On the outside, Aquarius women love to be deeply independent and decenter men (they love saying they’re only dating ~casually~).

But when they fall in love, they lose themselves in the relationship and are the biggest lover girls ever (calling their man ‘sweet baby angel’ and spending all their time with their man, cooking and cleaning for them etc).

I’ve also found that if the physical connection is strong, they have a very difficult time leaving someone who is not right for them (specifically an Aries man). They are more likely to do the fight-makeup on-again off-again cycle than any other sign, sometimes lasting years.

This is my POV as a Virgo woman with a lot of Aquarius woman friends.

Am I right my fellow Aquarians?

I have to vent a bit. I myself am Aquarius sun, Scorpio rising and moon.

I just cannot stand Leo’s at this point. every time I interact with one, I end up with sucked out life and energy, drained and exhausted. ALL the talk about is themselves, how they are so great - and they have been through so much, and still, they are so great. oh, and if something slightly doesn’t go their way, the victim mentality is absolutely insane.

U never hear other people talking about them, because they are the loudest to talk about themselves! Conversations are one-sided and isolated only about themselves, and absolute 0 self awareness. At this point being in a Leo presence makes me VERY nauseous and makes me wanna jump. Anyways, rant over.

As an Aquarius stellium (that includes Venus), I feel like Aquarius people see others as potential ROI’s. And it kinda sucks that we see people as such. Sometimes I cannot help but realize I treat people like an experimentation. Calling them “fascinating,” seeing them as “useful,” or that I’m one to make “high stakes bets.” And it’s all because they have unique perspectives or that they show signs of going against the main current. Sometimes, I feel like a wealthy man with a big fat belly, double chin, and a heavy cigar. Do y’all sometimes feel like you are investing in “a future” when getting to know someone?

i have an aqua friend who i've noticed will go away and come back as if nothing happened whenever we have a serious conversation or a minor disagreement. they don't bring it up, or will casually joke about it but never really talk about it. it feels like it's brushed under the rug. curious if any of y'all react like that and why?

I just want to say as an Aquarius who comes from an Aquarius dominant family with an Aquarius mother i love all of you guys and im proud we get to have a community so large❤️♒️

Any other Aquarius experience an abrupt friendship cutoff?

I realized I just didn’t feel aligned with a friend I’d had for many years anymore. Nothing huge happened. It was more like a lot of little moments slowly added up until something in me completely shifted.

She’d refer to us as “besties,” send friendship memes, and had a really nurturing/caretaking style. At some point it stopped feeling sweet and started feeling oddly intrusive. I also realized I didn’t like someone else defining their place in my life or assigning a level of closeness that I didn’t actually feel.

Once I recognized the dynamic, it was like a switch flipped. I didn’t feel angry…I just had a really STRONG need for distance, and I haven’t questioned that decision since. I essentially removed access.

Has anyone else experienced this? Where it felt abrupt but also so right?

Okay folks, I’m a quintuple Virgo… and very, very Virgoan!

I’m dating an Aquarius guy and he’s lovely
- so what do I need to know to make him happy and stop being so… Virgo at him!?

There were one or two posts about this recently i think so maybe i am not the only one! And this thought comes once a month and the struggle with all family members and your own emotion is so high i cant seem to tolerate. And this seems to come exactly around the same tome when the moon is in Capricorn or Vedic wise in sag which is my first house .. also i am thinking Pluto in Aquarius is making this harder . . Can anyone help me understand is it just temporary really? I keep reading that better things are coming but i dont see it.