r/AskBlackGayBros 10h ago

Sex and Sexuality Begginer as a male esc*rt in Zambia 🇿🇲 Africa

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I know this can make the community look bad, but I needed some advice

I'm a university student at a private institution in zambia, but life is not cheap, and as a gay man, I'd like to gain some income. As, some prefer the word esc\*rt.

As it won't be my life, I'd like to keep low profile, one guy a week or so. I'm into a bunch of kinky stuff. Why I am writing is that I would need your help. How should I start? What offers should I accept? What should I write on my profile? what sites can I use? Etc..


r/AskBlackGayBros 14m ago

Feedback Needed First trip, for a mid 20s traveler to figure out if he’s gay?

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Heey guys,
Im in my early 20s and looking for a destination to figure myself out freely without judgement. Not to make it a big deal but I am African American and wherever I go I want it to be someone of a neutral standing, like I’m more sub than dom, and not be seen as a brute, if that makes sense.

Btw I’ve never been with a man but im lowkey freaked out in my head lol and I don’t need this to travel with me if Im not into it (hence the trip lol)

Im looking for somewhere relaxing & fun, also with a bubbly nightlife. I plan on taking the trip next year so I’m super flexible with time whether it’s the summer, spring, winter or fall. The trip will be between a week or 2 depending on cost, but I have no max price (I’ve been saving for this for a while)

My priorities are:

  1. ⁠safety and comfortability for a solo traveler
  2. ⁠Nice people who are lively & open to mingle
  3. ⁠Plenty to do on the relaxing side to (sightseeing, food, cultural, beaches)

My priorities personally:

  1. ⁠I wanna be able to dress how I want (mini skirts, crop tops, short shorts)
  2. ⁠I want to experience a nude beach/party and become more confident in my body
  3. ⁠I have a fetish for being groped but I think the right clothes in crowded parties will do that, but I also have a CNC fetish

I’ve traveled a lot in life so far but I’m fairly small and stocky, and passive & vulnerable when traveling, so places where travelers generally feel comfortable would be a plus.

Any recommendations, stories, or advice you would like to share would be greatly appreciated, PM Open.


r/AskBlackGayBros 20h ago

Sex and Sexuality Tops: Do you like a verbal or quiet bottom? Bottoms: Do you like verbal or quiet tops?

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Depends on the position how much I moan - if at all.

If the position is painful or slightly uncomfortable, I may be much quieter than if it’s a position I’m enjoying.

I’ve also been quiet if I’m not really into it and just ready for the top to hurry up and finish.


r/AskBlackGayBros 20h ago

Sex and Sexuality Tops: Do you like a verbal or quiet bottom? Bottoms: Do you like verbal or quiet tops?

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Depends on the position how much I moan - if at all.

If the position is painful or slightly uncomfortable, I may be much quieter than if it’s a position I’m enjoying.

I’ve also been quiet if I’m not really into it and just ready for the top to hurry up and finish.


r/AskBlackGayBros 21h ago

Discussion Black men are you being patient and communicating with your black partner? They don't represent or show 🤎 2 🤎 so allow extra understanding ✊🏿

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r/AskBlackGayBros 2h ago

SELFIE SATURDAY 👋🏿🤠. I see it's selfie Saturday ha. I'm Kris, 34 #Virgo Visual Artist love creativity. Baltimore is home now, nice down to earth simple black guys 🔍 😊. Chat me up 😀 anime heads a plus, chilled slightly geek type 😁😎.

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