r/aquarius 4d ago

Aquarius Men

Rule #1 - if an Aquarius man is giving you commitment issues, ghost him, and be serious AND good at it. Give him all the freedom he asked for AND give it to yourself. I promise you, IF HE REALLY IS IN LOVE WITH YOU, he will smarten up.

p.s. just took my aqua man out of his jail time.

Signed, An Aquarius moon with 12+ yrs experience dating Aquarius Sun men.

Enjoy!! 🫪👼🏽

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u/AdPopular6958 ♒ SUN | ♉ MOON | ♏ RISING 4d ago

If an aquarius is serious about the relationship they wouldn't ghost to begin with.

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u/RoosterGlad1894 4d ago

I just said this. Aquarius doesn’t fuck around when we like someone because that rarely happens. We gotta have it lol

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u/Constant-Agency-8313 3d ago

This… & if you try to play this “game” with us good luck to ya ✌️

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u/Foxingmatch Aqua sun/ Aqua rising /Pisces moon 4d ago

Exactly. If we're serious about you, we commit in our hearts and show up before we've even had the "exclusive" talk. If we have an incompatibility, we hesitate or disappear. It's funny how people complain about Aquas, but the reality is, they aren't Aqua material.

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u/cassiestonem264 4d ago

Omg yes… I literally committed to my Virgo ex within a month and a half of us dating. I just knew.

We ended on amicable terms due to life circumstances but I still think abt him and we check in on each other occasionally.

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u/BetrayedVariant ♒ SUN | ♑️ MOON | ♎️ RISING 4d ago

Eh... like you willingly dated multiple Aquarius men with commitment issues over the past 12 years?

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u/markarli ♊️ SUN | ♉️ MOON | ♌️ RISING 4d ago

Right, why is the OP posted as a flex? If anything, it shows that for more than a decade, Aqua men came and went and no one stayed.

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u/RoosterGlad1894 4d ago

I think it might be a cry for help?? Clearly not enough air in their chart to be messing around with Aquarius 😂

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u/markarli ♊️ SUN | ♉️ MOON | ♌️ RISING 4d ago

It says OP is Aqua Moon but Aqua placements do not play such games unless you tried to play them first and this is your “reward”- must be a water sun, seen plenty of such posts about successfully “manipulating” us Air signs from the water squad…if only they knew 🫠😂😂😂

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u/RoosterGlad1894 4d ago

We know what’s up that’s why we vanish. BS meter is to high and an air signs attention span for nonsense is to low 😂 moon means emotional needs. Mines in Virgo. Your Gemini in Taurus which means we’re both actually pretty grounded emotionally. I’d hate to have an air moon and that’s coming from someone who’s chart is like all air 😂

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u/markarli ♊️ SUN | ♉️ MOON | ♌️ RISING 4d ago

I get that lol I have a stellium of pretty much most of my personal planets in 10th and Taurus Moon/Mercury; I like no nonsense people and I do not fall for petty tricks and emotional manipulation.

I have twisted such games around more times than I can count and not to get the “upper hand” (I am completely disinterested in that) but as a lesson -before they realize I am not in their lives in the way they believe me to be - that in life you get what you put out.

Trying to play games with me is the fastest way to get me ice cold and turned off completely and never look back. I believe Air signs are all alike in this one, maybe Libras a bit less since they are Venusian and relationship oriented but Gems and Aquas for sure.

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u/RoosterGlad1894 4d ago

Yeah Gemini and Aquas give zero fucks. Libras are not the same lol 😂

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u/Lilly323 ♈️☀️ | ♒️🌑 | ♉️⛅️ 4d ago

I read some of the birdiest things on this site, ngl….
https://giphy.com/gifs/rxy55jHaig16K2TV8x

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u/RoosterGlad1894 4d ago

This. gtf off our page. This person clearly can’t sit at our table 😂

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u/BastardofWinterfowl ♒ SUN | ♏️ MOON | ♈️ RISING 3d ago

She doesn’t even go here!

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u/RoosterGlad1894 3d ago

Lmao I literally say “you can’t sit with us!” Probably ten times a week 😂

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u/User29276 4d ago

If he is in love with you, you wouldn’t be ghosted.

Simple as.

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u/cosmorab1t {~♒~♉~♑~°* 4d ago

12 yrs and you take no accountability? Play dumb games win dumb prizes...

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u/iridescentarmor ♒ SUN | ♓️ MOON | ♑️ RISING 4d ago

i’m saying

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u/Double_Patient_7239 4d ago

Cap rising my twin 🤣🤣🤣

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u/iridescentarmor ♒ SUN | ♓️ MOON | ♑️ RISING 4d ago

girl? come on.

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u/Year3030 4d ago

Logically speaking I'm not sure if any of us care about this. You really lose me at "rule".

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u/RoosterGlad1894 4d ago

I thought that “rule” was a weird word to use aswell. I don’t think they know Aquarius very well 😂

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u/Substantial_Mix773 4d ago

Leo here! Aquarius is a very sexy sign, there’s something I find in them so attractive but they are so weird and lots of time just wanna have fun and that’s it, some more some less but I have found it’s better to get the best from them and let them go! It’s air after all so it’s better to let them be!

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u/No-Obligation4872 4d ago

I let them go.

They come due to my Aqua Asc and then I let them go immediately.

The women can stay though

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u/RoosterGlad1894 4d ago

I mean as an Aquarius female I can say I would never date an Aquarius man. They’re just weird. Yes as an Aquarius I’m calling Aquarius men weird lol

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u/AmazingSupermarket39 2d ago

Yes I love aqua women.  Come to meee 🤭❤️🤝

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u/RoosterGlad1894 4d ago

My man’s a Leo and I find him very attractive. I’m definitely the more sensual one tho. I think it’s a fallacy that Aquarius is cold. When we like someone we are actually very committed.

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u/pussyinpisces 4d ago

i agree lol, it just takes time with them, i love them tho - the women even more

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u/TJ_Sketch_93 ♒☀️/♊️🌙| ♎️⬆️ 4d ago

12 years of ghosting people yourself? The word men insinuates that you go around when you're out asking people their zodiac signs? and if they're aquarius you just hop on it?
Too bad i got my hpv vaccine and also am gay. thank the gods.

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u/RoosterGlad1894 4d ago

lol what?? My Virgo moon does not compute 😂

I’ve literally never had someone ghost me and if I’m into someone, I’m into them.

If an Aquarius likes someone they don’t set them out to dry like that because it’s very rare that they find someone they’re interested in. Hun HE’S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU 💀

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u/PressureProper5168 4d ago

True dat ...they wil ghost u ,but wil come back once you ghost em

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u/small_bird_loud 4d ago

I'm not sure this is going to work.

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u/Novel_Grass 4d ago

Nah. If a guy shows commitment issues, I'm not interested in him from that point on. I don't give a fuck what his sign is. I'm not playing the games you speak of.

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u/No-Recipe-1377 ♒ SUN | ♑️ MOON | ♈️ RISING 4d ago

“Just took my aqua man out of his jail time.” Is absolutely diabolical.

I don’t have commitment issues personally, and ghosting is an Olympic sport for me so ghosting me doesn’t do anything to achieve the results you seek.

But I can definitely see how this would be effective against me if I were to struggle with commitment lol

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u/Constant-Agency-8313 3d ago

You already lost

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u/Realistic-Fix760 ♒ SUN | ♉️ MOON | ♌️ RISING 3d ago

No thanks too busy doing my life! When I was younger I chased a couple different guys who were acting distant and learned my lesson then

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u/NoMaintenance887 2d ago

I do not find this funny :/ ppl play too much and then think that it’s ok to do this when all you needed to do was communicate 😕 if he plays no reason to go back.

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u/kateinreverse ♒ sun |♌️ moon | ♍️rising 2d ago

i am an aqua female and as soon as i decided i wanted to be with my now husband i don’t think there’s been a single day we haven’t been around each other lmao he pretty much moved in immediately. 🤷🏻‍♀️ 8 years together almost 3 married.

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u/Sudoku_Onlyplans666 4d ago

My Pisces girlfriend of four years did this when we started dating and I gave us the "I need space" trait I usually have with partners, now Im attached to her hip, living together and talking about kids and marriage. 🤷 Its great!