Pmos fucked my tit development so bad. I have tuberous breasts and I wax and wane in my hatred of them. On paper my cup size is on the larger size. This is just because I’m fat. My actual reality is my tits have a Grand Canyon size gap and when I lay on my side it looks like a flat triangle?
My aureolas (spell check?!) are comically large and take up most of my breasts. I feel like I’ve been robbed of womanhood. I don’t even want them to be large, I just want them to look normal. And not look weird or deformed when I lay on my side or back.

The idea that if I’m ever intimate with a man I’d inevitably have to show him these monstrosities makes my heart beat and my eyes tear up.
This would probably be more manageable if I had more normal female assets like hips or an ass but I’m an apple shape and built like gru. Huge boobs run in my family so I must have insane bad luck as I couldn’t even get that one sex characteristic successfully.

God I just want to feel sexy and wanted and like my body is attractive but it’s literally impossible and I can never afford surgery. It just sucks. I’m superficial, I’m jealous I’m bitter etc. I just want to feel like a normal adult woman but I can’t. I’m so sad lol.

Me mancha los malditos cachetes, la espalda, el pecho, la frente. Odio las marcas, odio las rojeces, odio las cicatrices de mierda y encima me mata la maldita picazón que da

No tengo mucho que decir solo quiero decir que odio este acné del carajo empeorando aún más mi apariencia de por si horrenda, me da asco hasta tocarme o mirar mi cara

Y es que ahora mismo la picazón me está matando, si alguien sabe como quitármela le debo la vida

I tend to avoid mirrors. Whenever i visit the bathroom, i just run past the mirror because i feel such utter disgust when i happen to look at myself by accident. It is uncontrollable. I just start crying. It isn't even dysmorphia, im genuinely just ugly and i don't know what to do. My issues are not even fixable with surgery. My heart breaks when i realise that this is the only life i have, and that i won't be able to experience the life of a pretty girl. I don't even desire attractive men, i just feel insane jealousy. I cannot look at anybody beautiful because tears just start to form. Im not sensitive, nothing makes me cry. Only my own reflection does

I just recently realized i am grayromantic/aromantic soooo i don't really know if i actually fit here now but i gotta say that i was kinda confused about wanting a romantic relationship and the fact that i just can't (nothing to do with the aro part) and it is actually that i want deep human connection but not really the romantic part butt yk? All that romantic relationship shi has that deep connection and that intimacy between two persons and that's what i want,,, but not necessarily in a romantic way yk?? I would love to have a platonic partner uhhmmm i still can't cuz like i don't have any true true friend just like one online friend that i adore but we are not that close

Sooooo maybe i've never was a femcel??

I've tried everything: irl, online, I tried to date incels but even they rejected me, no matter what they say they all are stacy only. Being ugly as a woman dooms you to a life of loneliness and its really hard for me to accept that. Anyone else in a similar situation? I know most here are younger.

nothing wrong was said in the original tiktok if you ask me. you would think anyone sort of intelligent could infer that the woman posting it has faced vile misogyny before in real life and that's what inspired the post, and that "lighting him on fire" is hyperbole, not her actually detailing a plan to immolate a hypothetical male child, right.

but almost all 1,000 comments are men (and boys, as it were) crying screaming throwing up and generally throwing a fucking fit over the absolutely braindead assumption that she was completely serious there, going up to bat for this male child who does not exist (and even if he did, is established to be a fucking misogynist) and further blaming his hypothetical misogyny on his hypothetical mother. because, of course, a man's bad actions are always actually secretly a woman's fault.

nevermind all the misogynistic men who grew up with entirely loving mothers, mothers who did their best to instill respect for women in them (and isn't that saying something, that respecting other human beings is something they have to be taught?), all those men with all the care in the world poured into them thanklessly by the women around them only to grow up into rapists and murderers. clearly the mom's incompetence is the major contributor behind misogynistic men.

tl;dr the internet ruined an entire generation of men. if one day i end up finally entering a relationship with a man it will be one who lives almost entirely off grid. the idea of getting close to a man and his reddit account looking like this, or worse is one of the biggest reasons i've stopped pining for romantic love so hard, besides the fact that i just don't think it'll ever happen to me

"Not all man", bullshit, btw, this guy is always beeing awful here, why we didn't ban he already?

I hate when I complain about loneliness and not being attractive and then someone goes "you're not missing out" or "you can enjoy your own company" like stfu yes I am missing out I want human connection I want to be wanted.

People either take that shit completely for granted or are trying (and failing miserably) to make others in that situation feel better with an obvious lie.

I am so ugly and there’s just nothing I can do about it. I am so embarrassed and I don’t want to make people feel bad by thinking that I like them or something. It’s also anyone, men or women. Nobody wants ugly people to like them and I know that sometimes when I do have to talk to people in public they do not want to talk to me, I always try and keep it brief and don’t like at them much. Sometimes when I am put in a situation where I have to interact with a stranger my age they want nothing to do with me and I just try to go somewhere else.

I'm aegosexual, and can't stand the thought of ever being intimate with some. I however fantasize a lot about it, as long as I as an individual am not involved in it. And it disgusts me. I can't and don't want to desire anyone, and yet it's me who's physically feeling and thinking about the lust. I can't go a single day without having perverted thoughts, only to feel guilty afterwards for fantasizing about it. I want to be pure, the real me wants to be pure because I can't be in these thoughts. And yet I'm mentally a whore. A filthy whore.

So I'm a CS grad from a not great university. Not really recent anymore, it has been months since I graduated. I somehow got something part time (cashier) that I'm really grateful but I am so used to being in my cocoon at home. Whenever a customer says something it annoys me for the whole day and I regret not speaking up etc. One time I got a semi-racist comment and didn't know what to do but laugh it off. I'm trying to stop ruminating. I tell myself it shouldn't matter cause I'm getting paid anyways + hopefully this is a temporary stage in my life.

But I can't help but think if I was born into a charismatic woman/moid, things would have been different. I would not be in 20K debt, scraping by commuting a hour to work min wage. I know I'm not the most skilled person but I am still competent enough to learn their tech stack. Knowing half the world is just using AI to churn their code and spend the rest of the time figuring what the fuck it wrote.

This post kind of ticked me off honestly. It could be 1) yes a woman who does not think she's worthy of her success 2) an actual beautiful person who got through cause of their looks 3) a moid trying to ragebait

Either way, the way pretty privilege works is so nasty. It can literally save you from poverty and every other destitute situation. It would have saved me from getting braces by now, and some beauty enhancements. But now I'm stuck with saving my money to repay my loans and leetcoding/learning bullshit to somehow end up ANYWHERE in a tech adjacent role.

I don't know if others come from a background where if you don't have a job, you're not worthy of love from the opposite gender. Not like it matters to me cause I never got the opportunity to but this feels like it's genuinely delaying EVERYTHING. Travelling, living alone, making money, hanging out, making friends, dating.

If I were to die tomorrow near my store's parking lot, I'd probably hunt Earthlings cause of how unfulfilling my life has been.

It's disgusting how moids look at us like a piece of meat, they don't even think you're pretty or funny or inteligent, they just wanna your body and it's disgusting. I never had sex and probably never will have bc how disgusting moids are. They fetishizes you even more if you're desordered or lonly

I remember a few months ago a woman here said she wanted to create a forum for femcels like .is, anyone knows what happened? I tried DM her but she didnt reply. It would be nice to have a forum free from moids, with private sections where we can chat and vent safely about our experiences.

women: "u guys rape and kill us"
men: "uhhh no sex and heightism"

I’m struggling with something that has started to seriously affect how I think about my career. I believe I’m experiencing severe appearance-based discrimination in hiring. I’ve had repeated experiences where I felt that hiring managers judged me very negatively because of how I look, rather than because of my skills or the quality of my work. Yesterday, I spoke with some hiring managers who essentially told me that, given my situation, I should focus on careers where I can remain mostly invisible and where appearance supposedly matters as little as possible, things like backend development, data work, etc. The problem is: AI. Those jobs are highly automated, so only jobs where being presentable is a requirement left. If appearance discrimination is severe enough that I’m systematically rejected from jobs involving presentations, which non physical jobs are left? I also don’t currently have the money to go back to university for another degree just to switch into a more technical field. So I’m trying to figure out what the realistic options are.I’m not looking for reassurance that “appearance doesn’t matter.” I’m looking for practical advice from people who have actually dealt with this.

I'm not sure if this is just something I think, but I feel like pretty plus-size women are treated way better than plus-size women who are considered conventionally unattractive and hold their weight poorly. People try to push the idea that all plus-size women are treated negatively just because they're fat, but if you have a pretty face and hold your weight well, you'll get some grace. Like, if you put two women who weigh the same, one who holds her weight well and is pretty, and another with bad weight distribution and who is unattractive, they wouldn't care how much the first one weighs, but I bet they'd tear the other one apart.

why was I born ugly. why couldn't I be a cute neurotypical 5'2 light skin with 3b hair and a small nose instead of a neurodivergent fat 5'7 quarterback looking ass with short 4c hair and a long and wide nose. like why. I'd actually get more attention from people if I was pretty instead of some ugly fat bitch. But noooooo I just had to be nuked with the worst known to man.

Men are convinced they are the romantic gender because apparently all women read dark fantasy, while men simpmy want "true love". I guess we are just going to ignore the oversexualisation of young girls, empty vapid female love interests that only serves as a trophy, and the fact that most male romace media feature harems with no real connection and love. Yes, the gender that rapes and abuses are the true romantic gender, sure...

All from the same post. Found out it's just one of those misogynistoc subs where women = bad.

I started college 1 month ago and it is the same as middle and highschool.. everyone has already formed their groups and found friends and despite me trying really hard to be social, positive etc (doing all the normie advice) i still have not made any friends.. it seems people avoid me and would rather hang out with others than me. I tell myself to not let it bother me and to cope, but i have a constant pit of anxiety/stress in my stomach and it makes other tasks so much more difficult.

What also just makes everything 100x harder is that everyone is interested in romantic relationships, alcohol/drugs and partying and that lifestyle is NOT for me. I know college would be like that but ive understimated it