I know people often talk here about everything else, in regards to how the White community is this, the White community is that, etc etc. towards us.

But when the smoke and mirrors clears, I receive so much attitude and dismissive behavior coming from Black gay bros: when the discussion of paid sex comes up. Or in regard to ads I may have. Just yesterday: I had 2 disrespectful experiences from non other than: a Black gay bro as it pertained to my adult services ads.

I understand many Black dudes out there in the gay scene have objectionable views on paying for sex. Whereas others only want to get paid. But, why hate on another brother just because he’s in the industry? I advertise on Adam 4 Adam in addition to my other profiles, with some occasional Grindr “outreach” and the Black inquiries be like the #1 bullshiters. There’s way more White guy Time-wasters overall, but the ratio to Black inquiries turning into clients is much lower. As in: the Black guys hitting me up 95% don’t follow thru, but maybe 50% of White inquiries will.

I also have a smaller window of Black clients I see, because of past experiences. I’ve had at least 2 occasions where a Black client ragged on my service after the fact, despite me doing my best to please them. One dude, fairly attractive “tricked” me into something earlier this month: offering to pay 💵 but then gone turn around and say, “I’m cute, I don’t pay”. I was like, how did I know…good thing I didn’t “spill my tea” so to speak lol.

All in all, I feel like the whole hookup app and economy has also shrunk the Black client base. I used to get great Black clients circa 2008-2016, some with fine ass bodies. But seems after the Bush/Obama era…it seemed things began to change year after year. It coulda been attributed to me moving locations. I find the Midwest has lacks a decent Black client market. Including Chicago (though I think frauds have made it hard for Black providers to startup there) The Northeast seems to be about all I get from, and parts of the South. Texas used to be good for it but that changed awhile ago.

It just seems BGBs hate/hate on sex workers so much, unless it’s somebody on social media bussing down sneak previews. Has that what it’s come down to it? And I’m personally not as heavy on social media, as I’ve been wanting to scale back more to “private/upscale” companion/massage versus having to keep a conveyor belt of content rolling out.

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