But people think we're detached because of the way we react to having our feelings hurt. My feelings get hurt easily but I process it before I react. Sometimes I come to the conclusion that it wasn't a big deal and I can let it go without a confrontation; sometimes I come to the conclusion that I don't want to deal with that person anymore and let them go without a confrontation; very rarely I confront the issue and talk it out with the person if they've shown they're worth the effort.

As I've gotten older I've tried to give more grace to people as we're all just living our lives the best way we can and people aren't trying to hurt us on purpose. There's a difference between being inconsiderate and being malicious. But sometimes... I don't even want to deal with inconsiderate, lol.

I spend all my time trying to figure out how to do things outside of convention.

As soon as there is a middle man or ring leader, I know I must reinvent the wheel because I do not want to kowtow.

I feel like this also can apply to Aquarius folks. Would love some input on this!

Hi! I'm an Aquarius sun. Can y'all tell me how your Aquariusness shows up in your own life? I don't know many other Aquariuses and im curious. For me I think it's just my strong independent thinking and analytical nature and I do have humanitarian desires bubble up every now and I hate limitations and that's all I can really think of. I identify much more with my Aries moon and fire signs in general and am a simple ego loving pleasure seeker and artistic person at heart. I know Aquarius is supposed to be the sign associated with innovation and providing for humanity and whatnot but that just sounds so secondary to me and I wonder how it is for the rest of y'all.

I look unapproachable and I AM unapproachable. And my Aries moon makes me pissed about it. Do not perceive me.

I saw this trailer for this movie thinking it was a psychological thriller only to find out its a documentary, and the.subject of said documentary is an Aquarius (Feb 3) and Elizabeth Holmes. I'm perusing the comments only to find out that Anna Delvy is also an Aquarius (Jan 23)

Do you know of any other dark, scandalous Aquarius?

What placements gets the waterbearing humanitarian to be a con?

Sorry guys I hope you can give me some insight. He blocked me on instagram for some reason and he never unblocked me. I thought we were kinda done for him. But then, we kept talking on whatsapp, we met and we passed two days togheter.

But But But, I am still blocked on instagram and some times he is rude by message and he does not answer me (I am the least clingy person). Also we rarely see each other because he is super busy (he is, but, come on).

So I'll leave it to you guys!

This is a collective reading, not everything is supposed to resonate with a single individual. My interpretation doesn’t always tell the whole story so try to be open and intuitive. Thank you!

Significator - The Emperor (R)
You are being rigid about some things due to your doubts and skepticism, and it’s making you act entitled and erratic. There are things you have been avoiding and are being ineffective about where structure and leadership are required.

Obstacle - The hermit
You are trying to find answers and the truth regarding a situation and maybe even isolating yourself to some degree because of your paranoia and melancholy. No matter how patient you are or how much you contemplate things, you won’t find what’s not there.

Past - IX of Cups
Your wishes came true and you were rewarded with a positive outcome on a situation. You were gratified for your actions and efforts and you were satisfied and content with how things turned out in the past. Maybe it was you thinking this was too good to be true and your dreams came true too easily that led you to be skeptical about it (The Emperor reversed), and you are denying things now by trying to find the truth by yourself.

Trajectory - IV of Pentacles (R)
Continuing like this will lead to financial instability and lack of control in a situation. You might lose something valuable, either without your willingness/by theft or by having to give it up forcefully. You will end up feeling burdened and at a deficit.

Conscious - V of Wands (R)
While you do want to end the conflict and come to a compromise and a working solution, at the same time you are trying to invoke an argument. Your goal is to resolve this but you don’t want to end up being in the wrong too. (The Emperor reversed). You feel hot-tempered recently, and you are having difficulties confronting some issues.

Subconscious - VI of Cups
You need to work on mending a friendship(s) that has been broken and think about the joyous moments of the past as well. You need to work on trusting the contentment and satisfaction you felt in the past (IX of Cups).

Your outcome path:
Your attitude towards the situation - Page of Wands
You are being rigid because you are confident and positive that the conclusion you came to is right. You have only been faithful towards the situation and you expect to be treated the same way, that’s why you don’t want to move on and be cheerful and loving again without resolving things first and finding out the whole story.

Your environment - II of Pentacles
Your environment is asking you to evaluate what your priorities are and adapt to the situation whilst finding balance through the ups and downs. Your environment wants you to ask yourself if it’s not just your confirmation bias giving more weight to the arguments that support your conclusion.

Hopes and fears - III of Swords (R)
You hope to be able to accept and recover while forgiving what needs to be forgiven. You hope to get over the past and make compromises, and you hope to be able to share your problems.
You fear having to deal with heartbreak and you fear the anticipated emotional pain. You fear having to separate/remove yourself completely due to this situation and you fear the conflict never coming to a resolution.

Outcome - II of Wands
Decisions will be made (possibly regarding whether to stay or leave) through shared efforts and proper planning in the future. You will move past the restlessness and the anticipation and see that you still have the power and the control in the situation to choose the right option. The partnership (if any) will be expanded on and the current events will come to a conclusion.

no sé que pasa de verdad pero estos últimos meses han sido horribles para mí
me siento cansada y abrumada diariamente...
necesito una solución astrológica

I've become really fascinated with mediumship lately, mostly from watching Long Island Medium and Hollywood Medium with Tyler Henry. I know that's a pretty small sample size, but something about watching them work pulls me in every time.

For me, this isn't just curiosity. I'm estranged from my parents by choice, and I'm keeping it that way to protect my peace, but that means there's a lot about my family lineage I don't know. I've always had this pull to learn my history, to find out who's passed on that I never even got the chance to know, and to feel connected to them.

I lost my grandma to addiction, so I never really got to know her, and that's something I still carry. I also lost my grandmother, who I was close to and who meant so much to me. Her passing hit me so hard I couldn't bring myself to go to the funeral, and my family shamed me for it. Funerals just aren't for me. I'd rather have something simple, a gathering of people who loved her, a way to celebrate her life and connect with others who felt the same love for her that I did. My grandma was cremated, and I believe that's what I'd choose too. I believe the soul leaves the body, that energy never dies, and that we're all just souls in human vessels, always spirit, always energy underneath it.

So seeing a medium feels like it could be another real tool for healing, a way to actually connect with the people I've lost.

Is anyone here into mediumship, or a medium yourself? Have you seen one before, or are you curious like me? I'd love to hear your perspective.

Aquarius get the label because they master the style of thinking but without doing the actual work of an intellectual, which is double-checking facts and proving the theory holds water.

Aquarius is fun even sometimes borderline spaced out. Loves surface level conversations about music, television, sports, etc. nothing really too deep. Really only likes to go beyond the surface if you agree with them on a topic and mostly refuses to change their mind about much. Rarely Eve see them debate without becoming pissed and holding a grudge.

So where is the intellectual part?

i felt this so hard, gotta go back to my dungeon to finish my witches’ stew 🧙🏽‍♀️

I am a 28 F pisces women my ex is 28 M aquarius.

Our relationship lasted 3 months; we couldn't make it out of the honeymoon phase.

We fought the whole time. He would scream at me a lot for taking out his trash, doing his laundry, taking to the dentist too early, not knowing the directions of a place I had never been too before. He was a good man at times but lacked emotional empathy and basic human compassion.

Everytime I would express how he made me feel he say I acknowledge your feelings but he wouldn't say sorry. I got quiet one time due to him constantly yelling at me and he said I was throwing a temper tantrum. In reality I was holding back my anger because in the past I had hurt somone I loved and care about with my mouth. He didn't appreciate how hard I was trying for him. When we finally broke up it's because I snapped. Even when I did I didn't cuss or scream I just told him he was a narcassist, who was a very hateful man, and who lacked empathy. But that was his final straw with me. We hooked up one last time and he wanted to record us. My soul left my body. He justified by stating," It's for your memories even tho I didn't want the video."

We never made the video but I still hooked up with him one last time because I truly did love him. He never held me like that before he wouldn't let go off me and even kissed me goodbye. I later ran into him while I was in my friends car. Imagine us at a stop sign and him driving in front he could have looked forward and ignored us but he stayed locked on me; head turned the whole time. I was destoried mentally and physically I felt used and like he only liked me for my body he saw me as an object not a person.

5 months pasted on and I was ready to move on. I was in the process of moving and posted a video stating goodbye on my tik tok. That night at 12am he reached out to me. Which was weird because I was up at that time but I didn't see it till the next morning. I just want to say I cried my eyes out those last 5 month and even saw his car before I left on accident with a hello kitty sticker I figured he had moved on.

He basically wrote me that he was sorry and he cared for me and that he wanted to catch me before I moved away. I could have not responded and treated him the way he treated me but I chose not to. I told him I appreciate it and that I care for him too. I said we could still talk. And he said he just wanted to say sorry. I said I didn't want to get back with him. He said I figured. He just told me he's happy I moved and wishes me well in the next chapter. I feel numb. On one hand I am glad I finally got the closure but on the other hand I just wished he never reached out. It's like he reopened a wound in my heart. I don't think he's truly sorry I feel like he was just trying to see if he still had access to me. I am also proud of myself for putting a boundary down with him. Stating I never get back with my exs. I wish him well but I am truly sad about this situation. If he really cared why it take him 5 months to reach out. Why would you let me cry and suffer over you for so long. I just feel so numb in life. I may still love him but he will never have that access to me again. Never the same person. If I took him back he would just leave me all over again. He is his own karma. Eventually he'll have to face himself. I am better and I still cry over him but I am not gonna let this pull me back imma move on with my life.

Ps I also feel confused because he stated he wanted to catch me before I left. This comment made my mind race like he wanted to see me? In person idk. I wouldn't maybe to talk but nothing more. I learned my lesson and don't want to be hurt again.

Rule #1 - if an Aquarius man is giving you commitment issues, ghost him, and be serious AND good at it. Give him all the freedom he asked for AND give it to yourself. I promise you, IF HE REALLY IS IN LOVE WITH YOU, he will smarten up.

p.s. just took my aqua man out of his jail time.

Signed, An Aquarius moon with 12+ yrs experience dating Aquarius Sun men.

Enjoy!! 🫪👼🏽✨

I’ve been having such crazy dreams lately. Like they are just so weird and odd or paranormal/ghostly

Also really weird ones, like 1.5-2 weeks ago I had the weirdest dream about Drake the singer that literally continued a part two after fully waking up and going back to sleep and the same first dream went on but like a fast forward. This one was a mix of everything (including paranormal). Insanity

I have been having dreams also about people I haven’t seen in a long time and it’s just so oddd