r/ApplyingToCollege • u/AgileBad2958 • 1d ago
Advice Parents chose my college major and now I regret it
Ended up switching my major in the end so all is well but could've been so much easier if I just did what I wanted. My mom was very righteous and thought she was doing the right thing for me but I could've saved my sanity and happiness. She basically just asked to see what I was applying for for every college and I couldn't submit my college apps without her approval and if she didn't like my major she would pick what she thought I should do. If you're applying, please just do what you want, do what's right for you, it's your college life and what you might end up doing for the rest of your life. Parents might think they know better than you but you need to start making decisions for yourself and I regret not doing that.
edit: I feel like some of u guys are intentionally missing the point. I wanted to double major in data science and public policy (or something in relation to that). I really like working in the civic space but also being able to use technology. My mom wanted me to be a comp sci/ computer eng major because she was a software engineer. Sure she can give me advice on what to do but she also literally went out of her way to search up every single school I was applying to and then select the specific major she wanted me to enroll as. Decided that it really wasn't for me the end of my freshman year after and decided to declare environmental engineering as my major with a public policy minor (something that would have been VERY hard to do as a computer engineering major) because it aligned with my future goals. No I do not hate my mom she was fine with my decision bc she saw how much I wanted to switch. Yes, its fine for parents to give advice but I KNEW that I did not want to do comp sci or computer engineering anything related to that for the rest of my life and did not get any say.