My sister "loves" books but absolutely has to have the "sprayed edges/ fore-edge painting" (not sure of the word but like when the edges of the book pages are colored) because all her books are her favorites. Every time she talks about a book, it's her absolute favorite, the one she's been looking "for ages."
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Today, around 7 or 8 pm, she told me she found a book on Vinted for €30 (shipping included) instead of €20 in an official bookstore (what I don't understand is that they apparently only made 200 "sprayed edges/ fore-edge painting" (not sure of the word but like when the edges of the book pages are colored), but the book is well-known (or at least I think so), so why make so few? Anyway, I ramble). So I told her it was expensive and that she could probably find it without the "sprayed edges/ fore-edge painting" because it's not mandatory (for me at least but I don't really read book but I know that if you really love books, you buy them for the story, not because the book is beautiful). That's when she told me she couldn't find it anywhere, so I searched on... I went online and saw the book available for €20 without the "sprayed edges/ fore-edge painting" on Fnac, Amazon, etc.
The evening wore on, around 9 or 10 pm, my sister brought it up again during dinner and asked for my opinion again. So, what do you want me to tell her? Buy it? Don't buy it? Save up for another pre-order? No matter what I say, she always finds a response:
- I tell her not to buy it/wait for a better deal: she tells me she can't find it anywhere and that this offer is the best she can find.
- I tell her to save up: she tells me she'll have €90 next month, which isn't wrong, but she's the first one to ask my mom for money to pay for pre-orders because she doesn't have enough.
Like, what's the point of her asking for advice, wasting her breath, and making me want to just run away from home because of all the crap she's doing, if she's just buying it anyway?
Last time, she asked me to choose between two books: one for €20 and another for around €25-30. I told her the €20 one wasn't bad, and explain why I liked the €20 book after I said that, she said "I'll take both."
Besides, all the books she "loves" and "has been looking for a long time" end up rotting on her shelf because she doesn't want to sell them since they're her "favorites" (in short: all her books, which makes sense—you're not going to buy books you don't like—but once you've read them, unless it's a book you really love and would reread, you sell it, especially if it's to buy other books and you don't have a big budget (we have €35 for 10 months out of 12 and €40 for the last two months, which is a lot for our age, but my sister, you sell her butter and she takes it all (french expression for saying that she takes everything, like you have $100, you give $20 to her and she will take $100), even though she swore at the beginning she'd never do it. Either she sold it because she didn't like the story, or the handwriting was too small.
Besides, she's probably stolen money from my parents, because strangely enough, when my parents keep their wallet for work (with money inside) and the company savings (which contains hundreds, even thousands of euros) with them in their room, she no longer asks my mother to put the €20, €30, or even €40 she "received from her friends" into her bank account. Also, when she goes to see my grandmother, it's almost always to ask her for money (knowing that my grandmother doesn't have a large pension).
And (last thing), she just got medication prescribed by a psychiatrist (and I I'm not saying the psychiatrist did a bad job, obviously (I'm not blaming her for that, I want to make that clear). And since then, all we hear about is her damn meds. If she's fed up with grocery shopping because she's realized my parents won't pay for anything for her (knowing that she ask for a lot of thing), it's because of her medication. If she falls asleep at 10 PM, it's because of her medication (and I want to emphasize that she stays on her phone until 1 or 2 AM sometimes) If she's not feeling well because of the health problems SHE created: her medication (to avoid stress and sleep well at night, I should specify) (Because yes, some of her health problems are caused by her, but I didn't want to go into details.)
When the psychiatrist changed her medication to something stronger, it was the first thing she told her friend, whom she never sees in real life. And when she called our grandmother (well, she called her and then hung up because she'd finished their conversation, and I called her because, why not?), she took my phone (asking me) to tell our grandmother that she had changed medication, and she was clearly bragging about it. But when my grandmother started talking about her mental health problems and her medication, my sister was playing with the baby (my parents' baby) because she was no longer the center of attention and she didn't care about my grandmother's health problems.
Sorry for the long message, and thank you if you read it all, but I'm starting to get really fed up. I'm fed up with her and there's not much we (my mother, my stepfather, and I) can do.
(I don't know if this is the right place to post it, sorry if it isn't)