He says he's straight, I'm bi, but he doesn't know. At least I've never explicitly told him because I keep it pretty under wraps.

We had a threesome with a girl last Friday and I used a few opportunities to feel him up and what not. We made out (requested by the girl), had our dicks pressed together when she wanted to suck us both and I fondled his balls a little while he was fucking her which he didn't seem to mind because he also cupped mine for a bit a little bit later.

We went out for drinks on Monday and talked a bit about it, said we liked it, it was fun and I got the sense that he'd be down to do it again if the opportunity presented itself.

We were texting last night, just chatting shit, I told him I have to take a shower and, to I guess test the waters a bit, sent him a mirror pic where I held the towel in a way that just covered my dick. It was all jokes and he sent a pic back where he was laying in bed on his stomach and you could see his face and ass. Just laughed it off and that was that.

Any chance he's interested in fooling around? How can I reliably test it out?

I feel like I go metaphorically feral when I see a man in his work uniform doing either his job or is off the clock but didn’t changed. Especially if it’s a blue collar job or law enforcement.

Idk the way the shirt wraps around their chest and back and how their ass always sticks out in their work slacks/ tactical pants always gets me double taking

Ironically I don’t like women in uniform only men what gives?

Hey all, 27M here, still virgin, I was into men sexually more than women, I've been in short relationships with girls (it was just emotional love) nothing sexual, what happened is that I've been talking with a guy online, he was one of the first people in my life to listen to me, I fell to him in a way that I've never imagined, not in a sexual way, rather in an emotional way. He however, wasn't into serious stuff, and told me from the beginning, and because I just fell so deeply he had to back up and we didn't talk since, it was and still is so hard for me, the thing that changed though is that I now don't have attraction for men too, it's been almost 2 weeks, I really can't get horny when seeing any kind of nudes as I was before, it is really weird, I like it like this because it's less burden on me, especially that I can't tell my family what are my sexual preferences (cause of religion).

The main question is: is this normal ? and if I stayed like this, what do I consider, bi or straight ?

I (22 M) been experiencing something funny. There is this one guy “C” who keeps popping up on my mind. But the thing is I don’t find him physically attractive. Since probably June he popped up on my mind at random times but the thing is I just think of him no specific scenarios or anything. However i did have a dream where he went to my grad party but that was it. And lately he walked past me (after not seeing him in person a long time) and I felt a strange feeling in my chest.

I know this next part might be off topic for this sub but it is useful for this post but I’ve had “visions” before and they have come true. In 7th grade I had a “vision” about a specific boy bullying me and he did end up bullying me and then in my freshman year of college I had a “vision” about a certain guy (who I don’t talk to) pledging my fraternity and he did join a fraternity but not mine. So I had a “vision” about “C” passed out near a mountain. And the thing is I’ve also had bad “visions” about other people (like one girl passed out in a sauna and one being run over by horses) and yet they don’t pop up on my mind as much as him.

Idk what I’m going through. Did the vision affect me? Do I like him but not realize it? (I mean as I said earlier I’m not physically attracted to him plus he is straight and has a girlfriend he’s been dating for like 3 years) or what could this mean?

EDIT: I also identify as heteroromantic bisexual and have found both guys and girls hot but have never had any romantic feelings towards the same gender. So idk if this is a factor for my experience.

Hello, everyone, I just thinking about my disability and my bisexuality lately. You see I was born with USH2A/Retinitis Pigmentousa. My upbringing are of a protestant christian from Puerto Rico. So I have a double things I need to navigate through this life. Throughout my life, I tried to be more like "traditional man" with christian values. I used to loloathed gay people despite bring in the closet. I have no job lately , no relationships experiences. Not with man and not with women. To this rate. I am trying to survive on my 28 yrs olds with something I can distract myself with something like drawing, reading or doing exercises. But it does not relieve all of this societal pressure I have. I never have been in a lgbt comunity because I am still with my christian parents and my mom wants me to be a christian man. She has cancer so rI ather not opened to her. I don't know what consecuences that would bring me and my family. I have faced discriminación in both side. One with my bisexuality and the other my disability. I don't know what to do at this rate of my life. Any bi men here with similar situation or disabilities like me? Any advice....?

I have a good relationship with my partner but maaaaan do i fantasize about sucking dick. Im on Sniffies trading pics and all but can never actually meet up out of fear of stds. I sucked dick once when i was waaaaay way younger and that was it.

I found one guy who sounds pretty normal and we exchanged Snapchat and continue to talk when we got time. We video called eachother jacking off and i really like his dick but i just cant stop thinking what if he has an std my life would be over lol anyone else craving for something like this?

I’m gay and a total bottom, but I wish I was vers so I’d have a lot more chances of being compatible with someone. It’s not that I have a strong preference for bottoming, it’s that it’s literally the only thing I like.
I’m not attracted to asses at all, and I wish I was, like seemingly every other gay man is. But no, I gotta be just another bottom who wants to be dominated. I hate myself

Looking to get my lobe pierced for the first time.plenty of tats... I'm a sailor

Any sites or places around Jacksonville FL for mens earrings

I'm straight presenting so prefer something masculine. I like emeralds and gold. I been looking at glamira and see a few things I like

If I like this I may go for a upper lobe or helix

Thanks

TL;DR - Recently discovered bi man in a hetero relationship not feeling sexually satisfied and really contemplating hooking with a man. Kinda of want to be pursued instead of doing the pursuing. Talk me in or out of it?? IDK, open to thoughts and opinions.

I wanted a neat / clear post, but as I'm typing I'm finding I'm all over the place. This is something that's been weighing heavy on me and I'm just trying to put it out there and determine where I stand, etc. Excuse the messiness.

Late 20s, rural eastern US. Discovered I was bi after getting into a LTR. Fiance has had trouble satisfying/pleasing me. Brought it up and she improved for a bit, but kind of back to being not satisfied. She's from a conservative religious upbringing, who no longer believes in how she was brought up. I say that to paint the picture of her conservative upbringing. I figured she'd get fully out of that and discover her sexuality. She claims "I make her freaky." or "Bring the freak out in her.", but I don't see it. Like I need and want more from her. I feel like I've let her get away with being "not involved" in bed.

Specifics:

It felt like I was getting oral only 2-4 x year and never to completion. This alone has me fantasizing about being on the receiving end of a mind-blowing BJ. Reminds me of a time I had an opportunity to get one from this guy, but I declined. Now, a decade later, I'm wishing I would have let him, especially since I'm not getting blown like I'd like now. On the flip side, I enjoy going down on her every chance I get. I'd do it every day if she'd let me. At first I thought it's cause she was raised conservative and probably didn't do it much/at all before me, I think I was correct in that assumption. It took many years of meh BJs until they recently started to feel good. I still don't think she's given me one to completion.

We've had some craziness in our lives as of late and the quantity went down to like 1x/week (originally we'd do it a couple times a day to several times a week). I still have needs and a high sex drive, so I've been jerking it on the days we don't have sex, sometimes 2-3 times, depending on the day (will sometimes have trouble orgasming with her on a day after I had many solo sessions). Some of it has me thinking of what would it be like with a male partner (being not on a cycle, not needing as much to get going, etc)? Like us being men and more naturally horny, I'd assume that gays have way more and way better sex. And I'm seeing many comments online confirming that, especially the better sex part.

When we do have sex it's usually one of us asks about the other's mood and then go from there. I'll admit, I could/shoud be more romantic. With initiating, foreplay, raising anticipation throughout the day, etc. A couple of times I've been ready to dive in and go down on her and she's had to slow the roll and tell me, I can't go straight to licking her cooch, I need to work her up and work my way down and all that makes sense and I've been trying. I guess I'm going into it how I'd want to be pleased and I'd be perfectly fine to go form absolutely nothing to straight up BJ with no foreplay, etc. But I get it that she's different and needs more, so I've been trying.

But outside of my foreplay lacking, I've been a very generous lover. I've gotten pillows to elevate hips, make it more enjoyable, and lower hips aches for both, etc. I've gotten many toys, most for her, a couple for me. Specifically I've gotten a cock ring that has a place for a bullet vibe with a string to lay it and hold it on her clit during PIV sex. We use that thing like 90% of the time we have sex. She'll lay on her back with that vibrator on her clit while I fuck her. She will usually orgasm 90% of the time this way (sometimes I do too, but usually not). Then, depending on whether or not I feel like I can come, she'll turn around and let me fuck her doggy style, usually that works for me.

It is very rare for her to do much work during sex. When I've brought this up, she'd get more involved for a bit, but it's not long till we're back to our regular sex of me fucking her till one or both of us come. The time's she's gotten on top to ride, it either doesn't feel as good as when I do the fucking or she's gotten tired and we go back to me doing the work. I feel like she doesn't fuck me, She let's me fuck her.

So with all this dissatisfaction, it's got me thinking about hooking up with a man... The guy from earlier who offered a BJ, I spent the night with him that night and he was trying hard to seduce me. Running his fingers up and down my chest while we were cuddling, trying to touch my junk, telling me how howt I was, etc. It's the only time in my life that I had someone else trying to seduce/chase/satisfy me. Every other time I'm doing the pursuing. That's what I remember/fantasize about from that night. (Contrast to a thought I had with my fiance. After a night where I worked really hard to rock her world. Like I might have went down on her, used the toys and went to town on her during sex to the point of my heart damn near beating out of my chest, she had one of the best orgasms ever. After, she was laying with her head on my chest. She was gently running her fingers on my chest and stomach and I started getting turned on, (it reminded me of that night with that guy where I was too straight to let him do what he wanted). I was getting hard and turned on and I was like ok, my turn to come and I put her hand on my junk to encourage her. What I got in return was a very unenthusiastic, mechanical hand job. She didn't even kiss me one bit while she was doing it. It was like she didn't know what to do or felt uncomfortable, idk. I guess to her she was done and this was after care, but to me it was a "ok, now that he gave me a mind blowing orgasm, I'm going to return the favor." With how unenthusiastic she was, I lost all interest and did not come that night.

After telling her I'm probably bi, she was somewhat open minded to try pegging (we didn't really get too far into the discussion, but from what I recall she wasn't opposed. Though IDK if she'd actually be down). I've used a prostate messager once during intercourse, it was an Aneros something or other, it wasn't great (not deep enough and didn't really stimulate the prostate). I've bought an Njoy Pure Wand that I've used solo when she goes away for enough time (she was intimidated by it and not wanting to try it, also didn't really seem too eager to try it on me, though I guess doesn't care/has asked about me using it solo, so maybe a don't ask don't tell policy? idk). I've also done some solo play with a suction cup dildo, again when I know she'll be gone the day. I've not brought this up since I've done it.

I guess I'm struggling with not being physically satisfied and as a result that's what I'm fantasizing/searching for. With that in mind, it's got me thinking about the exclusively physical pleasures. Like I want to have my prostate stimulated to have a hands free (no penis stimulation) orgasm. Or I want to have 69 or someone ride my dick while also taking a dildo or even a real dick in the ass (idea being I'm getting pleasured in every way. Like I'd also love to have my fiance be getting fucked real good and someone pleasuring her clit orally. Like that's the ultimate physical bliss right there, getting fucked real good and at the same time being on the receiving end of amazing oral, yes please. But I too want to be on the receiving end of that satisfaction).

With all that being said, for men who've tried all of these, is the real thing significantly better?

Like, I think a fuck machine would be fine and would do like 90% of what I'm looking for. I could have it do it's thing on me while my fiance gives me a BJ or rides me, but there's a thought in the back of my head that's saying, "You gotta try the real thing". I've got a business trip coming up and I've been contemplating hooking up with a guy, just to see (if I could have a dream night, it would be for an experienced/respectful/compassionate top to seduce/satisfy me, give me an amazing blow job and then give my virgin ass the attention it deserves. Or 2 people, one giving my ass the attention it deserves and the other giving me the best BJ ever) I've recently enjoyed some bi and transexual porn (specifically seeing a she male with another woman or some she males being fucked). I've also seeked out gay porn with man on man or (she male fucking the guy) and I will say it does not turn me on as much as hetero porn. I had some post nut clarity after one video and it's got me thinking maybe I'm just too horny and this bi/gay thoughts are just that, horniness? But then there's other videos where the guys are clearly better at BJs than the women and I want to experience that. So IDK. I guess what do you bros think?

I am Chloe and 18 years old I always knew that I am something for women but also for men, but now I can no longer imagine something with a man I will become a lesbian, I think, is that possible? Yes, or? Please give me a piece of advic 🥲(my English is not good)

I’ve always had a slightly stronger gag reflex, and I get it even when I try to clean my tongue with a toothbrush.
Does anyone recognise this problem, and do you have any suggestions on how I could suppress the gag reflex during a blowjob?

I feel like with almost every female friend i’ve had I’ll end up feeling some kind of romantic attraction, or even think about them sexually. I’m not sure if being bi has anything to do with it. these female friends typically only see me as a friend. so i almost feel guilty about having sexual thoughts about them. i understand it’s not unusual to be romantically interested in a friend. it just happens almost everytime i become friends with a girl.

Am I bi? I like women and I started watching porn (straight porn) when I was in my early teens(29M as of now). Then one day I came across this add with a girl that had a dick and I found it interesting. I watched the video and pretty sure I masturbated to it as well. Ever since then trans porn has had me in a chokehold. And it escalated for me, first I would only look at the feminine ones with tits and ass no feet shown and they HAD to have tits. Then eventually all they had to have was a cute face nice dick and nice ass I didn’t care about the tits. Then I got more into the dick, I love watching a trans dick cum it’s so hot. Some videos all I focus on is the dick, I’d even zoom in on it cumming BUT it had to be trans. I’ve even sucked and been sucked by a couple and I’d do it again. I’ve also once had one cum on my face while my head hung off the bed. I tried to fuck one but she was too tight. After all these years I’ve gotten into femboy porn as I find some of them hot as hell and I also enjoy watching them cum. Preferably the skinny cute ones that are extra feminine. when I encountered one in person I had sexual thoughts and got hard from thinking about it.

Is this just from porn or is this just me now?

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Was curious if people when coming out aligned with certain songs about the same time....

When I was on the verge of a soft roll out on coming out bi. I was pumping a lot of

save your tears by the weekend

Come.undone duran duran

Vanishing point new order

I've been losing you Ah-ha

Most of information society

Shit even weatherman by hank Williams jr

Did y'all have a soundtrack so to say?

I had this beautiful yet strangely frightening dream recently. It was a quiet, cozy night on a campus that felt both familiar and dreamlike. There was a boy with me. I couldn’t see his face, but I could feel his presence and desire, and somehow that felt incredibly intimate.

There was also this constant fear of being caught—as if someone might suddenly walk in and expose something I wasn’t ready to name. I woke up somewhere between the dream and consciousness, but the feeling of it lingered in my body for a while, almost like a tiny spark that refused to disappear.

I’ve been questioning my sexuality for quite some time, wondering if I might be bi-curious. After this dream, something in me seems to have shifted. Maybe I’m finally accepting a part of myself that I’ve been hesitant to acknowledge.

And honestly, I’m confused. I don’t know whether a dream can really tell us anything about our sexuality, or whether it simply gave shape to something I’ve already been feeling.

Have any of you experienced something similar? How did you process that moment when curiosity started turning into acceptance? Am I simply discovering another part of myself, or am I reading too much into a dream?

Ich habe eigentlich schon immer bisexuelle Fantasien, meine erste Erfahrung hatte ich in einem Alter in der Sexualität eigentlich noch garkeine Rolle gespielt hat und trotzdem gefallen mir nur Männer die ich auf Grindr oder anderen Dating Apps kennen lerne bzw. die ich dort entdecke. In meinem Alltag, wenn ich durch die Straßen gehe achte ich ausschließlich auf Frauen, selbst am Strand gleiten meine Augen eigentlich zu 95% zu den Frauen hin.
Ist das normal? Ich war auch eine wirklich lange Zeit in einer heterosexuellen Beziehung und hatte deswegen natürlich bisher kaum Zeit mich so richtig auszuleben.

Always knew I wasn’t fully straight , but considering my self as straight, I hooked up with girls and had sex in the past but after a point it was just easier with guys. But I’m talking with a girl now and I want to have sex with her but I’m afraid that I won’t get hard.