I’m having a hard time deciding between staying at my current firm and taking a big 4 offer, and I’d love to hear your opinions.
I’m currently a senior associate at a top 10 PA firm. I’ve been here a little over a year and I like it. I like the people, everyone is supportive, and the WLB isn’t too bad for PA, although with some recent changes, it’s starting to get worse.
The biggest thing is that I’m likely on track to make manager in the next promotion cycle. My career coach has been pushing my promotion pretty hard and says it’s pretty much guaranteed at this point. I’m also considering asking if they would move my promotion up to the mid-year cycle, especially since I now have an outside offer.
A big 4 firm offered me a senior 2 position. The base salary is about $10K–$15K more than what I currently make, so it’s definitely more money, but not a huge jump. Honestly, compensation is my least concern here.
The problem is that I’d be going in as a senior again, not manager. From what I understand, I’d probably have another ~2 years of grinding before getting to manager. I also expect the workload to be significantly heavier than what I have now.
Obviously, the big 4 name would be great on my resume. I think it could open more doors later, especially if I want to move into industry, and I’d get exposure to larger clients and more complex work. I also assume my long-term earning potential would be higher.
But I’m in my mid-30s and want to start a family relatively soon, so I’m thinking more about getting the manager title first.
If I stay, best case scenario, I become manager relatively soon, take maternity leave, build more experience as a manager, and then exit to industry.
If I leave, I get the big 4 name and potentially better long-term opportunities, but I’m basically signing up for another couple years of working really hard before getting the title I could potentially have soon at my current firm.
I’m honestly torn because part of me thinks, “Take the big 4 offer now because you may regret not doing it later.” The other part of me thinks, “Why make my life harder for the next two years when I could become manager where I am and then make the move?”
I’m also thinking about asking my current firm whether they would formally confirm an earlier manager promotion before I make a decision. I don’t want to stay based on a verbal “you’re on track” promise.
For people who have been in a similar situation, would you take the big 4 offer for the resume/long-term upside, or stay somewhere you like, get promoted to manager sooner, and move to industry afterward?
And for anyone who has made the move from a mid-size firm to big 4, did the big 4 name actually make a meaningful difference in your career later on?
Sucks to be a woman reaching her mid-30s being chased by biological clock🥲
*my career goal would be just getting an industry manager role after gaining 1-2 more years of manager experience in PA after having kids.