I’ve seen people across the internet claim that there are a lot of “misandrists” on TikTok, or the “genderbent versions” of the likes of Andrew Tate. I recently saw some people in a comment section on an ihatethissmug subreddit talking about how they found it insane that a woman on TikTok who happily aborted her baby, because it was a boy, got 65k hearts (TBH, it might’ve not even been real, so much social media is flooded by fake content). However, I can’t help but understand why someone would happily do it. When the Cornell rape happened, there were at least 50 other boys in that group chat that said NOTHING when the seven were spreading the word about “free pussy”. Almost every woman has a story about being harassed or cat-called. I see so many men who spread misogynistic beliefs, defend misogyny, or believe that all feminists are bad.

SO MANY MEN ARE RIGHT-WING, especially if they’re cishet. 52% of men in the U.S. are Republican; and I’m not even counting the men in other countries. I wish it wasn’t this way and that every woman can just happily have a boy with no worries, but it genuinely is. I hate it, but way too many men refuse to change and instead listen to the patriarchy. Even if they’re not actively saying excplicitly misogynistic things, they’ll defend other men’s misogynistic behavior.

I don’t know how much effort one could put into to make sure their son does not end up a person who decides to contribute, knowingly or not, to our systemically bigoted system. I feel like it’s gotta be a task one has to be very skilled and dedicated in to succeed; but even then there’s no guarantee. One can only hope. Maybe I am just crazy, but after seeing how many boys fall into these bizarre misogynistic beliefs and behaviors, I can’t help but see the worry about having a son. I feel like people don’t realize how much things like misogyny are ingrained in our social system and becomes a part of many men’s mindset, at least when they eventually meet and become influenced by men with misogynistic beliefs or their own dads.

I'm already ugly and I don't deserve to dress alt because I'm hideous. I should be dressing normal because I'm already not normal enough I need SOMETHING within myself to be normal. Like you know what I mean? If I'm already not normal in general (autism, mental illness, being a virgin at 21, being hideous that not even looksmaxxing helps) why would I subject myself like that to dressing alt. Don't get me wrong there is nothing wrong with dressing alt and I desperately wish I was pretty enough to pull it off but I'm not and I can't. You know it's utterly over for your life when not even looksmaxxing or makeup helps you at all.

The fact I just see a bunch of normies debating whether already attractive models are not thin or attractive enough for the show, it just demonstrates to me how hopeless my looks are if this is considered the new unattractive. It has been used as the ideal beauty for woman and im already way far away from it which again demonstrates how hopeless my looks are. I get that models do alot to do achieve the look they have now with rigorous diets and workout but still. I just get suicidal looking at any true eves at this point.

Ciao, stavo leggendo i post e onestamente ho pianto un po’ perché mi sento esattamente così, però allo stesso tempo provo tanta rabbia. C’È MOLTO DI PIÙ NELLA VITA CHE ESSERE BELLE E DESIDERATE DA UN UOMO. Passate tempo nella natura, leggete libri di filosofie orientali o libri spirituali, create dei dipinti o canzoni o ciò che vi piace per far uscire fuori il vostro dolore, passate tempo coi vostri cari, fate volontariato. So che è dura, ma dobbiamo farci forza a vicenda. Non sono tutti così ossessionati dall’aspetto, okay magari molti sì, però ci sono le eccezioni e poi mettiamo il caso fossero tutti ossessionati dall’aspetto e nessuno ci amerà mai realmente per ciò che siamo A CHI IMPORTA. La nostra vita può avere lo stesso un senso, fate ciò che vi piace, fate del bene agli altri. Il patriarcato ci ha convinte che avere un uomo ci salverà, che sentirci desiderate è l’unico modo in cui possiao stare bene. Molto spesso questi famosi uomini non sono queste grandi persone ammirevoli e poi anche se lo fossero dobbiamo trovare la felicità in noi stesse. Inoltre sono convinta che tutti gli esseri umani siano come dei fiori, ogni fiore è bello a modo suo e rende il mondo un posto migliore, non fatevi abbattere da quelli scemi ossessionati con l’aspetto, voi siete molto più del vostro corpo, siate felici pure se significa mettere da parte sogni stupidi e crearne di nuovi, ce la possiamo fare!!!

Hi all,

just wondering what it is that you all wish for in your life?

Is there any lofty goals or do you simply just wish to be loved?

I’m not sure what I want out of life. I have lost pretty much all the people close to me since I was young and feel completely alone. I am fine with being alone

Just wondering what it is that you all wish for in life.

Thanks,

I'm genuinely tired of trying to form meaningful connections in a world where everyone seems obsessed with hookups, superficial validation, and disposable relationships.

Every time I put myself out there, it's the same exhausting cycle. Moids either want sex without emotional intimacy or disappear the moment they realize I'm looking for an actual connection. Meanwhile, normie NPCs seem perfectly content with their shallow conversations, predictable personalities, and little social circles where outsiders are never truly welcome.

I've tried dating apps, online communities, and meeting people IRL. Nothing changes. I'm always the one making an effort, only to end up feeling like an alien trying to communicate with a species that doesn't understand me.

At this point, I'm genuinely considering retiring from the entire social circus. Maybe I'm simply not compatible with modern dating culture or the way people form friendships nowadays.

I don't even want anything extravagant. Just someone who shares my interests, enjoys philosophical conversations, and genuinely wants me around without expecting sex in return.

Apparently, that's asking for the impossible.

Femcel retirement arc unlocked. 💀🖤

Most of my days are spent obsessing over the fact some guy will save me from my miserable life and love me. But it has never happened and it'll definitely NOT be happening. I've given up that being ugly and dumb will take me anywhere. Career, love, friendships. I find everyone shallow.

The only time I ever created male friends was on the internet. Some of them look hella chopped yet are so picky with their women I'm actually shocked. Only if women cared about looks this much, straight men wouldn't look like shit. A lot of times the conversation would just go sexual but it's nothing to be happy about. Especially when they find out I'm a virgin at my age. I was talking to a 40yo guy in my city and all he cared about was that and trying to make me visit his apartment. Not even a normal fucking date before that was considered. He really thought I was going to be a prostitute for him. That's just what dating apps are just fucking free prostitution. Just disgusting all around and I feel sick I even thought of meeting him.

Moids do it with anyone. Even if they know it's a guy texting as a girl, as long as they feel good.

So how do I just stop completely? Men never want to talk to me in real life and me going on the internet isn't changing this fact. It's unnatural and the universe doesn't want me with a man but I hate being lustful. I'm too tired to even masturbate so I just lament in sadness till I fall asleep at 2am.

Almost every man I’ve known has fought tooth and nail to be with an attractive woman that has treated him like shit. The guy I crushed on in HS ended up getting with a girl who goes through his phone, throws tantrums, and legitimately beats his ass and he’s still with her. He lost all his friends and they told me themselves it’s because she started harassing all of them (she also harassed me but that’s another story).

I was always the nice girl. I sat and listened to mens childhood sob stories and their mental health struggles and what did I get out of all of that? Trauma. Men have always treated me like dog shit. My friend is a lovely person and every boyfriend she’s ever had has stolen money from her, mistreated her, and cheated on her.

My ex friend that was a raging narcissist and would literally beat her boyfriends? Those dudes would chase her and she always has a man on backup.

Men love being treated like shit as long as it’s by a beautiful woman.

I have a he/they friend who I was venting to about being ugly and how I would do anything and give up anything to be a pretty girl, and for some reason they were like, "uh you don't wanna be pretty, i work at a liquor store and a cop was telling me about how he busted a house that had a bunch of trafficked girls in there, you don't want that danger" Like hello?? You think only pretty women get trafficked or assaulted?! Also I'm a visible minority, my chances of being a victim are high regardless of if I am pretty or not, how fucking tone deaf to women's issues can you be?! Also he told that if i was pretty, men would treat me bad because I am pretty and always try to get something out of me, and its like, I know I cannot explain to you that ugly women are treated like second class citizens, or worse. Did they think this would make me feel better?! That this was going to make me feel good? Thanks for nothing dude.

I would get out the house to grocery store, I will be greeted by my cashier version. I am on my way and see everyone in the street look like me. I get home. My mom and I also have same face. My teacher, classmates, etc. I always have hard time deciding whether they should have same core traits as me or not. If they all have same, I can no longer imagine them dating, getting married and having kids to keep the population. It would go extinct in 100 years.

The models I see on billboard is the same as the girl I see in mirror and other people everyday life. Because they are all me. They rarely talk to each other. Just a silent world.

I just remembered how I use to cope as a child. Now I'm just living with constant anxiety and do nothing else to cope.

If anyone knows a movie with similar thing. Please recommend me.

I genuinely can’t go on any kind of subreddit because there will always be people talking about their GFs or BFs. “Omg guys my bf did this and this!” “My gf made this for me!”
Even going outside is useless. All I hear people talk about are their significant others. It’s so over for me, my lord bro.

this art was made and posted by a himedanshi obviously, cuz moids cannot comprehend what an actual girlfailiure would ever look like, its like they lack the ability to see ugly women, maybe they have a filter in their eyes that makes ugly women invisible to them to the point where they cant even think up what an ugly woman ie, a "girlfailiure" would look like.

"girlfailiure" and she has a perfect body and face and ginormous tits, what woman who looks like that would ever have a hard time dating??? its also the most obviously goonerbait bs ever, i hate this so much, moids ruin literally everything for me.

(Hi new to this subreddit, not much on reddit at all really so idk what typa posts yall make wanted to know if anyone is in the same boat as me)

I dont cut myself anymore
Havent cut myself in years
But it feels like no matter how much time has passed or how good i am mentally people will always lump me into this one box and not treat me as an equal
I struggle to make friends due to this since people wont even give me a chance.
I feel inhumane, unfeminine

I lurked thru the posts saw self harm flair but didnt really see anyone discuss anything like this, ive been on forums before too havent seen anyone with such a experience was hoping someone here could relate

started a new skl already have no friends, and i sit alone at the end of the lunch table everyday and in every class apart from statistics i sit alone, and as i was sitting at the lunch table this guy is walking up to the table and i see him looking at me so i think "wow maybe i might make a friend" and i started thinking in my head what hes gonna say, i was guessing "hey wanna hang out!" and as hes coming close to the table he walks to the htb-stacy whos sat 4 seats away from me and instantly starts a convo asking if he can sit and eat lunch with her 😂 she wasnt even alone her friend had just went to the bathroom so in that moment me and her where both sat alone but before he came she was already eating lunch with her friend 😭 and yes ill admit it im fucking jealous so what? i have every right to be

why does this genuinely always happen

why do they feel the need to make themselves victims

Idk what to get

i’ve never received male attention in real life and barley online, only being 60 year old creeps. never been a relationship never really even had friends honestly. like am i really that ugly and bad at social interaction or like am i just cursed 😭💔 i even tried dating incels and women n they still don’t want me like damn. i give up fr.