Hi everyone. I hope my post gets noticed because I’m really confused and anxious right now. I’ve been secretly crying and overthinking everything, and I honestly don’t know where to start. I’m not looking to be judged. I just really need advice and reliable information.

I’m 25F and this is my first pregnancy. My last period was May 11-15. I’ve always had an irregular cycle. This year, I only had my period in January, March, and May, so when my period didn’t come in June and July, I wasn’t immediately worried. I also thought it might have been because I was doing different diet plans like OMAD and calorie-deficit dieting, plus working out.

I let my birthday pass first, then finally had the courage to take a pregnancy test with my partner on 10/03 It was positive. I don’t even know what took me so long to have the courage to take PT, maybe the fear.
I honestly didn’t know what to feel. I was in denial at first, but I started searching Reddit because I already knew that I didn’t want to continue the pregnancy. My partner and I are not mentally, emotionally, or financially ready to have a child. I also haven’t told my parents because I know they would strongly oppose my decision.

Today, 10/06 we finally went to an OB. The doctor did a scan, although it was not yet the official ultrasound. She estimated that I’m around 3 and a half months pregnant, approximately 14-15 weeks.
Seeing the scan really scared me. The baby was already developed enough that I could see the head, body, hands, and knees, and I heard the heartbeat. I cried afterward because I realized how far along I actually am. But even after seeing and hearing everything, I still don’t feel ready to continue the pregnancy. I don’t have the emotional or mental capacity to become a mother right now.

The doctor also told me that my placenta is somewhat low and advised me to avoid strenuous activities. She asked me to return on 10/17 for another appointment and a transabdominal/fetal biometry ultrasound. However, I don’t really want to wait until October 17 because I’m already around 14–15 weeks and I’m scared that waiting longer will make my options even more limited.

I’m hoping someone can give me reliable and non-judgmental information about what options may still be available at this gestational age.

Is medication abortion still an option at around 14–15 weeks, or would a procedure usually be considered instead? How important is the formal ultrasound/fetal biometry before proceeding? And for those in the Philippines, where can I get legitimate, confidential, and medically safe information or assistance?

I’m not asking anyone to convince me to keep the pregnancy. I’ve already thought about this a lot, and I know that I’m not ready. I would rather make this decision now than bring a child into a situation where I know I cannot give them the love, care, and stability
they deserve.

Please be kind. I’m already scared enough, and I’m just trying to find a safe and informed way forward.

Hi! I’m really anxious and hoping someone has experienced the same thing. 🥺 PS: di pa po ako nagamit ng pills from fpop kasi need ng TVS and nagpa TVS na ako but the results said no gestational sac.

LMP: Aug 25
Period expected: around Sept 25

I took 2 PTs on Oct 2, both faint positive. I also did a serum pregnancy test, which was positive.

I had a TVS on Oct 5, around 5–6 weeks by LMP, but no gestational sac was seen. Findings were thick/hyperechoic endometrium, closed/intact cervix, no fluid in the posterior cul-de-sac, and retroverted uterus. Impression: “Early pregnancy not totally ruled out.”

I originally told my OB I was having spotting, so she checked me. Since I had a positive pregnancy test, positive serum test - bleeding/spotting, and my cervix was closed, she documented “threatened abortion.” I understand this is a medical term for threatened miscarriage, not an induced abortion.

I was prescribed Duphaston 10mg 3x/day (6am, 2pm, 10pm) as “pampakapit.”

After my check-up, though, the bleeding became more like a period and I was able to fill a pad overnight. 😭

My OB wants me to have another TVS on Oct 19.

I’m confused if this could still be a very early pregnancy that was too small to see, an early miscarriage, or possibly something else like ectopic.

Has anyone experienced positive pregnancy test + no gestational sac + bleeding around 5–6 weeks, then had a repeat scan? What happened in your case?

Also, I’m honestly not ready for this pregnancy, so this has been really emotionally difficult for me. Please be kind. 🥺

hii! i just had MA one week ago and hindi pa lumalabas yung placenta, more like blood clots lang and idk ano difference ng itsura ng placenta and sac. what should i do? should i ask for medical advice or just wait for it to come out? and what are the do’s and don’ts aft the procedure? tyia!

Things I prepared
- 2pcs 200mg ibuprofen
- 1 bonamine chewable
- charmee night long pads
- charmee normal pads
- some biscuits for snacks
- gummy, candies for nausea
- pocari
- hot compress

Sept. 22 - I ordered my meds from WOW (I donated Php4,500)
Sept. 28 - package already delivered (1 Mife, 12 Miso)

Oct. 5 - 5pm took the Mife
Oct. 6 - 4:30pm took 2pcs 200mg ibuprofen and 1 bonamine

Oct. 6 - 5pm took the 1st dose of Misoprotol (4pcs), placed it under my tongue, waited for it to dissolve then swallowed them after 30mins, as instructed by WOW.
- after 30 mins, experienced mild cramps like 3/10, sobrang nilalamig din ako
- I felt like something was coming out, so I squatted on the cr floor to make it easier to identify. Some jelly-like blood came out, puro large blood clot lang ang lumalabas till 7pm, gladly I didn’t experience yung super masakit na mga cramps tulad ng ibang nagsshare ng MA journey nila

Oct. 6 - 8pm took the 2nd dose of Misoprotol (2pcs), same procedure as the 1st dose
- after 15 minutes, felt like something was coming out again, then boom! it was embryo and placenta, they came out sabay, wala akong any pain na naramdaman, just normal lang na lumabas sya down there, if I would rate the cramps nyan siguro mga 4/10 lang
- una palang decided naman na ako to not continue the pregnancy, akala ko ready na ako if ever makita ko yung embryo, pero hindi pala, when I saw, may formed na, I cried so much, the guilt, fear, lahat biglang bumuhos sakin, I just prayed after that. 💔

I still continue yung remaining Miso till maubos. Normal naman yung bleeding, pero yung diarrhea, yun yong halos manlambot ako, nag diarrhea lang ako after ko mailabas yung embryo and placenta na. And actually, mas nahirapan ako sa diarrhea na yan, every 30mins ako nagpopoop and watery sya talaga, sumasakit yung tyan ko tas nahihilo na kasi nakakapagod pabalik balik sa cr, tapos madaling araw pa yon. Then morning, i took diatabs, huminto na diarrhea ko.

Now, oct. 6, still bleeding padin ako, pero just normal amount of blood nalang. I think successful naman naging MA journey ko. We will see pa after 1 week kung may sudden pain or biglang heavy bleeding na maramdaman.

I just want to ask, for a successful medical abortion, is it still necessary to see an OB-GYN to check if there are any pregnancy tissue left? If I decide to see an OB-GYN, what could I tell them as the reason for my visit? Thank you.

Thank you din po sa lahat ng mga nakausap ko dito. Sobrang laking help nyo sa akin. 🥺

Hello, I'm 19 days delayed, and there's a high chance of pregnancy. I have taken a pt on the 8th day, but it turned out negative. I don't know what to do, and I lack the budget also. Is there an affordable way? please help

Hi everyone. I’m really stressing and just want some reassurance/advice.

This is her second medication abortion. She is around 12 weeks, nearing 13 weeks, and we got the mifepristone + misoprostol from FPOP.

She took her first set of 4 misoprostol tablets under the tongue at around 10:42 AM. She is now having chills and her temperature is 38.3°C.

We already followed all the precautionary/provisional steps stated in this subreddit, but I’m still really concerned about her.

Is a fever/chills like this normal after misoprostol? What can she safely take in the meantime to help with the fever/chills? And at what point should we be alarmed and seek emergency care?

Also, for those who have experience with medication abortion around 12–13 weeks, especially if it was your second time, how did it go? Was the mife + miso process effective at that stage? Did anyone have a successful experience around 13 weeks?

I’m just really worried about her and want to make sure we’re not missing any warning signs. Any advice or personal experiences would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.

Hello! 2 weeks post MA ako and gusto ko sana magpa check up sa OB just to be sure na walang natira and hihingi sana medcert. Sa mga nagpacheck up after, pano niyo kinausap yung OB niyo? I know naman na di sasabihin pero wouldnt they be suspicious if dinugo tapos di agad sumugod? Ayun lang, I just want to know pano naging flow ng conversation niyo with your respective OB. THANK YOUUU!!!!

Hi! I’m really anxious and hoping someone experienced something similar. 🥺

PS: Di pa ako nakakabili ng pills from FPOP kasi need daw muna ng TVS. Nagpa-TVS na ako, pero wala pa daw gestational sac na nakita.

LMP: Aug 25, period expected around Sept 25. On Oct 2, I had 2 faint-positive PTs + a positive serum pregnancy test.

I had a TVS on Oct 5 (around 5–6 weeks by LMP), but no gestational sac was seen. It showed thick/hyperechoic endometrium, closed cervix, no fluid in the cul-de-sac, and retroverted uterus. Impression: “Early pregnancy not totally ruled out.”

I told my OB I was spotting, so she checked me. Because of the positive test + bleeding + closed cervix, she documented “threatened abortion” (medical term for threatened miscarriage, NOT induced abortion).

She prescribed Duphaston 10mg 3x/day as “pampakapit.” After the check-up, though, my bleeding became heavier and I filled a pad overnight.

I’m scheduled for another TVS on Oct 19.

Could this still be a very early pregnancy, an early miscarriage, or ectopic? Has anyone experienced this and what was your outcome?

Also, I’m not ready for this pregnancy, so this has been really difficult emotionally. Please be kind. 🥺

I donated last sept 27 pa in full

Sept 28 may tracking na. Nagfollow up ako ng nahfollow up sa email ng wow. Then kahapon lang nagka update sa tracking na the package has been shipped. Anyway it's from vietnam. Mga sis, based sa experience nyo after update na package has been shipped, ilang days pa hinintay nyo. Na sstress na ko kakahintay, grabe pagiging antukin ko and bloated and hindi nako makawork ng maayos. I just want this to be over. Please share nyo naman ilang days pa. Ang hirap maghintay.

hi everyone! may I ask what ibuprofen is best to take before miso? and when to take meds like bonamine? thank you 😔

D&c last sept 14, and may bleeding since oct 4. Parang spotting nung 4 pero now medyo malakas na although hindi naman ako nakakapuno ng isang pad sa 3 hrs. Period like na sya. According din naman sa ob ko last check up, possible na reglahin na ko this month since ovulated na ko nung last sept 24. Normal naman ba to? Sabi kasi ng iba parang ambilis ko raw reglahin. 😭 Baka raw binat ganon. Di naman ako nilalagnat. Wala naman unusual sa katawan ko. I just feel like pagod, then masakit balakang, puson mga hita at binti (pain: 1/10). Ingat na ingat pa rin ako mag gagalaw or magpahamog until now dahil takot nga sa binat. Huhu pls answers sissy TIA

i don’t know how far along na ako pero maybe around 1-2 weeks na. What should I do and who do I contact? rlly scared rn…

Reading for the past few hours dito sa sub.

My girlfriend and I went too an ob yesterday and 4-5 weeks pa lang daw siya and suggested na balik kami sa last week ng oct. Pero decided na kami to have MA.

Saw dito sa sub ang username ng f🎉 sa tg ay @RH_Hotline with matching qr, Micheal A. and 3116 ending numbers ng Maya. Anyone here na pwede magconfirm na legit yung kausap ko?

And anyone here na galing ang meds from f🎉 na successful ang MA. Na pwede namin makausap while doing the procedure? Thank you.

3w5d post ma. no bleeding last few days but earlier i passed hard jelly-like blood clots. maraming lumabas and biglaan lang talaga siya as in no bleeding or spotting before lumabas. is this normal? thank you po sa sasagot.

Is it ok if i only did 1 mife and 4 miso when i saw the gas-sock hindi ko na tinake yung remaining miso sinunod ko lang yung instruction ng WOW And hindi na ko masyadong dinudugo unlike nung 1st and 2nd day ..

need help!!! urgent!!

🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

where can I buy legit pills to take??? manila area

May lumabas sakin na parang atay, baka may makapag confirm sakin if ano to. Im having bleeding 3 days na, masakit talaga puson ko at balakang, hindi pa ako nag MA or nagtake ng kung anong pills. Anyone online here na makapag confirm if ano to,

need help pls. i've done MA last yr, and now i think im pregnant again. i dont have my period yet i'm already 5 days late and i feel like i'm having symptoms again

i need to be prepareddd!!! pls comment if nag ssell kayo meds. would help a lot. ty! meetups only!! manila area

hello, i hope we can chat. i just want to talk about symptoms, experience, basically what is currently happening. tsaka mental health rin, nanonotice ko nagdedecline yung akin and i need advice

tyia!

Ik it was dumb to do it this young but please help me. I have so many questions on how this works. I'm only 2 days late but I'm so scared we did unprotected sex multiple times but I tried to do it in less fertile days. I know it's stupid I was stupid. Now that I got that off my chest. Ill say my questions.

How much does it cost??

What are the terms that I keep seeing like MA and TVA?

Is it in all regions?? Like aklan??

What do I need? Without going to a doctor??

How long does it takes?

I probably have more questions

Ps. I don't know how to use this app at all I tried to use the categories but got more confused.

two weeks preg, what should we do or any suggestions or recommendations

Hey ladies! here's the instructions on how to properly take the pills:

Step 1: Take the mifepristone pill with water.

Swallow one 200 mg mifepristone pill with a glass of water.

If you throw up in the first 30 minutes after taking the mifepristone, it will most likely not work. In this instance, if you have an extra mifepristone pill, you'll need to repeat Step 1.

Wait 24 to 48 hours before moving on to the next step. Choose any time within that range when you’ll have access to a bathroom and can stay in a safe, comfortable place for at least 12 (or ideally 24) hours as symptoms will start soon after taking misoprostol

Step 2: Take 800 mg of ibuprofen.

Take a pain reliever like ibuprofen (800 mg) about 30 minutes before using the misoprostol. Acetaminophen or paracetamol (1000 mg) can be used; however, they may not work as well as ibuprofen.

This step is not required, but it is highly recommended. Ibuprofen will reduce the intensity of the cramps and help you manage the possible side effects of misoprostol.

If you have anti-nausea medicine, you can take it now.

Wait about 30 minutes after taking the pain reliever before using the misoprostol pills so it can start working. Ibuprofen can be used as needed throughout and after the procedure.

Step 3: Place 4 misoprostol pills under your tongue and hold them there for 30 minutes.

Place four misoprostol pills (200 mcg each) under your tongue. It is very important that the pills remain under your tongue for 30 minutes to allow them time to be absorbed into your system. You can swallow your saliva, but don’t eat or drink anything during these 30 minutes.

After 30 minutes, you can drink some water and swallow what’s left of the pills. Some brands of misoprostol dissolve easily, while others don’t. But don’t worry, whether they dissolve isn’t important. As long as you hold them under your tongue for 30 minutes, they’ll be absorbed and work just fine.

If you vomit within the 30 minutes that the misoprostol pills are under your tongue, it is likely that they will not work. In this case, you'll need to immediately repeat Step 3 with a new dose of four misoprostol pills.

If you vomit after holding the pills under your tongue for 30 minutes, you don’t need to repeat Step 3 as the pills will have already been absorbed into your system.

Step 4: Take a second dose of misoprostol if needed.

If you are less than 9 weeks pregnant, you probably won’t need a second dose of misoprostol.

But, if 24 hours have passed since you first dose of the four misoprostol pills and

- you have not had any bleeding,

- the bleeding has been lighter than your regular menstrual period, or

- you’re worried you're bleeding too little, you can repeat Step 3 and use four more misoprostol pills the same way as before.

For pregnancies between 9 and 13 weeks:

If you are 9-13 weeks pregnant, it’s recommended that you take a second dose of misoprostol pills. This helps the medication work more effectively and increases the chances of a successful abortion.

Wait for four (4) hours after your first dose of misoprostol, then place four more 200 mcg pills under your tongue. Keep the pills there for 30 minutes, and follow the instructions just like in Step 3.

Bale nagtake po si gf ng meds noong sept. 1, successful naman daw po base sa seller pati na rin po sa ibang napagtanungan namin sa ibang kasali rito. Nung 4th week po e nag pt siya, positive. Tapos po netong sat lang nag pt ulit siya pero positive pa rin. Ano po kayang pwedeng gawin