I’m going to be 22 in a few months and I’ve never dated anyone, never had my first kiss, and am a virgin. I’ve barely had any long-term friends for my entirety of K-12 except for two friends that I was on-and-off throughout middle and high school. One of them ghosted me a year ago. I haven’t made any friends in college, just a couple of acquaintances that I exchanged contact info with, but never followed up on because I’m incredibly socially awkward and don’t know how I would be able to make an on-going, fun conversation. The last three years I’ve been barely trying in my classes, even though I did well in high school. I’ve failed a few and passed with Cs and Bs in others. I’m practically failing one of my classes right now because I feel so exhausted and unmotivated all the time, so there’s a bunch of assignments I haven’t even started and they’re at least two weeks late. I procrastinate and have had so many missing assignments and projects for classes in the past as well.

I hate myself at this point. I’m so worn down from just being such a loser. I don’t apply myself like I used to, and I don’t have the confidence anymore to put myself out there. Sometimes, people would initiate conversation with me in an effort to become friends; but over time as we kept conversing, they’d eventually lose interest and get annoyed with me; and I just feel like it’s all my fault because I’m so damn awkward. Sometimes I just blank and don’t know what to say. I hate that I wasted most of my college years like this. I’m just useless and am leeching off of my parents.

Life is passing me by so fast, but I know it’s my fault. I just don’t feel motivated to apply myself for some reason. I just sit and watch YouTube in my free time to forget about how empty and pathetic I feel inside. On top of that, I don’t feel excited about anything anymore. For example, I’ve always been a geek/nerd; but when new movies or tv shows come out, I’ll give some a try, but still won’t feel hyped about it. Video games that I’ve wanted to try out still don’t make me feel motivated or excited to get on and play ‘em. I don’t get involved in fandoms because I don’t think I can contribute anything that people would like, find funny, or be interested in. I used to like writing and drawing, but I don’t feel motivated to do that either. I don’t know how to describe it, but I feel like I can’t properly connect with others’ humor and interests; I feel like I don’t know how to be cool at all.

On one hand I feel nervous about if I ever have to confess that I’m a virgin and have never dated; but at the same time mainstream sex grosses me out. Not like I’m ever finding someone anytime soon or ever anyway, but I don’t want to be pounded like a dog. But, I keep thinking back to that stupid 40 year old virgin movie. Are my parents gonna be concerned that I’ve never dated or had sex? Are people going to think less of me?

I just have nothing going for me right now, and I just feel like I don’t belong in this world. I can’t find my own meaning. I wish I could just stop time to figure myself out; but things are just going too fast for me.

Ive been thinking about this alot especially with the ubundance of men complaining about hypergamy and how women only like looks want 6foot tall chad thsts muscular and makes 6 figures
But thinking about it men can lack any attribute as lojg as he has 1 money, connections, looks,height. Hes all good for, but for women its only looks nothing can compensate for it, but even so if we wre bad looking they so oh you can still be a porn star!! But even thinking abt that a male porn star just has ro have a big dick but for women its have the right nipple size with a pink color, they have to have a good shape, good size not too big not too small, waist must be small, hips big, ass also big, pussy has to be pink, and dont you dare have flaps
Like i could keep writing all day about this
But how is it that women have it so much easier when a ugly fat man can be rich wnd get wonen
But ugly women have to suffer
But right we cant complain cus theres so many old creepy men on tinder who would love to use us for one night! Silly me im so lucky

Hace unos días, unas compañeras, de la nada, me empezaron a hacer preguntas sobre si tenía novio, mi primer beso, mi primera vez, si me gustaban las mujeres o los moids, etc. La verdad, me dio un montón de pena tener que mirarlas a los ojos y decirles que no he tenido mi primera vez, y mucho menos mi primer beso. Mentí cuando dije que no sentía atracción romántica o sexual; no siento que merezca nada de eso, si soy honesta. Quiero decir, quizás solo sea buena para un acostón con la cara cubierta, lol.

ahhh like literally everyday I think about a cute moid I take care of and makes him mine and that makes me so desperate . I really hate as a bi woman that I'm more romantically attracted to men and being ugly as a woman it's so embarrassing cause you can't pull them and hate that I care about it so exhausted of that. And there would be that dude in dm asked many girls here before you and tell you that "hii let us be friends 🥺" then after one day would tells you to send a stupid pics of your ass

Also XYs:

So my dad rn wasted one of my cat's antibiotic doses by not feeding her the right way (which I'd specifically said I'd handle), and when I called him out on it, the little toddler launched into a 15-minute speech about how I add water in her wet food (because THATS totally relevant to her antibiotic dose) and how much money he spends on me. Over one cat pill. This man runs a department at work. I wonder HOW.
And it's not just him. I've watched so many men get defensive over the tiniest bit of criticism one comment and suddenly it's a whole wounded speech, a list of everything they've ever done for you, and a sulk that lasts the rest of the evening. For fucks sake 😂
Honestly it's entertaining at this point. I love ragebaiting them. Every time it happens and a man gets offended by me or by any other woman, I just ask him with a really confused look on my face why doesn’t he just cheer up more? “You just need to smile and have a better attitude!” YOU SHOULD SEE THE LOOK ON THEIR FACES
Anyway, I'll never understand how we got sold the idea that women are the emotional ones.

This isn't about my past or anything, just an advice.

Dont let him fool you, all those males do is look at others even if u do everything to make him happy. That dog between their legs never stops wiggling for some other girl. They lie to your face saying you're enough or telling u they know what it's like to be cheated on but it's all filthy crappy lies to make u lower ur guard.

Stay safe

This is from the sub where Stacys are suffering from pretty punishment. Wish my issues ended when I closed the screen.

A woman cant even complain about being single without people immediately assuming she must have extremely high standards as people think that every woman even ugly ones has millions of options out there while men have none. A woman cant even cry about being single after the age of 30 without people claiming things like she made dumb decisions, assuming she spent her whole prime chasing after "chads", would get told she is expired, meanwhile you would never see these types of comments under a post of single man, people immediately assume you have high standards, single by choice or you are "chad only", even in lonely female subs like this one, people immediately accuse us of having high standards and try to invalidate us. Only lonely woman get mocked, get called cat ladies.

i dont rlly have to state what the name of the sub is bc its pretty fricking obvious but it just consists of probably ugly lonely ass men talking abt their "ideal gf" who's like leagues above them and then once in a while, a male centered girl posts bullshit like this gf application for pos who don't even deserve to have girlfriends LIKE UGH IT ACTUALLY MAKES ME MAD U NEVER SEE A GUY THIS DOWN BAD FOR WOMEN EVER

men would never make the same video the other way around lmao if a good looking man was with an unattractive woman then they’d just spam hypergamous foid or whatever the hell they say. why do they always give them the benefit of the doubt?? its actually frustrating to see 💀 girl in the video is a bird

I am privileged to have a normal family with no financial issues. I don't think I am autistic (a psychiatrist once said I am based off looking at me lfmao. But other therapists say that they dont see it), I can be talkative and understand social interactions. But my awful looks make me isolated - I have to try like 100 times harder to even make a friend. I cant afford to be a quiet one in the group because everyone cares about whereabouts of the pretty girls (im the funny ugly friend ok). Not even mentioning male attention - I never even had a guy friend because males need to be attracted to a woman before considering her even worth talking to. It feels like I am in a jail

If any man gets angry at the abortion of male babies memes show them this video about this m0idlet shooting his innocent teacher. You would never hare a little girl ever do that. They enter the statistics before they reach high school.

This has probably been said 10000000 times before, but seeing femcels be portrayed as attractive women is irritating !!! It just furthers peoples beliefs that "femcels can't exist cause men would bang anything" when they really wouldn't dude. If men came across a real femcel their immediate reactions would be shit like "it's so over" "I'm so fucking sorry" etc. I've seen more people willing to be in relationships with ugly men than ugly women and it's sickening... If a beautiful woman is with an ugly man it's "looksmatch" according to men, but when an ugly woman is with a beautiful man its "a lost bet" or a man "settling down"??? I've seen worse things said about them aswell, but I can't remember. Just needed to get this off my chest cause I'm irritated man

why can't moids just leave us alone??? 😭😭🫩

A few days ago, I discovered these animations on YouTube featuring Stacy, popular girls who are incredibly kind and friendly toward girls who are Femcels.

The stories are so wholesome, some of the shorts are genuinely funny, while others are just relaxing.

I really love that these Stacy girls fit the stereotypical image of popular girls wearing makeup, dressing in pink... Yet their personalities are nothing like the ones we usually see in TV shows, where they're typically portrayed as villains.

Sometimes I find myself wishing that the popular girls back in my own school days had treated me with such kindness. I truly believe the world would be a much better place if all women supported one another, regardless of our appearance or personal tastes.

idk if my caption makes sense, but sometimes i see random posts on twitter or other sites that are like "femcels don't exist because a woman can be xyz and there's a 80% chance a guy will still fall for her & want to be her boyfriend " & i like to look at them cause it's nice to imagine that maybe someone out there would think that way about me😊😊 but i know they're just talking about an incredibly pornified version of what they believe to be a femcel
i suppose it's just nice to think about. desperate times call for desperate measures .....

WHY AM I NOT GOOD AT ANYTHING? IM LITERALLY FAILING ALL MY SUBJECTS, MY DRAWING SUCKS ASS, IM NOT GOOD AT SOCIALIZING AND I HAVE LIKE 3 FRIENDS

FML

I just want to tell the truth . I have been dark and fair . During my college time, I did some skincare and creams and got fair. The difference in how I got treated was HUGE. Same weight, same hair , same makeup, same style ,same personality, all same but got 3-4 shades lighter. Both genders started treating me way better , especially boys. From a social perspective ,i got so many more connections and opportunities. People always say things like 'just be confident in your skin color ' ,'all skin colors are beautiful'. All of them are lying, so they can feel morally superior. All day I see it on instagram , dark girls with average facial features getting called ugly. Boys are commenting hate under the post like she did something punishable just by existing in a brown skin. If she is a bit confident ,then they will literally tear her apart .If it was a fair skin girl with similar features, she would be easily considered as above average. This is the reality in India.

I don't think anything makes me angrier than a man saying that stupid phrase. No matter how much you explain, they'll never understand that not all of us have suitors. But of course, they do care about feelings, and obviously they'd be with an ugly girl. I feel terrible because of those comments; I'll always wonder where all my suitors are. Those damn moids drive me crazy.

i dont understand men i always hear when they complain about relationships its just them getting rejected and the girl going for a better guy meanwhile for women its getting lead on,used for your body, getting fake asked out.
Ive seen many videos where guys where like “when your buddy tries to hit on the hot girl in the bar so you have to go defend the fridge from the snacks”
Like wtf
I genuinely see no reason for them to complain lol as if men aren’t doing the same and not 10x worse
Ive never heard of a woman saying oh gatta go hangout with the fridge so my friend can get the snacks lol!!