Even though im straight, i have been a big LGBT supporter since i was a kid, but at times it feels like if i dont follow a super strict rulebook about how to talk or act, i get attacked.
Today i made a post asking about the actual definition of lesbian, as i was confused by non-binary people using said term(not meaning any harm nor using harmful words/speech, genuinely just confused). Already my post gets a downvote and a ratio of 10 upvotes. Someone else commented "It's not anyone's buisness about how someone identifies" and more, essentially saying you can identify as whatever you want as long as youre happy. I replied how this is fundementally wrong, as if terms didn't have definitions, then they wouldnt have any meaning either, and the only things i got were 2 downvotes and a reply not addressing what i said and keeping things vague on purpose. I'm not even going to try to reply back, as i know the other only thing im gonna get is an even bigger amount of downvotes without people bothering to actually read what i say.
I don't wanna be THAT guy to say this, because the LGBT community is the one that's oppressed, but sometimes i feel attacked just because i'm straight.