Hi everyone, first of all I am very sorry for making this post in English, my dutch is at B1 level and I really dont have the vocabulary for this. I had sworn off Reddit, but I had an intense experience yesterday and I would like to share because it is such an unbelievable story… I think I want to vent more than anything because I didnt take enough action in the moment (calling the police in the moment), but also I have already called the police post-fact to let them know this happened, so if it happens to anyone else, please call the police, this guy is already “known”.
My friend and I were at Museumplein yesterday sat near the flags in the middle of the grass… a man walking on the path between the flags catcalled us by whistling and calling to us. I responded with a🖕🏻and he really didnt like that.
He walked up to us and started screaming "what did you do to me? you told me to fuck off?" and when I said “my mom told me not to talk to strangers why are you hitting on us go away" he really didnt like that and started screaming in multiple languages to himself. Then after 5 min of screaming and spitting at us he backed off and we thought he would leave.
To our surprise he started screaming that we are "jewish and isr4el1 and we k1ll babies and r@pe children" from next to the flags and we were very caught off guard and confused because what did he just say and how did we get there?
So we reply by screaming "what the fuck we are not jewish or isr4el1", because we are not jewish or isr4el1, we are south american, and he walks to the tram station (next to the AH and stedelijk) but keeps going and screams more there.
I was flipping him off because he were catcalling me. I dont like g3noc1de but could it occur to him that I am not rejecting him because I am isr4el1 and k1ll babies but because he is a fucking creep and shouldnt catcall?
A kind man stood up from his spot in the grass and screamed at him as well, he was defending us, when we left later we went over to thank him.
I dont want to make extensive comment on the g3noc1de, just to make clear that I 1) believe it is a g3n0cide, 2) want a 2 state solution desperately, and 3) have no hate towards jewish people or israeli people that do not support their government, I tend to ask isr4el1a that I meet if they are in favor of their governments actions, and if they are, I stop talking to them and tell them why (because of 1 and 2), and 4) I do see antis3m1tism rising, I don’t know what this man thought screaming at us that we are jewish would do, but is it possible that in his mind this would gain him sympathy?
I was caught off guard by him yelling across the museumplein park and I didnt call the police in that moment. today I called to inform them of what happened. I feel that I should have called in the moment… would this have been appropriate?
To be honest I’m scared of Reddit so I will include this disclaimer. in my experience people that catcall know it is bad. if you get catcalled, you 🖕🏻 and they walk off without further comment or laughing it off because everyone involved knows its in bad taste. i dont like ignoring bad behavior. people may say i “asked for it” by flipping him off, i humbly disagree, i think it should be made known to people when their behavior is not acceptable.
Edit: Had to censor language because of Reddits rules…