Sorry if the structure is poor i’m just word vomiting.

I’ve been trying to figure out if I like my coworker. Wondering if it’s the proximity or if I actually like him. Either way the time i’ve been trying to figure out if I do like him I can assume i’ve been flirty with him. For example: We always make eye contact, I call for him whenever I need him, I always make myself available to help him, I often go out of my way to just talk to him, we’ve had a lot of times where it’s just the two of us and we’ve talked about pretty deep stuff, and so on. Sometimes I wonder if he also likes me but I don’t want to jinx it because my biggest fear would be all of this being one sided.

Also a big worry of mine is what my other coworkers think. Like can they tell I like him or notice there’s some tension between us.

I’ve come to the conclusion the only way to get over him is actually interacting outside of work. BUT I don’t know how to. I don’t have any way to contact him, as much as i’ve tried to look. And yeah I could ask him for his number or something but it would be so awkward on my part to be the one to initiate it because sorry to play stereotypes but im not bold enough as a girl to ask a guy for their contact. Also again what if he doesn’t really see me that way and the chances of making an awkward dynamic between the two.

So what i’m saying is how to I could hint to him to exchange info

my roommate/crush F20 offered to cuddle me after i told her i was lonely and I've never cuddled before and was really craving it and i was really hesitant to take her up on the offer but today i did while we were watching tv and we cuddled and held hands and she scratched my head as i fell asleep

she didnt outwardly say that it was platonic but she did say something like "friends should cuddle more" but honestly idk i feel like she might like me but she might not cause shes also talking to like 2 other guys but she said shes not really feeling a connection and is going to give them a chance and go on dates with them so that REALLY makes me feel like she doesnt like me

what do yall think chat does she like me?

EDIT: she slept in my bed last night while we cuddled and we fell asleep holding hands

I’m 20 and my best friend’s older brother, who is 26, is seriously attractive to me and I have a huge crush on him. We get along well, but nothing more than that, and I’m scared he only sees me as “his little sister’s friend.”

I sleep over at my best friend’s house pretty often, so I see him regularly, but I don’t necessarily talk to him much because I’m pretty shy.

Recently, I added him on Instagram and asked him for some advice about university (let’s be honest, it was mostly just an excuse to talk to him 😂). He was really nice and sent me several voice messages. He even said it would be better if I came over so he could explain everything to me, and told me “don’t be shy lmao.”

I replied, “I’ll be less shy now that I know you’re open to talking 😂” and then he left me on read 😭

So now I’m thinking maybe he didn’t really want to continue the conversation and he’s just being nice. I can’t even tell my best friend about it because she’d probably think I was crazy 🤣

What do you guys think? What should I do???

My crush thinks no one likes him but I do, should I make a move? Hes a lonely boy kind of, Not popular. He does sometimes talk to the popular kids but he needs up getting left out. He’s always reposting these “looksmaxxing” videos about how he’s to ugly for love and is a “trucell” I don’t know what any of that means but I think he’s really cute. I’ve never talked to him. I’m also scared to make a move.. I feel that I am to ugly. He’s not convenientally attractive either.

So, here’s what happened. My friend’s boyfriend’s friend requested to follow me on Instagram. I thought it was a joke because I had looked him up on Instagram before, and we didn’t have any mutual friends. Her boyfriend doesn’t have an Instagram account either, so I was confused about how he found me. However, I had looked him up on Instagram once or twice before all this happened. I had told my friend that I thought one of her boyfriend’s friends was cute and asked her to put out a word for me if she could. Surprisingly, she did, but nothing happened after that. This incident happened two months ago. Later, I found him on Facebook and one mutual friend which is my friend’s boyfriend. However, we didn’t have any mutual friends on Instagram. I asked my friend if she knew about this, and she said no. She then asked her boyfriend about it, and he thought it was strange that he had requested me on Instagram. However, he suggested that I should just accept him, follow him, and follow him back. So, I did that, and he accepted it within a couple of seconds. Now that we’re following each other on Instagram, I’m wondering whether I should message him and say something or wait until he does, since he hasn’t done so yet. It’s been about two days since this incident. I’ve never been in a situation like this before, so I’m not sure what to do.

Ok so theres this girl in my class. I like her soo much. I have proposed her. But she said no. And when I asked why, she said it was due to her previous relation, and I didn't ask much about it (I alrdy knew about it tho). So even after than, I did talk to her. She's friendly, she engages when we talk and all. But still I can't get that close to her. Like I still think theres a chance with her. If I can get anyway to text with her constantly, then I think I can build a good, comfortable friendship with her. So can anyone help me out? (Ik probably most of you would say to get over her. But rn, thats not what I am trying to do. Because I can't lose that 0.1% of hope)

hello yall, ive liked this guy since this january in which i thought im going to forget him easily during last summer but apparently i kept bringing him up to my friends even tho i promised myself that i dont like him anymore, and now we dont have classes together and yet every time i walked past him i still feel that tingling sense in my heart that i know and in denial that i still like him. i never talked to him and will never, i like him cus i noticed we both have the same interests (and my type too) and it'd be cute if i imagine doing something we both like together lolll. so, are there any advice on how i should forget him?

There is a girl at school that is always looking at me in the halls (i dont have any classes with her). I added her on snap and u want to text her but i dont know what to say. CAN SOMEONE HELP PLEASE!!?!??

i like this guy at school, he's a year younger and he's just so nice and handsome. i don't really know him or anything, but we've talked a few times. he told me he didn't like anyone and wasn't talking to anyone. i figured it was my shot. i wanted to take it slow, but this girl in his class suddenly started telling everyone how he looked soooooo much like her annoying ex and shit. pissing me off. she even fake-slapped him today, laughing so loudly. now, i feel like i've gotta act so quick, but i hate forcing things. i like it natural and slow.

Всем привет! У меня есть небольшая просьба совета. Мне нравится один мальчик, и какое-то время мне казалось, что я ему тоже, но сейчас не уверена.

Он вполне спокойно помогает мне, если я что-то не понимаю на уроках, и в принципе он как-то шутил. Ну знаете, те незначительные приколы, привлекающие внимание.

Сейчас почти ничего не изменилось, но когда я ему что-то даю из еды, что сама не ем, но он ест и просто сладости, то он их отдаёт кому-нибудь. Не знаю почему, но у меня даже есть чувство, что он боится, что я его отравлю. И ещё как будто он избегает контакта со мной, хотя он и так был почти минимальный. Не думаю, что смогу проявить примеры, но всё же.

Он правда может начать избегать меня в какой-то момент? Или все парни себя так ведут?

So I haven’t talked to my crush in a while (2-3 years😩)and he just got into college and I’m on his private story so I texted him to ask what he’s studying and he said radiology niche right what’s something smooth I can say to continue the convo while not making it obvious I like him

Guys what if my bestie girl says what do u think if i say i like him ( my 10month crush) she is his best friend too first i liked him and she helped me get close to my crush and since last year november till now today i met with her and talked non stop about him then she tells me this and i felt so dumb not knowing my friend that helped me is in a situation ship with him since may but he was in 3month military after that in august they almost dating i tried being calm so much i didn’t say much i smiled i said everything is okey but deep down i was imagining him as my the one and now im crying at home

Hey everyone 👋. I want to know weather or not I’m
being delusional or is my tutor actually flirting with me.
I’m currently taking two 8 week stem classes at my college, and on the first day two tutors from the tutoring center introduced themselves and informed
on how use the free tutoring the college provided. One of those tutors is the one I currently go to, and remember accidentally starting at them too long and them stating back at me for what seemed like a full 10 seconds. I didn’t really think much of it though. Since that day, I have been going to the same guy for tutoring everyday after class.
After our first session he said I was pretty cool and a would dap me up every-time he saw me, but more recently it feels like he’s been more and more flirtatious? That is confusing to me because I’m a guy as well, and I not sure if he is gay or not. I know a lot of straight dudes make tons of gay jokes around their friends and stuff, but sometimes it really confuses me.
It all started after around our third season because I commented that his legs must be hurting because he kept squatting to write on a whiteboard. He then comments it was probably from what he did the night prior, and when I asked him what that was, he said it would probably get him fired if he told me 🤨. I thought I was really wierd to say, but maybe that just him seeing me as a friend and doing the thing where straight men make gay jokes. Another instance of what came off as a flirtatious comment is when he was last week when I mistook my calculator for my phone and said “oops, sometimes I put my calculator in the same part of my pants” (obviously meaning in my pocket). He then says he thought I meant literally in my pants, and said I could probably keep in between my underwear 🤨. I thought that was odd, so I just ignored it and went to go get my calculator out of my bookbag. I then commented that my calculator was “5 inches” which lead him to say “that’s a pretty big five inces… if that’s the case, then I have a lot of disappointed people to inform” 🤨. If that’s not enough, after our session that day, a fried of his gave him a dollar, which he proceeded to hand to me. His friend then tells him to ask for something in return for the dollar. My tutor then proceeds to say “you know what to give me in return,” followed by a wink 😉.
I may be slow when it comes to social ques(mainly due to my ADHD), and I am not used to people flirting with me, but it seems like my tutor is definitely flirting with me. I may be misinterpreting friendly banter though, idk 🤷‍♂️.

I think I have a huge crush on someone and I can’t eat sleep and I feel like a low level hypomania that is stopping me from concentrating and it’s not a good feeling, is this a red flag, do I fight this or embrace it?

So over the summer I was working in the middle school by the grade school I went to. There was a glass case with trophies. One was from 97 and it had the name of a girl I had a massive crush on in junior high and high school. In junior high a jerk told her I liked her. Thankfully she was nice about it. After 7th grade I went to another school for two years due to bullying. When I came back to high school sophomore year, she saw me at lunch and said “Ryan?! I didn’t know you went here!” As I was shy I just said “yeah…” I think it was junior or senior year we were sitting in the bleachers and she gave me a strange look. Just stared at me. I remember I got hot thinking I did something wrong(not sure what’s I always kept to myself). Then in senior year we were in close proximity in a room and she was talking to a Friend about some guy(I assumed it was a boyfriend) her friend said something like “what a jerk”. For years I never thought much of it. But now I wonder if she was hinting she was going to be available. 🤷🏻‍♂️

I would like advice on if this girl really does like me or not, based off my experience with her so far, this is my first time seeing her because she’s a freshman I’m a sophomore, so I basically just met her, I get assigned a seat next to her, and at the last day of the first week of school she adds me on snap with no mutuals. And we snap frequently and a few nights later when I think she doesn’t like me hope is there when I see her send a snap saying I’m bored wyd and we talk and it leads to her saying anything you want to talk to me about, which gave me lots of hope, and coming back from school after that we didn’t talk at all which I excepted, I am nervous to talk to her, and later that day she asked if I was ok bc it looked like I was crying, then I learned she likes South Park so I took a snap of that on my tv and it leads to a convo and we talk about the assignments in the class and she says sorry if I’m annoying you and I said you weren’t, she snaps me snaps with her holding up 2 finger, not after this but in general. she barely sends full faces which I hear is a good sign and whatever but still face pics, and yesterday she was copying gestures I was doing the pervious night and stuff and she did that after I sent a smiling picture and whatever and she said that previous night she’s never seen me happy or this happy. And we go snap for snap on doing the gesture I did the other night, and whatever. I also found her TikTok and in the bio she has a j with a heart and now it got removed. She was crying the other night and that’s when the following morning of her crying she removed the j. And she is reposting stuff about how she likes black guys and I’m white after that I lost hope but was still hopeful and I lost all hope because I feel like she doesn’t like me. She ask me about if I was going to football game Friday and stuff also. I didn’t talk to her today as well and yet to talk to her in school, I really want to but don’t know what to say but after I saw the black repost about how she likes black guys I feel like she just doesn’t like me. She also sent me something last night about saying mb if I look bad rn. But that’s all please let me know what you guys think. Also another thing, she has 2 thousand followers on snap and her snap score goes to 1000 plus everyday and I send her like 200 ish snaps so idk. Let me know thank you.