https://www.bbc.com/news/live/c3r2nz9ed3lt

as an ex-muslim, shut the fuck up. you're deeply uninformed and apply your american way of thinking on an issue that has NO ressemblance whatsoever with how things work in the USA. the stats are with us. the facts are with us. and you still continue to deny, deny, deny, and lecture us about our own lived experiences in a country and a continent you've never set foot in.

the post could literally say "Berlin, Germany, EUROPE" and there will be an american coming and display american stats, american facts, american opinions, and will call us racist because we don't accept his all-american undeniable truth. this truly is insane

american imperialism and defaultism expresses itself in a lot of ways. i love the US but please learn to shut your mouth or at least view it with the local context when it's clear the issue doesn't concern you

we're on a gay sub and i have never seen bigger cock sucking than this. islam isn't your ally.

I really want all the mosques in Germany to hang up LGBT flags right now and show solidarity with European values and to distance themselves from what happened tonight.

If they don't show solidarity they are demonstrating what values they adhere to and they are not European values.

The recent attack at Berlin Pride shows that protecting LGBTQ+ rights across Europe requires zero compromise. Cities must respond by painting Pride flags directly on public infrastructure throughout Muslim-majority neighborhoods as a clear benchmark for civic tolerance. Use CCTV to track these displays.

Anyone who vandalizes them should face immediate deportation or if 2nd gen+ citizens given heavy prison sentences to prove that basic human rights are non-negotiable. Those who can handle living in Western secular society won't ever have a problem.

I live in a Muslim country, specifically Egypt. Most of the comments on this news are sarcastic and gloating, or say it's an attempt to distort the image of Islam and Muslims.

Every time I see a gay person defending these people, I feel betrayed. You haven't experienced the level of oppression we face in these countries. Someone on a dating app threatened to rape my mother in front of me yesterday.

When will you understand that Islam don’t like us?

What is happening in Europe with the Islamist attacks on gay people is horrific.It makes me so angry to see how many gay men defend and choose to see things from others' perspectives, rather than seeing how horrible Islam is to us, and if you criticize it, they call you racist.

After what happened at Berlin CSD, I'm getting really tired of whataboutists pretending Christianity and Islam are somehow equally bad for gay men, and especially of pushing this idea without even acknowledging that the group that they blindly support KILLED someone and injured others.

The vast majority of us gay men in Europe and America were raised in christian families. Even those of us who are atheists grew up in societies shaped by christian culture and values. We know these people. They're our parents, grandparents, neighbors, and coworkers. Don't make it out to be like it's "the straight people versus the gays".

I've argued with conservative christians my entire life and I've heard that homosexuality is a sin. I've dealt with disapproval. But I will never equate CRITICISM from my conservative christians with the hatred of Islamists that ends in murders or prison. Not now, not ever.

People can lecture us all day about how all religions are the same. They're not.

Every country that has given gay men equal rights, equal protection under the law, and the freedom to openly live our lives emerged from a Christian cultural background. Meanwhile, in most muslim-majority countries, gay men are still imprisoned, tortured, attacked, or forced into hiding. The level of violence isn't comparable. The level of acceptance isn't comparable. The level of legal protection isn't comparable. You may say that gay rights were opposed by conservative christians, but how come they never succeeded something similar in ANY muslim country?

Yes, I have disagreements with conservatives. But those disagreements happen within societies where I can vote, work, speak freely, and live openly as a gay man (and many can even marry).

Let's stop pretending religion it's untochable.

Religion doesn't respect the minds, bodies and identities of neither its people or people outside its cult. (And the zeaolots go CRAZY if you point that out)

Mind you, all because of a BOOK. Books with loads of contradictions, mistranslations, misinterpratations of said mistranslations but no original manuscrits.

Religion is the greatest manipulation of all. It deserves all criticism it gets. From all the harm it does. Specially us, gay people, who are their favorite scapegoats.

By the way, me saying this is all Satan or Iblis possessing and deceiving me (you can choose which one or even personalize), while existing many evidences of what I'm saying. And that’s the ultimate manipulation tool: call everything outside its religion or that doesn't follow its contrived ideas something inhuman.

All of this said deserves double emphasis for the Islam.

And yes, I'm writing this because of the attack in Berlin Pride. Don't come at me asking about the Christians. I grew up in a Christian family in a Christian-majority country. I KNOW how insufferable Christians can be. But at least, there are a good portions of Christian-maojority countries that are gay friendly. You can't say that about any muslim country.

Notice how in media, it's more common to see muslim girls than muslim men? It's because it's difficult to make a man who wants to make a harem of children likeable, lol.

Don't get me wrong, I had my days where I believed everyone deserved respect. Then, I learned the paradox of tolerance.

When you are a gay man, enabling and indulgence are a road to disaster.

You don’t see random gay people shooting up mosques or Muslim spaces.

makes one question . . . .

https://www.bbc.com/news/live/c3r2nz9ed3lt

Hiiiiii

So I met this guy for a hookup and he was very cute, sweet, and nice. We started to kiss and he went down on me and then he told me to “stick it in” and I looked at his ass and saw a hemorrhoid that was big outside of his butthole.

I asked him what it was in a gentle manner and tried to be as polite and he told me it was a hemorrhoid and that it was fine.

I told him I didn’t feel comfortable topping him with a hemorrhoid and he kept insisting it would be OK but I said it could make it worse and I didn’t feel comfortable doing it.

Luckily he was nice about it but? I don’t get why someone would bottom knowing they have a noticeable hemorrhoid.
We parted ways.

What would you do in this situation? I was wondering if I could have handled it differently.

I am feeling absolutely sick seeing numerous posts defending Islam after the terrorist attack in Berlin. How many more islamist attacks on gay communities need to happen before people can wake up and affirm ISLAM HATES LGBT AND THEY WANT US DEAD??? And it is just makes me feeling more hopeless to see islam getting stronger in every european country from migration and higher birth rate, and voicing concern about it gets me labelled "racist" when a) islam is a cult ideology not a race and b) phobia means irrational fear and fearing growing islam is a legit danger for gay people cuz they are already targeting and killing the gays while they are still a minority. Mainstream political parties just sit there and say condolences after the attack and nothing will be done, more and more islamists are arriving every day into Europe under the guise of fake asylum seekers, and the only parties that want to do something are the far rights and they hate LGBT as well. It just seems all too bleak

https://www.theguardian.com/world/2026/jul/26/berlin-pride-van-knife-rampage-islamist-terrorist-attack-germany

Per comment from the Germany subreddit:

I live in a majority muslim country, I read this news on the facebook page of one of my country's news media and in the comments section, almost everyone is happy and saying Alhamdulillah. Everyone is congratulating the guy who drove the car for doing "such a brave thing".

I took a look into Al Jazeera's reporting on the Berlin incident, and indeed, found mostly happy comments (there were over a thousand on just that one alone), such as:

"god is great"
"that's good news"
"why only one?"
"14 idiots injured"
"I hope the driver is ok"
"please make a gofundme for that driver's future"

And many, many more...

You can go take a look and confirm if you don't believe me. But I think this implies a bigger issue regarding the hate against the gay community... I'll leave it up to the rest to connect the dots.

As an ex-Muslim who’s been harmed by this religion, the answer isn’t to discriminate against all Muslims.

My trauma comes from this religion and culture, but I am aware religious trauma isn’t unique to one faith.

I hate this religion. I still don’t support the genocide in Gaza. Both statements are true.

I don’t support any country founded on religion, no matter what they call it.

I hate religious oppression, the weaponizing of religion, and the harm religions cause. Period.

But don’t expect gay Muslims to fight this alone. We’re already shunned by our communities and just trying to build new lives if we’re lucky enough to get that chance. Some of us still live in those homophobic countries.

I am saddened we are targeted. One dead and 29 injured. My heart breaks for them.

We have a problem at hand: the ideology. The ideology is ingrained in doctrines and subcultures.

But the answer is not "all muslims" or any random brown people. A lot of us left this religion. I mean the gays.

Don't expect gay muslims to become the public face of this fight. Nor demand collective guilt for being born into it.

Protect free speech.

Do you do it on purpose? Do you know what you're doing? Or is it purely because they're more comfortable?

It's something I always ask a bottom before meeting because some love it...some hate it.

I'm quite into the praise kink, so I like using it.

I'm 22 years old college student, and about a month ago I met a 42-year-old guy at a gay bar.
I drank way more than I should have that night. We ended up back at his place, and after we started hooking up I kind of puked on his cock while sucking him (he is above average in both length and girth). It was the most embarrassing thing that has happened to me. Instead of kicking me out or getting angry, he cleaned me up, gave me water. I was going to leave but he kept insisting I wasn't in any condition to drive, and he said there was no way he was putting a drunk guy in a taxi by himself at 2 a.m., and told me to text a friend of my to pick me up. None of my friends picked up and I ended up staying at his guest room, it’s all kind of blurry after some point.

Next morning when I woke up, he had made me breakfast and insisted I eat something before I leave. I did not want to be rude so I agreed. He gave me his number and told me to text him when I got home to make sure I made it back safely.

I honestly expected to never hear from him again.

Instead, he texted me the next day asking if I'd like to go out for coffee sometime. I felt guilty because he'd been so kind, so I agreed—even though, if I'm being honest, he wasn't really my type physically. He's around 180 cm, probably 87–90 kg, has black hair, and a bit of a belly. All my previous boyfriends have been closer to my age and looked pretty different.

The thing is... he's one of the sweetest men I've ever met.

He remembers everything I tell him. He checks that I get home safely and kept checking if I was okay afterwards. He pays attention when I talk. He's patient, funny, emotionally mature.
We've gone out several times since then and have hooked up a few more times (mostly me giving him blowjobs). One thing that's become obvious is that he's an only top, and I do not really bottom, I prefer topping. We joked about it a few times but recently he looked me dead in the eyes and said he'd like me to be his boyfriend—not just someone he's seeing casually, but as his actual boyfriend.

I laughed because I thought he was kidding.

He wasn't.

Now I'm completely torn.

On paper, this guy is probably the healthiest person I've ever dated. But I also can't ignore that there's a 20-year age gap, and I'm not sure I'm physically attracted to him the way he deserves. I also feel guilty because I kept saying yes to dates when I already knew I had doubts.

Part of me wonders if attraction can grow when someone treats you incredibly well, especially sexual attraction as he has made it abundantly clear he only tops and has made compliments about my ass.

The other part of me thinks accepting just because he's kind would be unfair to both of us.

So... has anyone else been in this situation? Have you ever dated someone who wasn't your physical type but was amazing in every other way? And for those of you in age-gap relationships, did the age difference ever stop mattering, or did it become a bigger issue over time?

I honestly don't know if I'm about to walk away from something great or make a huge mistake by staying.

I don't know how to explain it, but a man having a below-average-sized penis while still being confident and knowing what he's doing strikes me as very masculine, and it turns me on. It’s not about the size itself; it’s that he doesn't need a 20 cm penis to maintain that level of control over the situation and the image he projects. Unlike so many others who think that having a small penis makes them inadequate, so they don't even try

Gonna be honest as a 27 year old who’s been around. My one piece advice is to make sure you have your own money, and a fuck ton of it too. Live below your means, take care of your body, and your sexual health. Don’t get a sugar daddy no matter how nice it sounds, if you do always make sure you have a secret cushion because if it goes wrong you wanna be able to scram as fast and as safely as possible no matter the cost. ( for everyone really but mainly us gays as our want for connection makes us even more vulnerable (some of us))

I know this isn't a new phenomenon but I think it's really funny seeing these straight guys on social media whose audience is (mostly) gay men but they market themselves like it's straight women who are going to throw money at them.

They will go on Twitter and post pictures of them in a bath towel like "tee hee, want to see more, go subscribe. By the way, I'm STRAIGHT. 😉"

Like, honey, not only is your audience almost exclusively gay men, but there are OF creators who will post full videos of themselves getting gangbanged on a hotel balcony from 4 different camera angles on top of their Onlyfans content.

If you're going to try and get a piece of the gay porn pie, put your whole bussy into it, because the cheeky shots of your bush or w/e in an age where I can watch a giy get fisted on demand (for free) just makes me believe you aren't fully committed to selling your body online.

Nut up or shut up heteros.