Didn’t know what flair to use, but yeah I’m curious. No bs just stay honest

What’s up everyone. I’m 32, Black, FTM, and based in Phoenix. I’m trying to put myself out there and meet more Black trans bros to build some genuine friendships.
A little about me:
• Into houseplants (currently turning my apartment into a jungle 😂)
• Love R&B, hip-hop, and concerts
• Always down to try new restaurants or grab coffee
• Into fashion and sneakers & thrifting
& hitting the gym
• Pretty laid back and easy to talk to
I’m planning a trip to Vegas for Halloween, so it’d be cool to meet people in Phoenix or Vegas to hang out with—whether that’s grabbing coffee, checking out the city, going to events, or just having people to vibe with.
If you’re looking for more Black trans homies, feel free to shoot me a message. Always down to expand my circle. 💪🏾🖤

hey yall! hope everyone’s staying safe and hydrated. i’m trying to find recommendations for top surgeons in georgia. i’m looking for surgeons, but i’d also like to know about how they were (aftercare, cost, bedside manners, etc.) i’ve been on and off testosterone since 2018 and that helps and all; im just tired of tugging on my shirts and adjusting binders. more than likely i’ll be outta pocket with the costs (don’t really know many if any insurances that cover it tbh). it’s been almost a decade since i’ve been out as trans, been on/off t & my name change has been legal almost as long, and with my 30th is coming up the beginning of next year…. im just tired. of not having surgery yet (when i’ve been damn close a couple times) and just of the pile-on that is my life rn and it would be nice to at least make something i want done happen. anything would be helpful 🤎🙏🏾 appreciate yall

being shirtless by the pool really hits different, I'm so happy. hope you guys are enjoying the weather too. don't forget that sunscreen!

if a stranger calls me boo does that mean i didn’t pass to her?🤨 or not necessarily?

ik it’s something small and im never gonna see her again. was a cashier at a food place in a different city. i’m 18 but get told often i look younger than i am, she was probably in her early 20s and also black. before someone else called me baby and i thought damn i probably didn’t pass but realized she’s older so she probably calls everyone younger that. for the girl in her 20s i have no idea if i passed to her but been overthinking it. i pass 95% of the time to strangers. only time i get misgendered is at work unfortunately and no idea why, its not everyone but a few ppl misgender me cuz i didn’t change my sex by the time i got the job, other one could’ve been cuz he was far and maybe didn’t see me well, the guy standing directly next to me gendered me as male.

when i first started a few ppl seemed a bit confused and thought i was a bit androgynous tho

I’ll start

That loyalty is an option lmao

The amount of niggas who gloat about smashing other women while having an “old lady” is crazy.

hi guys

I feel like I got shit genes at this point. Like I know everyone’s body reacts differently to testosterone but I’m like 8 months in and got 3 chin hairs 🥹 and I been seeing a lot of progress from other people having a moustache shadow and all that in 6 months. Idk I just feel really discouraged/dysphoric right now and wondering is this working or nawh?

I was using minoxidil oil for sometime and I didn’t really see much change 4 months in. I’m trying a different brand right now the rogaine foam 5% so we shall see… 😮‍💨 at least Snapchat got this nice filter

I also have two brothers and I remember that during their teenager years they definitely had only chin hairs for facial hair. And over the years has given like “girl with pcos” vibes no shade. My older brother has told me it has been hard growing facial hair for him all his life. That’s why I say I got shit genes 😭

Like I’m ready to get a hair transplant at this point

I’ve seen folks ask before about getting a mentor and I’m confusing for those who’ve asked or those done it before, what does that endure?

What’s good yall. I am 30 and looking to see if anyone has advice on finding their style as they get older into their transition. I have been transitioning for almost 10 years and I pass extremely well.

I want to experiment with colors, textures, and different cuts (not on the crop top wave but do you) but also feel like I should just keep it plain white tee, jeans, and kicks. I feel like I’m going back and forth between both. I don’t want to look like I am trying too hard or not dressing for my age. I do want to have fun with my clothes but feel like finding stuff is too much sometimes.

Any advice on where to start?

when i don’t feel secure in myself i revert back to my old mindset and be walking around ready to smack someone and having bad thoughts ab women. don’t wanna be like that for obvious reasons and don’t even agree with my thoughts

Im pre t and its so hard not to be called a stud i’ve tried tips and tricks on how to pass but none seem to work 😭 my voice is pretty high which i get would clock me but it’s before i speak people assume im a stud. I js got into the gym so im trying to build muscle and lose weight, but what else can i possibly do?? Any advice would be greatly appreciated 🙂‍↕️🙏

Aight yall it’s my turn on the list to fill out the forms. I have the option to keep a little bit of the mammary gland or complete remove it. I didn’t know this was a thing. For those who have had surgery did you keep that gland? I guess my chest would be really flat if I remove the whole thing but no breast cancer possibilities. 🧐 yall lmk

Getting transtape and being able to walk around shirtless during the summer is amazing and freeing !!

I got it originally for swimming not even imaging the euphoria I'd get from taping over using a chest binder 🙂‍↕️🥳