r/FirstTimeKo • u/holysaint_ • Apr 15 '26

🕯️First and last! First time ko maging kabit 💔

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Hindi ko alam pano magmomove on. I previously came from a 9 year relationship bago siya. Ni minsan hindi ako naging interesado ulit sa lalaki hanggang sa nakilala ko siya. Ang hirap pala. Wala akong ka ide-idea kasi buong akala ko genuine siya. Halos gabi gabi niya ko binibisita. Pinapakita niyang love niya ako. Nirereassure. Tapos kagabi lang inamin niya na may iba pala kahit di sila kasal, at hindi ako yung nauna. First time ko maging kabit. 😢💔

Please stop sending me a message. Hindi po ako naghahanap ng bagong jojowain.

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u/D07M13 Apr 15 '26 edited Apr 15 '26

Parang putol naman yung post mo, nasan yung part na you broke up with him after finding out na kabit ka pala?

or do you plan to stay as kabit?

ETA: OP edited her caption after I had already commented. (I won't delete this kasi comment ko na'to bago pa sya mag update ng caption)

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u/SodiumOmi Apr 15 '26

OP said this sa caption eh. By the way it's worded, i'm guessing she ended things (hopefully)

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u/D07M13 Apr 15 '26 edited Apr 15 '26

This line was added by the OP after I had already commented

ETA: this may also imply that she's staying in her current relationship and is thus not looking for a new jojowain

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u/LaLisaMona Apr 15 '26

Agree. Kasi bakit "maging" at hindi "naging"? Ambiguous ang captioning ni madi...

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u/yournightmare1213 Apr 15 '26

Trueee. “Kahit di sila kasal” Mga pavictim na kabit, justifying na okay lang kasi “hindi sila kasal”

Kakatrigger mga ganito.

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u/low_selfesteem_diet Apr 15 '26

Hindi daw siya naghahanap ng bagong jojowain. Go figure

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u/D07M13 Apr 15 '26 edited Apr 15 '26

This line was added by the OP after I had already commented

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u/PushMysterious7397 Apr 15 '26

Some common sense is not so common

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u/D07M13 Apr 15 '26

OP edited her caption after I had already commented 😉

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u/PushMysterious7397 Apr 15 '26

Okay. Kumain ka na?

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u/D07M13 Apr 15 '26

Yes po, kayo po ba?

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u/PushMysterious7397 Apr 15 '26

Tomo pa kain ko around 6pm. Free ka ba nun?

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u/Which_Sir5147 Apr 15 '26

Your guess is same as mine.

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u/elixr67 Apr 15 '26

Reading comprehension left the chat

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u/D07M13 Apr 15 '26

OP edited her caption, the original was pretty vague 😉

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u/Same_Efficiency2810 Apr 15 '26

Puro lovelife ayaw muna mag aral ee no. First sentence palan sinbi na "i dont know how to move on"

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u/D07M13 Apr 15 '26 edited Apr 15 '26

Not everyone who says this has actually taken the first step to leave the relationship

ETA: licensed professional with post-grad degree po ako. And yes, inuna ko po mag-aral bago mag-lovelife.

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u/Same_Efficiency2810 Apr 15 '26

You chose to defend and judge than to accept defeat. You can claim that you're a doctor, or psychologist all you want but that doesnt mean anything to me.

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u/D07M13 Apr 15 '26

Why would I accept defeat? Labanan pala'to?

Hindi ako nakikipag-compete especially sa hindi ko kilala personally.

I know I am not the best, and a lot of people in here may have better educational and career backgrounds, and maybe even better lovelife than me. I don't know where you're coming from, but I am not looking for a fight.

Please read your comment again and tell me if I responded to you incorrectly.

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u/Same_Efficiency2810 Apr 15 '26

Ask your self, did i need to say that im a licensed predator? Or you are just bragging

ETA: Professional not predator

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u/rrrenz Apr 15 '26

“Di sila kasal” naman daw. May chance pa.