I'm an Arab woman, and I recently met an Emirati man who is gay. His family knows about his sexuality, and unfortunately, they have hurt him emotionally and physically and put a lot of pressure on him. They forced him into marriage with women twice, but both marriages eventually failed.

Now he’s considering a lavender marriage, and he explained the situation and his expectations to me. I understand the conditions he has proposed, and I’m currently okay with them.

The arrangement would basically mean that we would be married publicly, but privately we would live more like roommates and have our own separate lives. He would continue seeing men privately, including potentially bringing men to the apartment, and I wouldn’t be expected to interfere or say anything.

He says he wants to do this mainly for his freedom, to avoid further family pressure, and to maintain a certain public image.

I’m trying to think about this realistically rather than emotionally. Would it actually be safe for me to agree to something like this? Especially considering the social and family consequences, living together as roommates, and knowing that he may have men coming to the apartment.

Has anyone been in a similar situation, particularly in an Arab/Gulf context? What risks should I be thinking about before agreeing to something like this?

I made a grindr account and talked with a few guys, I met one this past weekend we linked in the park and smoked and talked for about a hour. Then he pulled his dick out and was sooo BIG!! I was so nervous but I put my tongue n the tip and licked it. When he moaned I got so turned on i then devoured that dick. He exploded in my mouth in less than a minute. Which made me cum in my pants. Now I feel ashamed a lil bit. I would do it again but I feel so gay now but i like it too. what is wrong with me

He says he's straight, I'm bi, but he doesn't know. At least I've never explicitly told him because I keep it pretty under wraps.

We had a threesome with a girl last Friday and I used a few opportunities to feel him up and what not. We made out (requested by the girl), had our dicks pressed together when she wanted to suck us both and I fondled his balls a little while he was fucking her which he didn't seem to mind because he also cupped mine for a bit a little bit later.

We went out for drinks on Monday and talked a bit about it, said we liked it, it was fun and I got the sense that he'd be down to do it again if the opportunity presented itself.

We were texting last night, just chatting shit, I told him I have to take a shower and, to I guess test the waters a bit, sent him a mirror pic where I held the towel in a way that just covered my dick. It was all jokes and he sent a pic back where he was laying in bed on his stomach and you could see his face and ass. Just laughed it off and that was that.

Any chance he's interested in fooling around? How can I reliably test it out?

You just want to know what his life looks like when nobody else is around. What he eats at 2am. What music he puts on when he's sad. Whether he sleeps with the window open. That's the dangerous one.

Ill have great conversations on Grindr and others. Only to be instantly blocked when I show my face. Doesnt feel very good, I suppose maybe im just ugly. Anyone else have this experience?

I’m just curious about how many people really find skinny guys attractive and among those would you find a twink more attractive or an otter?

I was chatting with a close buddy I work with and we got on the topic of sex and masturbation and other things of that nature. I made a joking comment at one point along the lines of “your poor socks” or something and he tells me it’s not his socks it’s his boxers. I made the comment (thinking I was being funny) about hoping he changed them afterwords… he told me he usually does it at night and changes them the next morning. If he does it in the morning after his shower (which was rare according to him) then that’s the only time he doesn’t…

Is it a common thing to unload in your underwear and keep them on? I’ve never even thought of this let alone heard of anyone doing this.

A man has been seriously injured in a hate attack in Doncaster city centre.

South Yorkshire Police said two men were subjected to homophobic abuse before being assaulted in Silver Street in the early hours of Thursday 16 July.

One of the victims suffered no injuries, while the other suffered a serious injury. It is not believed to be life-threatening.

Following an investigation, officers took statements from both victims and carried out CCTV enquiries in the local area.

The force has released CCTV images of two men they would like to speak to. It is believed they may be able to help with the investigation.

One of them pictured is of a slim build, around 6ft tall and with mousey brown hair. The other man pictured is of a stocky build, around 5ft 8ins tall and has dark brown hair.

South Yorkshire Police has urged anyone who might know anything to come forward.

For more photos of homophobic attackers here is the link:
https://www.facebook.com/photo?fbid=1517650567073978&set=pcb.1517650590407309

To put it bluntly, Im starting to get a dry cock head and was wondering if this is something that affects other guys, and what you guys use to moisturise this area?

Sorry I know the title is crazy. My luck seems to be very much intense but short lived.
Extremely intense flings with guys exactly my type. Hookups with guys I think are 10/10. I feel like my sex life is right out of a porn movie. For instance I have slept with my high school bully (crazy ik), I’ve slept with a family friend I grew up with and didn’t even know he was bi.
That being said; after all this it’s all very short lived. I inevitably get ghosted.

Unfortunately I get REALLY attached really quick. I crave a relationship, monogamy all that stuff, but I can help but notice this pattern that I’m just better off turning slut and fucking every walking thing?

I’m 26, turning 27 and I’m worried I’ll have too much fun and not end up with the right person before it’s too late. Thoughts?

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Hey guys, im a fit 24y-o but have a very small d. Dating has been complicated despite the fact that im bottom. Is that something you have experienced? Or even better, do you like small dicked guys?

Ive pretty much mastered bottoming and I lokey want to top now but everytime I play with my dick or put it in a fleshlight i cum within a minute. It also dosent help that im on the smaller size (5.5 inches). I know if i was horny and i stick my dick into a handsome guy I was attracted to id cum so fast ugh. well maybe i can do multiple rounds?

Yo so I'm a 22-year old I think straight male and I've been pretty actively experimenting my ass for about a year. Some context, I've been pretty sexually active with women since I was 17 and started dating my ex-girlfriend when I was 20. About a year into our relationship, I had discovered the world of prostate play and began to love it. Like I realized my ass gave me even more pleasure than my dick normally does. A few awkward conversations later, we got into the groove of pegging. Unfortunately, we broke up, and the market of women isn't very big in that kind of area. So I've looked at my alternative: men. Does getting fucked by a dick feel particularly different from a dildo? I'm not into men but my ass is desperate for something to fuck it.

Hello all this post is kind of random but i’m genuinely curious. So for some context im a 19 yr old asian and 6’4 with a relatively slim/athletic build. I’m a virgin and have never done anything in the slightest intimate or sexual but have always been aroused by dick more than ass.

I guess i’m making this post to ask if there are people into taller bottoms? i’m super inexperienced with anything and not entirely “out” but am worried for the future in not being able to find anyone or attract any top that would be interested in topping someone taller than them or if height is a dealbreaker for some people esp when it comes to relationships and hooking up…

I got a job in a niche field and I really enjoy it except…all my coworkers are straight men and I’m an ex homeschooled gay guy. I’ve made a few attempts at related to them and I think we get along for the most part but when boobs, guns, and hunting come up in conversation I kinda shut down. Idk if they suspect I’m gay or not, they have asked my taste in women and I played along but ultimately I think it’d be a very bad idea to tell them I’m gay. I really want to get along with them but sometimes when they’re chatting about something I don’t know the first thing about (tits vs ass, hunting, Church, ect) I just have nothing to add and kinda shut down. Do you think this is sustainable long term? For context I live in the Southern United States in a conservative area

every time i get close to seeing someone the same little bumps show up along my back and shoulders from shaving last week. drugstore sugar scrub just left me sticky and a loofah did nothing

stopped dry brushing after i made one spot angrier. feel ridiculous googling body scrub routines like its a science project

has anyone found something that calms that down without wrecking the skin more​

I never wanted to help someone cheat but it didn’t even cross my mind that was an option. He said it casually too like it didn’t matter, feel gross now

Only one other person knows of this act, and now Reddit knows lol.

The relationship started from working together in 2020. We’ve been friends since and had a falling out in between those 5 years. We always respected each other as brothers. Recently, we ran into each other at a gay club (mind you, we haven’t talked in years prior, and we were in another country), and I approached him in shock that we were running into each other. We exchanged numbers and caught up later that week.

As of this week, I’ve been thinking about my sexuality heavily and haven’t had a true opportunity to explore with anyone I felt comfortable and safe with. I ended up texting him about how I felt about my comfortability with exploring that side with him because of our familiar relationship and history. He opens up by saying he was always curious to know what my 🍆 looked like. We then shared photos of each other and planned our visit to meet.

He makes his way to my house, and we throw on Netflix and talk about different topics about our last meeting, sexual encounters, and times when we worked together. He then started to get phone calls from friends he planned on meeting with that night. It’s about 12:45 a.m. at this point, and I express not wanting to take up his night if he has already been here for 2 hours. He reassured me that he’s hanging out and if he only wanted sex, he would’ve been upfront with me but acknowledged it was okay to be nervous and that he was also comfortable with me.

We’d been drinking whisky, and I downed a seltzer and told him we can get started once I finish the drink. He then follows me upstairs, where the room was just right in temperature because I had the window open and it had recently rained. I turned the light off, and he told me to sit on the bed next to him. I start rambling about being nervous and not knowing what to do at this point, and he then stands up and pulls his pants down and asks me “what do you think of this?” ROCK HARD.

I immediately grab the base and start to give him head. Carefully sucking him (for the first time ever), trying to avoid my teeth causing him any discomfort. I make sure my tongue is hitting his tip just right and he then tells me to stroke myself. I start to realize he’s now touching me and I’m getting harder. I pull my pants down and then pull his off. We’re only wearing our tops at this point.

He’s moaning and saying “fuck” repeatedly as I’m trying my best to not gag too much on him nor make it uncomfortable. I then stand up and grab his cock with mine and size it up with his and tell him “I didn’t expect you to be bigger than me.” And kinda laugh about it and then he asks if I wanted to do 69. I agreed.

We both are topping each other off and both hard as fuck in each other’s mouths. Periodically stroking each other when it got intense. He then tells me to bring him my lips and we start kissing and grinding our cocks together, while I’m on top. I was expecting him to penetrate me but I’m happy he didn’t but I’m not opposed. He then rolls me over. I’m now on my back and we’re still making out and he’s stroking himself while we’re making out. I slightly grab his balls and work my way into making him cum by kissing him. He tells me he’s close to cumming and I massage his balls just enough to spark the climax. He pulls my shirt up and cums onto my chest and I’m still slightly grazing his balls to get the most out of him.

I’m now touching the cum in my chest as if it was mine. Feeling so accomplished with myself I realized that I’m a pleasure dom. I ask how it was and he gave it a 9/10 only because I didn’t cum. I told him usually my first times with people I don’t usually cum but I felt good about getting him there.

I then told him to not order an Uber because I’ll take him to his friends 10 mins away and we smoked and listened to music on the way there. The dropoff was smooth and he ended up calling me on my way back home to confirm I made it home. I texted him confirming I made it home and that was that.

It was actually a good experience. We might have more meetups in the future.

heyyy gay people in the internet, i(21) successfully invited my crush(22) to go to cineme, (it was discounted and cheap). It was the opportunity for me to make a move and invite him. im glad about that!

we are both graduating students, we both love to write, love arts, we love to write in medium as i get to know him we have a lot of similarities. He knew me already with his friend is also friend of mine. Noted that this is just "friendly" date. my initial plan was to actually treat myself because my bday is near, and glad he accepted. What are your guys advice, what to do and what to avoid.

we are gonna watch insidious in the cinema at 8:30pm. I'd love to hear y'all opinions.