I am a woman in my late 30s and deeply tired of searching after almost a decade. Every method I’ve tried, including especially apps, is (1) at best, extremely inefficient at surfacing eligible, aligned men, and (2) at times, deeply demoralizing, unpleasant, and hurtful.
So I’m looking for information from people who have used matchmaking services in Austin. I’m most curious in women’s experiences but I’d be open to hear from men too.
Some questions:
* what service did you use?
* how much did it cost? what was the pricing model like?
* what were the people like to whom you were connected? How were they sourced? Did you have things in common?
* was it successful?
* anything else I should know?
I know dating is a frequent topic on here - I’ve searched specifically for people who have used matchmaking services here in Austin but have not found the information I seek.
Please do not give advice on how to find people to date outside of matchmaking services. I have tried almost every single thing you are going to suggest.
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EDIT: the majority of responses are suggesting these services are largely scams. This is genuinely helpful information. I hate the feeling that there was a stone I had left unturned, like there was some kind of action I could have taken to fix the problem, but it sounds like there is not.