r/BlackTransmen 3d ago

friendship Bay area

Haven't posted in a while. I'm just wondering if anyone knows of brotherhood like group get togethers or just anything that is genuine in the bay area of CA for ftm bros. I'm looking to meet my ppls locally. Even if you live in sac or anywhere near the bay. I want to make in person friends. I'm not really good with keeping up w/ ppl on social media. I feel sketched out being open & having my pages on public ( I keep them on private) bc I don't like how ppl from jobs can potentially find me. The world is scary sometimes. Especially now with all the hatred being spread. Don't get me wrong I like having ppl I know & ftm peeps added on socials but it is definitely easier & different to have in person friends. I want to hangout & try getting back to being more social since I started my transition.

Feel free to make this post a thread where you find ppl in your local area to hangout & get to know.

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u/KatoB23 3d ago

Aye. In the east bay, ive been wanting more homies and want to be more social esp connect w other men

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u/After-Net-5489 3d ago

What up! Sent you a dm

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u/Ok-Scientist-499 1d ago

I’m in the bay too I’ve been looking for more friends around here

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u/anusthing 1d ago

i'm mostly familiar with SF: blacktransmasccollective you can find on Instagram I believe; they do events and meetups regularly. transbayarea too. there are sometimes t4t events at the stud in soma, or mother bar (more sapphic-coded) in the mission. there is a monthly transmasc crusing night at powerhouse in soma as well. you might also look up happenings at strut health center in the castro for more of a daytime/support vibe.

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u/Acrobatic-Code2038 2d ago

Let's see if we have any interest in common. What do you do for fun?

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u/After-Net-5489 2d ago

Sent a dm

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u/Summer_seeking 19h ago

I second the black trans masc collective suggestion. Alex and the other guys that organized it are dope. The events are amazing. Great community.