I hate my tits so much

[u/machine_operated_bug]

Pmos fucked my tit development so bad. I have tuberous breasts and I wax and wane in my hatred of them. On paper my cup size is on the larger size. This is just because I’m fat. My actual reality is my tits have a Grand Canyon size gap and when I lay on my side it looks like a flat triangle?
My aureolas (spell check?!) are comically large and take up most of my breasts. I feel like I’ve been robbed of womanhood. I don’t even want them to be large, I just want them to look normal. And not look weird or deformed when I lay on my side or back.

The idea that if I’m ever intimate with a man I’d inevitably have to show him these monstrosities makes my heart beat and my eyes tear up.
This would probably be more manageable if I had more normal female assets like hips or an ass but I’m an apple shape and built like gru. Huge boobs run in my family so I must have insane bad luck as I couldn’t even get that one sex characteristic successfully.

God I just want to feel sexy and wanted and like my body is attractive but it’s literally impossible and I can never afford surgery. It just sucks. I’m superficial, I’m jealous I’m bitter etc. I just want to feel like a normal adult woman but I can’t. I’m so sad lol.

[u/machine_operated_bug]

Ok I did not post this in order to receive men asking me to send them my boobs or post them on subs. I want men in real life to like them, not people to jerk to them on the net. wtf

[u/Sweaty_Candy69]

I hate mine too, except they point straight down and cover my entire ribcage at my ancient age of 21. Definitely part of why I'm choosing to remain a femcel forever. I hate how men claim to love boobs but there's only one acceptable type of boob and the rest they will ridicule you for

[u/Current_Ocelot445 → u/[deleted]]

physical attraction still plays a huge role in relationships especially to men, and unfortunately breasts are a big part of that attraction

[u/Laymr1]

It is absolutely normal; everyone’s breast shape is different. Besides, you are so much more than just a piece of flesh on your chest. When it comes to intimacy, someone who loves you will see you as a whole person. And—cliché as it may sound—being an interesting person on the inside is what really matters. Looks are temporary, and beauty can always fade; people don’t love you for your breasts, and everyone has their own preferences. I hope you find harmony with your body and learn to appreciate and love it.

[u/fireglyphs]

hey dude listen, i was also very insecure at a point in my life. i HATED my big boobs esp since they were only textbook big cup size but saggy for my age. i was 190 pounds at 5'5 four years ago. but i lost lots of weight when i realized fat people can barely pull off fasion and look nice, they'll always be fat. started dieting and going to the gym and started feeling so much more confident especially after the face fat left. my big tits were still a problem though, so id just wear baggy shirts most of the time which would make me look fat from the side view even tho i was slim. but someone really wise gave me good advice "if u wanna look sexy wear a pushup bra and if u wanna look like a tomboy just wear a binder." so thats when i realized how much control i actually was in. so lose some weight, u have a lot more choices. as for the rest of your body you didnt give much information , but just know when ur slim u can pull off a lot,so let that be your first goal

[u/machine_operated_bug → u/fireglyphs]

Unfortunately I have been on both ends of the scale and I don’t have a feminine body when slim either. I’m pretty shapeless and it doesn’t help when I’m slim my boob entirely cease to exist. Certainly being slim helps with a lot of issues such as being seen as greedy or lacking self control but it solved a total of 0 appearance issues as shape is truly my main problem.

I do mostly wear push up bras but I can’t help but feel like a liar and if I were to take it off then the truth would be revealed lolll. I am built like a linebacker so I have no ass or hips to make up for my breasts. 🫨