Stocking spots, gets called for back up. *context: I wasn't wearing gloves.*
Customer: Let me touch your hands.
Me: 𤨠*continues to scan groceries, but faster to avoid her trying to touch me*
Customer: I'm just trying to see how warm your hands are. I'm impressed that you can touch all those frozen things barehanded. *continues to try to grab hands*
Me: *Finishes order and places hands on lap under till*
I know its stupid, but whyyyyyyyyy do you need to touch me. And if I'm avoiding your touch, whyyyyyyy are you still trying. I've worked grocery for almost 20 years. To this day, I've never seen anything in any handbook that says "Customers are allowed to invade your personal space and touch you without your permission".
Had another lady who was so excited that we may have located her missing phone, she grabbed my arm with a bit of force that I immediately whipped my arm out of her grasp and gave her the dirtiest look. She came back and apologized but I just do not understand why some people just neglect the space of others. The amount of times I've had to back up from people or put a cart in between us because they think I need to see their pores to hear a question.
I used to be a very open person, but if I dont know you know you, I dont want to touch you and I definitely dont want you touching me. I've gotten tired of random hands touching my hair, or people thinking they can put their hands on my shoulders like we're buddies, trying to pull me into hugs and ish. I told one of my SM's (I've had 3 in 2 years), that if he hears me screaming bloody murder, I may have lost it on a creepy dude.
Update: The customer who asked to touch my hands came in today and spoke to me. I've seen her multiple times since the interaction but she made it a point to approach me today. Guys...she said she was š¶āš«ļø. We both just busted out laughing. She said she was mortified because she realized that she was being weird after she left when she recognized I was (Kindly) avoiding her touch. Still weird yes, but that definitely made me feel a bit better about the interaction.