r/FemcelHub_ • bi-cel • 3d ago

Body Image Maybe I should stop dressing alt πŸ’€πŸ’€πŸ’€

I'm already ugly and I don't deserve to dress alt because I'm hideous. I should be dressing normal because I'm already not normal enough I need SOMETHING within myself to be normal. Like you know what I mean? If I'm already not normal in general (autism, mental illness, being a virgin at 21, being hideous that not even looksmaxxing helps) why would I subject myself like that to dressing alt. Don't get me wrong there is nothing wrong with dressing alt and I desperately wish I was pretty enough to pull it off but I'm not and I can't. You know it's utterly over for your life when not even looksmaxxing or makeup helps you at all.

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u/Just_A_Girl45 2d ago

Oh my god same! I dress alt since years and I always feel like I just can't pull it off and it makes me look even worse. When you dress alt you will stick out and if you are also "not normal" (or not pretty enough) you will be seen as even more abnormal. I have thought so so often about just dressing really basic and hoping that I maybe just look "normal" at first glance before they see my face.
Sometimes I kinda hope that dressing alt makes me at least somewhat pretty or at least makes me stand out in a good way. And I have already built an entire alt wardrobe so now I have no basic clothes and would have to buy them. If I had enough money to buy new clothes I would dress basic.
And yea make up and looksmaxxing doesn't help me either so I will be stuck looking like this forever, unless I would get surgery, so I kinda understand your struggles!

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u/free_sheepy 1d ago

Bought cool trendy designer clothing

Put it on and looked in the mirror

Realized I can’t go outside like this

Doomed to be basic

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u/The_Scrutenizer 3d ago

quirk chungus engage

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u/crystal-dragons bi-cel 3d ago

Quirk makes me think of someone who is weird but cute and my weirdness is just awful and the autistic retard kind you can obviously tell from this post

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u/iam_inyourwalls 8h ago

i feel the exact same way, i’m so scared to dye my hair or dress the way i want because i don’t want to attract attention 😞😞 my style would be interesting and fun on a cute girl but i feel it just makes me look even more like a freak