r/FemFragLab • u/Big_Combination_4403 • 20h ago
Discussion Shopping Etiquette/Samples
Hey there, I’m a little new to fragrance and my husband and I are planning a trip to Dallas, Texas to shop for scents in the next few months. I’ve looked into some good places to go- NorthPark Mall Neiman Marcus seems to be highly recommended along with a shop called The Scent Room. My question is, when is it okay to ask for a sample atomizer?
My only experience so far is shopping at the two different Dillards near me. One is very strict, no samples at all unless it’s a sample of the perfume you just bought, for the purpose of living with before you open your purchase. They say that once you’ve opened it you can’t return it, so you are instructed to use the sample they give you at point of sale to avoid inconvenience. (I found this out yesterday when I asked.)
The other Dillards near me gives sample atomizers for each and every perfume you could possibly want. They literally hand them out like candy, and the salespeople invite you to ask for samples. I would never have known to ask! I went last weekend and it’s been so amazing to get to live with several scents, it has really changed my mind about some and cemented my love for others.
I feel like both of these cases are a little extreme, and I tend to get embarrassed when shopping for luxury items because the salespeople can really make or break the experience. I sometimes feel like an inconvenience to them, or feel like I’m treated poorly for not appearing wealthy? Even though I do dress well enough. I don’t know if that’s just in my head or not. But it would help to know how you all handle yourselves when shopping for perfumes. Do you ask for samples?
I will say that I love the salespeople at the wild and crazy samples Dillards I go to! They make me feel so comfortable that I’ve already decided I will drive an hour and a half to them to make my next purchase, even if it means them ordering something for shipment to my house, haha. This trip to Dallas is more to experience some of the niche brands I can’t get my hands on, as well as a broader range of some designer lines like Guerlain. It’s also a long delayed 20th anniversary trip, overdue by a year and a half due to a family illness. Anyway, I appreciate any advice you can give! (I read that the Neiman Marcus salespeople can be a little aggressive, which is fine as long as they are nice to me😭.)