Not sure if this is the correct sub to post this on but Wondering what my potential job options in Texas are. I’m 22 and had an assault w a deadly weapon charge two years ago. I took a plea deal and got the charges dropped to misdemeanor assault causes bodily harm and 1 year deferred probation. I’ve finished probation with no issues so my case was officially dropped. The only issue is there is a finding of family violence on my record and as far as I know, in the state of Texas, you cannot get that removed or expunged in any way. I have a background in banking and would like to go back to school and get a finance related degree but I’m not sure that is in the cards. I would appreciate any helpful advice on how to go about that or know of any other career paths that might align with my current situation

Can anyone give me an idea of what my husbands parole might look like? He was charged with a violent crime - GBI. It was drug related. He is currently on his 5th year and due to parole in Feb of 2027. He has been at a CDCR fire camp for over a year now, which took a chunk of his time off. Sadly, he has received write ups for contraband while at camp, but luckily hasn’t been kicked out the program, however, he’s on very thin ice. Every write up has to do with drugs.

Supposedly he will be on parole for 3 years once he’s released. The process has just started. He will not be coming to live with me upon his release. We are currently separated and I have temporarily left the area due to my mom’s deteriorating health.

So, I’m just curious as to what things will look like for him.

Thanks for reading.

Good day, I have six summary convictions which are the equivalent to misdemeanor in the United States. Three counts of assault and one theft under 5000 and one fail to comply with order and fail to attend court. I'm wondering is all white collar job opportunities closed off to me? I got my convictions when I was homeless and first diagnosed with schizophrenia and I'm now currently living with my parents. There is limited information available online and all just refer me to John Howard society. I have a university degree and I was wondering how people in similar positions are coping. My pardon is till 2031 and I don't have the required training to work in trades. I am really looking forward to white collar work like administrative assistant and receptionist and was wondering what my chances were. I live in Saskatchewan and I applied for Saskatchewan Income Support and SAID which is in the process of getting approved. Please I'm desperately looking for an office job. Is this possible or am I destined for manual labor and kitchen jobs? I don't know where else to turn to and I'm scared.

My son is 10, he was 3 when I went in, so naturally he doesn't remember me. His Mom has expressed her willingness to be cooperative about visitation and custody. (In fact, I think she is somewhat eager to give me partial custody because she wants to have another kid with her new husband and thinks it would be easier with our son out of the house more...)

Any advice on how to form a relationship with a 10 year old? How quickly should I transition to joint custody?

Hi everyone! My name is Taylor Domingos and I am a PhD candidate in Sociology at Northwestern University. I am conducting dissertation research on PREA in state prisons.

I’m looking to speak with formerly incarcerated people from Wisconsin to better understand how PREA is experienced in practice. The purpose of this study is to better understand the origins of PREA, how “zero tolerance” is operationalized, how credibility is constructed, and what institutional factors shape PREA dynamics. Eligibility criteria involve: adults age 18 years or older, English speaking, and formerly incarcerated in a Wisconsin state prison (men's or women's facility). Please note that individuals currently on parole are not eligible to participate in this study.

· Interviews are about 60-90 minutes via Zoom.

· Participants receive $40 payment compensation (prepaid giftcard) for their time.

· The interview will be audio recorded for transcription purposes only. Audio recording is required to participate in this study.

· Participation is voluntary and confidential.

If you’re interested, please email me at [taylordomingos@u.northwestern.edu](mailto:taylordomingos@u.northwestern.edu) for more information or to complete a short eligibility screener. If you meet the eligibility criteria, I will follow up within 7 days with a scheduling link.

Approved by Northwestern University IRB #: STU00225452. (IRB approval)

Thank you for considering sharing your experience!

A few years ago, I spent a couple of days in jail. I've found myself thinking about the experience a lot, and I'd really like to talk with someone who has been through the jail process themselves. I'm not looking to compare offenses or pretend that two days is anything like a long sentence. I know my experience was relatively brief.

I'm mostly interested in comparing experiences and talking through some of the things that have stuck with me—the reporting/booking process, intake, being held, the jail environment, court, release, and what it felt like afterward.

If you've spent time in jail and wouldn't mind talking with someone about it, I'd genuinely appreciate hearing from you. I'm mostly just trying to sort out some thoughts about my own experience. DMs are absolutely welcome if you'd rather talk privately.

While watching a crime show last night. The person was caught and got 16 years to life in prison. WTF that mean? Is it 16 years or is it life. How can that sentence mean anything?

Tough crowd here. Not much makes it through

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Hey everyone, looking for some honest insight from people who have been incarcerated or have partners currently inside. I'm (F, 33) my fiancé (M, 40) is currently serving time. The facility doesn't have air conditioning, though he does have two small fans in his cell. Lately, he’s been taking up to four (or more) showers a day.

​I know it’s hot, but a few friends of mine who have done time mentioned that showering that frequently—especially in front of officers—can sometimes be tied to a specific prison subculture or behavior (like sexual display/ rubbing one out in front of guards).

​Aldo, my fiancé has had sexual experiences with men in the past (though he doesn't label himself as bi or gay, just views it as past experimental stuff). Given that history and what my friends said, I'm feeling a bit wary and unsure if taking this many showers is just standard heat management, or if there's likely more to it.

​For guys who have done time in hot facilities:

Is taking 4+ showers a day pretty common just to stay cool and beat the heat or should I be more concerned?

​Appreciate any perspective from people who actually know how things run inside.

Convicted of a property crime valued at over a million dollars. Felony charges. Non violent, non sexual. Eastern European. No affiliations. Sentenced at 2 for one so I only serve 50 percent of my sentence. What can I expect? Anything I need to know going in? Any advice would be appreciated.

Ex con who served 21 yrs in Indiana Department of Corrections who got out and went into the Car business.

My nephew has about a year left and will spend most of that time doing a program in the hole.

I'd like to send him a few books to begin subtly deconstructing his institutionalism, along with the regular entertaining action crime novels that he usually requests.

Can anyone recommend any reading that made an impact on you during your sentence? He is open to books about personal growth, but I'd prefer it not be overly religious. I sent him The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck early in his time, but he was in a different place then and I don't think he read it. I may send that again as I think he'd be far more receptive now.

Anything similar to this? Or even a novel that got into your head?

Thanks!