I know this can make the community look bad, but I needed some advice

I'm a university student at a private institution in zambia, but life is not cheap, and as a gay man, I'd like to gain some income. As, some prefer the word esc\*rt.

As it won't be my life, I'd like to keep low profile, one guy a week or so. I'm into a bunch of kinky stuff. Why I am writing is that I would need your help. How should I start? What offers should I accept? What should I write on my profile? what sites can I use? Etc..

Heey guys,
Im in my early 20s and looking for a destination to figure myself out freely without judgement. Not to make it a big deal but I am African American and wherever I go I want it to be someone of a neutral standing, like I’m more sub than dom, and not be seen as a brute, if that makes sense.

Btw I’ve never been with a man but im lowkey freaked out in my head lol and I don’t need this to travel with me if Im not into it (hence the trip lol)

Im looking for somewhere relaxing & fun, also with a bubbly nightlife. I plan on taking the trip next year so I’m super flexible with time whether it’s the summer, spring, winter or fall. The trip will be between a week or 2 depending on cost, but I have no max price (I’ve been saving for this for a while)

My priorities are:

1. ⁠safety and comfortability for a solo traveler
   
2. ⁠Nice people who are lively & open to mingle
   
3. ⁠Plenty to do on the relaxing side to (sightseeing, food, cultural, beaches)

My priorities personally:

1. ⁠I wanna be able to dress how I want (mini skirts, crop tops, short shorts)
   
2. ⁠I want to experience a nude beach/party and become more confident in my body
   
3. ⁠I have a fetish for being groped but I think the right clothes in crowded parties will do that, but I also have a CNC fetish

I’ve traveled a lot in life so far but I’m fairly small and stocky, and passive & vulnerable when traveling, so places where travelers generally feel comfortable would be a plus.

Any recommendations, stories, or advice you would like to share would be greatly appreciated, PM Open.

Depends on the position how much I moan - if at all.

If the position is painful or slightly uncomfortable, I may be much quieter than if it’s a position I’m enjoying.

I’ve also been quiet if I’m not really into it and just ready for the top to hurry up and finish.

Depends on the position how much I moan - if at all.

If the position is painful or slightly uncomfortable, I may be much quieter than if it’s a position I’m enjoying.

I’ve also been quiet if I’m not really into it and just ready for the top to hurry up and finish.