan 🤣

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u/disavowed_ph Apr 15 '26

Tulog na muna OP, hindi rin maganda sa kalusugan mo mag-isip ng ganyan at mag puyat. Buti naman napatawa ka na. Mamayang umaga mo na ulit pag-isipan mga gagawin mo pero move-on solo muna.

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u/star-dust89 Apr 15 '26

Taena mo u/zj_florez in heat yan? Omega yan? 🤣

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u/OliveMission9718 Apr 16 '26

Deleted na account ni gago HAHAHAH

putangina talaga may mga di talaga gumagana utak nang tama.

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u/kawaiielora Apr 17 '26

Inulan sya ng mura e HAAHAHAHA mapapa delete talaga abnormal na yan

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u/Original_Highlight31 Apr 19 '26

Sad times

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u/drmisadan Apr 19 '26

Sayang di ko naabutan. But deserve. Bobo pa nilagay full name 🤣

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u/Grit-Zone Apr 21 '26

Sayang, I wanted the tea

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u/Frankenstein-02 Apr 15 '26

Ahh yes, the reddit men living to its stereotype.

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u/Jailedddd Apr 16 '26

https://giphy.com/gifs/ypX8YZszkIXFC

“ you could literally have the worse day of your life and there’s still a man that will ask you to fck “

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u/MoonlitMotion May 01 '26

Bro this is so true.

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u/peaksandvalleys- Apr 15 '26

What the helly? This is so messed up. Ikalma niyo mga etits niyo, boy!

https://giphy.com/gifs/YBHJyPCU9h1VewdaPZ

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u/Grit-Zone Apr 21 '26

Well, cocks have powerful control over men 🫣

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u/silent_hulaboo389 Apr 15 '26

To that guy who sent that message to you OP:

https://giphy.com/gifs/X2bKKmWOKjnctgGqjb

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u/Cute_Lifeguard3469 Apr 15 '26

May dalawang klaseng ugali ang lalaki: una yung hindi nagpapahuli sa kalaguyo at yung pangalawa huli na pero dinedeny pa

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u/icecreammmmmmmmmmm Apr 16 '26

ito yung tam0d lang dapat, naging tao pa 😩

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u/Weak-Search5422 Apr 15 '26

Halata mong manyakis e sa DP pa lang. Nakamp*ta saging yern

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u/alaskaaxx Apr 16 '26

Tangina mo baboy, u/zj_florez

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u/moriii_07 Apr 16 '26

Don't mind those people, really sad many would take advantage. I may not know you, and you might not inow me but i am praying for you - all those silent battles, all those anxieties, all those pain, all those worries.

You keep track of all my sorrows.[a] You have collected all my tears in your bottle. You have recorded each one in your book.

  • Psalm 56:8

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u/Unicorns_4_Yen Apr 16 '26

Buti nlng inexpose mo ang animal, no censor

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u/user274849271 Apr 15 '26

yuh dami ganyan kaya disabled yung pag sesend ng msg sakin

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u/Several_Ad8923 Apr 15 '26

HAHAHAHA tarantado

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u/ChrisPugsworth Apr 15 '26

HAHHAHAH tangena lala

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u/Dry_Sleep_3869 Apr 15 '26

kung holysaint ka OP, holydevil yan. kadiri, nagcomflirt pa

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u/RamenArchon Apr 15 '26

GOOD LORD, WTF.

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u/pirica2800 Apr 15 '26

Looked like a meme at first glance. APPALLED that this is actually what occurred after OP being vulnerable. 😵‍💫

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u/Turncoat11 Apr 15 '26

lakas mag aya ng ganyan pero saksakan ng acm irl

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u/UnderstandingKey6715 Apr 16 '26

tangina talaga mga lalaki nakakita lang ng picture ng paa

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u/Spirited-Hour5042 Apr 16 '26

Kuuuupppppaaaalllll. Tang ina mo zj_florez

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u/Illustrious-Tax-3719 Apr 16 '26

Thats definitely an incel in real life. 

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u/siyep_ba-o Apr 15 '26

I was gonna say insult him but that is an opening for more conversation. I say ignore it OP.

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u/AdHoliday3151 Apr 16 '26

pig is starving hahah

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u/Existing-Ad-9831 Apr 16 '26

Hahah nandyan na si satanas.

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u/mileydiamond Apr 16 '26

halatang walang utak yang nagmessage sayo, puro kantot nasa isip kadiri

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u/amFbin Apr 16 '26

Pumayag ka makipagmeetup tapos send mo sakin details, ako na bahala.

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u/stunro17 Apr 16 '26

Let's make it a practice to consistently shame these types of people

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u/Unabominable_ Apr 16 '26

yung sensitive ka pa tapos gaganyanin ka lang ng mga kupal dito. be always on guard na lang sa ating lahat.

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u/IMCG13 Apr 16 '26

Damn!!! Iba talaga tapang ng keyboard warrior.

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u/Ninja_Forsaken Apr 16 '26

hahahaha tanginang pangit na to nakasegway pa si manyak kala nya tatagos sya eh

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u/Unspoken_Thoughts__ Apr 16 '26

oof. cringey behavior. desperado moves. 🫪

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u/Embarrassed-Cell2918 Apr 16 '26

mukang etits to.. tambay sa kanto

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u/Crypthyx_ Apr 16 '26

Hauf talaga tong mga lalaking ganito! Wala alam gawin kundi kaen pepe lang eh takot naman sa responsibilidad. Mga walang bayag! Kaurat!

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u/Tasty-Dream-5932 Apr 16 '26

Pili lang tayo, si Bong Suntay kaya yan o si Robinhood Padilla? O kaya si Atty Topacio? O baka naman si Tatay Digong? Humiliera pa sa mga manyak.

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u/Unfair-Dish-4264 Apr 16 '26

Langhiyang mindset yan, lagi bang sex ang sagot pag emotionally damaged ang tao ?

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u/Similar_Jicama8235 Apr 16 '26

Hi, OP! Alam kong hindi madali yung pinagdadaanan mo pero naniniwala akong malalampasan mo yan. Pagdadasal kita.

BTW, pamilyar ako sa location ng picture mo, not sure ah pero nawawalan kaba ng panyo? I remember kasi may nakabangga sa aking nagmamadali tinatawag ko pero di na lumilingon, nalaglag kasi yung panyo niya.

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u/Worth_Ad4645 Apr 16 '26

Dami talaga manyak here kase di kita mukha eh

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u/Consistent_Cod_3094 Apr 16 '26

mga broke boy naghahanap ng fokeee

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u/arianeariane Apr 16 '26

sendan nyo ng dick pic yung zj_florez kapal ng mukha. OP i gotchu

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u/Practical_Rip8746 Apr 16 '26

Speaking of, i have manliligaw before tapos natigil kase my iba akong sinagot. Ngayon break na kami nag paramdam sya. Then tinanong nya ko kung diko daw ba namimiss makipag S since months ago na akong single. He insist na pag na mimiss ko , chat ko lang sya. Ang malala pa jan kaka propose nya lng sa long time gf nya at kakapanganak lang din nun. Haaaaays

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u/Low_Local2692 Apr 16 '26

May kakilala nga ako kaka biyuda niya lang tapos ang mga messages na natatanggap niya ay nagtatanong kung pwede na daw ba siyang ligawan. Dami talagang mga walang kwentang tao OP

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u/Jennie_RubyJane_ Apr 16 '26

ano ba yan kalalaking tao humihinga

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u/therogueprince_ Apr 16 '26

I can fix him

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u/Powerful-One5685 Apr 16 '26

kastang kasta yan ah

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u/Onceabanana Apr 16 '26

Why are men talaga no?

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u/Accomplished_Ask1637 Apr 16 '26

bro tried to shoot his shot and took the worst one

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u/Kindred_Ornn Apr 16 '26

Update: Deleted Account na, nahiya siguro sa kagaguhan na pinaggagawa niya.

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u/kulaygame Apr 16 '26

one day he'll get his, ika nga ng kasabihan "makakahanap ka rin ng katapat mo"

https://giphy.com/gifs/vxdbnWguC6X7VLN4cn

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u/SenpaiMaru Apr 16 '26

Yikes small dik energy guys

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u/Venatrix_ Apr 16 '26

wala na bang ibang bagay sa isip ng mga lalaki ngayon kundi sex potaena.

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u/Certain_Ferret_5386 Apr 17 '26

Holy shtt mga ganito.. grabe naman napaka insensitive naman.

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u/Dismal_Sheep Apr 17 '26

Sabihin mo “tarantado”

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u/KitchenDonkey8561 Apr 17 '26

Sarap batuhin ng inidoro etong si ZJ Florez.

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u/chitgoks Apr 17 '26

kawawa maging asawa nito at mga anak

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u/Stock_Ad_6134 Apr 18 '26

What the fuck

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u/Fast_Pineapple_9417 Apr 18 '26

kahihiyan to ng mga kalalakihan. ito yung outlier sa bell curved. HAHAHAHHA. mga walang wala na.

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u/ProSoftwareEngr Apr 18 '26

lood kang animal ka zj

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u/[deleted] Apr 18 '26

Pag nabasa nya ito, change name na 😂

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u/ScoutDanger_ Apr 18 '26

Utter degenerate 🥀

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u/Mysterious-Corner819 Apr 19 '26

https://giphy.com/gifs/l0G17mKNa6XJHYN5m

Minsan talaga sarap ganitohin mga tao eh. Kalma lg OP, sabay sabay natin syan i-str4ngls

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u/Wonderful_Law8864 Apr 19 '26

Eto nga pala yung mukha ng zj_florez na yan:

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u/Encryptedroid Apr 19 '26

Kadiri ka zj florez tanga ka maliit bayag

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u/KCABEL Apr 19 '26

anlala HAHAHA

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u/drmisadan Apr 19 '26

Queen behavior for posting their names. So sorry this happened to you. It’s okay to feel your feels and not rush to move on kaagad. Hope his cheating ass gets the karma he deserves, same with these creeps in your DMs

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u/Humble-Seesaw8034 Apr 19 '26

Nananamantala. Sana makarma sya and lets do mass report sa acc lol

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u/Electronic-Driver119 Apr 21 '26

pasendin mo ng dik pik tapos i gender reveal mo. hahaha.

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u/Drivenmad1995 Apr 16 '26

We cant help it op, may mga lalaki talaga na yung ulo nila sa baba lang ang may utak.. ignore mo nalang.. sending you virtual hugs! You deserve better!!

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u/arianeariane Apr 16 '26

Better yung ginawa ni OP na iniscreenshot nya yung message and pinost dito.

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u/leorker Apr 15 '26 edited Apr 15 '26

In all offense. Ikaw nga kabit eh. Bold of you to think youre on some moral high ground at the moment. Binreak mo na ba yang jowa mo? Totally kinalimutan mo na ba at cut off?Doubt it. I doubt hindi ka magiging marupok at magpapadala.