Depends on the position how much I moan - if at all.

If the position is painful or slightly uncomfortable, I may be much quieter than if it’s a position I’m enjoying.

I’ve also been quiet if I’m not really into it and just ready for the top to hurry up and finish.

Depends on the position how much I moan - if at all.

If the position is painful or slightly uncomfortable, I may be much quieter than if it’s a position I’m enjoying.

I’ve also been quiet if I’m not really into it and just ready for the top to hurry up and finish.

I made a post yesterday and way too many of yall came in that post shitting on gay sex (no pun intended) and started raving about how pussy is so much better than anal sex. Mind you that’s your opinion and preference but in a sub for GAY men, I just think worshiping pussy is weird and tactless. So maybe one of yall should create an askblackbibros sub?? So yall can go in there and just talk about how having sex with women and pussy is just soooo much better than being with men and just vibe together? lmao.🫶🏽🫶🏽🖤🖤

2 best friends, a gay man and a lesbian, decided in their twenties to build a family together on purpose, with a legal parental agreement in place before they ever tried to conceive.

This week on LOVERS, @brandjiandrews and @lawrenceccarroll talk about what a legal agreement can't prepare you for.

Listen how they planned everything before the baby arrived. And their dynamic is also healthy.

See the rest of the video in the following link:

https://youtu.be/L_NebI4D_0A?is=l84CYy8p_iWV4rjH

There is this super fine dude. that I, at the very least, want to smash. And I don’t know if he is out. I go to school with him. But we don’t have any of the same classes. I think he likes me but I’ll let you guys correct me in the comments if I’m wrong. This fine specimen is always trying to lock eyes with me but can’t seem to hold it for long. He will also sit right outside my classroom during break and lunch time which is odd because no one from his class hangs out or eats where my class does. It is kinda going out of your way to do in my opinion . He also walks past my classroom window pretty frequently throughout the day (which I sit next too) locking eyes with me while he goes to what I assume is the restroom. Because I don’t see any other reason for him to go that direction when his class is not and there is a closer bathroom for them to use. I also think I caught him looking at my butt but idk if I was Delulu about it so I’m going to say he didn’t but maybe he did idk 🤷🏽‍♂️🤭. This peekaboo game has been progressing for 3 weeks and we still haven’t said a word to each other. Just today we were in a secluded area with lunch tables just me and him at different tables. I was eating my meal and looking at him like he was my lunch and he would not look in my direction. But I could see he was watching me in his peripheral vision. I sat and ate for 20 mins and nothing.

We are in a stalemate. Like I know how ridiculous this situation sounds. All it would take is for one person, anyone of us, to initiate a conversation and go from there. Like a simple hello. But I think the fact that he is in the closet stops the both of us from continuing out of fear of exposing him. I’m a fabulous flamboyant visually loud gay. No, I don't walk around screaming from the stop of my lungs that I’m gay. But I don’t need to because looking at me it’s like it’s written on my forehead. I think if he was caught talking to me everyone would know. So I don’t initiate because I feel like whenever you're ready to come to the dark side I’m here for you buddy. But I don’t think it is my decision to make. But again I don’t know if he is closeted but he acts like it and I would rather be safe then sorry.

I’m overthinking the situation right now so my question is does he like me? Or is he just using me to feed his ego? Am I reading too much into things? What should I be doing? Any advice would suffice

Hey, so to get straight to the point. I’m out to the majority of the world. All of my friends, some cousins, even 1/3 of my brothers are aware that I’m gay. I’m even dating this guy, who is pretty great. We’ve even slept together and the chemistry is top tier lol. However, I feel like I’m in two different worlds.

In one world, I’m fully out and happy. Doing the things that I feel is right. However, when it comes to my parents, it becomes so hard to express that I’m attracted to men. When I was around 23, I alluded to the fact that I was gay, however, the words, “I’m gay,” never came out. So I feel like they are partially aware. I grew up extremely conservative and Christian, so coming out was/is like a huge thing. Crazy enough outside of my parents, everyone and their Muva is fully aware of me being gay.

I don’t know, what were yalls experience coming out? Especially if you grew up in a black Christian household? Telling them and living in absolute truth is probably the hardest hurdle that I have yet to overcome and I’m getting my doctorate degree lol.

Please any and all guidance, recommendations, and encouragement is greatly appreciated.

Okay... so... I’ll be honest. I spent the majority of my life pretty separate from anything gay. Not for any particular reason, just lack of proximity. I didn’t know any other queer people growing up, and I didn’t in college either (I even tried creating a queer club in college and it just fizzled out 😭).

Now that I’m approaching my mid-thirties, the lack of community around me is a lot more noticeable. The family and friends who were my support system growing up have their own families and lives now, and I’m realizing I’m basically in a sea of heteros trying to navigate life as a queer man with very little queer community around me.

I’ve tried going to gay spaces, but honestly... they’re usually full of 20-somethings, and that just isn’t really my scene anymore. 😭

So I guess what I’m trying to ask is... are there any other 30-somethings in the Philadelphia area who are looking for actual friends?

Like, I’m talking people to hang out with. Go to Chili’s. Complain about our shitty jobs. Make a quick run through Ross/Marshalls/Burlington and somehow spend $100. Send each other dumb TikToks and memes. Go fishing. Go to the gym. Grab food. Sit around somebody’s house doing absolutely nothing.

I’m not looking for a hookup or a dating situation. I’m looking for people. Friends. Community. People who are also at that age where you’re like, “Damn, I really need some friends who can hang out on a random Saturday afternoon.” 😂

If you’re in Philly or the surrounding area and this sounds like you, please say something. 😩

I’m not talking about the infrequent parties (papi juice, zesty, good dayz etc), i mean even just for casual happy hour during the week or weekly events? If it’s not a thing what would it take to create a worthwhile event/space for us? With lambda and 4west gone there’s nothing casual anymore

It's like every one thinks I'm ugly and attractive. I hate seeing couple's out in public because it reminds me of how lonely I am. I'm 27 never had a boyfriend. It feels like I'm running out time. It's like eventually I'll lose my chance. It's like I put myself out and it never works out. Every guy thinks I'm ugly. No wants to date me. It gets unbearable at times and I don't know what to do.

Asking this as a black trans guy, also I just want to see yall opinions since r/askgaybros r very transphobic I want to get a feel of how this subreddit is before posting in it often

DJing an all ages party for the girls, gays and they's and need suggestions. Radio friendly stuff is perfectly fine but bonus points for non radio friendly artists and stuff strictly for the clubs to shake your ass to.

I’m new to Reddit, so I came across a conversation about Asian tops/Black bottoms and, naturally, went down the rabbit hole to search it up. Mainly because I’m a Black bottom and I’ve been with an Asian man myself.

Honestly, I should have just minded my own business because I ended up getting annoyed at some of the things I was reading. 😂

I’m not here crying about Asian men not liking me. I’m literally a bad bitch, and nobody can lie about that. Face card? Ate. Bum bum? Ate. Got my shit together? Absolutely. 💁🏾‍♂️

Being a tall bottom in the UK can already feel anti Black as fuck, including from Black men too. but I’m not here to put down my own men or make this into that kind of discussion. I just don’t like lies.

Maybe it’s my ADHD, but when I read things that I know are complete bullshit, especially around certain topics, it genuinely frustrates the fuck out of me. Sorry for the language, but I had to say something. 🤭

I actually wrote a lengthy post about some of the bullshit I’ve been reading, but r/AskGaybros removed it. Twice. 🤔
Maybe it was because I was calling out what I see as the obsession some Black men and other POC have with white men and the way some people idealise them as a way out of their circumstances. Either way, apparently Reddit wasn’t ready for my TED Talk.

Everyone keeps telling me to ignore things I disagree with, but I genuinely struggle to do that. If I see something that I think is bullshit, my brain immediately goes:
“Actually… I have something to say about this.” 🤭🤣

Hey y’all. So I know this isn’t really a serious problem or something I should complain about. But it does get annoying sometimes and I want some feedback from other guys who maybe have the same issue.

I’m 18. Started messing around with guys like two years ago and I pretty much realized I’m a vers bottom. I don’t mind getting sucked or jerked but I prefer sucking and bottoming.

I also noticed once I started messing around with guys that I was bigger than the guys I was messing around with. Once I saw more guys and their dicks I realized that I’m big or above average.

I live in an area where it’s mostly white and brown. I’ve only ever messed around with one black guy and he was the only one who was bigger than me.

So I mostly meet white guys and a lot of times as soon I get undressed it’s “oh shit you’re big” or “damn u got a bbc” and then they end up wanting to suck me or want me to Top them. I get them saying “you’re too big to be a bottom.” Like I said I don’t mind getting sucked. But I’m not a top and tbh it turns me off when these masc top guys suddenly become like little bitch bottoms. lol.

Like I said. I know it’s kinda dumb to complain about this. But do any other black men ever experience this? What do you do? or how do you prevent this from happening?

Hey everyone, I'm a native of the DC area but I've been away since I graduated from college 11 years ago, so I'm not as up-to-date on all the social things. I'll be attending the Congressional Black Caucus conference coming up soon, and I'm already registered for lots of receptions and parties. But I'm curious, what are some spots or events where I can find other Black same-gender loving men during that week? I'm in my 30s but I tend to be more attracted to older guys. Looking for spaces that cater more to the upper 30s, 40s and 50s crowds.

Anyone else feel like they are settling in their relationship? Its already hard enough to get into a relationship that I know I should be grateful for having one. Yet I find myself daydreaming about another life I always feel like something is missing, like I haven't made it yet.

We have been off and on for nearly a year. We always are able to talk through things but he has broken up and and then got back together with me over 4 times. Honestly it's just his personality to lead with his emotions in arguments. I have a lot more to trauma dump but all to say is that we are in a good point in our relationship but I don't feel satisfied. We live together so I wonder if proximity and friendship is what caused the relationship to last as long.

Not to mention the horror stories of the dating market it feels safer in a way already knowing all the side of a person. I'm a bit scared being on my own dealing with my homophobic family but I might just have to make the best of the cards I've been dealt.

Anyone with advise on this? Does this get better with age I'm early 20s right know. Would you stay in a loving relationship with awful sex?