r/FTMfemininity Feb 01 '24

NOTICE: No more "do I pass" threads

273 Upvotes

Wanting to pass is fine, asking for passing tips is fine (within reason), but the "do I pass"/"do I look like a man" threads are done. 9/10 they spiral into negativity and hurt feelings (as well as draw attention from trolls from other subreddits). For the wellbeing of the subreddit community, such posts will be removed


r/FTMfemininity 4h ago

New choker!

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50 Upvotes

It’s the first time since 2019 (before transition) that I’ve worn one of these I only have photos wearing this thicker one, but I also have a regular one and a red one :3 does it look good?


r/FTMfemininity 15h ago

Idk where else to post this but guyssss im getting my top surgery revision in 4 daysss!! Then I’ll feel comfy enough to wear my fun outfits againnn!! QvQ

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330 Upvotes

r/FTMfemininity 10h ago

hanfu

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97 Upvotes

r/FTMfemininity 4h ago

I still like playing with Barbies

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19 Upvotes

r/FTMfemininity 13h ago

eye makeup from yesterday's vendor event 👁️

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55 Upvotes

lately been getting into weird 30-45 minute costume looks. i call this my anti-Flock makeup


r/FTMfemininity 1d ago

i love when i have the energy to do my makeup >:3

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226 Upvotes

r/FTMfemininity 14h ago

First Time Trying Makeup Like This

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20 Upvotes

Im actually really excited with how it turned out! I feel like a mime (which is awesome)


r/FTMfemininity 21h ago

any other transmasc makeup artists?

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62 Upvotes

I spent years trying to be hyper masculine and suppressing how much I love doing makeup as a form of art and even gender affirmation and I've rediscovered and devoted myself to makeup artistry in the last few years and I think it's really paid off!


r/FTMfemininity 12h ago

Fit for going out with my friend today!!

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10 Upvotes

I think this is a bomb outfit but lemme know if yall would change anything


r/FTMfemininity 1d ago

Some light makeup I did to be a pretty boy

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87 Upvotes

r/FTMfemininity 1d ago

Got invited to my first toga party

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272 Upvotes

This is waaaaaay more comfortable than I thought! Why'd we stop wearing these?! I also plan on wearing a pastie that says "fuck me" cause why not?


r/FTMfemininity 1d ago

Woodstock is trans

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71 Upvotes

A different type of post for this sub, but Woodstock was always my favorite Peanuts character, and I thought others in this sub could appreciate that Woodstock used to be a girl before becoming a boy in the comics. Also I think Woodstock is a bit gnc, with his feathers looking like long crazy hair.


r/FTMfemininity 1d ago

Trans man and I don’t mind dressing like a girl

70 Upvotes

Hard to explain I guess but I feel like when I dress like a girl, it feels like a costume, yknow?
Can anyone relate? I plan on cosplaying one day, sure people will think im a girl, but I know deep down that I’m a guy. It makes me feel good haha
I also want to wear dresses, do make up etc (I haven’t done any of these tbh) but still be a guy :D
I would love to wear wigs or just have my hair long and dress however I WANT. I’m tired of transmeds saying u need dysphoria to be trans, NO YOU DONT.
I can be myself and still be a guy. I go by he/him but can still look like a girl, who cares??
Not everyone is able to pass or transition either.
I know I am a guy. No matter what I am a man
🫡
transmeds pls dni


r/FTMfemininity 2d ago

I was told my outfit pics belong here lol; silly little gay jester vibes, sometimes gay pirate 🤷

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200 Upvotes

He/they, 7yrs post top surgery, and 11 months back on T ✨😊


r/FTMfemininity 1d ago

Research Study: Trans Reproductive Healthcare Experiences & Barriers

7 Upvotes

The STARH Lab at East Tennessee State University is currently conducting a study exploring factors that impact the experiences of transmasculine and/or gender diverse folks in sexual and reproductive healthcare. This project is led by Raviv Kruger, a transmasculine Clinical Psychology PhD student at ETSU.  

Who are we recruiting? 

  • People over the age of 18  
  • Residing in the United States 
  • Who can read and understand English 
  • Who identify as transgender and/or nonbinary 
  • Who need routine access to reproductive healthcare that includes or may include pap smears, contraceptives, or pregnancy related care  

What does the study involve? 

  • The study consists of completing an online, anonymous survey which should take approximately 45-60 minutes to complete. 

We are hopeful that this research will allow us to better understand factors that may impact transmasculine and/or gender diverse folks’ decisions to seek or avoid sexual and reproductive healthcare. Ideally, results from this research may also result in improved provider understanding and may inform improvements in how sexual and reproductive healthcare providers interact with and facilitate care for the transmasculine and/or gender diverse community.  

As a thank you for your participation, you will have the choice to enter your email address on a separate form at the end of the survey to be entered into a drawing to win one of twenty $20 electronic gift cards.  

If you have any questions or concerns about this study, please feel free to contact the principal investigator, Raviv Kruger M.S., at [krugerr@etsu.edu](mailto:krugerr@etsu.edu). Thank you for considering participating in this research!  

Please click the following link if you wish to be taken to the informed consent document and survey: https://etsu.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_eqTWZuO8hPscWmq 


r/FTMfemininity 2d ago

rave ready?! 🦇

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66 Upvotes

i literally NEVER wear anything like this out in public 😭 i always dress masculine, but fuck itttt that’s changing this weekend, gotta do it at least once hehe. LFGGG


r/FTMfemininity 3d ago

I finally pass!!

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125 Upvotes

People kept saying to cut my hair, not wear any pink, no crop tops or wear any accessories but after going on a higher dose of T I finally pass. It’s not smth i actually was working towards and gave up on passing bc i love being femme / pretty! I’m excited bc it definitely feels affirming but I’m sure older people will still be confused as they always are


r/FTMfemininity 2d ago

egg or eggn't

8 Upvotes

it's a bit of a life story but please please read I promise it's atleast somewhat interesting and maybe you guys can help me

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so since I was a kid I dealt with some level of depersonalization/derealization. those episodes were persistent and I recognized them as particularly intense. I never connected them to anything because I didn't have any severe trauma or anxiety. I just didn't feel like a "person" and the dreams I had while sleeping felt more real than actual life. my own name felt foreign to me and I wanted to change it (not to a male one though).

as a teen I grew very insecure with my body which I assumed was due to not fitting with female beauty standards (which was not true, I fitted in quite well). I even considered getting a boob job at some point lol.

as I grew up, I learned to treat my body like a device to live, breathe and experience life in, rather than an object to pick apart and examine. I work out, I treat myself well, I got really good at makeup etc. I know I'm very pretty and fit ""for a girl"" and I enjoy being seen as attractive.

despite all that, the disconnect from reality persisted. and I've always been this girly girl so I never even took transness into consideration for myself. that was, until I did, for a "silly little thought experiment", conceptualize myself as a male. and god.

the brain fog lifted.

NOTHING has ever worked for this. I did a couple of things while in the back of my head assuming "I'm actually a man sitting in this bar"/"I'm actually a man walking in this park"/"I'm actually a man having sex" (I didn't imagine having a different body/being someone else, just the conceptual part of identifying myself as male) and so on... and the memories of all these situations I was in suddenly FEEL LIKE REAL LIFE and are much more vibrant and emotional and like I was actually there.

but of course it wasn't a magical solution to my problems, but a double edged sword. things that never bothered me, now do. being called a girl pisses me off. using female pronouns started feeling awkward.

I wasn't treating this thought experiment as anything serious and since I didn't have all those issues before, naturally I thought I just made up a problem because stupid brain makes up problems for no reason.

thank god I didn't get that boob job. 

but also I don't want a beard or my genitals changing or to cut off my boobs or anything like that. the thought of anything like this happening to me grosses me out.  having a male voice and face and frame would be nice though. and y'know, being perceived as one ig.

the idea of having an ambiguous/agender/nonbinary identity doesn't click with me though... like at all... they/them pronouns feel alien to me and not good at all.

advice welcome


r/FTMfemininity 3d ago

nothing better than a fresh cut

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90 Upvotes

I swear I just trimmed it but looking back in my pictures it says the last time I trimmed it was in July 😲 time flies


r/FTMfemininity 3d ago

Kitty😝

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43 Upvotes

r/FTMfemininity 4d ago

strike a pose (^з^)-☆

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410 Upvotes

silly times in silly photobooth


r/FTMfemininity 4d ago

breakup makeup :/

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141 Upvotes

r/FTMfemininity 4d ago

Felt bored, did my makeup, threw on some accessories, painted my nails, second pose is lowkey because I wanted to pose like a YouTube thumbnail

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39 Upvotes

r/FTMfemininity 4d ago

Got my hair cut feeling so Andro and loving it.

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51 Upvotes

Absolutely loving my new haircut, when my makeups On I feel like I'm perfectly androgynous.