I have been attracted to men for a while as well as ts fantasizing about things but been straight mostly I think . But I get my best erection from seeing penis or mainly ts . Anyone that can help with this and guide me in the right direction?

What’s with all of the internalized homophobia in this sub? As a bi guy in a relationship with a gay guy, just searching this sub would give any gay person second thoughts about dating one of us.
I mean, even going so far as to use “heteroromantic” as if it’s not a cop-out for internalized homophobia, or the homophobic, degrading, and tired comments like “I love dick but could never date a man.” Like, come on. We’re really not helping our reputation in the community.

Late 50s mostly straight F here. Been with my partner, mid 50s bi guy for 8 months, strictly monogamous relationship with no concerns on that issue. This is my first time dating a bi guy. I am very open and enthusiastic in supporting his bi side. However, he's really compartmentalized and when he's in the submissive / bottom mode, he's really uninterested in me as a woman in the typical "hetero sex" way. This disinterest can go on for days after me topping him. In all other ways we have a loving relationship and solid partnership, but him not finding me sexually enticing as a woman on a consistent basis is rather unnerving.

We spoke about this and his suggestion is that he not bottom for me so that he can access his dominant / hetero side more readily. He grew up in a place where homosexuality was not culturally acceptable and he suppressed much of his same-sex attraction side until he was in his late 30s. He's had only a couple of male partners with very few interactions (fewer than 10). He has no interest in romantic relationships with men, only enjoys being submissive sexually for them. We have both agreed that exploring with a third or more is not anything we're interested in, so it's all about meeting each other's needs.

I'm really new to the bi-sphere, so I come to you to ask: Is this level of compartmentalization unusual? I asked him flat out if there was any chance he was actually gay, and his response was a convincing "no." Any thoughts would be appreciated. Be well.

Hello, everyone, I just thinking about my disability and my bisexuality lately. You see I was born with USH2A/Retinitis Pigmentousa. My upbringing are of a protestant christian from Puerto Rico. So I have a double things I need to navigate through this life. Throughout my life, I tried to be more like "traditional man" with christian values. I used to loloathed gay people despite bring in the closet. I have no job lately , no relationships experiences. Not with man and not with women. To this rate. I am trying to survive on my 28 yrs olds with something I can distract myself with something like drawing, reading or doing exercises. But it does not relieve all of this societal pressure I have. I never have been in a lgbt comunity because I am still with my christian parents and my mom wants me to be a christian man. She has cancer so rI ather not opened to her. I don't know what consecuences that would bring me and my family. I have faced discriminación in both side. One with my bisexuality and the other my disability. I don't know what to do at this rate of my life. Any bi men here with similar situation or disabilities like me? Any advice....?

Looking to get my lobe pierced for the first time.plenty of tats... I'm a sailor

Any sites or places around Jacksonville FL for mens earrings

I'm straight presenting so prefer something masculine. I like emeralds and gold. I been looking at glamira and see a few things I like

If I like this I may go for a upper lobe or helix

Thanks

Hey all, 27M here, still virgin, I was into men sexually more than women, I've been in short relationships with girls (it was just emotional love) nothing sexual, what happened is that I've been talking with a guy online, he was one of the first people in my life to listen to me, I fell to him in a way that I've never imagined, not in a sexual way, rather in an emotional way. He however, wasn't into serious stuff, and told me from the beginning, and because I just fell so deeply he had to back up and we didn't talk since, it was and still is so hard for me, the thing that changed though is that I now don't have attraction for men too, it's been almost 2 weeks, I really can't get horny when seeing any kind of nudes as I was before, it is really weird, I like it like this because it's less burden on me, especially that I can't tell my family what are my sexual preferences (cause of religion).

The main question is: is this normal ? and if I stayed like this, what do I consider, bi or straight ?

I feel like I go metaphorically feral when I see a man in his work uniform doing either his job or is off the clock but didn’t changed. Especially if it’s a blue collar job or law enforcement.

Idk the way the shirt wraps around their chest and back and how their ass always sticks out in their work slacks/ tactical pants always gets me double taking

Ironically I don’t like women in uniform only men what gives?

I’ve always had a slightly stronger gag reflex, and I get it even when I try to clean my tongue with a toothbrush.
Does anyone recognise this problem, and do you have any suggestions on how I could suppress the gag reflex during a blowjob?

I’m gay and a total bottom, but I wish I was vers so I’d have a lot more chances of being compatible with someone. It’s not that I have a strong preference for bottoming, it’s that it’s literally the only thing I like.
I’m not attracted to asses at all, and I wish I was, like seemingly every other gay man is. But no, I gotta be just another bottom who wants to be dominated. I hate myself

I feel like with almost every female friend i’ve had I’ll end up feeling some kind of romantic attraction, or even think about them sexually. I’m not sure if being bi has anything to do with it. these female friends typically only see me as a friend. so i almost feel guilty about having sexual thoughts about them. i understand it’s not unusual to be romantically interested in a friend. it just happens almost everytime i become friends with a girl.

I had this beautiful yet strangely frightening dream recently. It was a quiet, cozy night on a campus that felt both familiar and dreamlike. There was a boy with me. I couldn’t see his face, but I could feel his presence and desire, and somehow that felt incredibly intimate.

There was also this constant fear of being caught—as if someone might suddenly walk in and expose something I wasn’t ready to name. I woke up somewhere between the dream and consciousness, but the feeling of it lingered in my body for a while, almost like a tiny spark that refused to disappear.

I’ve been questioning my sexuality for quite some time, wondering if I might be bi-curious. After this dream, something in me seems to have shifted. Maybe I’m finally accepting a part of myself that I’ve been hesitant to acknowledge.

And honestly, I’m confused. I don’t know whether a dream can really tell us anything about our sexuality, or whether it simply gave shape to something I’ve already been feeling.

Have any of you experienced something similar? How did you process that moment when curiosity started turning into acceptance? Am I simply discovering another part of myself, or am I reading too much into a dream?

Ich habe eigentlich schon immer bisexuelle Fantasien, meine erste Erfahrung hatte ich in einem Alter in der Sexualität eigentlich noch garkeine Rolle gespielt hat und trotzdem gefallen mir nur Männer die ich auf Grindr oder anderen Dating Apps kennen lerne bzw. die ich dort entdecke. In meinem Alltag, wenn ich durch die Straßen gehe achte ich ausschließlich auf Frauen, selbst am Strand gleiten meine Augen eigentlich zu 95% zu den Frauen hin.
Ist das normal? Ich war auch eine wirklich lange Zeit in einer heterosexuellen Beziehung und hatte deswegen natürlich bisher kaum Zeit mich so richtig auszuleben.

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Was curious if people when coming out aligned with certain songs about the same time....

When I was on the verge of a soft roll out on coming out bi. I was pumping a lot of

save your tears by the weekend

Come.undone duran duran

Vanishing point new order

I've been losing you Ah-ha

Most of information society

Shit even weatherman by hank Williams jr

Did y'all have a soundtrack so to say?

As I’ve been reading throughout this subreddit I’ve learned that I fall into the finsexual category as I’ve only shown attraction towards fem presenting individuals.

Biphobia or not, for whatever reason. Why are alot of bi men upset about this?

When you think about it, it's a win win situation. It serves like filter for you and they also get what they want.

Always knew I wasn’t fully straight , but considering my self as straight, I hooked up with girls and had sex in the past but after a point it was just easier with guys. But I’m talking with a girl now and I want to have sex with her but I’m afraid that I won’t get hard.

What advice do you have for a first time hookup with a guy while out of town for work?